Venus square Pluto (natal)

Who else has this? I read up on the aspect and found the description at the link below to be somewhat true (I haven't found any one website to be accurate all-around). I wanted to know how those of you who have this aspect have managed to work with your e
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Who else has this? I read up on the aspect and found the description at the link below to be somewhat true (I haven't found any one website to be accurate all-around). I wanted to know how those of you who have this aspect have managed to work with your emotions regarding your romantic relationships. I've found my own emotions to be too much for people I've dated as well as myself sometimes, and I'm looking to improve myself in working with this part of me.

https://astrologyking.com/venus-square-pluto/
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Have you ever been in a romantic relationship? If you have, how powerful were your emotions regarding it and how did you manage those emotions?
DMV
36 years old
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I have it.


I agree that in my younger years, I was full on. If I liked you, I was all in day 1.

If those feelings were reciprocated, I turned to manipulative games trying to coerce something out of the other person. Games on top of game. Crash and burn.

I'm 36 now and I've calmed down alot because I have had my love reciprocated so I know what it feels to let open the floodgates and not have the other person run away scared.

I need someone who sees my emotions as exciting and comforting.

Find comfort in my emotions. Treat yourself.
DMV
36 years old
anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag Sun Scorpio Moon Scorpio Merc
Mixed with my moon in Scorpio, I want to bathe in my love. I want total immersion
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Posted by DMV
I have it.


I agree that in my younger years, I was full on. If I liked you, I was all in day 1.

If those feelings were reciprocated, I turned to manipulative games trying to coerce something out of the other person. Games on top of game. Crash and burn.

I'm 36 now and I've calmed down alot because I have had my love reciprocated so I know what it feels to let open the floodgates and not have the other person run away scared.

I need someone who sees my emotions as exciting and comforting.

Find comfort in my emotions. Treat yourself.


The first two paragraphs you wrote are exactly how I have been in romantic affairs. How have you "calmed down"? Did that come with just growing older and gaining more life experiences that helped transform your way of living?
Ellygant
Ascendant in Clumsy, Sun/Mercury/Venus in Scary, Moon in Comfort, Mars in Giddy
*following because I have an addiction to dating this aspect in others*
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*following because I have an addiction to dating this aspect in others*


What is your Venus placement?
Ellygant
Ascendant in Clumsy, Sun/Mercury/Venus in Scary, Moon in Comfort, Mars in Giddy
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*following because I have an addiction to dating this aspect in others*


What is your Venus placement?
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Scorpio. Lol.

I can dig the aspect. It’s normally a bit of a mindtreetrunk like what’s been described. But one I’ve been happy to navigate a few times. I find the square to be relatable even tho I’m the conjunction. I’m just better at keeping mine to myself where I feel the square can’t help but act it out.
DMV
36 years old
anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag Sun Scorpio Moon Scorpio Merc
I met a guy who I developed a sexual relationship with.

He had the emotional strength and fortitude to help me work out my demons.

Honesty and meaning what you say was a large part of his impact on me.
TheTinMan
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Have you ever been in a romantic relationship? If you have, how powerful were your emotions regarding it and how did you manage those emotions?
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It's usually intense on my part. I start out shy once I get loosen up and in to the groove it's on. When i make love i dont just make plain ole boring love, i go all out. As I'm smooching her in the mouth im stripping her top, bra, all the way down. I mean I honestly don't know about that aspect nor will I ever know if what I do in a relationship has anything to do with Venus Pluto if it bite me in the ass. I wouldn't know.

Haven't done any of those things in a while with my s/o tho. I be wanting to be left alone as of late. I don't know what placement in my chart play a role in that. I wanna say age.

oxSunQueenxo
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*following because I have an addiction to dating this aspect in others*


What is your Venus placement?


Scorpio. Lol.

I can dig the aspect. It’s normally a bit of a mindtreetrunk like what’s been described. But one I’ve been happy to navigate a few times. I find the square to be relatable even tho I’m the conjunction. I’m just better at keeping mine to myself where I feel the square can’t help but act it out.
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I think because the square aspect is harsher than the conjunction aspect, it's more difficult to keep on the DL. Why do you think you are "addicted" to people with Venus square Pluto? Is there a part of you that wants to experience their emotional intensity?
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I met a guy who I developed a sexual relationship with.

He had the emotional strength and fortitude to help me work out my demons.

Honesty and meaning what you say was a large part of his impact on me.


Hm... I feel like this relates, but I'm not sure: I'm switch between being passive-aggressive/indirect and being hurtfully blunt with people. Both are pains in the ass to deal with. There was a moment where I was hurt by something a person I value said that involved me. For the next few minutes, I was passive-aggresively implying to that person that I was upset with him, and it took him a bit to realize what was wrong. He sincerely apologized and took the time to talk to me on the phone about the issue, but also brought up that my passive-aggresive approach to the problem was just wrong and that I needed to fix that. Once that was said, I have been working on how I convey my thoughts clearly and honestly without overly hurting people...
Ellygant
Ascendant in Clumsy, Sun/Mercury/Venus in Scary, Moon in Comfort, Mars in Giddy
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by Ellygant
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by Ellygant
*following because I have an addiction to dating this aspect in others*


What is your Venus placement?


Scorpio. Lol.

I can dig the aspect. It’s normally a bit of a mindtreetrunk like what’s been described. But one I’ve been happy to navigate a few times. I find the square to be relatable even tho I’m the conjunction. I’m just better at keeping mine to myself where I feel the square can’t help but act it out.


I think because the square aspect is harsher than the conjunction aspect, it's more difficult to keep on the DL. Why do you think you are "addicted" to people with Venus square Pluto? Is there a part of you that wants to experience their emotional intensity?
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Not experience it persay. I’ve got truckloads of Scorpio/Pluto so I experience intensity on a pretty natural flow lol.

It’s the kindred spirit effect I think. I am time to time uncomfortable when my own intensity peaks, especially in the times it’s proved to be too much for others. Those with the square wear that on the outside. So I get to see someone experiencing what I feel all the time. It ignites a bit of passion and a lot of empathy in me.

I’ve dated people with the conjunction as well. I have so much Pluto in my chart I think I’ll always need someone else with some as well. But the conjunction is too much like me. Too guarded without give. Too good at holding the control inside. We end up falling apart due to isolation. People with the square help grow me. Push me to be expressive. And I think on their part they like that I can ride the wave and not get flustered no matter what bullbutter they toss my way. They remark how comforting it is and are shocked that I stand through their fits time after time.

Never managed to make it stick with one yet. But I learn and become a better person with each one. So maybe one day.
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