Lady M...I COULDN'T DO IT!!!!

Not for her, for me. I'm not about to lose something we've been working for all this time. I left outta here pretty determined that the end needed to come, but when I looked in her eyes, I knew that I would be lying to myself if I said "I don't want to be with you"

I want to make things work, so sat down and talked to her. I told her that I'm going to be away from her for a time, and if you don't change your attitude towards me, then I'm not the man you want. Of course she assumed that I was gonna use this time alone to be with some other chic, but I used my mind instead of my uprising anger to settle the situation calmly and effectively. Now she has no choice but to choose...she needs to know what she wants cuz I value my time, I could be spending it with someone more special.

Somehow, I escaped without injury lol!

It's only been 2 days and I feel like an anvil just lifted off my back. I used to go to work with her on my mind, picturing her getting angry about SOMETHING her friends tell her, but now I go to work thinking about my own problems...what do you think about that? Crazy huh?

Hmmm...so, you were unable to take responsibility for yourself expressing how you REALLY feel - to make it easy on you.......you had her choose. Cool. I suspect that perhaps you may have been afraid of her reaction if you had told her the truth "I value my time, I could be spending it with someone more special."

"Somehow, I escaped without injury lol!

*chicken*

Im proud of you....

I understand you truly like her. All you need is to communicate (civilly) and both come to an understanding of each owns feelings. Hopefully you two can overcome this issue and work it out. The ball is in her court I guess...

No, I knew what I wanted...my resolve changed when I seen her. I would be lying to her if I said if I didn't want her, but I can't be with someone who allows others to control our relationship, so I put the dagger in her hands. She doesn't listen to reason, and she doesn't want to take action...so I put two and two togeather to come up with this solution as I spoke with her.

Freebird: "*chicken*"

Heh, honestly there's nothing more scarier then a raging woman...believe me! I'm still alive, so at LEAST give me some credit for that.

Why would you want to be with a "raging" woman?

So many people are so afraid to speak their truth....what's up with that?

btw....raging women are very funny to observe - you could have sold tickets to the show 😉