Posted by Arielle83i couldn't make it halfway through the novel she wrote. i have no clue whats going on, but i do know she became another contributor of this thread.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI can't respond to all that whining and why won't he text me before 9pm to care about her situation.
With an addendum....Posted by Gracezee
Dear Arielle, thanks for taking time to write down your feelings. I appreciate your straightness. But it gives me a shocking surprise thar my sharing gave you such an impression... you are the first one of all says so. Did I appear like that? I only felt I might end up give him impression that I was so emotional. But he and even I still deep down believe we both are never into playing games. I am 44, he is 54.We both are very caring persons and never would like to hurt anyone.
Wha wha wha
It's like u pushed and he left. Duh!click to expand
Posted by cappygirl11
I mean I just questioned my bf of 5 years once about where he really was and asked y is he avoiding me. He went crazy. First didn't speak to me for a week. Then told me now he really is avoiding me. Refused to see me. I had an accident he still refused to see me..... today he tells me if I wad broken enough not to have sex he would reconsider our relationship. ... and I'm thinking....wtf...have u been wasting my life.
Posted by HouseCleaningPosted by CancerOnTheCusp34Posted by taupixie
I think he liked me a lot.
I think he was so afraid & so he blocked the feelings, pretended it isn't, played up the sex & put up a facade.
I think he guarded very strongly from me, to the point he would snapped at little petty thing not to his comfort.
I understand this very well coming from someone with fixed Sun and Moon of him with a lot of fixed signs in his personal planets.
Anyway, I have used up everything to tear the walls down without avail.
There wasn't enough to get to him.
Perhaps, we are truly not the most compatible for each other if all I do only pushes him further away.
I need to stop hoping and trying.click to expand
Posted by SEXYSCORP70
Hi Everyone, I was dating a cancer man since the last 5 months.I am a scorpio woman he was crazy about me. Initially in the starting everything was very good but then he started becoming distant and i was very suspicious so things turned , before he used to call me all the time then i started calling him all the time.This made him get irritated still he was very nice to me.There were days he would adore me then there were days when he would get mad at me but would always come back.About one and a half months before, we had to meet each other he called me to his place.but was not telling me the plan properly and i was constantly calling him when he was with his mom.I got irritated and angry and said alot of hurtful things to him.he blocked me from evrywhr after that and said he can never talk to someone like me.i tried apologising the next day but he just wasnâ€™t ready to talk to me at all and would constantly not pick up my phone and ignore me all the time and also block me.After a few days i told his frnd to make him talk to me i was so helpless,he called me up then and started screaming at me that why are u embarrising me in front of my friends and you bloody idiot and what not i didnâ€™t say a word and still kept on apologizing n saying i love him.He didnâ€™t bother at all.in this middle ,he also made his frnd msg me that he is seeing someone else so that i donâ€™t call him.After a few days i again tried to reach him but he had blocked me so i called him from an unkown no and said if u donâ€™t talk to me or unblock me i will call up your mom.He called me and said what kind of a person you are and alot of butter like i have no interest in you.I thought i will be frnds with you but now i will not you are disgusting and what not but also said that he is not seeing anyone he told his frnd to tell me that purposely.Screamed and kept down the phone.After a few days i again called him up crying and apologizing and asking for one last chance and that i really love him and i will change for him and he again screamed and me and said that i am a blackmailer i was calling up his mom( which i never did i jus said it in anger cs iwas so helpless he blocked me from his phone), Also said that i am not of his level i am a dirty person he hates me his frnds hate me they all know what a cookiemonsteri am , i have no self respect, i come from a bad upbringing or family cs i keep on calling him.I kept on crying apologizing fr not hvng control on my lang when i am angry and he didnâ€™t bother n said i am not a nice person and he doesnâ€™t want to be with anyone like me and kept down the phone.I asked him to meet he said it is another one of my drama and refused n shouted on me.I am so helpless after that i didnâ€™t do anything , its been two weeks he didnâ€™t bother also abt me i am still blocked also.he alwys had issues with the words i used when i was angry but i have caug
Posted by mangomania
I'm a taurus woman. I went out with my cancer man for six months. He went through a break up 6 months prior to meeting me. Meeting him felt as though we knew each other very long.Our relationship was similar to yours in that we were alwaya together. We went out. We would spend days at one anothers apts. It was growing fast. We had strong feelings.I would often say If you feel like we ate going to fast and you want to fall back let me know. He told me not to worry about him. He could take care of himself. Not to mention he went MIA once. Came back after 3 days.
He was also mean sometimes for no reason. He would rarely say anything nice. Then one day he went MIA. Have not heard from him. No excuse nothing.I was heartbroken and disappointed. You need to let him go and give him space. It will drive u crazy.You have to see that you deserve better.
Posted by libralotus
I've been seeing my ex again and it's been going great. Well, I thought. He "left" town to go visit a friend but told me he lied because things got complicated and he needed time. He told me he still wanted to be with me, loved me and it was just timing. The told me he wanted a week to figure things out and then we could start over. I just feel really hurt by this and I feel like it's extremely selfish of him. He won't tell me what things he needed to figure out. What do I do? I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I should just walk away with dignity.
Posted by PoppyseedsPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by Poppyseeds
I've only been with one (my current one) He is very patient and gentleman and waited for over 2 months we only took things to next level recently. So far he is very sensual and really take his time with foreplay. He is also a giver in bed and would pleasure you first.
He likes to put me in position that gives him really deep penetration, lucky I'm very flexible. He's only gone hard and fast when he was finishing. It was in front of mirror that got him wild!
I love spanking him and he spanked me back in return. I'm tempted to try chocking his neck...
Have you tried chocking yours?
Mine does, too. Legs over my head. He takes forever with foreplay and is usually gentle with that. He's totally into my pleasure first.
I've never choked him but I have put my hand on his neck and he doesn't resist. I do bite him at times but not as hard as he bites me. I'm more of someone who slowly tries things out since I never want to do something to turn a guy off.
Sounds like he might want you to choke him, he did that to you as invitation? Try to do it gently next time and see how he reacts.
Mine suggested me to explore his behind, by gently touching me from outside, later he said its very sensitive there it's ashame that a lot of straight guys feel like it shouldn't be explore. so I gently touch him from outside and he was loving it. I suspect they could both be liking the girl to take control in some way.click to expand
Posted by Darling
Do they ever feel guilt or remorse for hurting those who show them the most love?
Do they notice how much effort a person puts into trying to make the happy?
Talking never works!
They lie too damn much!!!
Is leaving the only way to show them they hurt you?
Are you considered a joke in their eyes because you choose to stick around n take all their crap?
Do they ever notice how drained you get?
"regulars" chime in. Might not add to the count, but worthwhile capturing the bitterness:Posted by libraqueen
Yeah they're creepy.
If you want them to want you pretend they can't have you and they'll chase you head on.
*shudders*Posted by boxcarmirnta
You won't know BC they'll lie and be full of butter and then run and hide.....you'll never see em again.Posted by taupixie
They tell you they like you only, & once things seem rosier & going up, they disappear.click to expand