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“I’m a rational Pisces” click to expand
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Posted by tino
He broke up.
He sent me the message via text, and our lives are not exactly collided in order for me to appear around and show him any improvements or 'new beginning' as all the astrology sites are saying. Basically, if we break up and there is no intertwining, we won't be seeing each other and appearing in each other's life anymore.
He went out with a woman last night, and he said it was nothing romantically involved. For many previous times, he didn't exactly show his trustworthiness, I - a Pisces - couldn't give him any credit and asked him 2, 3 times about the event. He didn't want to explain so he shut down completely and became angry with me. He ignored, and actively told me to go home. Then, when I drove home, he texted a break-up message. We have been dating for 2 months, and last week he was so in love with me. Lots of texting, talking, everything he initiated. He asked me if I was okay, he advised me with my job issues, and he cared for me. I too, cared for him and rarely made him angry before. But after this one incident, he broke up just like that. He said we were not great for each other regarding to romantic relationship, he appreciated things I've done for him and he welcomes me to visit him but as a friend only.
His angry is not like shouting and verbally insulting, only silence and actions. So now, just this one incident, he wanted to break up. I still hung the break-up text don't know what to answer in order to get him back.
@Brittnie fyi, thank you for everything you have advised me. but I guess this is the end, I can't think anything to respond to him and get him back properly. This is a quote in his break-up text:
"We need to stop being like this. Your behavior doesn't fit with me, and I extremely hate that kind of behavior. Even though you were always nice with me, but I don't think romantic relationship fits you and me. Don't try to push me answering what I don't like, I basically didn't do anything wrong to explain myself. I still like you, and welcome you visit my place, but not as my lover. Everything you have sacrificed for me, I know, I'm sorry if I can't do anything more for you. You're smart, you can handle everything."
Posted by tino
I really like and appreciate your advice, @GemFallOut. Unlike others, you realize how one-sided my stories are and instead, you go for our compability and I'm really enlightened by that. I can feel it, he can feel it, that somehow our miscommunication happened. As a Pisces, I think too much, sometimes my thoughts are too toxicate and in order not to jeopardize this rship with him, I may respectfully take a while before saying it to him. He always spots it and wants me to be blunt, but it's a dilemma you see, I was just trying to protect him cause I did not want to hurt anyone and accidentally our miscommunication was there.
Besides from that, we have so much fun and always exchange ideas, knowledge and stuffs. Normal days, we would not stumble on miscommunication, just when some new schedules came up and I needed time to adjust but that was it, no nagging no questioning. As I wrote, this time was specific cause he hadn't been clear at first about his friend's identity so I was caught up with my workplace and his hanging out. So maybe he thought I wasn't understand him, so his first idea of dealing with anger was to break things off?
As you predicted, he texted back this morning to ask me if my work was okay since the day before I had told him about my workplace. And I don't know how to say this, but I can feel his care, is that weird? And I know he probably is over with his anger, but why cares now why contacts back? He has a lot of watery signs in his natal chart - Pisces kind (that's why somehow we're connected) - so I know deep inside he's feeling something. But I still don't understand this care, what's his end game, what's he trying to do..maybe I need to give time on this matter. But I'm happy he's not angry anymore, and secretly hope we can overcome and get back and work on ourselves more the miscommunication thing.
Posted by nikkistar