Signs of the aqua man in love?

I've been reading around a lot in this forum but i dont know exactly how an aquarius guy acts when he feels for you. Wha
I've been reading around a lot in this forum but i dont know exactly how an aquarius guy acts when he feels for you. What are the signs you should look for if you want to know he has finally fallen for you???
I need pplz opinions from experience/knowledge/anything! Just put it out here for me
thx!!
female from Sugabear :-)
Ascendant in Cancer Sun in Aries moon in Leo mercury
He will tell you lol
female
Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
1. He will come right out & tell you. And let me tell you why it's a BIG DEAL for him to tell you: Aquas like for others to profess their feelings first & to prove themselves FIRST & when an Aqua finally becomes comfortable & vulnerable enought to admit to you that he loves you, that means you've already passed the test of being worthy to him. Keep in mind, an Aqua will NEVER wear their hearts on their sleeves for anyone UNLESS they already have proof that their partners would do the same for them. And once an Aqua says those words "I love you," he means them.

2. He will confide in you his deepest secrets. Aquas have lots of associates & friends, BUT they don't have many people in their lives that they can honestly be 100% themselves too. So, once an Aqua feels that kind of comfort around you, that means that he's thought about it, tested you already & has made the decision to trust you, with no turning back (of course unless you give him a reason to not trust you all over again). Aquas may seem like open books BUT trust me, there are lotttts of things most people don't know about their Aquas & usually won't know unless they are the best friend or the companion.

3. He will be very affectionate with you. Not all Aquas are afraid of PDA (public displays of affection) but then again, it's not common to see an Aqua tonguing someone they just "like" down in public. If your Aqua becomes more affectionate in private, that's a good sign, but if he becomes more affectionate in public, that's a GREAT sign & to him, it symbolizes that he is marking his territory & is proud to embrace what he has earned & what has earned him.

4. He won't be afraid to chase after you, cry in front of you or admit his faults around you. Any time an Aqua is seen putting down their "shields" and walls for someone, that means that that person must be someone special, beyond just a friend or just someone that they "like" (versus love). Aquas will ONLY put down their shields for the people they can see themselves being with for a long time (b/c once their shield is down, it stays down forever to an extent--which explains why Aquas are always so hesistant to put it down in the 1st place)

female
Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
5. Your opinion will start to matter just as much as his own. Often times people conversate with Aquas about deep things & assume that just b/c the conversation is deep, that it means the Aqua is really into them. Half of the time Aquas are just testing you to see if you match them intellectually. When an Aqua actually stops testing you & makes the decision that you are a match, you'll notice the conversations going alot different (still just as deep, but just differently). You'll know what I mean when you get to that point.

6. And best of all, he'll tell you that he's in love with you.
female
Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
"Yes...this is so true. I talk to people all the time, off and on all day long. I don't feel that I am testing them - I just like to find out if they are someone to avoid or not, based on what they talk about and how they say it. If it is someone I have put some time and effort into, whether in thought or action or both, they should consider themselves very special to me in some way."

Exactly! This is how I am. Every once in a while I like to return the calls of all the people I've ignored for weeks. And sure, I am generally interested in how they are doing. But the main focus & point of my call is to see where their mind is so that I'll know if I need to further continue avoiding them or ignoring them. This is something Aquas do alot without even realizing it, unless someone brings it to our attention, thus leaving us no choice but to admit it. Alot of people don't realize that Aquas aren't always just conversating with you just to test you. Some of the time they are just making sure that your mindset is still compatible today like it was last week & even though I can't necessarily make sense of this thought process myself, all that matters is that WE all do this.
I have been dating an aquarius, very aquarius, male for 2 years and love him very much. He isn't confident in himself and beats himself up a lot on that. He decided that he wanted a break so he could work on himself because he feels he can't put the time into our relationship though he loves me. He says he hopes that he can figure it all out and then we can get back to having a good relationship. I am not the type of woman who needs her man by her side all the time, every day. I've been very accepting of the fact that he has needed time to figure out what he needs, and so this was a shock. I asked him several times if he was sure it was a break and not a break up that he actually wanted and he told me.. to the point he seemed annoyed, that no he wants a break, to remain friends, and i can do as i please but he won't be seeing anyone just working on himself (though i can tell by the tone, doing what i please did not mean, who.. as in no one else). He said I put it best.. he wants some time to think about things, us still talk but him focus on him and not worry about if i'm ok, talk in awhile and probably get together when he gets his thoughts together. It'c confusing, we spent tons of time together before this jobs, finished each others sentences.. can someone PLEASE give me some insight to this.
female
"*********************** female, Married,
Posted by krysrenee7
1. He will come right out & tell you. And let me tell you why it's a BIG DEAL for him to tell you: Aquas like for others to profess their feelings first & to prove themselves FIRST & when an Aqua finally becomes comfortable & vulnerable enought to admit to you that he loves you, that means you've already passed the test of being worthy to him. Keep in mind, an Aqua will NEVER wear their hearts on their sleeves for anyone UNLESS they already have proof that their partners would do the same for them. And once an Aqua says those words "I love you," he means them.

2.

i agree to an extent. some of us like to profess their feelings first.
my husband and i had a taciturn kind of relationship in the first stages. no confessions of undying love, just 'actions',
even spending his hard earned money on me (which is BIG for him) he doesn't do that at all. then in return i saved up some money and bought him a trip to a few places with me of course. those actions show me how much he loves me, because i know his hard earned money is important to him. and time. loads of time. and dependability. no disappearing acts. regardless what astrologers say, disappearing acts to your chosen partner just show how inconsiderate and undependable someone is. it's akin to abandonment.
SunAries11.21 MoonCapricorn 5.43 MercuryPisces18.07 VenusAries28.49 Mar
Posted by Datariesgirl
I agree with everything Krysrenee7 typed!! Wow!


Hey Datariesgirl- you've snagged yourself an aqua man too?
37 years old female
"I am interested in everything but passionate about a few things in life
I have a question similar to this. I have an aqua who i work with. The first two years he was in another department but we clicked instantly. It was almost unnatural. Im a scorpio female and its a bad match thats why i was surprised how natural we got along. After a while he started to be subtly affectionate or always in my comfort space or always touching and going through my belongings. But when i got transferred to the same department. He got more distant. According to him it was cause im more skilled than him so my presence gave him the ability to focus on important projects he wasnt able to work on before. As a scorpio i saw it as neglect. But when i learned to not take it personally we started getting along well again

That being said when i read the signs ppl have listed here and my iwn research on the aqua sign. He sometimes acts diff thsn described such as

While he is supposed to be independent. He always likes going into my office to nab things. He will even quickly mutter how he likes coming into my office then quickly changes the subject.
It says above that a good sign is being more open about himself while he does seem to stick to surface level topics but if you ask him something personal. Hell tell you. But the difference with me is not his openess cause hes open with everyone. With me its things like inflection in the tone of his voice. Its also how he jokes with me vs everyone else. The way he jokes with ppl seems like in a fake way cause he does it a little too much. But with me he diesnt go overboard with it. Like with ppl hell say stuff like omgggg thanks for showing up late or wow cant open that door fast enough? And he will do that constantly to a person in yhat same way

With me its not that type of joking. Its more of comments like i like coming into your office and taking one tissue at a time Or hell say stuff like he dressed up for casual friday cause its my fault i dressed up. Sometimes he wont really make fun of me but will wanna joke with me about others.

I guess its just the way he subtly comes across when hes around me. It fells like he has this i wanna take care if you types of actions. But idk. I dont know how he is around others 24/7.

What do u all think
49 years old female from Small Town, USA
Mrs Aqua
I think he likes you, but it might be just as friends.
101 years old
"Worry is the darkroom where negatives are developed.
@ScorpioFemalw79 Aquas are hard in that while we all have very similar traits we are at the same time quite a bit different. Are you the ONLY female in the office he does this with?? And if two years how come no dating?? I will say this... from my own personal experience, Aquas are good at reading people sorta like how Scorpios are good at reading people. I'm sure your probably right that he does have a thing for you and believe it or not he probably knows you do too even though you probably try not to make that all to clear. It's actually the vagueness that both your signs display all the time that has probably held this off from going any further because while both of you are probably certain the other is into you.... your attempts at being detached while probably noticed by you both are the very things holding you back..... Because your not 100% sure why he is acting detached just like he is not sure why your doing the same at times...you probably think "Was it cause he doesn't want me to think he's into me because he's not or is it because he's not sure I'm into him"? That is the ultimate question that I can't answer for you but I know if he is spending a lot of time around you he is into you for sure probably more than you realize..
44 years old male from michigan
"Aqua sun, rising, and venus Leo moon and pisces mercury"
Posted by krysrenee7
1. He will come right out & tell you. And let me tell you why it's a BIG DEAL for him to tell you: Aquas like for others to profess their feelings first & to prove themselves FIRST & when an Aqua finally becomes comfortable & vulnerable enought to admit to you that he loves you, that means you've already passed the test of being worthy to him. Keep in mind, an Aqua will NEVER wear their hearts on their sleeves for anyone UNLESS they already have proof that their partners would do the same for them. And once an Aqua says those words "I love you," he means them.

2. He will confide in you his deepest secrets. Aquas have lots of associates & friends, BUT they don't have many people in their lives that they can honestly be 100% themselves too. So, once an Aqua feels that kind of comfort around you, that means that he's thought about it, tested you already & has made the decision to trust you, with no turning back (of course unless you give him a reason to not trust you all over again). Aquas may seem like open books BUT trust me, there are lotttts of things most people don't know about their Aquas & usually won't know unless they are the best friend or the companion.

3. He will be very affectionate with you. Not all Aquas are afraid of PDA (public displays of affection) but then again, it's not common to see an Aqua tonguing someone they just "like" down in public. If your Aqua becomes more affectionate in private, that's a good sign, but if he becomes more affectionate in public, that's a GREAT sign & to him, it symbolizes that he is marking his territory & is proud to embrace what he has earned & what has earned him.

4. He won't be afraid to chase after you, cry in front of you or admit his faults around you. Any time an Aqua is seen putting down their "shields" and walls for someone, that means that that person must be someone special, beyond just a friend or just someone that they "like" (versus love). Aquas will ONLY put down their shields for the people they can see themselves being with for a long time (b/c once their shield is down, it stays down forever to an extent--which explains why Aquas are always so hesistant to put it down in the 1st place)

you gave out our secrets
44 years old male from michigan
"Aqua sun, rising, and venus Leo moon and pisces mercury"
Posted by Metoo
Your main purpose of the call is to see if you need to continue avoiding/ignoring them?
WOW.

based on this I highly distrust aqua motives, sounds highly manipulative, almost passively abusive as the unsuspecting friend gratefully sees your number on caller id and cheerily picks up, excited to hear from you. How aweful, if he/she only knew.

Why do aquas even have friends, I mean, people arent science projects.

Sad, sad, sad.


dont worry, most aqua use thier abilities for good. One central aspect of aquas is thinking of others as opposed to thinking of themselves. That being said if i treat you as a science experiment does it make you feel better its for the benifit of humanity.
37 years old female
"I am interested in everything but passionate about a few things in life
@notyouraverageaquarius. While I'm not around him 24/7 I am around him a good chunk of the day. When I first got transferred to the same department he wanted me to pick the office that was two feet from his so i hear all of his convos. If hes not at lunch with the dudes hes in his office. He used to socialize alot when I first joined his department with everyone everyone else. It created alot of frustration for me which led us to barely talking for a long time and him being an aqua he never knew what to do I guess and just let it be and I was stubborn and expected an apology.

It took a long time I realized it was a big misunderstanding. I assumed he was purposely neglecting me when he really wasnt and he always thought I was upset with him but I always wasnt. So this new year when I had the epiphany u decided to accept and understand his aqua traits and always remind myself the reasons behind his actions and its worked. The instant i changed my perspective the old bond we had instantly came back.

To answer your question, yes being the aqua that he is sure hes social with everyone even with people he hates. But I see the varying degrees to how he socialized with a person depending on how close you are to him. If he didnt like you hed at least socialize with you nicely if you approached him but he never initiated. If all you were to him was someone to network with hed initiate but hed stick to work related topics. If he thought you were cool which is a good chunk of the staff at work he will socialize as a friend but hell stick to surface level subjects and make fun of things you were doing and not doing like hey wow nice driving. Or nice of you to show up. Sarcastic comments

But with me I've known him a long time hes never done any of the above with me. He liked/likes getting in my personal space, once in a while subtly touch me when he passed by like a touch on the arm or a shoulder squeeze or brush dirt off me. He will sometimes hover over me just watching me work. If he needs to borrow my rolling cart for a presentation he has off site but its full of presentation stuff i need for an on site presentation I'm doing ill let him borrow it since hed need it more but then is notice hed set up my presentation stuff for me before he left. Plus the way he talks to me is different. When he talks to work friends he will give you a hard time and hed over do it like in a him being fake sorta way but with me I notice like tonal inflections in a
37 years old female
"I am interested in everything but passionate about a few things in life
Weird way. Kind like the male version of a woman's cute voice. He'll say something to me but in the middle if it it'll become high pitched I.e like what you'd here when a boy is going through puberty. Plus what he talks to me about isnt the giving me a hard time overdone jokes he uses with everyone else. It's more if random quiet mutterings like "I like coming in here (my office)". It's how at potlucks he'll say the dish he brought is from him and I. Or it's how he waves drops on my convos with others

I guess the biggest example of all is how he mimics me sometimes. We both are hard workers and we both are known for being the best in our company. When I started seeking him out more with strategic planning. He did it with me back. At events when I'd introduce myself to someone do it too like he was always following my lead. He wanted my opinion more also. The more I showed my intelligence in a big way the more super friendly he got with me. The more he was around me. The more talkative he was with me and the less he was with everyone else

What I wanna know is if hes just comfortable with me or just highly interested

If he is interested how do you think he will make it known?
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