I'm a cancer girl kind of seeing a cancer guy on the side. About once a week we get together with friends. Every now and then we get together where it's just us. This alone time spent together is awesome. The kisses we share are probably the most passionate I've ever felt. He gives me sweet compliments that make me melt. I think I'm falling in love with him. We're not exclusive. We're just having fun. How do I find out what his "for real" feelings are for me without getting rejected. I'm so afraid to open up to him I don't want to get hurt. I'm a cancer with a hard shell myself, I should be able to read him better than anyone, shouldn't I? What should I do? I'm so afraid of getting hurt especially when I have no idea not even a clue how he feels about me.