Capricorn man disappeared...any advice?

My 1st time dealing with a Capricorn man, so don't know what happened to him. He has Cappy sun; Virgo moon (moon tightly conjunct between Uranus & Pluto); Venus & Mars tightly conjunct in Aquarius. The background: We met a month ago accidentally...or
fem_fem_femMarch 23, 2018 10:30am
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  • im surprised u guys think he will still call lol i think the vegas trip cancellation was a farce he ended up changing his mind i just dont get what could have happened within just one day that he canceled and disappeared like that. anyways, whatever happened i hope it's not cause he liked me less all of the sudden lol but rather the reason being his internal issues. im still getting a lot of attention from this younger cappy everyday...that older dude's bday is January 11th...i have been seeing tons of 1111ssss all around and now him smile
  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
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    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??



    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol







    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.


    I agree that men and women are wired differently, it doesn't mean she cannot initiate a 'date' lol
    The reality is that FWB does happen, and I don't think in every instance a woman is waiting for the guy to call. The girls initiate as well lol Someone with fwb experience will tell you that.



    She can initiate. After all she can do anything she wants. It’s her life and her world. Doesn’t mean she will get the desired results. Her agreeing to be fwb already has soured this Union. Her further initiating anything is even more desperate.

    It’s clear as day that she wants more than to be a sex toy.

    How many men have your chased and how did it end?



    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.




    You didn’t answer my question tho. Also this man is not showing mutual interest and you’re suggesting she chase him. Setting her up for further failure. Calling and asking men out on dates is chasing. How did those relationships that you chased the man work out? Still with them? Married?



    That's false. He's already stated he liked her.


    "He said that he was looking for something casual, but I didn't protest that."

    "Cappy called me himself after 2 days after that date and told me that he is headed to Vegas for work the day after and invited me to join him for two days (one night), of course I said yes and obviously that time there would be sex between us at last, but then the next morning he called me to say that the person he has supposed to see in vegas, won't be there so he has to reschedule the trip, but that he goes to vegas for work often so next time and I said "ok."

    He will call her again when he goes to Vegas and she will accept (correct me if I'm wrong OP).
    So if they both want fwb (and she has stated that she's ok with it) I don't see why she has to wait for his call? That's my opinion and you don't have to agree.

    Reread what I wrote. I specifically said-
    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.

    As far as my personal life, that's none of your business. I'm done talking to you. You have your opinion and I have mine.



    I can’t read after you said “he said he liked her”

    You whole statement after that is moot. Reason being, words mean nothing. Actions are everything.


    I can’t read after you said “he said he liked her”


    Well, that's on you. lol



    Reason being, words mean nothing. Actions are everything.


    Sure

    "Cappy called me himself after 2 days after that date and told me that he is headed to Vegas for work the day after and invited me to join him for two days (one night), of course I said yes and obviously that time there would be sex between us at last, but then the next morning he called me to say that the person he has supposed to see in vegas, won't be there so he has to reschedule the trip, but that he goes to vegas for work often so next time and I said "ok."


    When he's ready to go to Vegas or dinner ( like he told the Op) he'll call. Two adults have agreed to a casual relationship.





    Him suggesting that says he’s not that into her duh. Like I said I don’t put stock into what someone says especially when their words directly contradict the actions. No man whose feeling you would suggest fwb.


    Two of you are arguing for no reason cause you're looking at it from different perspectives. And you're both right actually. You're right that when someone's into you they call and Smile is right that it's completely normal for fwb relationship that both are perfectly normal to call one another for the booty call lol there's no rules who calls who in such relationship. But considering the op had different opinion about it it's best for her to stay away from that guy anyway and to not call him. Besides she already found someone else so no point in arguing anyway. Anyway, in hope you 2 don't fight too much about it felt like mentioning it that it's simply same thing seen from different angles that gives different view on it...
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    Who said there is no rules with fwb? If
    You have boundaries, there is always rules.
  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by Smil3
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    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??



    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol







    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.


    I agree that men and women are wired differently, it doesn't mean she cannot initiate a 'date' lol
    The reality is that FWB does happen, and I don't think in every instance a woman is waiting for the guy to call. The girls initiate as well lol Someone with fwb experience will tell you that.



    She can initiate. After all she can do anything she wants. It’s her life and her world. Doesn’t mean she will get the desired results. Her agreeing to be fwb already has soured this Union. Her further initiating anything is even more desperate.

    It’s clear as day that she wants more than to be a sex toy.

    How many men have your chased and how did it end?



    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.




    You didn’t answer my question tho. Also this man is not showing mutual interest and you’re suggesting she chase him. Setting her up for further failure. Calling and asking men out on dates is chasing. How did those relationships that you chased the man work out? Still with them? Married?



    That's false. He's already stated he liked her.


    "He said that he was looking for something casual, but I didn't protest that."

    "Cappy called me himself after 2 days after that date and told me that he is headed to Vegas for work the day after and invited me to join him for two days (one night), of course I said yes and obviously that time there would be sex between us at last, but then the next morning he called me to say that the person he has supposed to see in vegas, won't be there so he has to reschedule the trip, but that he goes to vegas for work often so next time and I said "ok."

    He will call her again when he goes to Vegas and she will accept (correct me if I'm wrong OP).
    So if they both want fwb (and she has stated that she's ok with it) I don't see why she has to wait for his call? That's my opinion and you don't have to agree.

    Reread what I wrote. I specifically said-
    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.

    As far as my personal life, that's none of your business. I'm done talking to you. You have your opinion and I have mine.



    I can’t read after you said “he said he liked her”

    You whole statement after that is moot. Reason being, words mean nothing. Actions are everything.


    I can’t read after you said “he said he liked her”


    Well, that's on you. lol



    Reason being, words mean nothing. Actions are everything.


    Sure

    "Cappy called me himself after 2 days after that date and told me that he is headed to Vegas for work the day after and invited me to join him for two days (one night), of course I said yes and obviously that time there would be sex between us at last, but then the next morning he called me to say that the person he has supposed to see in vegas, won't be there so he has to reschedule the trip, but that he goes to vegas for work often so next time and I said "ok."


    When he's ready to go to Vegas or dinner ( like he told the Op) he'll call. Two adults have agreed to a casual relationship.



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    Him suggesting that says he’s not that into her duh. Like I said I don’t put stock into what someone says especially when their words directly contradict the actions. No man whose feeling you would suggest fwb.
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    well ladies and gents...i just went out with another cappy born end of december who is much younger than I am..he is 29 and im 35 and he is all over me..had a great date, it took my mind completely off that 52 year old cappy as i was feeling really down the past 2 weeks...came back home, this cappy started sending me texts saying what a wonderful time he had and all that jazz lol he si into me and has no problem showing it...so cappy or not cappy i guess men are different and this is how i like men to be..open direct and not ahving issues showign themselves then again this one is young and no baggage while the 52 year old ahs issues from what i see smile)) so im so glad i went on this date and looking forward seeing this guy again soon. he's already inviting me out but i told him that i dont want my studies to be affected so i told him that im available on the weekend instead since it will be a little problematic to hang out during the week due to my studies and school. So can I just say f*** that older cappy?! I dont care whether this 29 year old cuttie wants casual or serious (i would prefer casual) but at least the guy puts effort, plans a date, calls to check up on me, shows attention like a normal dude should if he is interested in someone. so i say we put that old cappy to rest now screw him smile



    now screw him smile


    You know you want to Tongue hahaha

    Well, good luck!





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    hahah well this one is much younger, nicer body, no hair...the other one was a beast lol and this younger one is chasing me..just woke up asking me how my day is going smile) sweet! the other one wont call im sure anymore i just hope that it's because his own issues not because he just woke up two days after and decided im butt ugly lol
  • well ladies and gents...i just went out with another cappy born end of december who is much younger than I am..he is 29 and im 35 and he is all over me..had a great date, it took my mind completely off that 52 year old cappy as i was feeling really down the past 2 weeks...came back home, this cappy started sending me texts saying what a wonderful time he had and all that jazz lol he si into me and has no problem showing it...so cappy or not cappy i guess men are different and this is how i like men to be..open direct and not ahving issues showign themselves then again this one is young and no baggage while the 52 year old ahs issues from what i see smile)) so im so glad i went on this date and looking forward seeing this guy again soon. he's already inviting me out but i told him that i dont want my studies to be affected so i told him that im available on the weekend instead since it will be a little problematic to hang out during the week due to my studies and school. So can I just say f*** that older cappy?! I dont care whether this 29 year old cuttie wants casual or serious (i would prefer casual) but at least the guy puts effort, plans a date, calls to check up on me, shows attention like a normal dude should if he is interested in someone. so i say we put that old cappy to rest now screw him smile
  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by TaurusFlower22
    Op, he doesn't sound worth the headache.
    Once a man sees you as casual, that rarely changes...especially when you give yourself to them the way you have. He gets bf privileges while giving you occasional crumbs.
    That's not ok.

    YOU should be the one doing the disappearing, who gives a damn what he's doing?
    If he wants you, he'll pursue you.


    Exactly!!
  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by Smil3
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    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??



    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol







    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.


    I agree that men and women are wired differently, it doesn't mean she cannot initiate a 'date' lol
    The reality is that FWB does happen, and I don't think in every instance a woman is waiting for the guy to call. The girls initiate as well lol Someone with fwb experience will tell you that.



    She can initiate. After all she can do anything she wants. It’s her life and her world. Doesn’t mean she will get the desired results. Her agreeing to be fwb already has soured this Union. Her further initiating anything is even more desperate.

    It’s clear as day that she wants more than to be a sex toy.

    How many men have your chased and how did it end?



    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.




    You didn’t answer my question tho. Also this man is not showing mutual interest and you’re suggesting she chase him. Setting her up for further failure. Calling and asking men out on dates is chasing. How did those relationships that you chased the man work out? Still with them? Married?



    That's false. He's already stated he liked her.


    "He said that he was looking for something casual, but I didn't protest that."

    "Cappy called me himself after 2 days after that date and told me that he is headed to Vegas for work the day after and invited me to join him for two days (one night), of course I said yes and obviously that time there would be sex between us at last, but then the next morning he called me to say that the person he has supposed to see in vegas, won't be there so he has to reschedule the trip, but that he goes to vegas for work often so next time and I said "ok."

    He will call her again when he goes to Vegas and she will accept (correct me if I'm wrong OP).
    So if they both want fwb (and she has stated that she's ok with it) I don't see why she has to wait for his call? That's my opinion and you don't have to agree.

    Reread what I wrote. I specifically said-
    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.

    As far as my personal life, that's none of your business. I'm done talking to you. You have your opinion and I have mine.

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    I can’t read after you said “he said he liked her”

    You whole statement after that is moot. Reason being, words mean nothing. Actions are everything.
  • Op, he doesn't sound worth the headache.
    Once a man sees you as casual, that rarely changes...especially when you give yourself to them the way you have. He gets bf privileges while giving you occasional crumbs.
    That's not ok.

    YOU should be the one doing the disappearing, who gives a damn what he's doing?
    If he wants you, he'll pursue you.
  • Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??



    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol







    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.


    I agree that men and women are wired differently, it doesn't mean she cannot initiate a 'date' lol
    The reality is that FWB does happen, and I don't think in every instance a woman is waiting for the guy to call. The girls initiate as well lol Someone with fwb experience will tell you that.



    She can initiate. After all she can do anything she wants. It’s her life and her world. Doesn’t mean she will get the desired results. Her agreeing to be fwb already has soured this Union. Her further initiating anything is even more desperate.

    It’s clear as day that she wants more than to be a sex toy.

    How many men have your chased and how did it end?



    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.




    You didn’t answer my question tho. Also this man is not showing mutual interest and you’re suggesting she chase him. Setting her up for further failure. Calling and asking men out on dates is chasing. How did those relationships that you chased the man work out? Still with them? Married?

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    I do agree with this.

  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??



    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol







    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.


    I agree that men and women are wired differently, it doesn't mean she cannot initiate a 'date' lol
    The reality is that FWB does happen, and I don't think in every instance a woman is waiting for the guy to call. The girls initiate as well lol Someone with fwb experience will tell you that.



    She can initiate. After all she can do anything she wants. It’s her life and her world. Doesn’t mean she will get the desired results. Her agreeing to be fwb already has soured this Union. Her further initiating anything is even more desperate.

    It’s clear as day that she wants more than to be a sex toy.

    How many men have your chased and how did it end?



    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.


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    You didn’t answer my question tho. Also this man is not showing mutual interest and you’re suggesting she chase him. Setting her up for further failure. Calling and asking men out on dates is chasing. How did those relationships that you chased the man work out? Still with them? Married?

  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??



    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol







    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.


    I agree that men and women are wired differently, it doesn't mean she cannot initiate a 'date' lol
    The reality is that FWB does happen, and I don't think in every instance a woman is waiting for the guy to call. The girls initiate as well lol Someone with fwb experience will tell you that.

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    She can initiate. After all she can do anything she wants. It’s her life and her world. Doesn’t mean she will get the desired results. Her agreeing to be fwb already has soured this Union. Her further initiating anything is even more desperate.

    It’s clear as day that she wants more than to be a sex toy.

    How many men have your chased and how did it end?
  • guys...i dont mind calling BUT if we had met again after the vegas cancellation by him (real or not) .. doesn't matter if he wants casual or not because he hasn't reached out to me...had he reached out once or twice after the date excluding his call regarding his invite to vegas then the cancellation next day, i wouldn't be wondering.....i dont want to call cause i dont even know if he wants the casual now because it's been 2 weeks of no contacts from him at all. Your suggestion now to contact him if i want casual isn't relevant now since his last contact with me was a cancelation lol so why should i be reaching for him serious or casual? the bottom line is to sum up his behavior towards me...he liked me the first time he saw me as he mentioned this to his friend...then on our double-date, we had very warm conversation throughout the night one-on-one.... by the way, since i mentioned that we all went to a casino, he kept putting his $ $ into the slot machines by $ 100 bills and was forcing me to play, but since it was his money, i kept saying no, then he was physically forcing me to play lol seeing that i told him that he will go bankrupt with me playing the slots since i never have luck with those, so he kept inisiting me to keep hitting the slots without any problem so that was nice of him.....although i then played a little then switched with him, but then after a little he would tell me to hit again so we ended up switching and he lost $ $ and didn't even care lol. My point is that he wasn't frugal and made sure that i play with his $ $ most of the time.

    Then somehow 4 of us on the double-date lost each other in the crowd after we all went to the bathroom, so i caught up with my friends' boyfriend first so we decided to look for that cappy man and my friend but i was wearing heels so i asked my friends boyfriend if i can sit at this specific slot and he can look for them cause my feet were killing me with heels on for so many hours, so my friend's bf said sure, then he pulled a $ 100 and stuck it in that slot machine telling me to entertain myself while he finds them both lol so after arguing with my friend's bf to take that $ 100 back, since i felt uncomfy, he didn't, of course, so i pulled that $ 100 out after the boyfriend went looking for them, and when we finally found that cappy man and my friend, I slid that $ 100 into the cappys slot machine myself as a pay back for his lost $ $ and told him it's his friend's $ $ and that now it is his turn to play with 'my' money so he was laughing at me. Anyways, he kept hugging me sideways saying how sweet and darling I am....he kept also asking me about my sexual past WTF was that all about???? he wanted to know when i lost my V and how many partners i have had

    why would he ask me such personal questions? in the hotel when we were laying next to each other, he said he really enjoyed the blowjob...btw i didn't even want to do that but it's like he kept insisting since i was on my 'period" so i did it although i didn't anticipate that night to end like that but i wasn't going to spend my night in the rain in front of the hotel...nor did i plan to sleep with him on the 1st date either...so i was put in a uncomfy situation having no $ $ to get a hotel myself and we all took 1 car and i didnt want to poop in everyone's party either by insisting that we head back home.....because i liked him. He told me in the hotel that im beautiful that i have a beautiful smile, great personality, that im fun to be around, that i seem like a happy person without any worries in life lol he even mentioned to me "im going to vegas mid week want to join me?" I said yes...so then as u guys know he called me after 2 days to give me time and day and i agreed again then the cancelation the very next morning. I have a feeling that he went and it was just a way for him to not pursue me in any way. After that date, he again told that friend that he liked u a lot and that I seem to be a very fun and pleasant woman" I dont doubt this cause thats how he was with me...he showed attraction the way he was looking at me too i could tell.

    he told me he has problems and is in debt so he felt stressed out but i have a feeling that there's someone in his life too so he decided to back out right before the vegas trip. Anyways, im starting to lose my interest in dating by now cause it seems people are either inconsistent, they blow hot and cold just like this cappy and im too old for this butter....i don't care if its serious or casual but im all for consistency with a man....when i asked him if he felt down after the divorce, he made it seem that he did, but i know that 10 yrs ago eh filed for divorce, then they got back together, then the wife left him again 3 yrs ago and he said that she is an Aries and both were very stubborn and it was like 'if u did this, ill do that' so stubborness got them divorced. I asked him do u want to get back to your wife, he said "nowdays who knows what the future holds, u don't even know what will happen to u next week." so i took this as if he is not over the divorce? I thought it is easier with older men but oh noooo there's too much baggage with them lol I have a date with a 29 yrs old (im 35) and he is all voer me, calling me showing me attention, he is sooo sweet. oh and i told my friend who i know will her boyfriend that i have a date with 2 different guys....i hope the rumor gets to the cappy lol that he missed the train with his disapperance so this is it for me...i waited for the 2nd weekend to pass to see if he will reach out but no so i need to move on now.
  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by Smil3
    Posted by bkbella86
    Posted by Smil3
    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??



    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol





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    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.
  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by Smil3
    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??
  • bkbella86
    32 years old female from BK, NY
    Posted by fem_fem_fem
    Posted by justlikeheaven
    Posted by fem_fem_fem
    Posted by justlikeheaven
    He want something casual, like he said. That means he wants sex from time to time.Period.
    It's clear that you want something more so you better stop here.




    ok but I didn't protest what he wanted and clearly was ok with saying yes to vegas after 2 days when he called to invite me. He also told me while we messed around that he is looking to dinner 1-2 week and occasionally going out of town thing....im yet to see both lol he just disappeared without even me contacting him or anything.

    I am a cap sun, leo moon, cap venus and I had a thing with a cap man, with cancer moon and sagittarius venus..so clearly not the same placements as your cap.
    The thing with cap men is that they're honest, everything he SAY and everything he DOES it represent the truth.So, yeah, he wants something casual, he likes you, he wanna spend (some) time with you, but that's all, don't expect him to try more (like texting "hi,how are you").If my intuition is good, and along with my experience, I think he will contact you when he will want to see you (you know, being practical).
    You are waaay to involved already, if you weren't you didn't come here with all these worried questions.Be cautious with all this, 'cause in the end you might break your own heart.



    yeah i understand what u mean it's just even casually all men text hi at least to me so thats why this one i wasn't sure what to think i figured he is involved with someone lol but anyways i'd love to be casual if we could at least go to that dinner he mentioned once a week and the occasional trips together but whatever...he seemed to have issues in life and in debt too lol he was stressed and he told his friend that i was a pleasant girl to be around and full of life and fun...not in a bad way fun but just fun person to be with. he seemed to feel at ease and comfortable and like he was himself with me. so u understand why im not sure what to think now and even with the casual talk, i was expecting him to drop a simple hi....im losing interest now quite honestly since i was hoping to hear a hi or some type of acknowledgment by now
    and even if he wants me for sex he can at least say a hi in my optinion..it doesn't take much from him so that's why i can get the casual thing from another man who can still take me out, hang out and check in with me to say a simple hello.
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