Cancer Men hate Cap Women?

People always say that Caps and Cancers should get along great but with the men I always seems to have a hard time even getting off the ground.. Like..hmm.. nothing bad..but nothing to make me look deeper into. I met a Cancer Man and we were cool until
LunarMaiden
female from July 11
Posted by lnana04
I haven't watched this show in a while, but my favorite couple on there was Kyle(Cap) and Mauricio(Cancer).




They make an attractive couple.
Who are these people?
I don't like reality tv.
They have that slightly awkward Cap/Crab relationship.
But there is affection and friendship between them.

LunarMaiden
female from July 11
How do Caps meet all the bastard Crabs?
Surely there are some happy and faithful couples out there.

This is a quiet match.
Tailormade843
Cap Sun Scorp Ris Leo Moon Aqua Venus Cap Mec Vir Mar
I would say being a Cap myself Cancer men are sneaky on another level. Been around three of them at some point. One was giving and reserved not too pressed about smashing women he was single. The other two were married. Cheating was a sport for them. One of the guys is my bf. He plays the role of loving father and husband but is a beast. The other one openly cheats with the gift for gab along with posting personal problems on fb.
TashaMack_the_Cap
35 years old female from WhereWildFlowersGrow!, Land of the Free,
Posted by DecFemCap
People always say that Caps and Cancers should get along great but with the men I always seems to have a hard time even getting off the ground.. Like..hmm.. nothing bad..but nothing to make me look deeper into.

I met a Cancer Man and we were cool until we BOTH parties just stopped talking less and less. I do feel like he is always throwing the ball in my court even when it is his turn to initiate or take lead of the conversation.

I've heard of Cancer Men Disappearing as well.. my thing is I'm not upfront going to tell you my deepest secrets. Take your shoes off get comfortable. Damn.

Not Sure if he left because I wasn't feeding into his transparent traps or because he wants to see it will take for me to reach out..

I've also noticed ( not trying to be mean IJS) that I'm moreee attractive than a lot of girls he has dealt with. Not saying I'm to hot to handle but I know men who date less attractive women to feel superior or get the king treatment from women with low self esteem.

Capricorn Women what are your experiences with Cancer men when it comes to a relationship getting off the ground? How about being friends not with benefits but maybe sexual tensions? Thoughts/suggestions?


BEWARE!!! I've dealt with two and it just never went anywhere!!! what funny is i knew they liked me...but it's like you said they are " always throwing the ball in my court even when it is his turn to initiate" their to sensitive for me..... two different guys same traits....
Diora_Capri
female from Brest,
in wonderland...
Posted by marshmallow
Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


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MoonyEYES88
Cancer Sun : Aqua Moon : Virgo Rising
Posted by DecFemCap
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable ?..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


It very well could be a sign to call or text him. A cancers feelings are so fragile, especially when it comes to initiating contact because it could lead to rejection, something cancers deeply fear. (a feeling caps might be familiar with ) though I think capricorns have a good hold on this fear, like they don't let that control their decision as much.
DecFemCap
female
Posted by AdmiraI
Posted by DecFemCap
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable ?..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.
What do I have to offer..something more than a box with a hole in it!

DecFemCap
female
Posted by AdmiraI
Posted by DecFemCap
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable ?..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.

Posted by DivaCanLeo
Posted by lnana04
I haven't watched this show in a while, but my favorite couple on there was Kyle(Cap) and Mauricio(Cancer).




He has to be cheating on her
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Why you say that? There were rumors but no proof. Probably is/was but I doubt she cares too much as long he keep his family a top priority.

My cousin is a Cancer and he's married to a Cap. He's sneaky as heck and stepped out before. His wife has noo clue..


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I like cap women very much.
marshmallow
female
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by marshmallow
My mother is a capricorn and father a cancer man. They seem to be fine with each other. But i feel my mother is much stronger mentally than my father .

I (also a capricorn) am not too fond of cancers . Have had a few guy cancer friends and i like them (generally) but when i see cancer guys otherwise (other than those i personally am fond of - my father and 1-2 friends ) I havent liked them . Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .

I feel like I can see right through this man which intimidates him or attracts him but he is still studying me.
I also feel like Cancers know who they can pull that cheating butter on...well anybody for that matter. If you know your wife is crazy as hell..I would not risk getting caught up in some fling.
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The cancer guys i am talking about here have amazing respective wives . They are sorted, educated, peaceful and good looking women . They definitely needed the crazy ones ...may be then they would have kept a check on themselves .
I would not associate cheating with cancer but these few guys whose hidden truth i am aware of ,are disgusting to me specially because they put a mask on and fool the person they are married to . You know if you are not happy in your marriage then leave thats ok but why fool someone ?
marshmallow
female
Posted by clippityclop
Posted by marshmallow
My mother is a capricorn and father a cancer man. They seem to be fine with each other. But i feel my mother is much stronger mentally than my father .

I (also a capricorn) am not too fond of cancers . Have had a few guy cancer friends and i like them (generally) but when i see cancer guys otherwise (other than those i personally am fond of - my father and 1-2 friends ) I havent liked them . Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


that extramarital affairs gives me the chills. i hope that isnt as common as you make it sound!
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I dont think so it could be common for cancer sign.
DecFemCap
female
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable ?..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?
DecFemCap
female
Posted by marshmallow
My mother is a capricorn and father a cancer man. They seem to be fine with each other. But i feel my mother is much stronger mentally than my father .

I (also a capricorn) am not too fond of cancers . Have had a few guy cancer friends and i like them (generally) but when i see cancer guys otherwise (other than those i personally am fond of - my father and 1-2 friends ) I havent liked them . Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .

I feel like I can see right through this man which intimidates him or attracts him but he is still studying me.
I also feel like Cancers know who they can pull that cheating butter on...well anybody for that matter. If you know your wife is crazy as hell..I would not risk getting caught up in some fling.
Posted by marshmallow
My mother is a capricorn and father a cancer man. They seem to be fine with each other. But i feel my mother is much stronger mentally than my father .

I (also a capricorn) am not too fond of cancers . Have had a few guy cancer friends and i like them (generally) but when i see cancer guys otherwise (other than those i personally am fond of - my father and 1-2 friends ) I havent liked them . Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


that extramarital affairs gives me the chills. i hope that isnt as common as you make it sound!
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