When a Cancer says he loves you...

How deep is their love?? (open forum, just want feedback)
female from the abyss of confusion
How deep is their love??

(open forum, just want feedback)
female from CA
Cancer woman...don't believe the hype... SUN : Cancer MOON : Virgo MERCUR
Are you asking because you think he's full of butter?

female from CA
Cancer woman...don't believe the hype... SUN : Cancer MOON : Virgo MERCUR
And MY answer is you don't know the depth via words. Actions are far more grande.
42 years old female from UK
Capricorn
I was told by a cancer man weekly that he loves me for 4 years. Then when the relationship ended he sent naked pictures of me to my parents. That is not love. He didnt love me he loved sex and when he wasnt going to get anymore sex he decided to punish me for witholding..end of.
The way to tell if someone loves you is to see if the love is beyond sex. Do they love you because you are an attractive woman/man or do they love you because you are peter/sarah with your own quirks and funny habits, with you own dreams and longings.......do they know what your dreams are? Have they asked? My cancer was only interested in my sexual fantasies. He never got to know the other side of me just my sexuality was his interest. He never saw me play the violin or guitar. I could never talk about Buddhism with him which is a big part of my life. He never knew I loved mountains and wildernesses. He never asked. One day, because he was always asking me to come up with ideas of what to do together, I said today you come up with an activity.surprise me. I was hoping for a candlelit dinner or cinema anything that shows some imagination and that there is something more there than sex...he came up with kinky sex lol. Anyway after that experience my idea of love has changed on a deep level..and thats the best I can describe my new understanding..hope it helps xx
female
Posted by michellemabelle
I was told by a cancer man weekly that he loves me for 4 years. Then when the relationship ended he sent naked pictures of me to my parents. That is not love. He didnt love me he loved sex and when he wasnt going to get anymore sex he decided to punish me for witholding..end of.
The way to tell if someone loves you is to see if the love is beyond sex. Do they love you because you are an attractive woman/man or do they love you because you are peter/sarah with your own quirks and funny habits, with you own dreams and longings.......do they know what your dreams are? Have they asked? My cancer was only interested in my sexual fantasies. He never got to know the other side of me just my sexuality was his interest. He never saw me play the violin or guitar. I could never talk about Buddhism with him which is a big part of my life. He never knew I loved mountains and wildernesses. He never asked. One day, because he was always asking me to come up with ideas of what to do together, I said today you come up with an activity.surprise me. I was hoping for a candlelit dinner or cinema anything that shows some imagination and that there is something more there than sex...he came up with kinky sex lol. Anyway after that experience my idea of love has changed on a deep level..and thats the best I can describe my new understanding..hope it helps xx


Michellemabe..... I gave up on sex a very long time ago... Although I am experiencing a very weird so call relationship with a Cancer Man... (weird because we haven't seen each other really in 3.5 years) At least I know that when he fell in love with me in 2007...He fell for my brain, soul, heart...... not just sex. Sex never came into the equation.

He persued me... not the other way around.... His actions that year... were telling.. He was always in my face.

At one point in my office... he said "You play hardball" My response " And you are in love with me"

Although we don't really talk.. he has not gone away after upteem requests from me that he do so.

And the drama continues
female from the abyss of confusion
It's an ex (with him 4 yrs and lived with him 3, apart for almost 3 on and off) and it was in passing, so to speak. On a street corner basically, upon hugging me and giving me a kiss after a 15 min conversation about misc stuff. "I do love you [lildol], I'm glad you stopped to say hi, *stuttering* I always like it when you stop to see me". *sigh*
female from the abyss of confusion
He wants to marry me...
female from CA
Cancer woman...don't believe the hype... SUN : Cancer MOON : Virgo MERCUR
So where is your ring? Don't go goo goo because you hear the "M" word! My ex told me he wanted to marry me too AFTER he cheated on me :/

Point is...he is an ex for a reason. Move on. It'll save yourself a lot of unnecessary postings like this because you'll KNOW how deep the love of your future better half will be!

Good luck!
female
"Oxytocin, when it??s got you hooked on the wrong partner, can be tougher to qu
What happened to the virgo lildol? Are you seeing cancer boy behind his back now?

female from CA
Cancer woman...don't believe the hype... SUN : Cancer MOON : Virgo MERCUR
female from the abyss of confusion
Of course not Tiki.
female
"Oxytocin, when it??s got you hooked on the wrong partner, can be tougher to qu
Sure seem like it...I'm curious about this conversation....Why were you stopping by to see cancer and what's up with that kiss?
Posted by tiki33
What happened to the virgo lildol? Are you seeing cancer boy behind his back now?



LOL.
female from the abyss of confusion
Tiki, I'm not sure stopping and saying "hi" to someone on the street constitutes anything but that. I pass his job site about once per week. And it wasn't THAT kind of kiss.
female from the abyss of confusion
Which would explain the sadness I see in his eyes. Thank you wineaux!
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