PlatinumAries
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Any input on this aqua girl would be appreciated
Fast forward few years of pretty good friendship she broke up with her bf, for months calls me texts me (little more often than usual) that she's so lonely that she wants to love and be loved etc etc.
(At this time I already hooked up with more girls, dated a few, and had one fwb)
At the time I had finals, it was summer, I got amazing grades, all happy I replied why don't we go on a date. Then I realized holy shit this isn't something you text, so I called her, she picked up sounding all sleepy and like she's in bed not feeling well, we talk about crap etc, and then I said - "did you read my text, I.." And she interrupted "yeah . . . Let's make it happen." So that summer week after we meet up and go out, we know each other so well so we decided to get food then movies then desert, all fun and good.
In the movies she kept texting which was rude but hey I was on a date with HER so I was gonna let that bs slide, then after the movies we took the cab to some desert spot, that's a perfect place to make a move, she's in a car won't run anywhere, so before I find the right moment she starts texting again. Says, "I hope you're not expecting anything for that" I'm all confused- "expect what, what do you mean" and she goes with a very serious assuring tone "you shouldn't expect anything after this" and I feel like a fucking moron at this point, but still don't really get it, so I shrub it off. In the end after desert she kept mentioning second date, we were joking if it will happen or not, I was implying it was up to me and she would protest that yes it would indeed happen.
(At this time I already hooked up with more girls, dated a few, and had one fwb)
At the time I had finals, it was summer, I got amazing grades, all happy I replied why don't we go on a date. Then I realized holy shit this isn't something you text, so I called her, she picked up sounding all sleepy and like she's in bed not feeling well, we talk about crap etc, and then I said - "did you read my text, I.." And she interrupted "yeah . . . Let's make it happen." So that summer week after we meet up and go out, we know each other so well so we decided to get food then movies then desert, all fun and good.
In the movies she kept texting which was rude but hey I was on a date with HER so I was gonna let that bs slide, then after the movies we took the cab to some desert spot, that's a perfect place to make a move, she's in a car won't run anywhere, so before I find the right moment she starts texting again. Says, "I hope you're not expecting anything for that" I'm all confused- "expect what, what do you mean" and she goes with a very serious assuring tone "you shouldn't expect anything after this" and I feel like a fucking moron at this point, but still don't really get it, so I shrub it off. In the end after desert she kept mentioning second date, we were joking if it will happen or not, I was implying it was up to me and she would protest that yes it would indeed happen.
I think it's a little odd that she's on her phone so much. I know it's an Aqua thing to do but I usually only do that to show I'm upset or not feeling the moment. It's an avoidance mechanism for me.
Could you possibly find her Venus and Mars signs for me? I could give more input then but with the information you've given it's a little harder to keen on what she's feeling.
So far it just seems like she's looking for someone to fill a "boyfriend" position instead of a "I want you for you" kind of angle. I wouldn't back down though. Ask her on that second date and see how she reponds. It wouldn't hurt just to play it out.
Could you possibly find her Venus and Mars signs for me? I could give more input then but with the information you've given it's a little harder to keen on what she's feeling.
So far it just seems like she's looking for someone to fill a "boyfriend" position instead of a "I want you for you" kind of angle. I wouldn't back down though. Ask her on that second date and see how she reponds. It wouldn't hurt just to play it out.
Weeks later it's already fall, we haven't had dates after that, but we'd talk daily on the phone etc, both being "busy." Few days before Halloween we skype, ok camera, talk and stuff then I did steer the conversation to about us, and basically response I got was a pretty rude one as I remember, I got really offended, but it was in lines that she's not into me, I'm not what she likes, and she would never ever date me because I'm not the type if guy she's into. And then I said but we had a date, and she said "no it was a friend date" (something in these lines, can't remember exactly what, but somewhere in the lines she actually lied to me, I called her out on it, being pissed I just stopped talking to her. There was no point, I can't get her, she's constantly wine about shit so I bailed and stopped talking)
Fast forward yet again. Up until exactly one year ago, we sort of started talking on Facebook. Then texting, she moved away to a different state somewhere far away. At this time I'm dating a nice girl who's younger than me 18 and I'm 21 at the time, we text more often with "ex" as I referred to her when my gf saw the texts.
6 months later, summer, I break up with gf. The friendzoner confesses massive family abuse mental and physical which I never suspected, I support her etc. she has some sort of bf, then the boyfriend goes nuts and beat her up, now he's on restraining order and her dad is even more abusive.
I've been calming her down we talk a lot, I honestly don't feel anything towards her at all, other than the fact that she is dear to me in more of an old friend way, and we had conversations where I specifically said - we would make a horrible couple, we would fight all the time, you are very stubborn sometimes" she is very easily offended so se scrubbed it off, but agreed we wouldn't work. Why this came up was because I was flirty but them I myself said we wouldn't work, I just wanted to see if she would go snappy on me, she didn't.
Now her parents go overboard, she tried to cut her wrists, were basically planning on her escape in spring/summer, anyway, Now I support her as much as I can emotionally because as a friend I don't want to lose her, whatever the past, she's dear to me, like a cousin sort of way.
(By the way this summer when she was out on dates she'd text me in the middle of her date to tell me how horrible it is, I think she did same thing on the date with me, and they convinced her to tell me off)
Now I feel like she'
Fast forward yet again. Up until exactly one year ago, we sort of started talking on Facebook. Then texting, she moved away to a different state somewhere far away. At this time I'm dating a nice girl who's younger than me 18 and I'm 21 at the time, we text more often with "ex" as I referred to her when my gf saw the texts.
6 months later, summer, I break up with gf. The friendzoner confesses massive family abuse mental and physical which I never suspected, I support her etc. she has some sort of bf, then the boyfriend goes nuts and beat her up, now he's on restraining order and her dad is even more abusive.
I've been calming her down we talk a lot, I honestly don't feel anything towards her at all, other than the fact that she is dear to me in more of an old friend way, and we had conversations where I specifically said - we would make a horrible couple, we would fight all the time, you are very stubborn sometimes" she is very easily offended so se scrubbed it off, but agreed we wouldn't work. Why this came up was because I was flirty but them I myself said we wouldn't work, I just wanted to see if she would go snappy on me, she didn't.
Now her parents go overboard, she tried to cut her wrists, were basically planning on her escape in spring/summer, anyway, Now I support her as much as I can emotionally because as a friend I don't want to lose her, whatever the past, she's dear to me, like a cousin sort of way.
(By the way this summer when she was out on dates she'd text me in the middle of her date to tell me how horrible it is, I think she did same thing on the date with me, and they convinced her to tell me off)
Now I feel like she'
Now I feel like she's either getting emotionally overly attached, or falling inlove, or I don't know what's the deal. She's VERY easy to fall inlove with, very very unique facial characteristics very beautiful, and intelligent, anyway, I'm afraid to be duked again. She said that we needed to seriously talk after my exams, if the talk goes about her being emotionally involved that will suck, because it might pull me in. Another thing that would blow is, right now I'm more grown up, I have my goals set in stone, I plow through to them, I haven't been telling her half of my doings so she couldn't be gold digging, I'm safe in that regard. But in the back of my head I have Nicholas Cage saying "I wasn't good enough for you then, I'm just not enough for you now."
Sorry for the long post, the fu??k do I do? In the past week she has been quite withdrawn, cold so to speak.
Sorry for the long post, the fu??k do I do? In the past week she has been quite withdrawn, cold so to speak.
Sorry I wrote so much couldn't post all at once.
LunarMantis I'll try to get you signs, but tonight, not now, busy.
I don't really need the input on the past relationship we had, it's pretty clear what happened, I just wrote that to give you a sort of background on our past.
What I'm curious about now is... Hypothetically speaking if she likes me, would she back off and be a cold for no reason. Because one day she says we need to talk after my exams, she clearly doesn't want me to occupy my head with something that would occupy my head. And why would she back off afterwards and not talk to me as much as she did let's say a week ago?
LunarMantis I'll try to get you signs, but tonight, not now, busy.
I don't really need the input on the past relationship we had, it's pretty clear what happened, I just wrote that to give you a sort of background on our past.
What I'm curious about now is... Hypothetically speaking if she likes me, would she back off and be a cold for no reason. Because one day she says we need to talk after my exams, she clearly doesn't want me to occupy my head with something that would occupy my head. And why would she back off afterwards and not talk to me as much as she did let's say a week ago?
Down out drag down this guy is god? Huh? Lol
I'm not being persistent about anything, I'm doing my thing, if she ever wants a relationship It will have to be entirely 100% her own prerogative to ask me out, I will not ask her out again. And if she does ask me out I will be much more strict and direct than I was few years ago when she was texting by the table.
Let's just say i will be able to just walk out easily.
If I did get into her head and she is now attached, this would be pretty bizarre, I hope I am wrong about all this, I would rather play a forgiving chasing game than date her, she can be pretty difficult, but then switch and be very nice pleasing thoughtful supportive. Eh.
I'm not being persistent about anything, I'm doing my thing, if she ever wants a relationship It will have to be entirely 100% her own prerogative to ask me out, I will not ask her out again. And if she does ask me out I will be much more strict and direct than I was few years ago when she was texting by the table.
Let's just say i will be able to just walk out easily.
If I did get into her head and she is now attached, this would be pretty bizarre, I hope I am wrong about all this, I would rather play a forgiving chasing game than date her, she can be pretty difficult, but then switch and be very nice pleasing thoughtful supportive. Eh.
She was born February 1, 1992
Country I think Lebanon
Don't know the city or time of birth
Country I think Lebanon
Don't know the city or time of birth
Best I can do:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Aquarius 11.48
Moon Capricorn 16.10
Mercury Aquarius 4.08
Venus Capricorn 8.44
Mars Capricorn 17.14
Jupiter Virgo 12.58 R
Saturn Aquarius 9.32
Uranus Capricorn 15.31
Neptune Capricorn 17.24
Pluto Scorpio 22.49
Lilith Aquarius 1.17
Asc node Capricorn 9.31
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Aquarius 11.48
Moon Capricorn 16.10
Mercury Aquarius 4.08
Venus Capricorn 8.44
Mars Capricorn 17.14
Jupiter Virgo 12.58 R
Saturn Aquarius 9.32
Uranus Capricorn 15.31
Neptune Capricorn 17.24
Pluto Scorpio 22.49
Lilith Aquarius 1.17
Asc node Capricorn 9.31
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Posted by PlatinumAries
basically response I got was a pretty rude one as I remember, I got really offended, but it was in lines that she's not into me, I'm not what she likes, and she would never ever date me because I'm not the type if guy she's into.
she tried to cut her wrists,
when she was out on dates she'd text me in the middle of her date to tell me how horrible it is, I think she did same thing on the date with me, and they convinced her to tell me off
read this till you come to your senses
i think it is the drama which keeps you in...not healthy
Posted by feby
It's prob just the way she is. I know I was like that with my Aries. She could be busy with other things too.
It might not be a down out drag down this guy is a god I want to rip my panties off for him in her mind but imo your persistence can pay off.
I totally agree... lol feby is giving great advise...
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So my exams are over she never talked to me whatever she wanted to talk to me about and I don't really wanna ask, I'm not sure if I should.
What did happen however was she started sending me snaps of herself in her silk pink tank top one you wear to sleep without her bra on, I just commented back as "damn" "holy crap
What did happen however was she started sending me snaps of herself in her silk pink tank top one you wear to sleep without her bra on, I just commented back as "damn" "holy crap
So she just sent me a snap of herself in a lingerie saying "yes it's for you, the question now is do you think I'm fat"
Wtf?
Wtf?
Yeah I figured she was being insecure so I said She had great body, I told her she knows she's hot and that she's not as cold as she makes out to be, that she's a sensitive girl.
She didn't say much to that, there wasn't much she could say.
She didn't say much to that, there wasn't much she could say.
Posted by PlatinumAries
Yeah I figured she was being insecure so I said She had great body, I told her she knows she's hot and that she's not as cold as she makes out to be, that she's a sensitive girl.
She didn't say much to that, there wasn't much she could say.
As much as I could be like you and come into your thread and stay stupid stuff... I will just turn the other check... and in fact tell you...
There are amazing good transits for this action... this girl was from you past alot like the girl I am trying to tie down... or get to know. I know it can seem stupid because Aqua are very attractive... but when they are attracted to you they want to know you are attracted to them. They actually worry about this... which again seems so stupid. You did the right thing by leaving there to be nothing to be said... Yes I may over think things but I also choose to express them here not around the world in front of people. I also am a very different person as I consider myself spiritual open.
I honestly think you will get this relationship easy... and will take it to a really high and good level by the end of the month... Be careful around 21 as Mercury goes retro. Often Aquas will have insecurity that you "forgot about them" or ask "don't you miss me" or ask "do you miss me." So make sure around this time the 21 and beyond you are sensitive to her feelings... There is also I believe a super moon on the 20th... Which should be amazingly good...
Just make sure you don't have miss comunications between Jan 21 and Feb 11...
No I am killing this with kindness... this is a constructive post... Meaning I don't feel threatened by you... you should try it some time with all do respect. You are more then welcome to google the dates... and read on both of these subjects.
This actually makes me feel good because I think I will be seeing my Aqua tomorrow... but we will see...
Best of luck
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Thanks for a constructive reply and glad you didn't get butthurt, I hate people who get butthurt, so now I like you. I never gone into so much detail as to figuring out the dates of her mood, that's very advanced, I'll see how she acts around those dates and be sensitive/supportive, thanks, I'll get back here with more updates as they arise
Easy with the butthurt word... lol What you see as over thinking I see as in adding in all the astro influences... to you it is better described as odds and probability... Astro style but I am normally very right about things... more then 50% as long as they are true to sun sign... Yours has alot of cap. she may actually be a really good one.
Anyways buddy... best of luck...
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Anyways buddy... best of luck...
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Eh will see, if she fucks it up the second time as well I'll be done with her for good, friends wise too, she is the only girl in the world that can mess with my head this way, I don't know how's that possible, anyways, thanks,. I'll keep everyone posted
Posted by PlatinumAries
So my exams are over she never talked to me whatever she wanted to talk to me about and I don't really wanna ask, I'm not sure if I should.
What did happen however was she started sending me snaps of herself in her silk pink tank top one you wear to sleep without her bra on, I just commented back as "damn" "holy crap Then I complemented that too, and then in a few minutes she says "is that how you hit on girls?" My reply was "it depends" then I thought about it, shit if I say it depends I make myself look superficial as in acting differently with different people. So right after "it depends" I said "no, I'm more direct, this is just fun, cute stuff" making it seem like im not desperate for her and that I'm just having fun without going crazy for her which she is quite used to.. In return I got good night heart. Casual snaps daily, otherwise.
O_O
wow sounds like she's testing you.
she doesnt trust you yet it sounds.Like you could hurt her. Very scared. Thinking, "If he's like this with women, who will show a little here and there, he could very well fuck ME up by going to another woman, saying the same things."
yuck. the cues of dating and figuring out eachother if you're "good" for eachother. She definitely WANTS you or else she wouldn't go this far. but she is not sure about your intentions if you're going to break her heart.
at least that's how it seem if i put myself in that position, sending you nudies and sexy lingerie.
Posted by PlatinumAries
So my exams are over she never talked to me whatever she wanted to talk to me about and I don't really wanna ask, I'm not sure if I should.
What did happen however was she started sending me snaps of herself in her silk pink tank top one you wear to sleep without her bra on, I just commented back as "damn" "holy crap . Then I complemented that too, and then in a few minutes she says "is that how you hit on girls?" My reply was "it depends" then I thought about it, shit if I say it depends I make myself look superficial as in acting differently with different people. So right after "it depends" I said "no, I'm more direct, this is just fun, cute stuff" making it seem like im not desperate for her and that I'm just having fun without going crazy for her which she is quite used to.. In return I got good night heart. Casual snaps daily, otherwise.
crap. it didnt bold, so that part i read and thought hmmmmm that girl is messing with him but only because she is afraid.
gahhhh 😛
fuck it. lol
fuck it. lol
Lmaooo that's okay, idk maybe she is sort of testing me, she got into a car accident and she being screwed over by the people who's boer she cracked, long story short lots of stress right now and I'm calming her down and comforting as much as I can. What happened was I mentioned I had a sex blog on tumblr and she asked to see it, I declined, but this morning decided to show her so I sent the link, first response I got in a few hours was OMG!!!
But then half an hour later she started telling me how those people said they got "injured"
But then half an hour later she started telling me how those people said they got "injured"
I only reblogged sex stuff I don't post my own, just stuff I like, mostly erotic but lots of pornographic material too
Posted by PlatinumAries
Lmaooo that's okay, idk maybe she is sort of testing me, she got into a car accident and she being screwed over by the people who's boer she cracked, long story short lots of stress right now and I'm calming her down and comforting as much as I can. What happened was I mentioned I had a sex blog on tumblr and she asked to see it, I declined, but this morning decided to show her so I sent the link, first response I got in a few hours was OMG!!!
But then half an hour later she started telling me how those people said they got "injured"
huh—
you put in sex stuff on the blog? what do you mean? like you have sex with people and then post it?
to be perfectly honest, i dont think this girl is for you.
i read that she's been hurt and abused in the past and you come up with this shit about sex blogging??
she don't need a man like you that's for sure.
you dont seem to care /sensitive about her feelings.
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