Posted by MissAllisa
And he’s still ignoring me. I havent texted him after the argument last night.
Posted by TxOgal
It seems that all Cancer men do the same thing lol ....
ex tried contacting me after disappearing for a few months and again after a couple of years .... I blocked him everwhere
Like he just remembers now?
Posted by MissAllisa
Thanks guys! There was a little update after the initial post. He came back after 8 months and everyone on here told me to ignore him and it was the best advice i could get. He didn’t really have anything new to say plus he’s still the childish treetrunker he was back then. Glad i didn’t entertain him this time around👯♀️
Posted by vivi4656
Okay! I'm seeing messages about other crabs! Maybe I'm weird, but when I really love someone or I'm interested in them, I love their attention! I could spend all day with them ! Yes, I do like my alone time at times, but I will ALWAYS tell you when I need some time! Also, I am a crab that DOES like being told what to do if it is concerning my partner! I want to make my partner feel heard, needed, and relaxed! SO stand your ground, girl! Hold your boundaries and demand respect ! Cancer or not! Cancers do NOT need to act like this! They can act like a mature adult and handle things not in a selfish all about "me me me" way! Anyways, best of luck! I think you did the right thing! People play too many games now a days!
Posted by _li_bra_gal_
Hi! The exact same thing happened to me. My bf is cancer too. (I was looking for answers to this behavior too and when i was reading ur story i was like EXACTLY)
It happened to me almost exactly the same but at that time we been dating exclusively for 3 mths, and he was away for 3 weeks and didn’t reply to my text at all for 3-4 days after he left. so i was super worried, then one night i texted him again and again and call him again and again and he didn’t respond. In the morning, he just texted me “hey goodmorning! How are you blabla” like back to normal/ sweet text........ and i was like??? So at that time i was feeling that ive had enough of it cos I don’t feel he cares abt me and i was caring too much abt him where he doesn’t even think of me even the slightest. Makes me feel rejected, not appreciated and taken for granted. So i told him im ending it, then we got to conversation On the phone, and exactly like what ur man told u, “i told u i was away” “if u r worried u should’ve texted me days ago and not wait till now” etc.
We talked, both of us actually didn’t wanna end it, so we come to solution that we text when we wanna text and don’t hv to hesitate and shy to double text.
But anyhow, even if you get further in relationship with this guy, like me, until now (more than 9mths) this behavior will come and go, i mean he will do it again. He doesn’t reply fast, some times doesn't reply to your text for a day or so.
I guess from reading a lot and from talking to him myself, its Bcos cancer are super sensitive and how they think. When he is in stress or dealing with smth, he may go to his shell. So he might not communicate as much with u and usual. And whatis, they think is “ok she knows im away, i wanna enjoy my time here, I don’t hv to text her again and I don’t wanna be bothered by her if I don’t respond immediately”
Me myself still don’t get how they can ignore text from ppl they care abt and just go on with life without thinking of how we would feel. Cos I cannot do that. But i guess it is what it is, so if u wanna keep up with this kind of reoccurring behavior go ahead, but if u feel u can’t deal with this kind of communication in relationship it’s also ur call.
Posted by MissAllisa
So after reading loads of comments about the cancer men and his so called testing thing he does im confused.
I met this cancer guy and i never felt more connected to a guy than this one. He was nice, funny, charming, interested, texting me every single day. We went on a couple of dates and had the best time. I could just tell by the way he looked at me that he was into me.
So this weekend he went away for a couple of days (fri-sun). He told me this like 2 days prior to leaving. Im a very independent woman so i have no issue with my guy doing this. Friday rolls around i sent him a ‘have a safe flight and text me if everything goes well’ and added a joke too. He received these texts but never replied. Im thinking ok saturday he will send something back but nope and sunday still nothing. Im freaking out something must have happened but i didnt want to be interrupting his weekend and seem ‘clingy’. So on monday after not hearing from him the whole weekend i decided to call.
Mind you we’re not official so thats why i didnt double text to check up. Anyways monday i call him but he doesnt answer. At like 11 at night he sends me a text ‘hey how was your weekend’.
And im thinking what the hell is this guy on thinking he can act like nothing happened.
So i confronted him in a calm way saying i didnt appreciate him not letting me know if all went well.
His first reaction was ‘i told you i was going away for the weekend’. I responded by saying how its common courtesy to let people know youve arrived safe especially after me texting him.
Then he went ‘why didnt you text me if you were so worried’. But i did text him friday and called him so i told him that.
He then said ‘ok you somewhat have a point’. I then told him that if this is his way of communicating (just go missing a few days) then im not ok with that. And then he just stopped responding! I dont need 24/7 attention but just let me know youve arrived safe.
Anyways its almost 24 hrs later and he still hasnt texted me or call. Should i wait or just delete his number and move on? Im definitely not contacting him after he tried to put the blame on me since all im doing is caring about him.
Long story but i’m not sure what to do. All of my friends say something different so im confused.
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More info, he keeps asking me to meet up with him but im not really sure whats going on with this guy. To be honest i’m not really into him disappearing again but still curious to hear what he has to say.
Ps. Im a gemini
Just tell him that
Also crabs don't like being told what to do we dont owe you communication , you're not our SO
And even then we like our space
Y'all are not compatible
That goes for female cancers as well lol
I'm mostly Leo but i don't like anybody that demands my attention
I see it as controlling
That’s my experience with a ex cancer and the current one.
What are your placements again? You have a Scorpio moon right
Scorpio sun sag moon cap venus
Oh interesting. How does that manifest with you?
Do you have a problem settling into a career
I used to have lots of probs dealing with it, but as I’ve gotten older I’m in a good spot right now.
Why do you keep dating crab women?
And not fire
Lol why should I date fire? I was seing an Aries but she’s too clingy and wouldn’t leave me alone.
Sag moon. Funny an aries was clingy, how? Was she demanding your time
Surprisingly very possessive. The real reason why I date crab women is cause they are very caring and they seem to understand me well emotionally.
Cancer women aren't possessive?
Dated Aries, Leo no sag and I don’t connect with any of them. I gotta say Aries is good in bed but that’s about it.
Yeah they love their sex.
Ever dealt with a water moon fire sign?
What moons do you gravitate too
I’ve never checked their moon sign cause I don’t ask what time hour they were born lol
That's for rising right generally it's accurate even without birth time
If that’s the case the one I’m seing right now has libra rising. The cap I’ve dated has Aries and the cancer ex also has a Libra lol interesting.
What's their moon, the rising is inaccurate without birth time
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