IS IT TOO LATE TO WIN MY AQUA GUY? :(

Hi everyone
Im a Taurus girl..been with an aqua guy for 5 years!!!! Met him since I was 15 and he broke up with me 2 months b4 my 20th bday
I did the silliest thing ever which is send him million messages, ask him y he left me, cry cry cry, ask him million other stuff..now its been almost a year on our break up. I told him I love him twice after our break up..but now hes in a relationship with another girl for several months.
He did say to me b4 that hes not serious about her though

OUR MAIN PROBLEM WAS:
He used to go out a lot with his friends and ignores me
He disappears nd sometimes he wouldnt text me all day and wen i do that to him he gets mad at me
he used to ignore me wen hes out for shisha with his frndz
tells me hes going to talk to me b4 i slp nd i wait for about an hour then he says ok ill slp now!..its like wth didnt u say we wer gona talk? (After not tlkn that much for about 3 to 4 days)
Sometimes he wouldnt b there for me wen i need him

TO me all that didnt matter cuz i think ppl shudnt just break up for silly reasons they shud work things out. One time i snapped at him i even swore at hime(which is something we never used to do) he got shocked, next day he broke up with me.

I apologized..he said he didnt break up cuz of the fight its cuz he cant make me happy, nd that he was goin to break up anyway. He said hes not ready for commitment nor marriage (he proposed to me)

I dunno y he suddenly felt this way he used to b so serious about having kids nd all. I really know hw to make him happy.
He tells my sister he respects me thinks im smart nd all but still no signs of getting back


NOW he never ever messages me 😢((((((((((((((((

HOW CAN I WIN HIM BACK?? PLEASE HELP FROM AQUA GUYS..SHOULD I KEEP IGNORING HIM? OR SHOULD I TALK TO HIM ONCE IN A WHILE REMIND HIM OF OUR NICE MEMORIES??
He still tells me he wants us to b friends but he never contacts me tho..

by the way its almost been a year on our break up..i feel like its such a long time maybe its too late??
I hope not!
im tryna b patient with him

Posted by tauruscancerdelight
Hm, it sounds like you really love him.

In that case, sure, keep the contact alive, aquas love to remain friends with people and maybe you can get him to fall in love with that same cool girl he used to know and that girl is you (remember though, no swearing and throwing fits, because no man alive likes that in a woman).

Just be nice, cool and friendly. You never know what can come out of it. But even if it doesn't work out, don't despair. You are still so young, and there are lots of other sexy aquas out there.
I know right now it sounds like you'll never love "like that" again, but trust me you will!

That's not really good advise for this girl, who is trying get a guy back when he is with another person. And obviously her ex aqua didn't remain friends with her for a long time. So that's not really true about aquas. In depth astrology will tell you that it depends what is in their 11th house. If their 11th house is empty or in a sign that isn't social, then it's not really into that friendship with everyone.

She needs to just let it go. Obviously this aqua guy didnt keep her as a friend. But your advise at the end, was good, in that she should find someone else.

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Posted by tauruscancerdelight
Hm, it sounds like you really love him.

In that case, sure, keep the contact alive, aquas love to remain friends with people and maybe you can get him to fall in love with that same cool girl he used to know and that girl is you (remember though, no swearing and throwing fits, because no man alive likes that in a woman).

Just be nice, cool and friendly. You never know what can come out of it. But even if it doesn't work out, don't despair. You are still so young, and there are lots of other sexy aquas out there.
I know right now it sounds like you'll never love "like that" again, but trust me you will!

That's not really good advise for this girl, who is trying get a guy back when he is with another person. And obviously her ex aqua didn't remain friends with her for a long time. So that's not really true about aquas. In depth astrology will tell you that it depends what is in their 11th house. If their 11th house is empty or in a sign that isn't social, then it's not really into that friendship with everyone.

She needs to just let it go. Obviously this aqua guy didnt keep her as a friend. But your advise at the end, was good, in that she should find someone else.

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I agree my 11th house is in capricon. I am not overly social to be social. You seem very sweet you find that guy for you sooner than later

I think you need to understand regardless of sign, factors in life, environmental influences and our own personal life paths tend to change who we are and how we perceive things. Love that can seem so real and eternal can change and being the fixed signs that we are I guess we have a hard time letting go of it.

To dismiss your feelings purely because you were 15 at the time is unfair but know that our mind is still growing at the time and perhaps your aqua in some way or form felt tied down and restricted. He may respect you like your sister said because you guys were together for so long and this is where I agree with tauruscancerdelight that we do value friendship. But you need to realise he won't be romantically or emotionally available which is what you want deep down rather than that friendship.

You sound like a sweet girl and I noticed you wrote "OUR problems" rather than his problems. As an outsider from what you've written it appears like he was the one with the problems and it seems you were willing to accept flaws. I admire this idea but you must realise it was one sided and when you confronted him he disappeared on you. You're right in that in a relationship it takes two to work things out please see and accept that he is not willing to.

So my advice is nothing that you suggested, don't ignore him, don't be patient, don't contact him. Be real with yourself and start taking better care of yourself emotionally. A nice memory is preceisely that... a nice memory and nothing more. Focus on the better things in life.

Look, it ain't gonna work. Drop him, he sounds like an asshat.

RULE OF THUMB, NO EXCEPTIONS...:

If you have to TRY to keep a guy...then he really doesn't want to be there. Ever. No matter WHAT he says after you corner him.

well after reading all ur comments it made my tears fall on my face..its almost been a year on our break up nd to honest i guess u r all right there is lots of fish in the sea but I love him so much and i know hes not serious with the other girl cuz he told me so..i hope he doesnt hurt her

He flirted with me 6 months after the break up but i didnt exactly respond to it cuz felt it wasnt real..wen i confronted him nd told him y wer u flirting did u miss me or somthn? he said listen im with someone else since 2 months ago i only talked normal...he completely denied it! Isnt "would u like to b in my arms?" considered flirting? he said more than just that.

I tried so hard. I asked him what did i ever do to u and ill fix it. All he says nothing u always treated my good im just not going to marry now. I told him i will wait we dont need to rush into marriage (i dont like rushing myself) he would say maybe ill marry u one day but now i cant guarantee it.

GOD!

HERE'S THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVISE I NEED FROM ALL OF U AQUAS>> I still have him on my blackberry list and i contact him on occassions only like Christmas, new year..he seems happy wen i contact him nd last time on new years he talked about how he remembers how we used to talk and how he made me laugh. And when he hears i traveled from my sis he gets concerned and asks stuff like where did she go? did she go alone??
Im confused if hes concerned or if hes happy to hear frm me then y doesnt he ever contact me? or just say hello?
I told him b4 that i would delete him and stop contacting him cuz i respect his in a new relationship and all..but he said No dont delete me, talk to me once in a while..

GUYS SHOULD I JUST DELETE HIM?? Even wen i talk he talks in the beginning eagerly then he stops replying like i dont even exist. SHOULD I JUST CUT OFF ANYTHING THAT LINKS ME WITH HIM?? Is it better?

Or should i Just keep him on my list but never ever contact him again?
Is it a good idea to say Happy birthday on his bday which is coming soon on 16th FEB 1989
Im on 18th MAY 1992 if that ever helps..i guess he is social but not as social as ME!

I am sorry that you are going through all this pain. But, he has moved on from you. Even, if it seems like he is flirting...he is still not dating you. Even if he comes back to date you, he will more than likely leave again. Please do not set yourself up to be his fallback girl/default situation/7-11 convenience store. You are worth more than that. Are you enrolled in college? Are there hobbies which you can pursue. Maybe, you could join a group on meetup.com and expand your social circle. Please delete and block his number. Close this particular book of your life and put it back on the shelf where it belongs.

thankx firewater,
any other advise?

hes born on 16th feb 1989
does that help?

Posted by steponscorpionsCRUNCH
Look, it ain't gonna work. Drop him, he sounds like an asshat.

RULE OF THUMB, NO EXCEPTIONS...:

If you have to TRY to keep a guy...then he really doesn't want to be there. Ever. No matter WHAT he says after you corner him.

shhh gentle gentle.....woooh you are so rough. Lol

i really need u all (especially aqua males) to give me advise about wether i shud delete him or not, or keep him nd ignore him or stay in contact one in a while..just tell me what right thing to do cuz really I CANT stop crying it hurts like it all just happened yesterday

😢 😢

Posted by Nouran20
i really need u all (especially aqua males) to give me advise about wether i shud delete him or not, or keep him nd ignore him or stay in contact one in a while..just tell me what right thing to do cuz really I CANT stop crying it hurts like it all just happened yesterday

😢 😢

Really feel your pain here.. whats happening with your situation is that your mind is only focused on him. The saying 'time will heal' does work but your not letting that happen. You really need to move on and focus on other aspects of your life. Try to work on yourself, keep yourself busy and what makes you happy. You dont have to delete him from your phone. Sometimes you will have those moments where you want to read those old memoriable messages. thats not a bad thing, but this is bringing you down. Take in the positive in your life. TRUST ME.. this is coming from experience and it has helped me alot!! I Hope the advice you are receiving will help you lead forward and not back!! xx

Angeleyes thank u sooo much..yes i do keep myself busy im an active taurus i dont like to settle Im always doing something but sometimes that moment wen ur alone in bed just thinking i go thru his messages and feel all emotional again..its worse feeling ever and i feel life is unfair to me cuz he gets to enjoy every day of his life hapily while i have to have a bad moment at least everyday thinking about him

god b with all girls out there going thru this it is really hard

Sadly im a very picky girl i dont fall for anyone..he was my 1st love. I was his 1st too. 3 guys asked me for a relationship after him but i refused cuz i thot they r not good enaff..not cuz of him

TRUST ME if i found the right guy i would move on nd forget him..i wish!

Leave him alone. Dont contact him, nothing. Real love is to set them free and if they return then great. I disagree with the "fallback girl" theory because sometimes we never know the worth of what we have until its gone and when we realize it then we seek it back. There arent rules in love and you shouldnt follow any since there are none. But do leave him alone to figure out if you are what he wants. Somebody once told me, "we sometimes listen to the heart, but the heart listens to nobody". If your heart still loves him them who are we to tell it its wrong? Who are we to tell it to stop? When the time is right it will stop on its own. Its not a bad thing to still love those who've hurt us, its not a bad thing to still long for them, etc. Its a process to get over someone and it doesnt happen over night. You and me might get over things on different times, but be sure to still live in the moment even if your heart is stuck on yesterday... it will catch up eventually. Leave-the-guy-alone, sweety. Good luck

I did leave him alone but..maybe i need to pull away further meaning..
no Happy birthday no happy new year for him from now and on.
Time to just make him REALLY and COMPLETELY out of my life

Good girl and dont worry it will pass. Do the moving on (deleting stuff) at your own pace and when it feels right to YOU otherwise you'll go in circles for a very long time. Welcome to adulthood, lol. Is this your 1st real break up, long term i mean?

Good girl and dont worry it will pass. Do the moving on (deleting stuff) at your own pace and when it feels right to YOU otherwise you'll go in circles for a very long time. Welcome to adulthood, lol. Is this your 1st real break up, long term i mean?

Yes he was my first and its our first break up ever..my first break up in my life

I deleted his pics and many messages but i still have some voice notes, old emails..but i dont access them that much anyway
But hes still on my blackberry list..so i can c when he updates his status and all.

But i dont know if wether i should delete him from my list too?

Unfortunately I have no experience with guys at all..Im also a serious girl i dont like guys who would waste my time..im bit traditional eventually i want marriage. Even though i dont like to rush it. but i would never invest in any relationship unless if i picture the guy as my ONLY ONE

Listen, I dont know all about that blackberry stuff, but then maybe its time to have him removed if you gonna see every single update of his. Whats the point of trying to move on if you get blow by blow sneak views on his life? You dont want that. Memories and other stuff are enough, dont you think? Again at your own pace. With time you'll be just fabulous without him. All this pain is for now and it will end, promise. Believe me been there and now im here, see? Congratulations on surviving your 1st heartache, usually many will follow, but you'll be stronger because of the lessons learned from the previous ones. Its not the end of the world, ok.

You know one thing? I know you're still young with little "worldly" experience about love, but here is one thing... I'm obviously an old lady, but when i encounter hard times ie. heartache, I look at it as an achievement of some kind, a little gold star, an added badge to my army uniform, etc because the pain experienced helps to build you as a person not to break you down unless you let it. Good luck to you again, sweety.

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Posted by steponscorpionsCRUNCH
Look, it ain't gonna work. Drop him, he sounds like an asshat.

RULE OF THUMB, NO EXCEPTIONS...:

If you have to TRY to keep a guy...then he really doesn't want to be there. Ever. No matter WHAT he says after you corner him.

shhh gentle gentle.....woooh you are so rough. Lol

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Ackkkk...sorry OP, my Sag moon talks for me sometimes lol. You really do deserve better though. That's what I'm saying. :-/

Posted by Nouran20
Angeleyes thank u sooo much..yes i do keep myself busy im an active taurus i dont like to settle Im always doing something but sometimes that moment wen ur alone in bed just thinking i go thru his messages and feel all emotional again..its worse feeling ever and i feel life is unfair to me cuz he gets to enjoy every day of his life hapily while i have to have a bad moment at least everyday thinking about him

god b with all girls out there going thru this it is really hard

Sadly im a very picky girl i dont fall for anyone..he was my 1st love. I was his 1st too. 3 guys asked me for a relationship after him but i refused cuz i thot they r not good enaff..not cuz of him

TRUST ME if i found the right guy i would move on nd forget him..i wish!

Glad you are that way. I understand.. its those alone time you have.. the mind wonders.. its happens, you were with him for a long time its understandable, and extremtly difficult for you to move forward into another relationship. But you should start dating at least. your stopping urself because u dont want to be hurt? or stopping yourself thinking he will one day see sense and come back to you?

Personally i dont think she is ready to date if she is still hurting... thats like putting a band-aid on a gun shot wound. You know you are ready to date when all the hurt and obsessive thoughts about what went wrong are gone. If you start dating before time then your unresolved issues with him will resurface fueled by the rebound relationship or its end. Im no expert just talking from experience thats all. And dating or being in a relationship is not all there is to life and i think its important that she knows that. Take a break and figure things out 1st... theres plenty of time for romance should you feel ready to start dating again.

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Posted by Nouran20
hes born on 16th feb 1989
does that help?

My birthday is Feb 16...

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so r u like him ?

Posted by WaterCup
Listen, I dont know all about that blackberry stuff, but then maybe its time to have him removed if you gonna see every single update of his. Whats the point of trying to move on if you get blow by blow sneak views on his life? You dont want that. Memories and other stuff are enough, dont you think? Again at your own pace. With time you'll be just fabulous without him. All this pain is for now and it will end, promise. Believe me been there and now im here, see? Congratulations on surviving your 1st heartache, usually many will follow, but you'll be stronger because of the lessons learned from the previous ones. Its not the end of the world, ok.

Oh No he doesnt change his status much and hes very secretive about his life/business/family stuff and he never writes anything on his status apart from silly things like buying a new dog or something. However i do see where u coming at..that its better to stop seeing anythin or reading anything related to him so i forget him..I dunno thats going to b very hard..but i can hold myself from not messaging him at all..but i guess soon very soon i will delete him

I hope i get over him soon and if ever contacts me i will b normal, cold and end our conversation soon.

Posted by WaterCup
Personally i dont think she is ready to date if she is still hurting... thats like putting a band-aid on a gun shot wound. You know you are ready to date when all the hurt and obsessive thoughts about what went wrong are gone. If you start dating before time then your unresolved issues with him will resurface fueled by the rebound relationship or its end. Im no expert just talking from experience thats all. And dating or being in a relationship is not all there is to life and i think its important that she knows that. Take a break and figure things out 1st... theres plenty of time for romance should you feel ready to start dating again.

No im not starting a relationship with anyone at the moment cuz simply i cant find the right guy. In fact the guy who wanted a real serious relation with me was an aqua born on 29th jan..I tried to give him a chance but he was immature and silly so i didnt even bother starting a relationship nor friendship with him.
I just cant find someone to get along with like i used to get along with my ex aqua guy. Not cuz i think hes the best but cuz i really met a lot of guys but didnt like any. 😢
I wish i find someone better

Posted by Nouran20
I hope i get over him soon and if ever contacts me i will b normal, cold and end our conversation soon.

Hugs that would be for the best at this point in your life. Its hard to let go while mourning the loss if you still have contact.

Posted by Nouran20
I hope i get over him soon and if ever contacts me i will b normal, cold and end our conversation soon.

No no. You block him. You ignore him completely. None of this "act cold" nonsense. Because once you allow him to get the ball rolling again, you *will* get hooked again.

Google: oxytocin

well i was planning to tell him this b4 deleting him
"I dont think u deserve me neither as ur girl nor as ur friend. Its time for me to take a new step to my life and thats by thinking more of myself and less of u..in fact thinking ONLY of myself and NONE of u..Im not ur friend im not anything to u really..i didnt take this decision u took it. I respect it. So goodbye and fair well"

Then ill delete him

or maybe I should just delete him and cut off any roots between eachother without uttering a word?

Posted by Nouran20
well i was planning to tell him this b4 deleting him
"I dont think u deserve me neither as ur girl nor as ur friend. Its time for me to take a new step to my life and thats by thinking more of myself and less of u..in fact thinking ONLY of myself and NONE of u..Im not ur friend im not anything to u really..i didnt take this decision u took it. I respect it. So goodbye and fair well"

Then ill delete him

or maybe I should just delete him and cut off any roots between eachother without uttering a word?

I looked up oxytocin, the "love hormone"
what can i say really..its a huge deal..

WHAT MAKES ME SOOO MAD

Is how he gets me so confuseddddddddd..he told me recently..few weeks bk that he still kept his Bank account password as "nouran1" so i said y didnt u change it? he said i could easily change it but i chose to just keep it

what the helllllll??!!!!
One minute hes saying its over and the next thing he says something like that which indicates hes holding on to something that reminds him of me

arghhhhhhhh hate him!

Venting is good. May I suggest you write the most hideous things you think about him, think of all the really bad things!

One year is nothing compared to the time you guys spent together. Every place you go, your room, your house, the places you goto, those time of year, a single song, a single action EVERYTHING can be tainted with a memory of him and all this can consume you into and you fall into negativity.

Can't say I don't know what you feel like. It's been many many years since I was 15 myself and there are times where I still think about the times I had together with what I consider my first love. There might be no end in sight for you yet but trust in that time heals.

I can't give you solid advice because during that brief moment in time I hit the lowest points of my life but know that the wonder of it is that you can only choose to move forward from there.

I blocked all contact, chose new routines, tried new things and made new friends whatever it is that you have to do just do it for yourself which is what I emphasised before what you should do. When acceptance doesn't work you'll be stuck in denial. What makes it worse is you'll keep thinking you are still in their heart when in reality they actually do care about you but that feeling isn't the same as yours.

*pats* I implore you to see the truth: you are doing this to yourself, once you see this you can move forward.

Posted by aquasnoz
Venting is good. May I suggest you write the most hideous things you think about him, think of all the really bad things!

One year is nothing compared to the time you guys spent together. Every place you go, your room, your house, the places you goto, those time of year, a single song, a single action EVERYTHING can be tainted with a memory of him and all this can consume you into and you fall into negativity.

Can't say I don't know what you feel like. It's been many many years since I was 15 myself and there are times where I still think about the times I had together with what I consider my first love. There might be no end in sight for you yet but trust in that time heals.

I can't give you solid advice because during that brief moment in time I hit the lowest points of my life but know that the wonder of it is that you can only choose to move forward from there.

I blocked all contact, chose new routines, tried new things and made new friends whatever it is that you have to do just do it for yourself which is what I emphasised before what you should do. When acceptance doesn't work you'll be stuck in denial. What makes it worse is you'll keep thinking you are still in their heart when in reality they actually do care about you but that feeling isn't the same as yours.

*pats* I implore you to see the truth: you are doing this to yourself, once you see this you can move forward.

Do u want me to write all the bad things here?? Or did u mean as a reference to myself?

you can write it here if you want, everything you dislike about him. Or you can write it in a journal or go out and tell a friend, focus on the bad things!

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by Nouran20

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Posted by Nouran20
hes born on 16th feb 1989
does that help?

My birthday is Feb 16...

so r u like him ?

I'm not sure. I can be like that though. If you were with him and he made you feel bad over and over though and didn't change or feel bad then that's a problem right there. To me it sounds like he thought he had you and kinda took you for granted. I'm sorry. 😢
If I were you I would do whatever I had to do to forget about him...for now until you can get control of your emotions and are able to face him / contact him without any hiccups. It sounds like he has already moved on since it's been an year and he is with someone else (regardless of what he says about her he's still with her) and has distanced himself emotionally from you. These facts, if him and I do have something in common, would mean to me that I am gone. I could always be your friend but nothing more again.

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right now ur scarying me a little.
listen i was never attracted to him. He chased me till i liked him. He was the one that made the 1st moves always like saying he loves me sayin he wants marriage and all..wanting to send me an engagements ring (which i have refused cuz i wanted to take it slow plus i was too young)
Now im in so deep love with him. I dont wana tie him i dont wana make him feel trapped. I just want us to b happy loyal and free.
Wat u mean "nothing more again" as in u will never love someone u wer in love with b4? y not?? cuz they r used up maybe? or maybe boring for u cuz u already know everythin about them? time to find someone new?

No he made feel bad towards our last year of our relationship and he would feel really bad and say he didnt mean it then we make up but again he would do something silly again like not reply to me all day just cuz hes with his mates having shisha or driving around town.
Y does he ask me to put him 1st wen he doesnt. on the other hand, He used to get really mad at me if i ignore him and v jealous if i talked to any guy.
I used to wait for him for hours cuz he would say wait we will talk a little b4 we sleep. eventually he doesnt t

there are quite a few famous people under february 16, OP



Elizabeth Olsen, feb 16, younger sister of the Olsen Twins (both geminis)

Im wondering did you use to treat him sorta the way he is treating you now?

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Im wondering did you use to treat him sorta the way he is treating you now?

No but I have decreased my conversations with him. I try 2 end it 1st. Things go smooth. But overall I treat him nice

OMGGG
Yestrday I asked him hw much he payed 4 my bday stuff so I can c if I owe him any money or somthn. Or so I took it as a way to open up the whole topic about wether he thinks of me as a frnd or jus some kinda stranger 2 him.

"He said I dnt know maybe we r frndz wat else cud b dunno"
I told him
"I don't think u treat me like a frnd. I tried 2 b ur frnd like u want to. But truely maybe u just think of me more of a girl u don't wana know that much or someone u met once on streets nd u never speak or meet again.
If u want me to cut off contact with u completely I will do it cuz dnt want u thinkin dat I'm chasin u or dat I'm invading ur life"

I went on a little about hw I jus wana deal with situation in a positive mature way don't wana b somethn annoying 2 him

He never replied!!!!!!!!!
I told him am I really dat worthless u dnt even reply anymore..


Now I jus woke up I told him
I asked him r u intentionally ignoring me or wer u v busy u couldn't reply?

Did I do anything rong aquarians here——

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by lisabethur8
there are quite a few famous people under february 16, OP



Elizabeth Olsen, feb 16, younger sister of the Olsen Twins (both geminis)

Hell YEAHHHH!!!! 🙂

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I need 2 understand more of ppl born on dis day's mentality nd since ur born on 16th feb den u shud explain y u wouldn't get bk with som1 u loved b4?
If u do wat would u wanaa c in dem again?
Or y wud u even stop loving someone u we're with for yearsssssss jus all of a sudden? Would 1 fight change all ur emotions?
Or is my ex guy jus stupid?

He used to tell me wen we broke up dat he doesn't kno y he did dis. He says he's fed up frm dis love thing. And he tells me I treated him so well I'm so respectful nf loyal nd dat he's jus f***** in da head. But he jus feels its better 4 both of us to split.
Y don't u ppl under dis signs/ day jus work it out with da person ur with??
Only if he treated me bit better nd discussed with me some of our problems I could have resolved everythin. I could have changed 4 his comfort. I really wana make him happy. I dnt wana make u aquas to escape me!!!!

Posted by Nouran20
OMGGG
Yestrday I asked him hw much he payed 4 my bday stuff so I can c if I owe him any money or somthn. Or so I took it as a way to open up the whole topic about wether he thinks of me as a frnd or jus some kinda stranger 2 him.

"He said I dnt know maybe we r frndz wat else cud b dunno"
I told him
"I don't think u treat me like a frnd. I tried 2 b ur frnd like u want to. But truely maybe u just think of me more of a girl u don't wana know that much or someone u met once on streets nd u never speak or meet again.
If u want me to cut off contact with u completely I will do it cuz dnt want u thinkin dat I'm chasin u or dat I'm invading ur life"

I went on a little about hw I jus wana deal with situation in a positive mature way don't wana b somethn annoying 2 him

He never replied!!!!!!!!!
I told him am I really dat worthless u dnt even reply anymore..


Now I jus woke up I told him
I asked him r u intentionally ignoring me or wer u v busy u couldn't reply?

Did I do anything rong aquarians here——

I'm not an Aqua sun; just a Rising Aqua....but I have common sense.

Yes, you did something wrong...you contacted him.

You need to AMPUTATE this guy from your life...completely, permanently, and in one fell swoop.

...That is, if you respect yourself.

Like steponscorpionsCRUNCH mentioned, You contacted him... wrong move..Yeh from a lil experience and the knowledge i know, Aqua males don't like confrontation. and you've put him on the spot so he doesn't know how to respond. You need to have self confidence. Respect yourself. Show that your happy and better without him. When he sees that, he may contact you again. But the strongest thing to do its cut him out of your life. Its not going to be easy. But eventually in time you're going to feel soo much better x

you need to cut him off completely. He's going to drive you insane. Do you really want that? There's NO peace in yourself at all. You need peace. Not demons driving you crazy. Some men and/or women can do that, and some don't know they can achieve that, and some DO know (i guess those are the psychopaths) but those are extremes. (we watched the film, "SEVEN PSYCHOPATHS"...*smh* sigh that was the weirdest film ever.)

Ok this is the final update of everythin nd da END to everythin cuz I took this decision
He replied dis morning sayin I can't reply to u cuz I have a girl now. He said he wud rather have me on his list but he's not goin 2 talk cuz of his girl.
I told him I respect his new relationship nd that wen I tlk 2 him I never cross any limits I dnt c y he's linking everythin 2 his gf. He said I know u never intend 2 take me frm her cuz he says he knows I'm not dis kinda person. But I guess understand wat he means
I'm going to completely stop contacting him. No hi no bye no nothing AT ALL

Right nw I'm deleting all his old voice notes den ill delete all our old emails. As soon as I'm done with dat ill delete him nd block him on facebook..
I feel stronger now cuz I know I gota take a better road nw.
For 1st time I ever feel dat I don't need him anymore cuz he don't deserve my care nor love I'd rather give it to someone dat loves me.

I'm gona travel also 4 a change

BYE OLD AQUARIUS. Its ur loss babe

good girl! this deserves chocolate!!!!

Posted by Nouran20
Ok this is the final update of everythin nd da END to everythin cuz I took this decision
He replied dis morning sayin I can't reply to u cuz I have a girl now. He said he wud rather have me on his list but he's not goin 2 talk cuz of his girl.
I told him I respect his new relationship nd that wen I tlk 2 him I never cross any limits I dnt c y he's linking everythin 2 his gf. He said I know u never intend 2 take me frm her cuz he says he knows I'm not dis kinda person. But I guess understand wat he means
I'm going to completely stop contacting him. No hi no bye no nothing AT ALL

Right nw I'm deleting all his old voice notes den ill delete all our old emails. As soon as I'm done with dat ill delete him nd block him on facebook..
I feel stronger now cuz I know I gota take a better road nw.
For 1st time I ever feel dat I don't need him anymore cuz he don't deserve my care nor love I'd rather give it to someone dat loves me.

I'm gona travel also 4 a change

BYE OLD AQUARIUS. Its ur loss babe

I'm really proud of you girl!! well done!! thats exactly the right thing you have done now by cutting him off completely. hes moved on, got a new gf let him be.. now focus on yourself only you!! And if in the future he does randomly contact you, ignore it.. dont even bother replying.. you dont want to get back into that.. I hope all the best for you.. keep us all posted xx 😉

Thank u all so much 4 taking me out of my sadness and makin it all clear
Astrology does help. Also focusing on prayers. I'm not dat religious but da 10 mins I spent really praying nd crying 4 god I felt sooo much better so much stronger. God b with all of us nd bless our souls nd take away our sadness

Thank u so much again 4 da good advises. U will c me posting more n more much happier posts soon

Ill b der 4 others who need any advise about anything
I'm here to help too

😄

No more negativity no more silly men

Posted by lisabethur8
good girl! this deserves chocolate!!!!

Hahaha u made me smile
Thank u sooooo much 4 da chocolate

Keep smiling everyone. It is really not worth it..I guess love comes nd goes. It'll settle soon some day. God know whens