Hi everyone. I'm new here and was just wondering if you could give me some advice. See theres this guy that I like and hes a pisces and I get on with him more than anyone I've EVER met and I usually don't get on with people really well but hes just different. Problem is he has a girlfriend already. They're been going out for over 6 months I think and shes a Virgo. I personally don't think shes deep enough for him but I know opposites can attract and I was just wondering what you guys think cause I've heard a lot of different things in a lot of places. So any help or advice would be great. Thanks.
I just feel that even if she loves him with everything she has it'll still only be 1/2 of how much he could love her back. When they're together he always ahs his arm around her and stuff and sorta just trails around after him. They don't seem to talk. She just tlaks to other people and he stands there and she never tries to hug him or anything. Then again I may be quite biased
Even though softy or cancerlady may take me out with a big club for harsh honesty.It's not your concern.Virgos can be very sensitive and deep lovers even if they don't publicly display it.Even for my own being a scorpio,pisces can be insane to keep up with in that department.
I like keeping up with them. Tis fun! And er, I spent much of today with my pisces guy and er, to say the least some making out did occur. *Innocnet look* meh I don't care if I'm playing games.
Meaw,yeah but it's just that I would suggest not trying to intentionally break them up or by being his side toy,be sure to put your foot down if you think you have to.Ya know,alot of those situations backfire and hurt the third person,just keep a guard up in otherwords.Pisces people can be ho's depends on that pisces so it could happen but just be cautious with your feelings for him,I guess is the only thing I would say.
I guess this Pisces guy is simply a sucker. Just forget him or tell him what you have said here. If that wont work, take off your shirt. The last one works 9 of 10 cases. LOL. Have fun.
There will be no taking off of shirts I can assure you.(on a side note I was walking down the street the other day and somebody took their shirt off and I turned to look and actually walked into a lampost. Man am I ever cool!) And today there will be no thoughts of said guy because I am revising and don't need distractions.....well not from him.
Yeah I looked like an idiot. Anyway, I just had an exam and am now relaxing. I would also like to point out how strong Iam. My pisces guy tried to come round last night again and I said no. Oh yeah get me. And 5 seconds ago he called me again(seriously I have so many messages from him trying to meet up now). But I kinda like this hard to get thing.Makes him work.
I don't EVER purposely chase after men who have other women because I wouldn't want the same to happen to me (Karma) But I do understand your dilemma in KNOWING the other person will be more happy with you. My only question is...
Do you REALLY want to be with him as a couple when he has no problem with "cheating" (and I use the term loosely) on his current girlfriend?
Actually two questions...What makes you think he won't do the same to you?
Thankyou cancerlady. And I know he has a girlfriend and I made out with him and that constitutes cheating and thats kinda where I kinda get untrusting. But I wnat to trust him and I usually do more than pretty much anyone I've ever met but now I'm getting confused. If he had broken up with her after I told him how I felt then that wouldn't make me trust him less but hes still with her. According to his friends who I know quite well he hasn't been single for more than a month in the past 2 years. I don't think he likes not being in a relationship. So I'm very confused.
And to put into context the thing about him leaving messages. I had a 3 hour exam this morning and in that time he called me 6 times. I just kinda don't trust that I won't do something stupid if I meet up with him again.
Yup,sorry but not all pisces are perfect little angels none are,everyone has flaws just because he's a pisces doesn't mean anything and doesn't say that he's on some kind of pedastol above every other sign and person.Cancerkitten,are you just doing that because of my post,as far as my disagreement with it or do you actually like this guy and really don't trust him?Whats going on truely speaking.What it sounds like to me is that its most likely a wants his cake and eat it too situatoin.What do you want?
I just want him but I'm scared of getting hurt again.People never seem to like me as much as I like them but I really do think I have a better chance with him than anyone else I know. And trust me I know he isn't perfect.
Well actually that perfect part was directed at haffo(pisces).Ah that cancer thing again.All I will say is don't beat yourself up over it if it doesn't turn out in your favor,you already know there's that possiblity of it,obviously and get positive and optimistic that you will find someone who will treat you and love you the same way you do them,even if this in particular guy isn't the one for you.The other possibility is he's getting frantic with the phone calls and stuff and could break it off with her as well.Wait it out for a little while,talk to him yes but don't be his doormat,see what happens.Alot of the pisces guys here and ones in my personal life has said they like the chase aspect.
CancerKitten, it is a direct contradiction to say that you are afraid of getting hurt by somebody with a girlfriend. You are bound to get hurt unless he was immediately to leave her & be with you.
This might not be out of the question b/c they haven't been together too long, but you gotta wonder what it is about her that is keeping him now...Maybe it is the serial monogamy thing...Those people are too codependent for me though!
Yikes! You leave a thread for a couple of hours n miss all the action. Anyway, they broke up last night! Yay! And I don't have any more exams for a while now and AND ANNNNNNNNNNDDD its my birthday in 2 days time.Yay.
lol. You're happier than me. He told me this morning that it wasn't going anywhere with her so they came to a "mutual agreement" whcih is good. Its less messy than a huge arguement. Anyway, I can't wait to see what he gets me for my birthday.lol. But I still told him that we were going to take it slow and he said that was ok and I thnk we're going out tomorrow.
Oh yeah I had a question for cancerlady. Just outta interest, i know you're good at this kinda thing, my venus is in Gemini and his is in Aquarius.....is this good? And my mars is in Cancer and his is in Pisces.
DUH! Of course it's good! BUT here's more info....
Gemini/Aquarius Venus Compatibility
With Aquarius, your nervous energy is accented; you are restless, curious, inspired to try your hand at new subjects and concepts. Aquarius affects that part of your chart related to journeys, mental activity, publishing, writing. Aquarius encourages you to reach out, to stretch beyond your environment. Aquarius stimulates you to learn; you are not likely to be satisfied with things as they are. You want change; you want to experiment. You learn, check, verify; you crystallized your desires. Aquarius could keep you in a constant state of anticipation. The Aquarius Uranus and your Mercury points to a kind of mental acrobatics. Where reaching out is concerned, you meet your match in Aquarius. The two signs are trined, or compatible; there is attraction, excitement, discovery, and experimentation. If you want to travel, learn, report, record your feelings, that's what an association with Aquarius will encourage. You get plenty of excitement, but the financial reward is not guaranteed. You can grow spiritually, but you may not grow rich. Aquarius gets you interested in causes and makes you aware of principles. But Aquarius can also leave you exhausted and without much money to show for your efforts. If it's excitement you seek, plus an understanding of the world in which you live, you've found the right person in Aquarius. But Aquarius can also leave you exhausted and without much money.
Pisces affects that part of you your chart related to journeys, including journeys of the mind. You enjoy "traveling" with Pisces because knowledge becomes adventure, learning becomes an intriguing challenge. Both Cancer and Pisces are Water signs and are well aspected to each other. Beware of getting into that rut of gloom Both sings are so sensitive that many imagined slights are apt to occur, There is also a tendency, in this relationship, to lack patience, Together Pisces and Cancer may want to change the world- overnight. Know this- Don't rush; read, study, be perceptive and subtle. Her is a special tip: Don't try to boss the Piscean That sign may appear weak; but when you push too far Pisces rebels. Pisces is especially good for you when expressing views in written form. Pisces helps you to publish advertise, and gain a wider audience for creative efforts. Your intuitive intellect is sparked by Pisces; your ability to detect trends and cycles is heightened. With Pisces, there is extrasensory perception; both signs are sensitive and get the feel of the public pulse. Trust your hunches when Pisces is around; it could turn out that the two of you are ahead of the times. Take advantage of this; exude confidence. Pisces and Cancer and favorably aspected, and the potential is a great one. What you do with this potential is the question; there should be no limits to your horizons. Your Moon and Pisces' Neptune can create beauty, even wisdom. This of course depends upon the emotional growth of the two individuals involved. I would encourage such a relationship; you could use some Pisces in your life!
No nothing special. You know I sometimes think people don't know me very well or they just ain't great at the present buying thing. I always get nice stuff sdon't get me wrong but I always spend ages getting utha people stuff.My brothers good at it though. He must know me pretty well.
And my pisces guy who is very much impressing me right now.I got my presents from him in a bag with a kitty picture on.It was so vute. And he got me a necklace that is just like one I used to have and lost about a month ago and I was all distraught about it. So that was really sweet and he got me some CDs that I wanted and a book to write my songs in cause I'm badly disorganised. And he got me a card that said "Baby's first birthday" cause hes dumb like that.
Everyone always asks me what I want...I say You can't go wrong with gift certificates...especially to the stores I go to! I know what you mean though...putting your all and thought into a gift for someone and they get you something they just picked out on a whim.
That was SOOO sweet of your Pisces...You wanna trade?
I read bout what happened with yours. I'm sure he'll pull himself together sooner or later. Mine has to try hard right now cause I still haven't officially agreed to date him.
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See theres this guy that I like and hes a pisces and I get on with him more than anyone I've EVER met and I usually don't get on with people really well but hes just different. Problem is he has a girlfriend already. They're been going out for over 6 months I think and shes a Virgo. I personally don't think shes deep enough for him but I know opposites can attract and I was just wondering what you guys think cause I've heard a lot of different things in a lot of places. So any help or advice would be great.
Thanks.