Do all cap men tend to ghost on their crushes?

Super long distance "relationship". Not really - mostly just talking and trying to get to know each other. which is difficult in and of itself since cap men are awkward over text. he's ghosted a couple times before and i let it be known i didn't appreciat
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  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by miriyahhh
    Posted by ufo
    I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for her

    a true idiot



    I think about this alot
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    Me too, now that someone’s seen it happen in real life.
    I always thought that stuff only happened in the movies.
  • miriyahhh
    from California
    Posted by ufo
    I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for her

    a true idiot



    I think about this alot
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by Sagaqua
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by Sagaqua
    Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.

    Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.

    We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!

    I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...

    I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...

    I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.


    See, I’m the same way. I’m pretty good at reading between the lines so I duck out before I look foolish. I’ve read caps like to “test” people. In the past when he’s ghosted I made a big deal about it, but I’ve only mentioned he’s been very quiet lately. He might be looking to see if I’m going to freak out again. But.... he’ll be waiting for a long time because I won’t do that again. Lol.

    The annoying part is I think I’m only physically attracted to him, aside from some minor personality attraction. But he’s awkward. Uses baby words like “otay”. Which I think is odd for a 31yr old male.



    I never even freaked on him or was confrontational about the ghosting/ignoring me. I did call him out on it though in a nice way saying I didnt appreciate it in person on one of our meets.

    At this point he knows me enough by now to know Im not going to freak on him and I'll talk logical/non confrontational to him... I know he knows deep down Im good and very chill.

    I'll never understand popping back in chasing me, being So affectionate, talk about his life, family, goals, invite me to his home, etc, then bounce... Caps just dont open up to anyone...



    The baby words are odd. haha

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    Lmao I know! The first time he said it I was like... whhhhat?? Oh well. Too much headache trying to keep up with his moods.
  • Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Super long distance "relationship". Not really - mostly just talking and trying to get to know each other. which is difficult in and of itself since cap men are awkward over text. he's ghosted a couple times before and i let it be known i didn't appreciate it. he says he's got a lot on his mind with work, which i actually sort of believe except he's on instagram all the time.

    im not the type that gets antisocial when work is occupying my mind, but that doesn't mean no one is.

    why do y'all ghost on people? i dont get it. i always thought it was bad manners to just stop all communication without at least saying something about it.

    what's his deal?


    says he's got a lot on his mind with work, which i actually sort of believe except he's on instagram all the time....

    Enough said! You have your answer! You just denying the obvious...unless he is a security guard...but he can talk to you instead of instagram...dismiss him!
  • Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by Sagaqua
    Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.

    Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.

    We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!

    I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...

    I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...

    I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.


    See, I’m the same way. I’m pretty good at reading between the lines so I duck out before I look foolish. I’ve read caps like to “test” people. In the past when he’s ghosted I made a big deal about it, but I’ve only mentioned he’s been very quiet lately. He might be looking to see if I’m going to freak out again. But.... he’ll be waiting for a long time because I won’t do that again. Lol.

    The annoying part is I think I’m only physically attracted to him, aside from some minor personality attraction. But he’s awkward. Uses baby words like “otay”. Which I think is odd for a 31yr old male.

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    I never even freaked on him or was confrontational about the ghosting/ignoring me. I did call him out on it though in a nice way saying I didnt appreciate it in person on one of our meets.

    At this point he knows me enough by now to know Im not going to freak on him and I'll talk logical/non confrontational to him... I know he knows deep down Im good and very chill.

    I'll never understand popping back in chasing me, being So affectionate, talk about his life, family, goals, invite me to his home, etc, then bounce... Caps just dont open up to anyone...



    The baby words are odd. haha

  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by Sagaqua
    Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.

    Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.

    We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!

    I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...

    I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...

    I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.


    See, I’m the same way. I’m pretty good at reading between the lines so I duck out before I look foolish. I’ve read caps like to “test” people. In the past when he’s ghosted I made a big deal about it, but I’ve only mentioned he’s been very quiet lately. He might be looking to see if I’m going to freak out again. But.... he’ll be waiting for a long time because I won’t do that again. Lol.

    The annoying part is I think I’m only physically attracted to him, aside from some minor personality attraction. But he’s awkward. Uses baby words like “otay”. Which I think is odd for a 31yr old male.

  • Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.

    Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.

    We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!

    I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...

    I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...

    I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by DeadInside
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by DeadInside
    👻👻👻👻👻


    i feel like you could be him by some of the things you post. lol.


    so what sign are u
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    Libra. By default libras and caps don’t mesh very well. We have similar interests and... I’m ashamed to say... he’s gorgeous and I don’t think he really knows that.

  • DeadInside
    they'll bend the knee
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by DeadInside
    👻👻👻👻👻


    i feel like you could be him by some of the things you post. lol.
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    so what sign are u
  • ufo
    sighted
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by ufo
    I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for her

    a true idiot


    oh no! don't tell me that! we facetimed regularly for a long while and he always texted me after and said he really liked talking to me. my job requires me to basically entertain people.
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    I think you're good, that cap was a child inside afraid of women until recently he finally manned up and locked it down w/ some girl
  • Lala1393
    I AM a Scorpio & I WILL eat you.Rising: Cancer/Moon Scorp/Venus: Scorp/Mercury
    24 years old female from Paris, France
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    which i actually sort of believe except he's on instagram all the time.


    Red flag !🚫🚫🚫
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by ufo
    I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for her

    a true idiot


    oh no! don't tell me that! we facetimed regularly for a long while and he always texted me after and said he really liked talking to me. my job requires me to basically entertain people.
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by Lala1393
    No. They don't.

    They're very consistent with people they love/like.
    And will always keep you posted if they're busy.

    I have a Cap ex that STILL contacts me and keeps me posted. We haven't been together for years amd have 2 oceans separating us.


    I'd say move on with this one. And be happy he's showing you his true colours.


    I'll definitely keep that in mind.
  • ufo
    sighted
    I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for her

    a true idiot
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    One other thing - i know he's in the process of starting his own company. so... i guess maybe he could be telling the truth.
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