Is this typical behavior?

I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I met a Capricorn man online the first week of December, when we met in person the first date went very well. The 2nd date went well also and we had our first kiss. It was awesome and from that point on
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  • UnicornSag
    🌞, ♀️, ☿ ♐🌙♈♂️♏🌄♓-🦄inside - ENTJ/ENTP
    female
    Posted by lesenfantterribles
    Posted by sexyscorp19
    His Venus is in Aquarius.


    i had a feeling this is exactly where his venus was. showing you have patience to allow for space, actually may work in your favor.

    if you want to make the effort: proceed w/ friendly vibes & ask him about his interests, especially if you have common ones. banter is a good way to make an air placement comfy. try & keep it light & ease into emotionality when you feel a rapport. do not be afraid to show initiative. most importantly, be yourself

    i have a number of aqua venus in my life. this is my overall pattern analysis, from hard field research. culled over many years of close contact & observation. not everyone may agree but, these are my findings.

    like @roosagicorn said, maybe he is interested & just being slow to rise. either way, i still think you should be direct & ask him what is UP.
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    I should apply same principle for my own situation I guess too, since it's again Cap sun Aqua Venus(and Aqua Moon too) and I think you're right, it's pretty much how I read about it in his chart interpretation too
  • UnicornSag
    🌞, ♀️, ☿ ♐🌙♈♂️♏🌄♓-🦄inside - ENTJ/ENTP
    female
    Posted by sexyscorp19
    Posted by UnicornSag
    Posted by DeadInside
    no seriously ppl lol. after 3 week of being busy. if my gf move on she's not worth a lot. yall probably never marry a CEO. no diss str8 reality


    i had a feeling you work like that...let people wait for you lol
    but there's a lot of difference if you SAY to someone to wait some time and if you just GHOST on and say nothing...like we're no mind readers. From my perspective I'd just assume you're not interested and you're putting me down easy. See how it works from both sides now?


    I kinda felt like this maybe what he's doing and that's why he responds. Otherwise, why bother responding and just ghost.
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    maybe, maybe not, we can't really know...he could be keeping you waiting but you don't have to analyze it too much, best thing you can do is straight forward approach but not in an interrogative way, just casual, want to meet up way
  • NostalgicCappyy
    INFJ
    female
    Posted by sexyscorp19
    Posted by NostalgicCappyy
    What is his Venus sign, do you know?


    His Venus is in Aquarius.
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    I'm also a Capricorn with Venus in Aquarius. I can say that it sounds like he's probably talking to a few people, but keeps you around as someone he has an interest in (at least on some level), but hasn't made up his mind about who he connects with the most.

    Here's the thing, I'm all about "when it's convenient for me" I want to hear from them when I want their attention. Having time alone and plenty of space is crucial to a Venus in Aquarius, I feel claustrophobic in Real relationships. I prefer long distance and fantasy, over the conventional and together all the time. Sometimes I feel like I want that, but as soon as someone I'm talking to starts to make it 'real' I get panicky and will bail. But, if the person/persons text me and appeals to my mind and does Not give drama or get on my case for anything, I will gladly talk to them. But again... actually making plans-- not so much..

    If you really like him, I'd say give him fun stuff to think about, light his fire of his fantasy world, and keep it light. No pressure of making plans, he will get closer to you and be the one coming after you.

    I hope what I said (any of it), makes sense and you can take something from it.

    Good luck

    P.S. Once we do decide on the one we connect with and have feelings for- it's like night and day. We will Love intensely and the most Loyal..





  • sexyscorp19
    female
    Posted by NostalgicCappyy
    What is his Venus sign, do you know?


    His Venus is in Aquarius.
  • Posted by sexyscorp19
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    It seems like sometimes Caps act like this when they aren’t sure how they want to proceed. If he responds, he’s somewhat interested. He would make time to initiate texts if he had decided he wanted to continue. Sometimes Caps are used to someone else initiating, but to me I’d rather it be kinda even at least not one-sided.



    Before we were intimate, he actually called me his better half, to which I didn't respond (it was via text). It took me by surprise because we'd only gone on like 3 dates at that point but again had amazing conversations and both of us seemed really in to each other. So there is a part of me that wondered if he was unsure. But when we spoke last week I low key should have cleared that up for him.
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    Sure perhaps you should have. But if it’s a relationship meant to go somewhere it will get figured out eventually. My relationship started off (once we finally started dating) pretty quickly, but then we went through some are you really sure parts or are you going to get hurt? This is after we are boyfriend/girlfriend for months. Well there is a point that they realize they love you & it gets scarier, more real. It’s important to let them process and not pressure. Because really they have to decide. If you can hang in there through the bumps than it can be a pretty great situation. We’ve been together total a year with a break in between. 8 months/4 months. It consistently gets better, and we progress. Its Kinda like climbing that mountain. 2 steps up, one step down, 4 steps up.
  • NostalgicCappyy
    INFJ
    female
    What is his Venus sign, do you know?
  • sexyscorp19
    female
    Posted by UnicornSag
    Posted by DeadInside
    no seriously ppl lol. after 3 week of being busy. if my gf move on she's not worth a lot. yall probably never marry a CEO. no diss str8 reality


    i had a feeling you work like that...let people wait for you lol
    but there's a lot of difference if you SAY to someone to wait some time and if you just GHOST on and say nothing...like we're no mind readers. From my perspective I'd just assume you're not interested and you're putting me down easy. See how it works from both sides now?
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    I kinda felt like this maybe what he's doing and that's why he responds. Otherwise, why bother responding and just ghost.
  • sexyscorp19
    female
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    It seems like sometimes Caps act like this when they aren’t sure how they want to proceed. If he responds, he’s somewhat interested. He would make time to initiate texts if he had decided he wanted to continue. Sometimes Caps are used to someone else initiating, but to me I’d rather it be kinda even at least not one-sided.



    Before we were intimate, he actually called me his better half, to which I didn't respond (it was via text). It took me by surprise because we'd only gone on like 3 dates at that point but again had amazing conversations and both of us seemed really in to each other. So there is a part of me that wondered if he was unsure. But when we spoke last week I low key should have cleared that up for him.
  • sexyscorp19
    female
    Thank you for the feedback, no one else seems confused about him still responding (it's his guilty conscious?) That's interesting. As for his ex wife they've been divorced nearly 10 years but they share a 13 year-old so they will always need to communicate and that didn't bother me. I should mention that I have an older dog that got sick recently when I mentioned it to him, he asked that I keep him updated.

    Another thing I was surprised about, no one thought that he pulled his profile down as a positive thing lol, I guess I'm an optimist. He has some big family events in January and I know one in particular he was doing a lot of the planning and paying for. I kinda thought that maybe he was thinking I'd want to attend as his date (which I wouldn't have because it's too soon to meet the family). So between that and January being a big month for him at work I've been trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.

    All in all, I will leave it alone for now and see what happens. I'll get my answer either way.
  • MoonshineLeo
    24 years old female from Texas
    I’m sorry scorp i think he hit and quit it. He will feel bad about it in a couple of weeks. The longest me and my cap didn’t talk way two weeks. Idk about them ghosting you for months or something idk about that. Sounds like he might still be tied to his ex since he didn’t try to hide it from you. And he deleted you that profile thing.

    IF he decides to come back and that’s a big IF you need to be serious with them that you don’t play games like that or they will keep on doing that to you. Just coming for sex and then ghosting you.
  • UnicornSag
    🌞, ♀️, ☿ ♐🌙♈♂️♏🌄♓-🦄inside - ENTJ/ENTP
    female
    Posted by DeadInside
    no seriously ppl lol. after 3 week of being busy. if my gf move on she's not worth a lot. yall probably never marry a CEO. no diss str8 reality


    i had a feeling you work like that...let people wait for you lol
    but there's a lot of difference if you SAY to someone to wait some time and if you just GHOST on and say nothing...like we're no mind readers. From my perspective I'd just assume you're not interested and you're putting me down easy. See how it works from both sides now?
  • pinkbird03
    Cancer 💕
    What do you want to do about this situation?
  • DeadInside
    they'll bend the knee
    no seriously ppl lol. after 3 week of being busy. if my gf move on she's not worth a lot. yall probably never marry a CEO. no diss str8 reality
  • DeadInside
    they'll bend the knee
    3 weeks is so nothing, i remenber i have didnt contacted this girl 2 weeks and she was almost ready to move on, i was so lazy to talk so i said ok
  • DeadInside
    they'll bend the knee
    Posted by Gemitati
    Posted by sexyscorp19
    I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I met a Capricorn man online the first week of December, when we met in person the first date went very well. The 2nd date went well also and we had our first kiss. It was awesome and from that point on we started texting very frequently and trying to see each other as often as possible (our chemistry is amazing). I was actually flattered at the lengths he went through to clear his schedule just for a brief drink. I did think we were moving fast however we're both in our 40s and I thought if we was being straightforward then I would to. On our 5th date we were intimate. It was awesome and he was the first to make contact after, however, he has yet to initiate contact since. He once said that he got a little busy with work and that there were something he's dealing with his ex wife. So I just thought he was busy and left it alone. But as it stands now, its been nearly 3 weeks since we were intimate and he's only initiated contact once. But if I text him, he responds immediately, within 5 to 10 mins. But never suggests that we see each other.

    I checked online and he's removed his profile so I'm confused. Is he interested or should I move on. I just don't understand why bother responding if you don't want to see me.

    Anyway, I've read that you need patience with Cap men and also that they test you but right now I'm just confused. Can someone please provide insight.

    Thanks.


    So he went missing after sex?
    I would move on...
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    so why you are still maried ?
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