I personally would be done. I would also ghost you and never give you a chance to explain yourself. Block you on all platoforms. Make you suffer. If I see you in the street I will literally walk past you as if I don’t know you.
I took him back but I haven’t been able to forgive or forget. I’m not sure if I can.
It’s been several years. It started with me being immature and not ready for a relationship. I treated him badly and after a few years of trying to make it work, he cheated on me. He swears nothing physical and all I’ve found were messages. I even reached out to a girl he pursued and she said nothing happened between them. I felt like it was my fault I pushed him away. I was verbally and emotionally abusive.
I’ve tried and I’ve gotten better at not bringing up the past a few weeks at a time. But then it always comes up again in one way or another and we will fight about it. The arguments are so bad; very emotionally and physically draining and I always end up regretting that I started them. It is always me bringing up the past and he is tired of defending himself all the time.
It still hurts. I truly love him but a part of me refuses to let the past go and it’s so hard to let him go too. Still don’t know what I’m doing.
It depends on the situation and if she does, you have to be able to convince her it will never happen again. Yes, some will forgive. If she's still angry it's ok. If she's cold towards you, it might be too late.
Posted by UnicornSag Not an Aries Sun but do have Aries Moon. I did forgive actually,multiple times. And it brought me nothing good. Forgive but for your own inner piece and move away from what hurt you.
Yes Forgiveness Can move mountains.
The older I get the more I see the power in forgiveness.