capricorn woman falling for an aquarius man Sad

i’m trying not to be a cookiemonster & snap & cut him off like i usually would by now because i really do like him. he told me that he likes that i’m really nice, affectionate, and goofy when i recently asked him what he liked about me, so i feel like i’m doing o
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  • Juliiette
    sun ♋, moon ♊, 🎄
    37 years old female
    my mistake, actually idk. 50/50. don't take it so seriosly, chill with friends, do something else and see how it naturally developes. or cut him. so what.
  • Juliiette
    sun ♋, moon ♊, 🎄
    37 years old female
    Posted by corntee92
    i’m trying not to be a cookiemonster & snap & cut him off like i usually would by now because i really do like him. he told me that he likes that i’m really nice, affectionate, and goofy when i recently asked him what he liked about me, so i feel like i’m doing ok. in the beginning we spoke all day, he responded quickly, and the conversation never got boring. he came to see me about a week after we started talking, and we went on our first date a week after that. we went bowling & it was great. he opened doors for me, told me to get whatever i wanted, and kept on making sure that i was okay throughout the night.

    it’s been about 2 months & we’ve only been on one OFFICIAL date since then, but i see him from time to time, when we have time (his shifts are 24hours & i work part-time & go to school full time). HOWEVER, i didn’t have a problem with his “disappearing” because it would only be for a few hours & i like a little bit of space anyway, but yesterday was the first day that i didn’t even get a goodnight text from him (he was active on social media, but i don’t follow him). the last time he fell asleep on me, he called me on facetime at 3AM just to say goodnight.

    he told me he liked me really early, maybe like 2/3 weeks into it. his best friend invited me to one of his football games & i said that i might not make it, but he said that he would be expecting me to be there - so i left school early in order to make it for him & he seemed glad. we even hung out for hours that night. he hasn’t invited me to any of his games & when i asked him about it, he said “i’ll invite you when i see fit. chill out” - WHATEVER THAT MEANS. he had a halloween party & didn’t invite me. my friend that introduced us did (but he was SO eager to know what my costume would be), & i kept joking about how i wasn’t going for him because he never invited me.

    i always only see him at night (for a few hours), even if we’ve both been off (i guess he’s spending time with family & friends, but he ALWAYS does) & he gets really close to me & holds me, tells me that i’m beautiful, calls me “baby” all the time, loves making me “feel good”, asks me what’s on my mind, & basically makes sure that i’m good. but can we not do this during the day? why does he choose when he’s going to make time for me, even when he has plenty of time? i really do like him & i wanted to surprise him with a nighttime picnic with all of his favorite snacks on the beach, but i’m afraid that it’ll seem like i’m trying too hard or that i’m doing too much since he doesn’t try to do anything. he talks about doing things with me but we don’t actually do them, lol. i also brought my dvds of one of his favorite shows to borrow, but i don’t think he cared. he didn’t take them.

    the other day i asked to see him during the day & he agreed. we hadn’t seen each other in over a week & when i got to him, he hugged me tight & kept saying “i missed my baby”. i really love this side of him & i want to show him how i feel about him, but i’m so confused. does he want me around or not?

    lol cap woman: falling for a guy, but first thing on your mind is how to cut him off. ok now i'll read the rest.

  • pisceswoman123
    🌞Aquafish 🌕Taurus ❤️ Aries ASC Virgo
    Posted by Malak
    Posted by pisceswoman123
    Posted by Malak
    Aquarius, Pisces...anything better in your chart? If not then nope, you just think you're mean, but you're not lol
    on a topic now - yup I'd say too he just keeps you around his finger. But then again I remember some things I read about Aquarius men that i have examples in real life to prove it's true lol
    they tend to completely lack showing emotions, appear very distant and not attached...there was a lot more to it, but I remember my friend and her Aqua was a text book example of everything that description said. Long story short his words would say one thing but his actions another, you never know where you stand with them. They seem to me like a big bag of mess that I'd rather skip lol don't get offended Aqua people, there are those who like to bust their ass of thinking about what you think, but there are us who don't like it and want things out loud, straight forward and clear Big Grin


    I couldn’t disagree more... I have never in my life seen an aqua that doesn’t show me emotions. And I have always being surrounded by them. But it’s true that they don’t show it to everyone.

    I don't get it, who should you show it unless your gf who showers you with love and affection and everything....he was such a stone to her I can't even describe that amount of lack of emotions...he'd say one thing but his actions would do complete opposite...eventually she got tired of that and found another guy, got married...he didn't even bother to fight for her while he had a chance, only kept saying things like he cares for her etc...anyway I don't know many of them, I remember just that example cause I read somewhere description about them that guy was a textbook example of

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    He simply didn’t love her enough. She should have left him much earlier than that.
  • Posted by pisceswoman123
    Posted by Malak
    Aquarius, Pisces...anything better in your chart? If not then nope, you just think you're mean, but you're not lol
    on a topic now - yup I'd say too he just keeps you around his finger. But then again I remember some things I read about Aquarius men that i have examples in real life to prove it's true lol
    they tend to completely lack showing emotions, appear very distant and not attached...there was a lot more to it, but I remember my friend and her Aqua was a text book example of everything that description said. Long story short his words would say one thing but his actions another, you never know where you stand with them. They seem to me like a big bag of mess that I'd rather skip lol don't get offended Aqua people, there are those who like to bust their ass of thinking about what you think, but there are us who don't like it and want things out loud, straight forward and clear Big Grin


    I couldn’t disagree more... I have never in my life seen an aqua that doesn’t show me emotions. And I have always being surrounded by them. But it’s true that they don’t show it to everyone.
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    I don't get it, who should you show it unless your gf who showers you with love and affection and everything....he was such a stone to her I can't even describe that amount of lack of emotions...he'd say one thing but his actions would do complete opposite...eventually she got tired of that and found another guy, got married...he didn't even bother to fight for her while he had a chance, only kept saying things like he cares for her etc...anyway I don't know many of them, I remember just that example cause I read somewhere description about them that guy was a textbook example of

  • Posted by Damnata
    Posted by edgelord
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Sounds like he lost interest. Don’t believe all that suave talk, he’s just saying it to keep you wrapped around his little finger. Never give more than is given to you. If he’s not putting in the effort, it means he’s not as invested.


    Aquarius men respond to women who don’t treat THEM well.



    I object 😬


    Pffft lol aren’t you married to a Scorpio woman? 🤔


    She treats me well 😀😀😀😀


    Aquarius male and Scorpio female relationship summed up
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    .... but she treats me well 😈


    Wtf lol actually its the opposite. I'm very dominant. You clearly haven't met many Pisces Mars men. We're treetrunking mean 😈😈😈


    pisces mars is a vagina mars. Straight Face

    i love almost all pisces placements. but it's the truth.


    Best sex I've had.

    I agree with the guy who says it's a dominant Mars.
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    then why didn't you quote him and agree with him? lmao Damnata. random quoting.

  • Damnata
    Best PIMP this side of the Atlantic.
    29 years old female
    Posted by edgelord
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Sounds like he lost interest. Don’t believe all that suave talk, he’s just saying it to keep you wrapped around his little finger. Never give more than is given to you. If he’s not putting in the effort, it means he’s not as invested.


    Aquarius men respond to women who don’t treat THEM well.



    I object 😬


    Pffft lol aren’t you married to a Scorpio woman? 🤔


    She treats me well 😀😀😀😀


    Aquarius male and Scorpio female relationship summed up
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    .... but she treats me well 😈


    Wtf lol actually its the opposite. I'm very dominant. You clearly haven't met many Pisces Mars men. We're treetrunking mean 😈😈😈


    pisces mars is a vagina mars. Straight Face

    i love almost all pisces placements. but it's the truth.
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    Best sex I've had.

    I agree with the guy who says it's a dominant Mars.
  • pisceswoman123
    🌞Aquafish 🌕Taurus ❤️ Aries ASC Virgo
    Posted by Malak
    Aquarius, Pisces...anything better in your chart? If not then nope, you just think you're mean, but you're not lol
    on a topic now - yup I'd say too he just keeps you around his finger. But then again I remember some things I read about Aquarius men that i have examples in real life to prove it's true lol
    they tend to completely lack showing emotions, appear very distant and not attached...there was a lot more to it, but I remember my friend and her Aqua was a text book example of everything that description said. Long story short his words would say one thing but his actions another, you never know where you stand with them. They seem to me like a big bag of mess that I'd rather skip lol don't get offended Aqua people, there are those who like to bust their ass of thinking about what you think, but there are us who don't like it and want things out loud, straight forward and clear Big Grin


    I couldn’t disagree more... I have never in my life seen an aqua that doesn’t show me emotions. And I have always being surrounded by them. But it’s true that they don’t show it to everyone.
  • Aquarius, Pisces...anything better in your chart? If not then nope, you just think you're mean, but you're not lol
    on a topic now - yup I'd say too he just keeps you around his finger. But then again I remember some things I read about Aquarius men that i have examples in real life to prove it's true lol
    they tend to completely lack showing emotions, appear very distant and not attached...there was a lot more to it, but I remember my friend and her Aqua was a text book example of everything that description said. Long story short his words would say one thing but his actions another, you never know where you stand with them. They seem to me like a big bag of mess that I'd rather skip lol don't get offended Aqua people, there are those who like to bust their ass of thinking about what you think, but there are us who don't like it and want things out loud, straight forward and clear Big Grin
  • Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Sounds like he lost interest. Don’t believe all that suave talk, he’s just saying it to keep you wrapped around his little finger. Never give more than is given to you. If he’s not putting in the effort, it means he’s not as invested.


    Aquarius men respond to women who don’t treat THEM well.



    I object 😬


    Pffft lol aren’t you married to a Scorpio woman? 🤔


    She treats me well 😀😀😀😀


    Aquarius male and Scorpio female relationship summed up
    User Submitted Image


    .... but she treats me well 😈


    Wtf lol actually its the opposite. I'm very dominant. You clearly haven't met many Pisces Mars men. We're treetrunking mean 😈😈😈
    click to expand


    pisces mars is a vagina mars. Straight Face

    i love almost all pisces placements. but it's the truth.
  • AerialView
    Offense is the best form of defense💨
    male from Arlong Park
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Sounds like he lost interest. Don’t believe all that suave talk, he’s just saying it to keep you wrapped around his little finger. Never give more than is given to you. If he’s not putting in the effort, it means he’s not as invested.


    Aquarius men respond to women who don’t treat THEM well.



    I object 😬


    Pffft lol aren’t you married to a Scorpio woman? 🤔


    She treats me well 😀😀😀😀


    Aquarius male and Scorpio female relationship summed up
    User Submitted Image


    .... but she treats me well 😈
    click to expand


    Wtf lol actually its the opposite. I'm very dominant. You clearly haven't met many Pisces Mars men. We're treetrunking mean 😈😈😈
  • AerialView
    Offense is the best form of defense💨
    male from Arlong Park
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Sounds like he lost interest. Don’t believe all that suave talk, he’s just saying it to keep you wrapped around his little finger. Never give more than is given to you. If he’s not putting in the effort, it means he’s not as invested.


    Aquarius men respond to women who don’t treat THEM well.



    I object 😬


    Pffft lol aren’t you married to a Scorpio woman? 🤔
    click to expand


    She treats me well 😀😀😀😀
  • AerialView
    Offense is the best form of defense💨
    male from Arlong Park
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Sounds like he lost interest. Don’t believe all that suave talk, he’s just saying it to keep you wrapped around his little finger. Never give more than is given to you. If he’s not putting in the effort, it means he’s not as invested.


    Aquarius men respond to women who don’t treat THEM well.



    I object 😬
  • pinkbird03
    Cancer 💕
    Posted by corntee92
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Are you two exclusive and in a committed relationship? I think this is a very important bit of information


    we’re just dating. we haven’t had any conversations about exclusivity or being committed, but i haven’t thought about him being with anyone else. that hasn’t even crossed my mind. i know he’s friendly & has a bunch of female friends, but i don’t think about them, lol.
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    Just because you haven’t thought about it doesn’t mean it’s not true. He could be dating other girls. It’s actually terribly common for guys to do that. You should bring it up. If he says yes then he’s all yours. If he says no, then he’s not and you should be worried.
  • corntee92
    female
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Are you two exclusive and in a committed relationship? I think this is a very important bit of information


    we’re just dating. we haven’t had any conversations about exclusivity or being committed, but i haven’t thought about him being with anyone else. that hasn’t even crossed my mind. i know he’s friendly & has a bunch of female friends, but i don’t think about them, lol.
  • corntee92
    female
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by corntee92
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by Aquarius3189
    Posted by bittercupcake
    Sounds like he lost interest. Don’t believe all that suave talk, he’s just saying it to keep you wrapped around his little finger. Never give more than is given to you. If he’s not putting in the effort, it means he’s not as invested.


    My suggestion: treat him like butter and like he isn’t a priority. Wants to see you at night? Tough luck, I’m going out. Want to see me last minute? Oops, sorry I have plans. But you can take a number to make an apt.
    Don’t treat him like he means something to you, because he will take advantage of that.
    Aquarius men respond to women who don’t treat THEM well.

    Good luck

    I have notice the same with my aqua friend,his wife treat him like butter and he still loves her,send money to her even though he knows where she is taking it,the aqua women in my life are all wonderful and strong women but i cant say the same with the aqua men

    I was just discussing this with a few friends about Aqua men. They seem to respond to women who ignore/ neglect or treat them poorly. It’s a masochistic trait that I think they get from the Saturnian energy, co-ruler.


    i have been giving him his space, but i don’t want to completely ignore him. he says that he loves that i’m affectionate & really nice, so i don’t want to take that away from him.


    You are being too kind. Of course he loves that about you, but does he deserve it? Is he giving you the time and day? Don’t give in if he’s not putting in effort to see you. Aquarius men, men in general, WILL make time for a woman that they’re interested in or fully interested. Idk how much of an interest he might have, but I can tell you right now, he’s not very invested in you. Either #1 he was toying with you or #2 he’s losing interest
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    thanks! i’ll keep this in mind when i speak to him. if i’m straightforward with him, i hope he can do the same for me.
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