Posted by StarMooney
I didn't read your history, so excuse me if I'm completely wrong or lacking in info, but...he could be unsure of a future with you, could be waiting on you to say something important or initiate something, he could be feeling guilty and trying to gauge your level of disgust for him, could be that he's juggling other women, could be that he's having personal life issues...could be a lot of reasons. You need to put him in his place and set some boundaries or ground rules. Ultimatum? (Actually maybe not because cancers aren't good with ultimatums). Just give it to him straight.
Posted by LunarMan
Of course he run away, he is cancer. You are taurus a stubborn bull, who digs their heels in the ground. You are physical he is mental. He contacted you, he was obviously reaching out. You may not have given him a response he was looking for. We need you to tell us what we think you will say or feel, of course this is difficult because how are you supposed to know what he is thinking, if that is the case ask him what he wants to hear and why he contacted you again, next time he sends you a message and start from there. Yes it sounds one sided, understand we can be insular people and very much introverted and see things only from our perspective. It does sound selfish and you would be right to think that. You may need to be more pushy but in a more tactful manner, to get the response you desire.
Posted by ReddmannScorch
Meh! no matter what TX taurus lady probably done give him the p already. We cancers know to stir the heart strings. Why you broke up again? Hmmmm sometimes tauruses tend to measure you by your worth and wealth. Did he spoil you?
Posted by MissGemmi
IT sucks, cuz you feel that you've been taken away the opportunity to show your own hurt, he has pulled undeserved attention to himself now. Making you feel all guilty. You need to be patient. He didn't go silent, because he forgot about you, more thinking on how to deal with the situation and what he wants for himself. You can't force anything. Use this time to sort out your own emotions. A little bit of quiet time doesn't hurt. Be determined in what you want for yourself and if you think it's worth it to go through it again. Trust me, if you don't set boundaries now, it will only get worse. You'll think he's back in 'the game' and put your feelings into it again, but stay cautious. I'm pretty sure he
will contact you again, for sure. Make sure, you know why. I wish I knew all of these things. Starmooney has opened my eyes to a lot of things!