This is a situation I have come to know very well (unfortunately), there is something about Libra women which can be very dangerous for Aries men. Libra stands for justice but can be misleading with what they say because they do not want to let anyone down, they want to keep everyone happy. If you make it difficult to keep everyone happy, including your happiness, then they will walk away from you. Unfortunately Aries are very positive people, and they look for reasons why something can work, they are optimistic and when the Libra is talking they focus in on key words which indicate it’s going to work out and going to be great, this is an Aries quality. Libra will not tell anyone “no” that directly, when they talk they will let people down but usually with a compliment or two to lessen the blow, and make the other person not feel so bad. Really think about what she has said to you recently, every word, and has she being balancing good with bad words (have you only listening to the good words, she might not have lied). The other thing which happens is that Libra is in love with the idea of being in love, they are very charming and romance is really there’s to control, it’s their gift specific to Libras. Aries are passionate and like to rush in, they want to give themselves to love, they like the challenge which Libras offer. And once you realise that this relationship with the Libra is the best you will ever have, and so different and charming to anything else before, you want it more and more. Both Aries and Libras are commitment-phobes, but Libra it’s more like they want to find the “best” guy for them, and they have attention from a lot of guys (which by the way you are not allowed to be bothered by). They too like a challenge, do not show they have you easily, that you are sad and can be controlled so easily.
Getting her back is very very difficult, especially for an Aries, and I’ll be upfront with you, it’s almost impossible. You need to focus more on finding yourself again, rather than trying to get her back. You will not get her back by pointing out she lied, making her feel bad or wrong, or telling her you miss her. They are masters of the relationship and they will not see anything wrong with what they’ve done, from their point of view they’ve tried so hard to keep it balanced, that if you don’t understand that, then they really don’t have the energy for it anymore, and they will never return. Aries and Libra is a good match, you have to be strong and “manly”, I would say be a man and let her go. It’s not good or easy advice to take. But it’s the only advice. You have to be strong yourself, get to the gym, see your friends, and know that this has happened because of any number of reasons, it will not be because you said the wrong things or anything like that. You couldn’t have done anything differently or better, stuff just happens.
Now I think Libras test people, especially guys, and she may not have been sure about breaking up, but you are failing at the moment, whatever the test is, I think mimicking her behaviour is the way forward, going out chatting to people. Your strength as an Aries is “masculine energy”, I would suggest googling it, if the Aries/Libra relationship is so good, it is because of your “masculine energy”. You need to be the rock, positive about the future and confident, you need to show her that you think the future is going to be great with or without her, that you are motivated no matter what she does. If she can see she cannot upset you then she wont be worried about being with you, Libras worry about upsetting people. Show her you have respect for yourself. You must not think about whether she will come back or not, you must respect her wishes. I know it’s hard, but do not be emotional, it’s when mistakes are made.
If someone is lying to you in a relationship, it destroys trust. The foundation of trust cannot be built. Also, she was talking to an ex, someone who she was intimate with before. Exes are exes for a reason and they should be kept where they belong... In the past. I wouldn't accept it if someone who I am in a relationship with is talking to an ex.
I wouldn't hold out hope that since you quit talking to her, it's going to give the results that you want. Move on. Start dating other people.
Well I do know why she broke up,she gave me like tons of reasons which i felt irrelevant because it were just plain lies.I was bloody honest with her with everything, she was always lying about not talking to her ex, but i caught her and she used to just run away from the topic, we were together for like six months. I really do not know what's in her mind, though I miss her alot and god knows what she misses about me. Even though after so much frustration I feel like getting her back, I did try many things but no positive response from her end.As people say libra woman are kind I'll say it's just plain bs,this woman is too harsh with words and never admits her faults at any place. For now literally stopped talking to her will it make her realize some butter at least? Any chance she will try to come in good terms with me again by admitting her faults,will she come back? well deep inside i really feel sad and lonely as treetrunk, but this woman is happily chatting and roaming around.