They always come back... Didn't expect him to back back though - Aries Man
By LibraJackson — October 17, 2019 4:00pm — 32 replies
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Hello Peeps,
I'm back but this time it's a bit tricky. After going on a number of dates, I decided to take a break to work on my own happiness.
It was my birthday a week ago so I thought it was the perfect timing you know, new age, new approach.
Believe it or not, I joined this site because of this Aries guy, used to post so many topics about him 2 - 3 years ago.
To make a long story short. We went on a date 3 years ago, we knew from the beginning that he will move to America to study/work for a year (this was planned before he met me) At the time it wasn't an issue, we both enjoyed our dates but then.. he had like 8 months before he moved away. Things got serious. I booked my flight and went to see him.
But it was unfair to both of us to have a long-distance relationship so we stopped seeing each other. Now and then we would comment on each other's Social Media posts. I don't know why he does it. I know why I replied. I still care about him.
After he finished his study he moved back to Ireland. We met up for coffee, ended up kissing each other. He said he misses me, still attracted to me, never experienced anything like this but also knows we're at different stages in our lives he also told me he was going to be living in South America this year so we're not going to be living in the same country AGAIN. I understood what he meant. I get it!
Anyway another year gone by. We kept in touch, the same method. Casual catch up conversations now and then. He's coming home for the month this December. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with him this December when he's home for the month.
I jokingly said I might be married by then and he said.. don't get married and that we should make this an annual thing!
WELL.. of course, I said yes. I care about him. I guess, I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced something similar to this?
What is it with this Arie guy? Obviously he knows I care about him. Will it ever be more? I don't know..
I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
just a couple of weeks ago I posted in one of your topics about your turbulent dating life, that I am happy you finally forgot that Aries.... I remember very well when he left and how heartbroken you were...
I say, if you want a chance with another man, dont meet up with him
you still have feelings for him and you are not going to find anyone again when he leaves again
just remember how awful your visit to new york was, and how awful you felt some time later you drunkely flirted with him....
I dont know, I am afraid it will end with a heartbreak again....
he asked you to date him = does this mean to sleep together while he is at home? before he leaves again?
Ohhhh myyy lord, reading this makes me feel like you were right there with me.
I think I will need to talk to him, you're right, It's so tricky because I cared about him so much.
I fear it's just sex but sex is goooood with him but you're SOOOOOO right, my heart. I need be careful with it.click to expand
Libras in my observation cant resists Aries.... and that is the main point..... if you are emotionally available now, meet up with him, sleep with him and then who knows
but I advise you: go back to your posts, the ones before he left to New york and feel what you felt
(my mother is a Libra, my father is an Aries, they are still together, but both were cheating left and right during their entire marriage)
it can be different for you and him, of course
but..... dont be too mushyPosted by Pandora101
Posted by LibraJackson
Hello Peeps,
I'm back but this time it's a bit tricky. After going on a number of dates, I decided to take a break to work on my own happiness.
It was my birthday a week ago so I thought it was the perfect timing you know, new age, new approach.
Believe it or not, I joined this site because of this Aries guy, used to post so many topics about him 2 - 3 years ago.
To make a long story short. We went on a date 3 years ago, we knew from the beginning that he will move to America to study/work for a year (this was planned before he met me) At the time it wasn't an issue, we both enjoyed our dates but then.. he had like 8 months before he moved away. Things got serious. I booked my flight and went to see him.
But it was unfair to both of us to have a long-distance relationship so we stopped seeing each other. Now and then we would comment on each other's Social Media posts. I don't know why he does it. I know why I replied. I still care about him.
After he finished his study he moved back to Ireland. We met up for coffee, ended up kissing each other. He said he misses me, still attracted to me, never experienced anything like this but also knows we're at different stages in our lives he also told me he was going to be living in South America this year so we're not going to be living in the same country AGAIN. I understood what he meant. I get it!
Anyway another year gone by. We kept in touch, the same method. Casual catch up conversations now and then. He's coming home for the month this December. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with him this December when he's home for the month.
I jokingly said I might be married by then and he said.. don't get married and that we should make this an annual thing!
WELL.. of course, I said yes. I care about him. I guess, I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced something similar to this?
What is it with this Arie guy? Obviously he knows I care about him. Will it ever be more? I don't know..
I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
just a couple of weeks ago I posted in one of your topics about your turbulent dating life, that I am happy you finally forgot that Aries.... I remember very well when he left and how heartbroken you were...
I say, if you want a chance with another man, dont meet up with him
you still have feelings for him and you are not going to find anyone again when he leaves again
just remember how awful your visit to new york was, and how awful you felt some time later you drunkely flirted with him....
I dont know, I am afraid it will end with a heartbreak again....
he asked you to date him = does this mean to sleep together while he is at home? before he leaves again?click to expand
Ohhhh myyy lord, reading this makes me feel like you were right there with me.
I think I will need to talk to him, you're right, It's so tricky because I cared about him so much.
I fear it's just sex but sex is goooood with him but you're SOOOOOO right, my heart. I need be careful with it.Posted by Pandora101
Posted by LibraJackson
Hello Peeps,
I'm back but this time it's a bit tricky. After going on a number of dates, I decided to take a break to work on my own happiness.
It was my birthday a week ago so I thought it was the perfect timing you know, new age, new approach.
Believe it or not, I joined this site because of this Aries guy, used to post so many topics about him 2 - 3 years ago.
To make a long story short. We went on a date 3 years ago, we knew from the beginning that he will move to America to study/work for a year (this was planned before he met me) At the time it wasn't an issue, we both enjoyed our dates but then.. he had like 8 months before he moved away. Things got serious. I booked my flight and went to see him.
But it was unfair to both of us to have a long-distance relationship so we stopped seeing each other. Now and then we would comment on each other's Social Media posts. I don't know why he does it. I know why I replied. I still care about him.
After he finished his study he moved back to Ireland. We met up for coffee, ended up kissing each other. He said he misses me, still attracted to me, never experienced anything like this but also knows we're at different stages in our lives he also told me he was going to be living in South America this year so we're not going to be living in the same country AGAIN. I understood what he meant. I get it!
Anyway another year gone by. We kept in touch, the same method. Casual catch up conversations now and then. He's coming home for the month this December. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with him this December when he's home for the month.
I jokingly said I might be married by then and he said.. don't get married and that we should make this an annual thing!
WELL.. of course, I said yes. I care about him. I guess, I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced something similar to this?
What is it with this Arie guy? Obviously he knows I care about him. Will it ever be more? I don't know..
I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
just a couple of weeks ago I posted in one of your topics about your turbulent dating life, that I am happy you finally forgot that Aries.... I remember very well when he left and how heartbroken you were...
I say, if you want a chance with another man, dont meet up with him
you still have feelings for him and you are not going to find anyone again when he leaves again
just remember how awful your visit to new york was, and how awful you felt some time later you drunkely flirted with him....
I dont know, I am afraid it will end with a heartbreak again....
he asked you to date him = does this mean to sleep together while he is at home? before he leaves again?click to expand
Ohhhh myyy lord, reading this makes me feel like you were right there with me.
I think I will need to talk to him, you're right, It's so tricky because I cared about him so much.
I fear it's just sex but sex is goooood with him but you're SOOOOOO right, my heart. I need be careful with it.Posted by Pandora101
Posted by LibraJackson
Hello Peeps,
I'm back but this time it's a bit tricky. After going on a number of dates, I decided to take a break to work on my own happiness.
It was my birthday a week ago so I thought it was the perfect timing you know, new age, new approach.
Believe it or not, I joined this site because of this Aries guy, used to post so many topics about him 2 - 3 years ago.
To make a long story short. We went on a date 3 years ago, we knew from the beginning that he will move to America to study/work for a year (this was planned before he met me) At the time it wasn't an issue, we both enjoyed our dates but then.. he had like 8 months before he moved away. Things got serious. I booked my flight and went to see him.
But it was unfair to both of us to have a long-distance relationship so we stopped seeing each other. Now and then we would comment on each other's Social Media posts. I don't know why he does it. I know why I replied. I still care about him.
After he finished his study he moved back to Ireland. We met up for coffee, ended up kissing each other. He said he misses me, still attracted to me, never experienced anything like this but also knows we're at different stages in our lives he also told me he was going to be living in South America this year so we're not going to be living in the same country AGAIN. I understood what he meant. I get it!
Anyway another year gone by. We kept in touch, the same method. Casual catch up conversations now and then. He's coming home for the month this December. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with him this December when he's home for the month.
I jokingly said I might be married by then and he said.. don't get married and that we should make this an annual thing!
WELL.. of course, I said yes. I care about him. I guess, I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced something similar to this?
What is it with this Arie guy? Obviously he knows I care about him. Will it ever be more? I don't know..
I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
just a couple of weeks ago I posted in one of your topics about your turbulent dating life, that I am happy you finally forgot that Aries.... I remember very well when he left and how heartbroken you were...
I say, if you want a chance with another man, dont meet up with him
you still have feelings for him and you are not going to find anyone again when he leaves again
just remember how awful your visit to new york was, and how awful you felt some time later you drunkely flirted with him....
I dont know, I am afraid it will end with a heartbreak again....
he asked you to date him = does this mean to sleep together while he is at home? before he leaves again?click to expand
Ohhhh myyy lord, reading this makes me feel like you were right there with me.
I think I will need to talk to him, you're right, It's so tricky because I cared about him so much.
I fear it's just sex but sex is goooood with him but you're SOOOOOO right, my heart. I need be careful with it.Posted by LibraJackson
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just make sure it's not only physical, those damn Aries can simply be manipulative just to get what they want.
I do feel like I'm being played but at the same time, I'm wondering why he's still coming back to me. It's not I've pushed for anything you know.click to expand
I had an Aries sun/ Gemini moon ex who always came back, even when being engaged to someone else, i thought it was love but I turned out to be just a booty call, I'm not saying yours is the same, but read the signs carefully,Posted by Raakac
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Lol i think in like past 2 weeks i've seen you post about Cancer, Gemini and now Aries, talk about making up your mind
What’s wrong with woman having choices? 🤷♀️
She does, but sounds like she doesn't have her option considering she's always here posting about these things and asking what to do. Relationship is a thing where you're the one chosing your partner, not someone else, especially considering not a single person here really knows the full story and she's the only one .
Nobody tells whole story.
If her crush Aries had been away and out of touch for a months she was looking and daring others but now hey! He is might be back or not...
She can post and ask and nobody can stop her.
Dont you have something that people can scold you for? If not it means you have nothing going on in your life. Am I right?
What's scold? Well for now it's plenty going on, studdying, making my own gym equipment for my future gym, training for competition, helping small brother with studies and sports, came back from USA recently, will be traveling to Thailand in December . I'm always up 2 something.
If you’ve noticed...people here mostly talking about love life. I don’t think building gym equipment qualifies you as an expert in WOMEN heart issues.
Never said i was, but if you got topics on 3guys that you're interested in... in like 14days, doesn't sound like anything serious 2 me. Doesn't sound like heart issues, more like head issues.
Stay away from girls business!
I bet you aren’t even dating. And WHO are you anyway?
I'm dating, not anything serious tho, casual butter. Serious butter isn't for me atm, 2 curious, don't even want to start to think about settling down in one place with one person. I'm Dxp member Raakac.click to expand
So why are you...Raakas...budging into business you have no idea about? I don’t remember you. You aren’t regular are you? Please...just be quiet. Read but don’t post.
It’s called lurking.Posted by Raakac
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Lol i think in like past 2 weeks i've seen you post about Cancer, Gemini and now Aries, talk about making up your mind
What’s wrong with woman having choices? 🤷♀️
She does, but sounds like she doesn't have her option considering she's always here posting about these things and asking what to do. Relationship is a thing where you're the one chosing your partner, not someone else, especially considering not a single person here really knows the full story and she's the only one .
Nobody tells whole story.
If her crush Aries had been away and out of touch for a months she was looking and daring others but now hey! He is might be back or not...
She can post and ask and nobody can stop her.
Dont you have something that people can scold you for? If not it means you have nothing going on in your life. Am I right?
What's scold? Well for now it's plenty going on, studdying, making my own gym equipment for my future gym, training for competition, helping small brother with studies and sports, came back from USA recently, will be traveling to Thailand in December . I'm always up 2 something.
If you’ve noticed...people here mostly talking about love life. I don’t think building gym equipment qualifies you as an expert in WOMEN heart issues.
Never said i was, but if you got topics on 3guys that you're interested in... in like 14days, doesn't sound like anything serious 2 me. Doesn't sound like heart issues, more like head issues.click to expand
Stay away from girls business!
I bet you aren’t even dating. And WHO are you anyway?Posted by Raakac
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Raakac
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Raakac
Lol i think in like past 2 weeks i've seen you post about Cancer, Gemini and now Aries, talk about making up your mind
What’s wrong with woman having choices? 🤷♀️
She does, but sounds like she doesn't have her option considering she's always here posting about these things and asking what to do. Relationship is a thing where you're the one chosing your partner, not someone else, especially considering not a single person here really knows the full story and she's the only one .
Nobody tells whole story.
If her crush Aries had been away and out of touch for a months she was looking and daring others but now hey! He is might be back or not...
She can post and ask and nobody can stop her.
Dont you have something that people can scold you for? If not it means you have nothing going on in your life. Am I right?
What's scold? Well for now it's plenty going on, studdying, making my own gym equipment for my future gym, training for competition, helping small brother with studies and sports, came back from USA recently, will be traveling to Thailand in December . I'm always up 2 something.click to expand
If you’ve noticed...people here mostly talking about love life. I don’t think building gym equipment qualifies you as an expert in WOMEN heart issues.Posted by Raakac
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Raakac
Lol i think in like past 2 weeks i've seen you post about Cancer, Gemini and now Aries, talk about making up your mind
What’s wrong with woman having choices? 🤷♀️
She does, but sounds like she doesn't have her option considering she's always here posting about these things and asking what to do. Relationship is a thing where you're the one chosing your partner, not someone else, especially considering not a single person here really knows the full story and she's the only one .click to expand
Nobody tells whole story.
If her crush Aries had been away and out of touch for a months she was looking and daring others but now hey! He is might be back or not...
She can post and ask and nobody can stop her.
Dont you have something that people can scold you for? If not it means you have nothing going on in your life. Am I right?Posted by LibraJackson
Hello Peeps,
I'm back but this time it's a bit tricky. After going on a number of dates, I decided to take a break to work on my own happiness.
It was my birthday a week ago so I thought it was the perfect timing you know, new age, new approach.
Believe it or not, I joined this site because of this Aries guy, used to post so many topics about him 2 - 3 years ago.
To make a long story short. We went on a date 3 years ago, we knew from the beginning that he will move to America to study/work for a year (this was planned before he met me) At the time it wasn't an issue, we both enjoyed our dates but then.. he had like 8 months before he moved away. Things got serious. I booked my flight and went to see him.
But it was unfair to both of us to have a long-distance relationship so we stopped seeing each other. Now and then we would comment on each other's Social Media posts. I don't know why he does it. I know why I replied. I still care about him.
After he finished his study he moved back to Ireland. We met up for coffee, ended up kissing each other. He said he misses me, still attracted to me, never experienced anything like this but also knows we're at different stages in our lives he also told me he was going to be living in South America this year so we're not going to be living in the same country AGAIN. I understood what he meant. I get it!
Anyway another year gone by. We kept in touch, the same method. Casual catch up conversations now and then. He's coming home for the month this December. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with him this December when he's home for the month.
I jokingly said I might be married by then and he said.. don't get married and that we should make this an annual thing!
WELL.. of course, I said yes. I care about him. I guess, I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced something similar to this?
What is it with this Arie guy? Obviously he knows I care about him. Will it ever be more? I don't know..
I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
just a couple of weeks ago I posted in one of your topics about your turbulent dating life, that I am happy you finally forgot that Aries.... I remember very well when he left and how heartbroken you were...
I say, if you want a chance with another man, dont meet up with him
you still have feelings for him and you are not going to find anyone again when he leaves again
just remember how awful your visit to new york was, and how awful you felt some time later you drunkely flirted with him....
I dont know, I am afraid it will end with a heartbreak again....
he asked you to date him = does this mean to sleep together while he is at home? before he leaves again?Posted by Gemitati
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I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
yes you do match.
did he contact you this month? I wonder how many peps got they past surfacing during this retrograde shadow lmao.
Yeah he always texts first - mostly, rarely I would say anything to him first
Is it a good match, I know we match well I think we do but never sure because of the distance situations im in with him.
well, in that situation, that's basically my only problem, for me a Long distance relationships has only one purpose, to work towards moving together, anything else is a no-brainer, so if no one is willing to consider moving, there is no point even discussing this topic.
I'm willing to move with him but I don't think it's serious enough for either of us to bring it up and to even consider it?
Well woman...
I am talking from the heights of my age and experience fortunately or not...I’ve learned that men do grow up and morph into a different people while doing so.
My ex husband and Scorpio AND my amazing Aries all were bad asses at their younger age and meeting them at their older age I’ve learned that I could never survive them IF we’ve met before their 35-40.
They had lived large in a sex scale! Even my lazy ass Cap! And he wasn’t the only one who told me that! It’s the truth being told. No bullbutter!
At some point they’ve settled. Steam was all let out and maturity kicked in and they became that marriage material that I’ve had to deal with.
I am not complaining. And I have no idea why someone just said those damn Aries will take what they can and leave...nobody ever explained to me why those words said about Aries...and I think it’s just butthurt bitterness.
From what I can tell Aries can be busy doing their things and NOT being sluts. They get consumed by their life goals and pursuing relentlessly.
Work or love. Or both.
Yours as I think is doing his thing with you on his mind. If he is moving trough his life trying to achieve his goal - he does that! Madly. Going forward and you are his dream. Distance is chilling his balls and he just might have you penciled into his future but you aren’t pushing so he is also not hanging over your head because he has ‘stuff’ to do!
Aries busy is Aries can be trusted.
They also easy to talk to specially I am assuming he is Gemini moon...so you can just ask!
I would think he will lay it all on a table and tell you what’s that is he planning for the future.
One warning in case you do talk seriously...if he isn’t going to lay it all openly and surely - he isn’t yours than and as @LadyNeptune said you are his safe harbor at home and that’s that.
You should be able to feel it.
If he has plans for you in his life you will end up your conversation knowing where you stand.
If not - move on out of his zone immediately.
I hope it’ll work out for you. Be open so he knows you would consider being with him. Ignite his fire ass so it burning for you. Try another approach. Contact him first and see what’s going to happen.
It could be an eye opener. For better or for worse it worth it! ❤️
Thank you so much for your feedback, I really enjoyed reading that. You're right, I totally see where you're coming from.
I understand that we both have something going on at different stages in our lives, I have this feeling I'm more than just a hook up to him because a hook up is easy, talking to your ex/someone you like for over 3 years is something! but maybe I'm overthinking it. Definitely worth asking him when I'm seeing him.
I'm not asking him to settle down or be committed to me just wanted to know if there's potential there but at the same, I feel like if I brought it up. He's going to think that I'm asking for hope but I'm not - I'm going to continue my life and happy to keep in touch and see when the time is right, it might work?
I do genuinely feel like when he's not too busy living his best work/travel life and ready to settle down. We would be amazing together. It's hard not knowing for me
How old are you both?
Ok. You don’t think about the talk as a tragic event! I don’t know why everyone is taking the talk as the end of life as we knew it!
When I say I want to talk my Aries always asks ‘am I in trouble?’...and it always so cute and funny and I am quickly saying no baby, I just want to talk...
And I always start my talk with ‘you know I love you...’so he wouldn’t get defensive for nothing.
Have this talk as casual as you can. However be totally vulnerable and open.
Don’t leave him thinking you pushing the envelope because you don’t. Ask him to not interrupt.
Tell him that it’s not an ultimatum. It’s not a proposal. It’s not a demand. It’s just an info he might want to know but he doesn’t because we had never talked about it...so there...’
Aries/Gemini must be intelligent enough to understand IF you will not do half-talk.
‘What are your plans for our future?’ isnt right question.
I would say ‘I have feelings for you and if you do as well - I will wait for you however if you don’t - please be honest and I promise I will survive. I just don’t want to be living unknown...Please understand and respect me as I do it at this moment because I need to stay or move on...’
Rehears this in your head until you are satisfied with it and all points of concern are addressed.
And play by the ear...
Also don’t hesitate to shoot him ‘good morning’ text and don’t wait for the reply.
Lmao imagining his deer in a headlight stare...
So work in it woman! It’s your future we talking about and so far this man haven’t done you wrong. He had been good right? So there! ❤️click to expand
This is golden!! Thank you so much genuinely. Definitely going to approach him like thatPosted by Raakac
Lol i think in like past 2 weeks i've seen you post about Cancer, Gemini and now Aries, talk about making up your mind
What’s wrong with woman having choices? 🤷♀️Posted by LibraJackson
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I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
yes you do match.
did he contact you this month? I wonder how many peps got they past surfacing during this retrograde shadow lmao.
Yeah he always texts first - mostly, rarely I would say anything to him first
Is it a good match, I know we match well I think we do but never sure because of the distance situations im in with him.
well, in that situation, that's basically my only problem, for me a Long distance relationships has only one purpose, to work towards moving together, anything else is a no-brainer, so if no one is willing to consider moving, there is no point even discussing this topic.
I'm willing to move with him but I don't think it's serious enough for either of us to bring it up and to even consider it?
Well woman...
I am talking from the heights of my age and experience fortunately or not...I’ve learned that men do grow up and morph into a different people while doing so.
My ex husband and Scorpio AND my amazing Aries all were bad asses at their younger age and meeting them at their older age I’ve learned that I could never survive them IF we’ve met before their 35-40.
They had lived large in a sex scale! Even my lazy ass Cap! And he wasn’t the only one who told me that! It’s the truth being told. No bullbutter!
At some point they’ve settled. Steam was all let out and maturity kicked in and they became that marriage material that I’ve had to deal with.
I am not complaining. And I have no idea why someone just said those damn Aries will take what they can and leave...nobody ever explained to me why those words said about Aries...and I think it’s just butthurt bitterness.
From what I can tell Aries can be busy doing their things and NOT being sluts. They get consumed by their life goals and pursuing relentlessly.
Work or love. Or both.
Yours as I think is doing his thing with you on his mind. If he is moving trough his life trying to achieve his goal - he does that! Madly. Going forward and you are his dream. Distance is chilling his balls and he just might have you penciled into his future but you aren’t pushing so he is also not hanging over your head because he has ‘stuff’ to do!
Aries busy is Aries can be trusted.
They also easy to talk to specially I am assuming he is Gemini moon...so you can just ask!
I would think he will lay it all on a table and tell you what’s that is he planning for the future.
One warning in case you do talk seriously...if he isn’t going to lay it all openly and surely - he isn’t yours than and as @LadyNeptune said you are his safe harbor at home and that’s that.
You should be able to feel it.
If he has plans for you in his life you will end up your conversation knowing where you stand.
If not - move on out of his zone immediately.
I hope it’ll work out for you. Be open so he knows you would consider being with him. Ignite his fire ass so it burning for you. Try another approach. Contact him first and see what’s going to happen.
It could be an eye opener. For better or for worse it worth it! ❤️
Thank you so much for your feedback, I really enjoyed reading that. You're right, I totally see where you're coming from.
I understand that we both have something going on at different stages in our lives, I have this feeling I'm more than just a hook up to him because a hook up is easy, talking to your ex/someone you like for over 3 years is something! but maybe I'm overthinking it. Definitely worth asking him when I'm seeing him.
I'm not asking him to settle down or be committed to me just wanted to know if there's potential there but at the same, I feel like if I brought it up. He's going to think that I'm asking for hope but I'm not - I'm going to continue my life and happy to keep in touch and see when the time is right, it might work?
I do genuinely feel like when he's not too busy living his best work/travel life and ready to settle down. We would be amazing together. It's hard not knowing for meclick to expand
How old are you both?
Ok. You don’t think about the talk as a tragic event! I don’t know why everyone is taking the talk as the end of life as we knew it!
When I say I want to talk my Aries always asks ‘am I in trouble?’...and it always so cute and funny and I am quickly saying no baby, I just want to talk...
And I always start my talk with ‘you know I love you...’so he wouldn’t get defensive for nothing.
Have this talk as casual as you can. However be totally vulnerable and open.
Don’t leave him thinking you pushing the envelope because you don’t. Ask him to not interrupt.
Tell him that it’s not an ultimatum. It’s not a proposal. It’s not a demand. It’s just an info he might want to know but he doesn’t because we had never talked about it...so there...’
Aries/Gemini must be intelligent enough to understand IF you will not do half-talk.
‘What are your plans for our future?’ isnt right question.
I would say ‘I have feelings for you and if you do as well - I will wait for you however if you don’t - please be honest and I promise I will survive. I just don’t want to be living unknown...Please understand and respect me as I do it at this moment because I need to stay or move on...’
Rehears this in your head until you are satisfied with it and all points of concern are addressed.
And play by the ear...
Also don’t hesitate to shoot him ‘good morning’ text and don’t wait for the reply.
Lmao imagining his deer in a headlight stare...
So work in it woman! It’s your future we talking about and so far this man haven’t done you wrong. He had been good right? So there! ❤️Posted by Gemitati
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I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
yes you do match.
did he contact you this month? I wonder how many peps got they past surfacing during this retrograde shadow lmao.
Yeah he always texts first - mostly, rarely I would say anything to him first
Is it a good match, I know we match well I think we do but never sure because of the distance situations im in with him.
well, in that situation, that's basically my only problem, for me a Long distance relationships has only one purpose, to work towards moving together, anything else is a no-brainer, so if no one is willing to consider moving, there is no point even discussing this topic.
I'm willing to move with him but I don't think it's serious enough for either of us to bring it up and to even consider it?
Well woman...
I am talking from the heights of my age and experience fortunately or not...I’ve learned that men do grow up and morph into a different people while doing so.
My ex husband and Scorpio AND my amazing Aries all were bad asses at their younger age and meeting them at their older age I’ve learned that I could never survive them IF we’ve met before their 35-40.
They had lived large in a sex scale! Even my lazy ass Cap! And he wasn’t the only one who told me that! It’s the truth being told. No bullbutter!
At some point they’ve settled. Steam was all let out and maturity kicked in and they became that marriage material that I’ve had to deal with.
I am not complaining. And I have no idea why someone just said those damn Aries will take what they can and leave...nobody ever explained to me why those words said about Aries...and I think it’s just butthurt bitterness.
From what I can tell Aries can be busy doing their things and NOT being sluts. They get consumed by their life goals and pursuing relentlessly.
Work or love. Or both.
Yours as I think is doing his thing with you on his mind. If he is moving trough his life trying to achieve his goal - he does that! Madly. Going forward and you are his dream. Distance is chilling his balls and he just might have you penciled into his future but you aren’t pushing so he is also not hanging over your head because he has ‘stuff’ to do!
Aries busy is Aries can be trusted.
They also easy to talk to specially I am assuming he is Gemini moon...so you can just ask!
I would think he will lay it all on a table and tell you what’s that is he planning for the future.
One warning in case you do talk seriously...if he isn’t going to lay it all openly and surely - he isn’t yours than and as @LadyNeptune said you are his safe harbor at home and that’s that.
You should be able to feel it.
If he has plans for you in his life you will end up your conversation knowing where you stand.
If not - move on out of his zone immediately.
I hope it’ll work out for you. Be open so he knows you would consider being with him. Ignite his fire ass so it burning for you. Try another approach. Contact him first and see what’s going to happen.
It could be an eye opener. For better or for worse it worth it! ❤️click to expand
Thank you so much for your feedback, I really enjoyed reading that. You're right, I totally see where you're coming from.
I understand that we both have something going on at different stages in our lives, I have this feeling I'm more than just a hook up to him because a hook up is easy, talking to your ex/someone you like for over 3 years is something! but maybe I'm overthinking it. Definitely worth asking him when I'm seeing him.
I'm not asking him to settle down or be committed to me just wanted to know if there's potential there but at the same, I feel like if I brought it up. He's going to think that I'm asking for hope but I'm not - I'm going to continue my life and happy to keep in touch and see when the time is right, it might work?
I do genuinely feel like when he's not too busy living his best work/travel life and ready to settle down. We would be amazing together. It's hard not knowing for mePosted by LibraJackson
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I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
yes you do match.
did he contact you this month? I wonder how many peps got they past surfacing during this retrograde shadow lmao.
Yeah he always texts first - mostly, rarely I would say anything to him first
Is it a good match, I know we match well I think we do but never sure because of the distance situations im in with him.
well, in that situation, that's basically my only problem, for me a Long distance relationships has only one purpose, to work towards moving together, anything else is a no-brainer, so if no one is willing to consider moving, there is no point even discussing this topic.
I'm willing to move with him but I don't think it's serious enough for either of us to bring it up and to even consider it?click to expand
Well woman...
I am talking from the heights of my age and experience fortunately or not...I’ve learned that men do grow up and morph into a different people while doing so.
My ex husband and Scorpio AND my amazing Aries all were bad asses at their younger age and meeting them at their older age I’ve learned that I could never survive them IF we’ve met before their 35-40.
They had lived large in a sex scale! Even my lazy ass Cap! And he wasn’t the only one who told me that! It’s the truth being told. No bullbutter!
At some point they’ve settled. Steam was all let out and maturity kicked in and they became that marriage material that I’ve had to deal with.
I am not complaining. And I have no idea why someone just said those damn Aries will take what they can and leave...nobody ever explained to me why those words said about Aries...and I think it’s just butthurt bitterness.
From what I can tell Aries can be busy doing their things and NOT being sluts. They get consumed by their life goals and pursuing relentlessly.
Work or love. Or both.
Yours as I think is doing his thing with you on his mind. If he is moving trough his life trying to achieve his goal - he does that! Madly. Going forward and you are his dream. Distance is chilling his balls and he just might have you penciled into his future but you aren’t pushing so he is also not hanging over your head because he has ‘stuff’ to do!
Aries busy is Aries can be trusted.
They also easy to talk to specially I am assuming he is Gemini moon...so you can just ask!
I would think he will lay it all on a table and tell you what’s that is he planning for the future.
One warning in case you do talk seriously...if he isn’t going to lay it all openly and surely - he isn’t yours than and as @LadyNeptune said you are his safe harbor at home and that’s that.
You should be able to feel it.
If he has plans for you in his life you will end up your conversation knowing where you stand.
If not - move on out of his zone immediately.
I hope it’ll work out for you. Be open so he knows you would consider being with him. Ignite his fire ass so it burning for you. Try another approach. Contact him first and see what’s going to happen.
It could be an eye opener. For better or for worse it worth it! ❤️
