How to lose a Cancerian..

What do Cancers hate? What are the pet peeves, turn offs, deal breakers etc.. what have you dumped someone or lost interest in them for? I'm trying not to mess up because I want to marry this guy, so I need tips on what to avoid please. TIA ❤
Ladyleo18August 9, 2018 5:57am
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  • What do Cancers hate? What are the pet peeves, turn offs, deal breakers etc.. what have you dumped someone or lost interest in them for?

    I'm trying not to mess up because I want to marry this guy, so I need tips on what to avoid please. TIA ❤
  • nikkistar
    My baby moon is sensitive
    Most cancer men are traditional from the ones I know. Also are butter at communication via phone, but good in person. You're gonna usually have to ignore the who texts or calls who first rule, if you have one.

    And there are two versions that seem to pop up. The slow moving kind, that take awhile to define a relationship , and the super erratic delusional version.

    Both versions want a bestfriend as their partner. Both will do loyalty tests. But the delusional version almost lack the ability to sustain any relationship and often let their obsessive and addictive personalities take over. Drinking, drugs, women can all be vices.

    Most either have an amazing relationship with their moms, or absolutely hate them. Almost no inbetween with that.

    If they introduce you to very close family, that usually means you hold a higher place on their priority list. But you wont be first for awhile, especially if they have a failed relationship in the past.

    That's my experience, anyways.
  • Posted by nikkistar
    Most cancer men are traditional from the ones I know. Also are butter at communication via phone, but good in person. You're gonna usually have to ignore the who texts or calls who first rule, if you have one.

    And there are two versions that seem to pop up. The slow moving kind, that take awhile to define a relationship , and the super erratic delusional version.

    Both versions want a bestfriend as their partner. Both will do loyalty tests. But the delusional version almost lack the ability to sustain any relationship and often let their obsessive and addictive personalities take over. Drinking, drugs, women can all be vices.

    Most either have an amazing relationship with their moms, or absolutely hate them. Almost no inbetween with that.

    If they introduce you to very close family, that usually means you hold a higher place on their priority list. But you wont be first for awhile, especially if they have a failed relationship in the past.

    That's my experience, anyways.


    Thank you. We're both crazy about each other. I just don't want to fk it up. I have a habit of doing that so I'm trying to avoid it. I've never felt so free to be my quirky self with anyone before and I don't want to ever lose him with some stupid butter that I might unintentionally say or do.
  • 1) loyalty, honesty, consistency
    2) great sex
    3) be his sounding board
    4) clingy is not a bad word
    5) have your own goals
    6) families are always stressors, don't add to his stress
    7) be independent financially but dependent emotionally
    8) respect his boundaries
    9) have your own boundaries
    10) let him mother you
    11) mother him once in awhile
    12) be clean. Crab men can be ocd

    Create a relationship that's slightly codependent but have your own life because you will tire of one another and he needs to know NOW not later that you make time for yourself friend's family etc etc or else he'll act like a little bytch

    Plus no matter how much you guys like one another you will tire of one another so why not create a bit of space and mystery
  • Posted by Black-Mamba
    1) loyalty, honesty, consistency
    2) great sex
    3) be his sounding board
    4) clingy is not a bad word
    5) have your own goals
    6) families are always stressors, don't add to his stress
    7) be independent financially but dependent emotionally
    8) respect his boundaries
    9) have your own boundaries
    10) let him mother you
    11) mother him once in awhile
    12) be clean. Crab men can be ocd

    Create a relationship that's slightly codependent but have your own life because you will tire of one another and he needs to know NOW not later that you make time for yourself friend's family etc etc or else he'll act like a little bytch

    Plus no matter how much you guys like one another you will tire of one another so why not create a bit of space and mystery


    He works lots so we don't live in each others pockets in that regard. But we talk on the phone all night and text when we're free during the day and see each other on weekends. I still do my own stuff like night art class and visit friends and family and I work too.
    What do you hate someone doing? Like I'm Leo, I hate lies, being ignored or disrespected and any type of criticism. What do cancers hate?
  • Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by Black-Mamba
    1) loyalty, honesty, consistency
    2) great sex
    3) be his sounding board
    4) clingy is not a bad word
    5) have your own goals
    6) families are always stressors, don't add to his stress
    7) be independent financially but dependent emotionally
    8) respect his boundaries
    9) have your own boundaries
    10) let him mother you
    11) mother him once in awhile
    12) be clean. Crab men can be ocd

    Create a relationship that's slightly codependent but have your own life because you will tire of one another and he needs to know NOW not later that you make time for yourself friend's family etc etc or else he'll act like a little bytch

    Plus no matter how much you guys like one another you will tire of one another so why not create a bit of space and mystery


    He works lots so we don't live in each others pockets in that regard. But we talk on the phone all night and text when we're free during the day and see each other on weekends. I still do my own stuff like night art class and visit friends and family and I work too.
    What do you hate someone doing? Like I'm Leo, I hate lies, being ignored or disrespected and any type of criticism. What do cancers hate?
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    Same. Leo's and cancers are similar

    We hate being taken for granted and used but that's anybody
  • Posted by Black-Mamba
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by Black-Mamba
    1) loyalty, honesty, consistency
    2) great sex
    3) be his sounding board
    4) clingy is not a bad word
    5) have your own goals
    6) families are always stressors, don't add to his stress
    7) be independent financially but dependent emotionally
    8) respect his boundaries
    9) have your own boundaries
    10) let him mother you
    11) mother him once in awhile
    12) be clean. Crab men can be ocd

    Create a relationship that's slightly codependent but have your own life because you will tire of one another and he needs to know NOW not later that you make time for yourself friend's family etc etc or else he'll act like a little bytch

    Plus no matter how much you guys like one another you will tire of one another so why not create a bit of space and mystery


    He works lots so we don't live in each others pockets in that regard. But we talk on the phone all night and text when we're free during the day and see each other on weekends. I still do my own stuff like night art class and visit friends and family and I work too.
    What do you hate someone doing? Like I'm Leo, I hate lies, being ignored or disrespected and any type of criticism. What do cancers hate?


    Same. Leo's and cancers are similar

    We hate being taken for granted and used but that's anybody
    click to expand


    But you're meant to be all watery and emotional and moody. So what makes you get like that? Is there some trigger...
    Also what do I do if I upset him... like I know I can flash my bits or suck his dick or something because he's a hornbag but what happens when I lose my sex appeal? I'm going to be 37 soon so my days are numbered
  • MissKrabs
    38 years old female
    out of all cancer men i know, just one is not crazy and he is married to a leo. i think he is the simplest human being ever and in a best way. i can't think of him being mad or triggered, he is calm, collected, and has lots of patience since my leo friend has episodes of madness.
  • Posted by MissKrabs
    out of all cancer men i know, just one is not crazy and he is married to a leo. i think he is the simplest human being ever and in a best way. i can't think of him being mad or triggered, he is calm, collected, and has lots of patience since my leo friend has episodes of madness.


    Ok so I can have episodes and he'll be cool cos I'm a Leo and there's only room for one crazy person lol
  • Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by Black-Mamba
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by Black-Mamba
    1) loyalty, honesty, consistency
    2) great sex
    3) be his sounding board
    4) clingy is not a bad word
    5) have your own goals
    6) families are always stressors, don't add to his stress
    7) be independent financially but dependent emotionally
    8) respect his boundaries
    9) have your own boundaries
    10) let him mother you
    11) mother him once in awhile
    12) be clean. Crab men can be ocd

    Create a relationship that's slightly codependent but have your own life because you will tire of one another and he needs to know NOW not later that you make time for yourself friend's family etc etc or else he'll act like a little bytch

    Plus no matter how much you guys like one another you will tire of one another so why not create a bit of space and mystery


    He works lots so we don't live in each others pockets in that regard. But we talk on the phone all night and text when we're free during the day and see each other on weekends. I still do my own stuff like night art class and visit friends and family and I work too.
    What do you hate someone doing? Like I'm Leo, I hate lies, being ignored or disrespected and any type of criticism. What do cancers hate?


    Same. Leo's and cancers are similar

    We hate being taken for granted and used but that's anybody


    But you're meant to be all watery and emotional and moody. So what makes you get like that? Is there some trigger...
    Also what do I do if I upset him... like I know I can flash my bits or suck his dick or something because he's a hornbag but what happens when I lose my sex appeal? I'm going to be 37 soon so my days are numbered
    click to expand


    Cuddle or space

    Learn to read him
  • Posted by Black-Mamba
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by Black-Mamba
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by Black-Mamba
    1) loyalty, honesty, consistency
    2) great sex
    3) be his sounding board
    4) clingy is not a bad word
    5) have your own goals
    6) families are always stressors, don't add to his stress
    7) be independent financially but dependent emotionally
    8) respect his boundaries
    9) have your own boundaries
    10) let him mother you
    11) mother him once in awhile
    12) be clean. Crab men can be ocd

    Create a relationship that's slightly codependent but have your own life because you will tire of one another and he needs to know NOW not later that you make time for yourself friend's family etc etc or else he'll act like a little bytch

    Plus no matter how much you guys like one another you will tire of one another so why not create a bit of space and mystery


    He works lots so we don't live in each others pockets in that regard. But we talk on the phone all night and text when we're free during the day and see each other on weekends. I still do my own stuff like night art class and visit friends and family and I work too.
    What do you hate someone doing? Like I'm Leo, I hate lies, being ignored or disrespected and any type of criticism. What do cancers hate?


    Same. Leo's and cancers are similar

    We hate being taken for granted and used but that's anybody


    But you're meant to be all watery and emotional and moody. So what makes you get like that? Is there some trigger...
    Also what do I do if I upset him... like I know I can flash my bits or suck his dick or something because he's a hornbag but what happens when I lose my sex appeal? I'm going to be 37 soon so my days are numbered


    Cuddle or space

    Learn to read him
    click to expand


    Lol. He's the cuddliest! It's cute.
  • Yodi
    Cancer sun..Aries moon vibes
    female
    1. Lie
    2. Cheat
    3. Withhold sex
    4. Talk bad about my ppl dem
    5. Be a Unmotivated bum

  • Posted by Yodi
    1. Lie
    2. Cheat
    3. Withhold sex
    4. Talk bad about my ppl dem
    5. Be a Unmotivated bum



    What are you sensitive about? Like is there something in particular that makes you moody or upset?
  • nikkistar
    My baby moon is sensitive
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by MissKrabs
    out of all cancer men i know, just one is not crazy and he is married to a leo. i think he is the simplest human being ever and in a best way. i can't think of him being mad or triggered, he is calm, collected, and has lots of patience since my leo friend has episodes of madness.


    Ok so I can have episodes and he'll be cool cos I'm a Leo and there's only room for one crazy person lol
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    I can tell you mine is super patient with almost anything dramatic. He just will be there to listen to you rant.

    The one thing I have noticed about him is, before he moved here, I thought he wouldn't be as affectionate as he is. The moment he moved here, it's as if a light switch popped. It's hard to explain, but when they are all in, there's almost nothing you can do that will make them turn on you. You would have to cheat, lie, steal, and treat everyone around then like butter, all at the same time.

    And that lack of communication? That stops. They will always call you back. They will shower you will affection. They will spoil you. But you should always reciprocate too.

    But to get to that point, you'll have to prove your loyal, and will be there through the worst of times. And you better never disrespect his closest people.
  • Yodi
    Cancer sun..Aries moon vibes
    female
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by Yodi
    1. Lie
    2. Cheat
    3. Withhold sex
    4. Talk bad about my ppl dem
    5. Be a Unmotivated bum



    What are you sensitive about? Like is there something in particular that makes you moody or upset?
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    To be honest anything could trigger my moodiness so it's really hard to pin point.

    Try to figure out how to get him out of that mood instead of what caused it.. is probably your best move because 9 out of 10 he'll let you know eventually. But if he doesn't then it has nothing to do with you.

    Also understand it's how you handle him while he's in that mood that will determine how long he'll remain in it..

    I'm at my happiest after sex and after I eat lol.. so keep that in mind.

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