Why is this Capricorn Woman playing mind games?

What should I do she is driving me up a tree, When we first met she came on really strong and was flirting with me like
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
What should I do she is driving me up a tree, When we first met she came on really strong and was flirting with me like I was the best thing in the world, then she suddenly pulled away and acted like she hated me for no reason, I then decided to talk to her about it, she said she had nothing against me, so I was happy, I finally felt like everything was cleared up, but it??s not she seems to be testing me even more now, she watches everything I do so closely, we work together, sometimes I catch her looking at me and she is giving me this deathly serious look just staring at me, and I don??t know what to do??_. I try to smile but she usually just looks away??_. (But then other days she tries flirting with me, she likes it when I act distant??_.) I have been making more of an effort to talk to her and be friendlier some days she talks to me other days she goes back to hating me??_ I don??t know what to do anymore, I really do like her but her behavior is making it so hard for me to even want to continue getting to know her, I just need some advice from you Capricorn ladies please!
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
I forgot to add that she has A Capricorn sun and mercury but also has a Cancer Moon do you think that causes her to be at odds with her own feelings a lot?
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
Posted by capcsw
This post will help you!

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/How-To-Get-Your-Goat-Interactive-DIY-[Fun]-3114880.asp

I already read that in detail, do you have any advice for me? I just wish she would ease up around me it's always so tense and heavy when we are around each other.
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
Posted by champranger
Posted by FieryAries9108
What should I do she is driving me up a tree, When we first met she came on really strong and was flirting with me like I was the best thing in the world, then she suddenly pulled away and acted like she hated me for no reason, I then decided to talk to her about it, she said she had nothing against me, so I was happy, I finally felt like everything was cleared up, but it??s not she seems to be testing me even more now, she watches everything I do so closely, we work together, sometimes I catch her looking at me and she is giving me this deathly serious look just staring at me, and I don??t know what to do??_. I try to smile but she usually just looks away??_. (But then other days she tries flirting with me, she likes it when I act distant??_.) I have been making more of an effort to talk to her and be friendlier some days she talks to me other days she goes back to hating me??_ I don??t know what to do anymore, I really do like her but her behavior is making it so hard for me to even want to continue getting to know her, I just need some advice from you Capricorn ladies please!

I'm not a Cap, but may I ask how do you know she hates you, and what you mean by acted like she hates you?
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Well she was really obvious in her flirting and then all the sudden she stopped, and did not flirt at all and when I mean obvious I mean like one time she almost laid on a table where I was sitting to get my attention, after that she got really distant and would act really nervous or uncomfortable if i even looked at her, she completely ignores me still if I am close, she talks a little more now, but it's is still really uncomfortable, she really just acts horribly uncomfortable if I look at her for any length of time/ if i try to flirt with her, and she talks so comfortably around other co workers and goes out of the way to talk to some, but she never goes out of her way to talk to me, and when we talk you could technically cut the tension with a knife, I don't know it seems obvious that she doesn't like me/ that I make her uncomfortable.
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
Posted by CapGal
No FieryA, she doesn't hate you. Seems she's very attracted to you amd from my own experience, I tend to stay away from guys I'm attracted to cuz I get nervous around them, maybe stutter and make a fool of myself. So to ensure I don't make a fool of myself, I'll hang with just about anyone else, except that guy that's so irresistable.

I remember some time ago we had a post semester get-together and one of my professors who I had a crush on and who I knew like me too as he would question my friends about me, was in attendance. I spent the entire evening dancing and chatting with everyone else except him. I really hated myself when I got home. That's just how it is. Maybe you can get her to be a bit more comfortable by reaching out more to her


Alright that gives me a sense of relief thank you, what would you suggest because I don't want to scare her away.. I want her to be comfortable around me, and what do you think the very serious stares mean? and are most capricorn girls like that when they like someone?
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
Posted by champranger
Posted by FieryAries9108
Posted by CapGal
No FieryA, she doesn't hate you. Seems she's very attracted to you amd from my own experience, I tend to stay away from guys I'm attracted to cuz I get nervous around them, maybe stutter and make a fool of myself. So to ensure I don't make a fool of myself, I'll hang with just about anyone else, except that guy that's so irresistable.

I remember some time ago we had a post semester get-together and one of my professors who I had a crush on and who I knew like me too as he would question my friends about me, was in attendance. I spent the entire evening dancing and chatting with everyone else except him. I really hated myself when I got home. That's just how it is. Maybe you can get her to be a bit more comfortable by reaching out more to her


Alright that gives me a sense of relief thank you, what would you suggest because I don't want to scare her away.. I want her to be comfortable around me, and what do you think the very serious stares mean? and are most capricorn girls like that when they like someone?

She could just be observing you and your actions. Some Caps seems to really want to get to know people, especially if she's interested.
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Do you have any advice on how I should approach/ flirt with her? Also do you think she is interested in me?
LoL, boy that girl dont hate you. Im not sure what all is going through her head, but im also guilty of avoiding those im crazy about. My cancer cousin is crazy when she really likes a guy. She will literally push him away, so it can be a combination of her Cap sun and Cancer moon sending the weird signals.

I like champrangers advice on asking her opinion or asking her for help on something. Just make sure its not anything corny lol. Also like Capgal said we LOVE to laugh. I think that shes probably picking up some of your signals too. It doesnt sound like you are the most comfortable or sure around her either, which can make us even more nervous. Just get into yourself and dont put too much thought or energy in figuring her out. Approach her
..when you are comfortable in doing so.
49 years old female from Small Town, USA
Mrs Aqua
I agree with the other girls. I get really nervous and clam up around men I really like. I'm all fine, silly and outgoing with them until I decide I like them, then something changes and I don't know how to act. I'm just too conscious of them. And, if I flirt or say something I think is a little forward, and, I don't feel like I get a positive response, then I really, really am uncomfortable and avoid them. (because I analyze it as they don't like me back). No telling how many men I have scared away because of acting like that.

Yes, as they said, keep her laughing and do unexpected things. When the timing is right and she is responding, say something like "you're fun, we oughta hang out more often" and see how she responds. Take it from there.
male
"Describe Mys-elf, I am a elf."
She is interested in you. She analysing you.
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
I just wanted to thank everyone for their advice, it has helped me from making a bad decision that I would regret, also thank you for taking the time to respond in such detail.
49 years old female from Small Town, USA
Mrs Aqua
Keep us informed on how it went!
23 years old
Aries Sun, Taurus Venus, Pisces Mercury, Mars & Saturn.
Hi everyone I need advice again, I have taken your advice and have pretty much been very polite and nice to her, and have been making an effort to talk to her every day and it's just so hard, I know you say that Capricorn start to pull away because they are scared to make a fool of themselves, but it's so hard for me, she has just been doing the same thing for a couple of days, she has been really ignoring me as of late like I don't exist it really kind of hurts, I have been so polite and nice/patient, I don't know if I can handle the games any more (I know Capricorn don't play games but I can tell she is testing me), she is still giving me the intense stare/ she always looks at me when I am not looking, but if i look at her she will either look away/ look at someone else, she has even ignored me when I tried to talk to her/ and tried to talk to someone else, are you sure she doesn't hate me? I have a feeling she wants me to say something/ not be so unsure about my feelings but I already said I would help her anytime she needed it, actually I did help her with something once and she was very grateful (she mentioned it many times and acted like it was a big deal, when for me it wasn't because I would do anything for the one I care about), also I said specifically that I like and care for her I remember saying that I thought she was an intelligent, witty, sophisticated woman with the beauty and sense of humor to match. I am a cancer ascendent and maybe this is what is causing the confusion, because it seems to me that I can't say or do anything to please her, How should I outwardly show my affection for her without coming on too strong? when she is giving me the super serious stare should I act like i don't notice or look over and give her a genuine smile? also when I look at her a lot she acts uncomfortable so should i try to break eye contact more/ smile more? the only time she really responds is if i compliment her, but if I try to flirt with her she acts like she wants to run but at one time she flirted so openly/obviously with me and that was when I was acting really aloof/before I started caring about her... I'm just very confused...
She needs to figure some things out more than you do. I would wash my hands and be done with it for a while. If its hard for you, or hurting you, then I don't think it's worth it. If it starts like this then you have to wonder if anything were to happen how would it possibly end? I don't like the whole ignoring, let me pretend I don't see you, thing. It's like she lured you and is now being silly, so until she figures whatever out then it's probably best you not worry too much about it. I doubt there is anything you can do to make her open up, and it's obvious she's not going to communicate much of anything, so ignore.

Maybe someone else will have some better advice lol, but I don't like the whole thing of flirting and luring someone in to act stupid. It's almost like she's toying with your feelings. Don't let her do that.
42 years old female from UK
Capricorn
Shes not playing mind games shes nervous because shes got strong feelings. Just ask her on a date and take it slow. Capricorn is old fashioned so be a gentleman not some leg humper, just have open discussion frank straightforward no 'strategy'. Cappy is earth element so they check theyre on solid ground then proceed. So the seduction involves building firm ground, not display of fire, whirlwind romance or showing flexibility-water.
Im cappy woman and fire water and air look ace from a good earth position
But without a solid base in the beginning..fire looks like a reckless and shallow man..a watery man looks like a wimp/doormat and air looks chaotic and impractical.
But show earth first and fire looks like sincere enthusiasm based on a good understanding
water looks like sacrifice of love based on a deep bond and air looks like the beautiful sky that can only develop within a long term arrangement

So just say what your looking for in life, relationships find common ground then the stronger the ground found the more passion-fire, imagination going wild-air, and the more you will bend over backwards to be together-water
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