I'm an aries man. and yes we are players, until a gemini comes along and knocks our socks off! then, we will give our life to them!
you girls hit it on the head. we love fun...til we die. I won't stop cracking a joke or seeking that laugh. but at the same time it's cus we wanna be blown away, wanna see if someone can keep up...match our wit AND sensitivity! and put up with our extreme goofiness! before then, it's PLAY time. Oh, and did I forget to mention we're honest?
They do flirt a lot...but I don't think they are players..One guy at work has been with his girlfriend for 10 years..I have no idea what sign she is...but they are childhood sweethearts..still going strong..but that doesn't stop him looking or chatting up a nice bit of skirt...well he is very good looking and most of the girls just throw themselves at him...
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43 years old male from IL, USA
why is it shameful missmorals??? if you got it use it, lol and i doubt he cheats on his gf...if they are 10 years together that means he is committed and will die before he cheats... at least thats how i was when was with my sagitt for 5 years , i did flirt a lot and come to think of it did land few kisses that were just to friendly ( quick peckers lip to lip, lol) but that was it
but now that im single im working many angles....does it make me a player? hmm i dont know... i think of it like I dont care anymore.....really like prcsen said until gemini comes along and knock our socks off! that happened to me ....but it didnt go anywhere so now im like dont give a b*tter ....im going to a party tonight and i know im going to get into awkard situation with this newly sagitt girl that i always like, ....i dont give a butter...and tomorrow i might hook up with this scorpio girl while keeping a cancer at bay because she shut me down few months back...... i dont care if that makes me a player....i wanted to be a good guy , find THE girl and just be happy but every time i do it blows up in my face and i watch my friends g/f and wives and every time i talk to them all i need to do is push a little and i could have them, so girls this days are worse than guys..... so who is the player here? a single guy or married chicks who strive for your attention?
Gemini_fox: "Strange,huh? to me jealousy is a very dangerous emotion,but to him,it's a sign of love & perfectly normal!!!"
I would have to agree with him there..Jealousy is a sign of love and perfectly normal..what is sooo wrong with wanting that person all to yourself? Nothing as far as I can see..and it shows you care..if a man/woman didn't give a flying treetrunk where you were or what you were doing..that in my world is not caring!
and Gemini's do get jealous..at least the ones I've encountered...The girls in particular, if they aren't centre of attention and being desired by the majority they don't like it...Maybe thats what they have in common with Aries.
If they aren't getting enough attention from that one person, they'll happily go look for another sucker...I don't know how much of a good quality that is in a human being..but to each their own..
"and Gemini's do get jealous..at least the ones I've encountered...The girls in particular, if they aren't centre of attention and being desired by the majority they don't like it..."
I've found this to be true with the Gems I know also .. in fact, they would probably hold the prize for being the most jealous. And from where I observe the basis of this jealousy, it comes from being envious. They envy, covet .. this brings about the jealousy.
Aries, don't seem to be so much jealous as they are controlling. If a person submits power over to them, then jealousy seems to disappear within them .. so, maybe it's a jealousy they have, but, not over whether their partner is going to have another lover, rather moreso, they are jealous if they aren't ruling the roost.
It appears to me that my Aries people get more jealous over a person being the Head of anything, the Boss .. they want that position. I know when my DIL gets jealous over my son (her husband) .. it's not so much that he finds another woman attractive, as much as he follows her rules of, "Your not allowed to look". And I've even heard her say similiar things .. she's angry because he disobeyed her, rather than this anger being because he might have a desire for another.