HELP! How to know if Capricorn man is interested in you or is just nice because of his good nature?

I think I created this topic before but I don’t think it got posted (it’s my first day here so I may have missclicked something). In any case this one will be very long read. But I genuinely have no idea what to do. So let me give you some information so
27 years old female from Lithuania
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27 years old female from Lithuania
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Posted by Roana
OMG HE DOES LIKE ME! The issue is not me So I knew that almost two years ago he ended very long relashionship that he had. But he never told me what happened and so on. So today he finnaly told me that since he is closed off person he never talked about the lows or highs in that relashionship. But the reason why they broke up as well as whole relashionship left huge wound inside him. And he is trying to heal them up, and until he will be done with that they block him from even thinking about any new relashionship. Since he likes me and does care about my well being, getting to close to me would be unfair to me since he wouldn't be able to be normal in a relashionship.

But he said that if he would be in his normal way I would be the girl he would like to date

Ohhh... So I guess all in all it ended up better than I excpected, worse than I hoped for In any case I will just live my life, me and him will remain friends and we will see who knows maybe in the future I won't be in relashionship and he will be done with healing and we will come together. If not than well it's not ment to be

Funny enough his answer made me kinda happy I guess just the finnaly knowing part made my heart at ease

I don't want to bring you down from your high. Hopefully he is being honest with you. It could just be an excuse to let you down easily.

Either way, like you said live your life, if it's meant to be then it will happen.
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Well I hope for the best I have seen him say stuff to people flat out to their faces, so I know he is capable of doing that. Also as weird as that sounds but maybe because of my zodiac sign I am always attracted to people who are broken in some way. And now that makes sense. His relashionship did do a number on him so for some reason I had this huge attraction for him from out of nowhere (obviously later on he started doing stuff that just increased it) but initial attraction was out of nowhere. He wasn't the usual type that I go for so this can explain why. I guess I just felt certain need to heal him even though I personaly didn't knew that he needed healing. In any case it is true he might have just said that to let me down gently, but like I said I just needed answer to be able to move on even if he would have said I DONT LIKE YOU, I still would be happy since I would no longer need to play out scenarios in my head and I guess future will tell the truth.
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OMG HE DOES LIKE ME! The issue is not me So I knew that almost two years ago he ended very long relashionship that he had. But he never told me what happened and so on. So today he finnaly told me that since he is closed off person he never talked about the lows or highs in that relashionship. But the reason why they broke up as well as whole relashionship left huge wound inside him. And he is trying to heal them up, and until he will be done with that they block him from even thinking about any new relashionship. Since he likes me and does care about my well being, getting to close to me would be unfair to me since he wouldn't be able to be normal in a relashionship.

But he said that if he would be in his normal way I would be the girl he would like to date

Ohhh... So I guess all in all it ended up better than I excpected, worse than I hoped for In any case I will just live my life, me and him will remain friends and we will see who knows maybe in the future I won't be in relashionship and he will be done with healing and we will come together. If not than well it's not ment to be

Funny enough his answer made me kinda happy I guess just the finnaly knowing part made my heart at ease

I don't want to bring you down from your high. Hopefully he is being honest with you. It could just be an excuse to let you down easily.

Either way, like you said live your life, if it's meant to be then it will happen.
27 years old female from Lithuania
OMG HE DOES LIKE ME! The issue is not me So I knew that almost two years ago he ended very long relashionship that he had. But he never told me what happened and so on. So today he finnaly told me that since he is closed off person he never talked about the lows or highs in that relashionship. But the reason why they broke up as well as whole relashionship left huge wound inside him. And he is trying to heal them up, and until he will be done with that they block him from even thinking about any new relashionship. Since he likes me and does care about my well being, getting to close to me would be unfair to me since he wouldn't be able to be normal in a relashionship.

But he said that if he would be in his normal way I would be the girl he would like to date

Ohhh... So I guess all in all it ended up better than I excpected, worse than I hoped for In any case I will just live my life, me and him will remain friends and we will see who knows maybe in the future I won't be in relashionship and he will be done with healing and we will come together. If not than well it's not ment to be

Funny enough his answer made me kinda happy I guess just the finnaly knowing part made my heart at ease
27 years old female from Lithuania
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Posted by Roana
Well so my patience snapped and I wrote this to him: "ech I thought I will tell you this because I just don't want to keep this inside me. I want you to know this (even I am sure you are already aware of this) I really really like you (just as you are. With your annoying qualities, your responsible attitude, your friendly and caring nature and even the fact that I can't understand you). One thing about me that I don't think you knew about is the fact that I pride myself on being able to see through people really fast (even though I rarely show it). But the fact is with you I just don't seem to be able too, which makes me wonder why not... Anyhow it's quite obvious that you don't like me (well at least not in the way that I like you). But even though I realize that I just had to finally say it because I hate carrying those types of things inside me, and since you and I promised to each other to always be open about everything I decided to do it today Don't worry you don't have to tell me anything on this topic, because as I said I just needed to finally let those thoughts out. And now I will stop bothering you, have a nice rest you really truly deserved it! "

I thought he will say: " ok "noted" or "thanks for sharing". Or thanks for sharing but you are right I like you as a person and a friend but nothing else".

Instead he wrote this: "Hey so you wouldn't think that I am hiding you I promise to answer you as soon as I will have tiny bit more free time. Because right now I am driving a car and doing some chores."

I get the busy part, but I specifically sayd he doesn't need to answer and so on. And if he did wanted to answer he could have just done the things he need and answered then. Why did he needed to send this little message of telling me that I wouldn't think that he is hiding

Also it makes me thing that probably he is thinking that he will need to let me down gently so he will try to make time for that god... suddenly all the courage that I had yesterday is gone... god dammit....


I'm more inclined to think it's the last part as well because I think otherwise, I think he would have tried to ask you out.
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Yes I think so too I just want him to finnaly say it because I dont have enough strength to just forget without normal closure
27 years old female from Lithuania
Posted by Capri-sun
It's the assumptions you made.

Anyhow it's quite obvious that you don't like me (well at least not in the way that I like you).

Don't worry you don't have to tell me anything on this topic

& to me his comment sounded a bit like there is nothing to see through.

I'm sorry for the confusion...hope things work out for your best interest.


I hope he will say what he wants to because I was perfectly ok with him not saying anything, but when he said he will say anything treetrunked up my mind again.. ech...
It's the assumptions you made.

Anyhow it's quite obvious that you don't like me (well at least not in the way that I like you).

Don't worry you don't have to tell me anything on this topic

& to me his comment sounded a bit like there is nothing to see through.

I'm sorry for the confusion...hope things work out for your best interest.
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Posted by Roana
Well so my patience snapped and I wrote this to him: "ech I thought I will tell you this because I just don't want to keep this inside me. I want you to know this (even I am sure you are already aware of this) I really really like you (just as you are. With your annoying qualities, your responsible attitude, your friendly and caring nature and even the fact that I can't understand you). One thing about me that I don't think you knew about is the fact that I pride myself on being able to see through people really fast (even though I rarely show it). But the fact is with you I just don't seem to be able too, which makes me wonder why not... Anyhow it's quite obvious that you don't like me (well at least not in the way that I like you). But even though I realize that I just had to finally say it because I hate carrying those types of things inside me, and since you and I promised to each other to always be open about everything I decided to do it today Don't worry you don't have to tell me anything on this topic, because as I said I just needed to finally let those thoughts out. And now I will stop bothering you, have a nice rest you really truly deserved it! "

I thought he will say: " ok "noted" or "thanks for sharing". Or thanks for sharing but you are right I like you as a person and a friend but nothing else".

Instead he wrote this: "Hey so you wouldn't think that I am hiding you I promise to answer you as soon as I will have tiny bit more free time. Because right now I am driving a car and doing some chores."

I get the busy part, but I specifically sayd he doesn't need to answer and so on. And if he did wanted to answer he could have just done the things he need and answered then. Why did he needed to send this little message of telling me that I wouldn't think that he is hiding

Also it makes me thing that probably he is thinking that he will need to let me down gently so he will try to make time for that god... suddenly all the courage that I had yesterday is gone... god dammit....


I'm more inclined to think it's the last part as well because I think otherwise, I think he would have tried to ask you out.
27 years old female from Lithuania
Well so my patience snapped and I wrote this to him: "ech I thought I will tell you this because I just don't want to keep this inside me. I want you to know this (even I am sure you are already aware of this) I really really like you (just as you are. With your annoying qualities, your responsible attitude, your friendly and caring nature and even the fact that I can't understand you). One thing about me that I don't think you knew about is the fact that I pride myself on being able to see through people really fast (even though I rarely show it). But the fact is with you I just don't seem to be able too, which makes me wonder why not... Anyhow it's quite obvious that you don't like me (well at least not in the way that I like you). But even though I realize that I just had to finally say it because I hate carrying those types of things inside me, and since you and I promised to each other to always be open about everything I decided to do it today Don't worry you don't have to tell me anything on this topic, because as I said I just needed to finally let those thoughts out. And now I will stop bothering you, have a nice rest you really truly deserved it! "

I thought he will say: " ok "noted" or "thanks for sharing". Or thanks for sharing but you are right I like you as a person and a friend but nothing else".

Instead he wrote this: "Hey so you wouldn't think that I am hiding you I promise to answer you as soon as I will have tiny bit more free time. Because right now I am driving a car and doing some chores."

I get the busy part, but I specifically sayd he doesn't need to answer and so on. And if he did wanted to answer he could have just done the things he need and answered then. Why did he needed to send this little message of telling me that I wouldn't think that he is hiding

Also it makes me thing that probably he is thinking that he will need to let me down gently so he will try to make time for that god... suddenly all the courage that I had yesterday is gone... god dammit....
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My ex Cappy hid, behind the guise of friendship. At the time I had made it clear that I wasn't emotionally ready for more than that. So, although he would go above and beyond in some ways, he continued play the part of just a really good and supportive friend. It wasn't until I started showing direct interest with him, that he felt like the coast was clear to be more direct towards me. Are you showing interest?


Yes I did showed direct interest I even said to him that I like him.



Did you just say you like him or did you tell him that you like him as more than a friend? Have you asked him out at all? It doesn't have to be "let's go on a date" ask him if he'd like to meet up for lunch sometime or meet up for coffee or drinks. It sounds like a lot of your time together is at work or work related gatherings.

If all else fails, plant a nice wet one on him.Tell him you just couldn't take it anymore, it may invade that little bubble he has around himself, but that just may be what he needs


Ohh I did offer him to go for coffee, or for drinks and like I said he would say we could some day and so on and when I wanted to be more specific when he would just say that he is really busy. And he knows that I like him as man way above friendship I did tell him that and I think the way I act shows him that too. I did kissed him once on the cheek but me kissing him on the lips would be going soooooo against my nature. Also not to mention with me not knowing what he feels for me, he might push me away during the kiss that would be horrible
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If you did all these things, I would recommend falling back to see if he pursues. Then you will have your answer.

If he is interested in any way, I'm afraid it might not be enough.
27 years old female from Lithuania
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Sad to say but I still don't think he is. Sounds like a really nice guy and rather friendly but that's about it. You guys aren't even going out on dates or just hanging out alone. Everything you mention revolves around work. The only caveat is that this is at work which always complicates things.

However, 2 years is a long time to be indecisive unless there is another woman in the picture. Have you ever asked him if he was single?

I just don't want to get your hopes up, he sounds like a nice guy. And he is probably just that... a nice guy. I know it's hard to believe but we still do exist lol.


No there is no other women in the picture I know that because he went from very very long term relashionship he didn't want anything serious for a long time. And I am not surprised that there are nice guysI meet alot of them But the thing is sometimes the way we talk or the way we flirt really is above and beyond the I am just being nice to you. I just can't understand what is stoping him from making that one little step.


I guess you're right... you've already waited 2 years, what's another 20? Go for it.


Ouch! I have been guilty of waiting on an Aries guy for 4yrs during college. He would stare at me everyday during classes and was absolutely crazy about me.

I'm ambidextrous and he started copying that. Everyone on the campus knew he liked me. He told my friends how much he liked me, but he could never approach me. Everytime he tried speaking to me, his face would go red.

After having waited 4yrs, I decided to date a Virgo.

I must say, that was a good learning experience for me.


Wow 4 years... that's alot. I don't have that patience


Yes, 4 years. Lol. Apparently I have lots of patience.

I would not ask anyone to put up with that. It's either meant to be or not.


But hey it was unique experience, that teached you something so I guess the time was not completely wasted


Haha. I did learn a lot...about guys and most importantly about myself. I could write a book!

Well, yes you could say our time wasn't wasted. We both believed it was love, it was probably just infatuation. Despite everyone wanting to see us together, it never happened.

We stayed on the university campus 24/7, so we saw each other all the time. Had that not been the case, it would not have dragged on for so long.




cha cha maybe you should D Och I wonder if I would be working with him every day maybe I would see how it really is. But I guess for now I will just focus on my own stuff and see and try to maybe get him to meet up outside the work


Sounds like a good idea.

This could turn into a long chase, but as long as you're having fun and not getting too attached... I'd say go for it.

Always guard your feelings first.
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Yes I will try. Not getting too attached might be issue but I will need to work on that!
27 years old female from Lithuania
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My ex Cappy hid, behind the guise of friendship. At the time I had made it clear that I wasn't emotionally ready for more than that. So, although he would go above and beyond in some ways, he continued play the part of just a really good and supportive friend. It wasn't until I started showing direct interest with him, that he felt like the coast was clear to be more direct towards me. Are you showing interest?


Yes I did showed direct interest I even said to him that I like him.



Did you just say you like him or did you tell him that you like him as more than a friend? Have you asked him out at all? It doesn't have to be "let's go on a date" ask him if he'd like to meet up for lunch sometime or meet up for coffee or drinks. It sounds like a lot of your time together is at work or work related gatherings.

If all else fails, plant a nice wet one on him.Tell him you just couldn't take it anymore, it may invade that little bubble he has around himself, but that just may be what he needs
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Ohh I did offer him to go for coffee, or for drinks and like I said he would say we could some day and so on and when I wanted to be more specific when he would just say that he is really busy. And he knows that I like him as man way above friendship I did tell him that and I think the way I act shows him that too. I did kissed him once on the cheek but me kissing him on the lips would be going soooooo against my nature. Also not to mention with me not knowing what he feels for me, he might push me away during the kiss that would be horrible
27 years old female from Lithuania
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Sad to say but I still don't think he is. Sounds like a really nice guy and rather friendly but that's about it. You guys aren't even going out on dates or just hanging out alone. Everything you mention revolves around work. The only caveat is that this is at work which always complicates things.

However, 2 years is a long time to be indecisive unless there is another woman in the picture. Have you ever asked him if he was single?

I just don't want to get your hopes up, he sounds like a nice guy. And he is probably just that... a nice guy. I know it's hard to believe but we still do exist lol.


No there is no other women in the picture I know that because he went from very very long term relashionship he didn't want anything serious for a long time. And I am not surprised that there are nice guysI meet alot of them But the thing is sometimes the way we talk or the way we flirt really is above and beyond the I am just being nice to you. I just can't understand what is stoping him from making that one little step.


I guess you're right... you've already waited 2 years, what's another 20? Go for it.


Ouch! I have been guilty of waiting on an Aries guy for 4yrs during college. He would stare at me everyday during classes and was absolutely crazy about me.

I'm ambidextrous and he started copying that. Everyone on the campus knew he liked me. He told my friends how much he liked me, but he could never approach me. Everytime he tried speaking to me, his face would go red.

After having waited 4yrs, I decided to date a Virgo.

I must say, that was a good learning experience for me.


Wow 4 years... that's alot. I don't have that patience


Yes, 4 years. Lol. Apparently I have lots of patience.

I would not ask anyone to put up with that. It's either meant to be or not.


But hey it was unique experience, that teached you something so I guess the time was not completely wasted


Haha. I did learn a lot...about guys and most importantly about myself. I could write a book!

Well, yes you could say our time wasn't wasted. We both believed it was love, it was probably just infatuation. Despite everyone wanting to see us together, it never happened.

We stayed on the university campus 24/7, so we saw each other all the time. Had that not been the case, it would not have dragged on for so long.


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cha cha maybe you should D Och I wonder if I would be working with him every day maybe I would see how it really is. But I guess for now I will just focus on my own stuff and see and try to maybe get him to meet up outside the work
27 years old female from Lithuania
Posted by SweetLily89
My ex Cappy hid, behind the guise of friendship. At the time I had made it clear that I wasn't emotionally ready for more than that. So, although he would go above and beyond in some ways, he continued play the part of just a really good and supportive friend. It wasn't until I started showing direct interest with him, that he felt like the coast was clear to be more direct towards me. Are you showing interest?


Yes I did showed direct interest I even said to him that I like him.
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I have to agree with daron here.

In your post you have tried explaining why he may not be ready for a relationship yet. I would advice against doing that.

I'm dating a Cap who is really shy. There are a lot of differences between us, which could have made it difficult for him to approach me, but they did not. He was the one to pursue me and the first to declare his feelings.

I can be intimidating for most guys, so the fact that he could be so bold with me, came as a surprise. It's finally made me start believing that if a guy really likes you, he will let you know.


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