he wants me to change my number!

So since my last update, everything has been moving along great. He's made a huge effort to give me the things I need to feel comfortable and secure in our new relationship and I've been doing my best to do the same but it seems like nothing will satisfy
female from United States
Life is a journey!
So since my last update, everything has been moving along great. He's made a huge effort to give me the things I need to feel comfortable and secure in our new relationship and I've been doing my best to do the same but it seems like nothing will satisfy him. Since he and I became a couple, I've stopped contact with other guys. Now the only guys I speak to outside of our family is the husbands of my close girlfriends. Who he is also very good friends with. Anyway... last night, out of the blue, I received one of those "hey stranger" texts from a guy I was talking to prior to me even meeting my now boyfriend. Well he saw the text and asked me who that was, I was honest and told him so the guy was. So I grabbed my phone and replied to his message with "hello. I'm now in a relationship and would appreciate idi no longer contact me" the dude replied back with "lol... fa sho...." Well, now my bf wants me to change my number. What baffles me is that the day after we became a couple, he has several females text his phone. All I asked that he do was to let them know he was in a relationship and not to contact him anymore. I never asked him to change his number and I find it unfair that he would ask me to change mine. What do y'all think?
He doesn't trust easily. Whether it's you and/or other guys. He could view it as disrespectful. Who knows...only you know what you are & are not willing to deal with. If you feel it's unfair then express that to him.
Leeb luvs sagiLuv
I wouldn't change anything!
36 years old female
Scorp Sun. Cancer moon. Virgo venus.
Ask him if he's paying for it. lol don't it cost money to change your number? I've had tha same number for like 13 years 😳😳😂😂
36 years old female
Scorp Sun. Cancer moon. Virgo venus.
I think changing your number is extreme. You could offer him your passcode instead. But it shouldn't be necessary to change your number.
female from United States
Life is a journey!
Posted by ScorpioTruth
Ask him if he's paying for it. lol don't it cost money to change your number? I've had tha same number for like 13 years 😳😳😂😂


Lol. He offered to pay it but like u, I've had this number for about 15yrs or more. It's not easy to part with it.
female from United States
Life is a journey!
Posted by Capri-sun
He doesn't trust easily. Whether it's you and/or other guys. He could view it as disrespectful. Who knows...only you know what you are & are not willing to deal with. If you feel it's unfair then express that to him.


I told him I didn't think it was fair that he asked me to change my number. I know he doesn't trust easily but I've never given him any reason to doubt my loyalty. So he asked me to think about it and we'll talk about it latee
Pisces sun, Aries moon, Leo rising
Tell him, "I will if you will". After all fairs fair.
female from United States
Life is a journey!
Posted by ScorpioTruth
I think changing your number is extreme. You could offer him your passcode instead. But it shouldn't be necessary to change your number.


I don't have any password or locks on my phone.
What if you change your number as long as he changes his? Say it on the fly so he has no chance to write down numbers haha
female from United States
Life is a journey!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Tell him, "I will if you will". After all fairs fair.


It'll be hard for him to change his because it's connected with his job
female from United States
Life is a journey!
Posted by Lunabee
What if you change your number as long as he changes his? Say it on the fly so he has no chance to write down numbers haha


Lol... Im honestly not worried about him cheating. I trust him that much. Even tho they called his phone, he told them he was in a relationship and asked that they don't call him back
Posted by TyliaB
Posted by Lunabee
What if you change your number as long as he changes his? Say it on the fly so he has no chance to write down numbers haha


Lol... Im honestly not worried about him cheating. I trust him that much. Even tho they called his phone, he told them he was in a relationship and asked that they don't call him back
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Well if you're not worried and he has no reason to worrry, why not do it mutually,? That is deep.

Aqua 5th House/Scorp Moon/Virgo ASC Male
Posted by TyliaB
Posted by LadyNeptune
Tell him, "I will if you will". After all fairs fair.


It'll be hard for him to change his because it's connected with his job
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Well you've had yours for years, a sacrifice is a sacrifice, if he's worried so much then you guys can go through a change together

If he makes it difficult he probably wants to control you

What's his sign btw?
99 years old female from Jupiter
oh na na what's my name?
The only time I ever changed my number for someone was 4 months before I got married to my Virgo ex hub..

And that includes deleting people from my social media account and making them all private..

He never asked for it.. I did it whole heartedly lol 😜😂

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