Valentines Day!

I'm not a very Valentine's kind of person but today I got flowers from Cap#3 ... and Not even a text from Cap#4. I know it seems as if I'm talking to 2 people but actually Cap#4 is the one I like and I've been seeing for 5 months now. Not officially d
AerazoFebruary 14, 2017 11:48pm
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  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    I'm not a very Valentine's kind of person but today I got flowers from Cap#3 ... and Not even a text from Cap#4.

    I know it seems as if I'm talking to 2 people but actually Cap#4 is the one I like and I've been seeing for 5 months now. Not officially dating but "getting to know each other" phase.

    Cap #3 I know for many years and wants me to be with him. He's separated or so he says.. but anyway I didn't expect it.

    I don't know about you guys but is Valentines day a Relevant day to realize if someone truly likes you or not?
    If Cap#4 doesn't like me the way I do, I'd rather step out of the way but is a conversation that I've thought of having and can't get to it.
    Sometimes I think is too soon to ask him and I should just wait to see where things lead but at the same time it feels like he should already know if he's interested or not..

    any thoughts?

  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    Posted by ParisianCappy
    There should be only one capricorn not 4


    lol I numbered because in previous posts I'd talk about my experience with my ex husband of 12 yrs who was also a Capricorn...so some people were getting confused if I compared their personalities.

    Honestly only Cap is the last one, I'd put names but I'd rather not put names on here..

    Cap 1 was my first crush and bf.
    Cap 2 my bf>husband (although we never married)
    Cap 3 my friend who got married and years later decided to tell me he's loved me all this time. but that's a dead end and he knows.
    Cap 4 He's the one that I like and I've been talking about here
  • Capricorn91
    I crack myself up.
    male
    Well Cap #3 was expected. You are always on his mind. But for Cap #4 I'd say either you are on his mind or his work. If not free then he would probably send late in the evening/night.
  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    Posted by Capri-sun
    Same thoughts that we've already given, our actions don't lie & they speak for themselves.

    You got nothing from him because he doesn't care.

    It does not take us 5 months to decide if we're interested or not. Most of us can tell you yes or no upon meeting. Even a month in, we know if we see anything long-term or not.

    Let go & move on with your life before you're spending another 11 or 12 with someone like the 1st cap who didn't care for you the way you say you cared for him.

    Time is the one resource that you don't get back, so I'm not sure why you're wasting your time on someone who doesn't want you the same way as you want him.



    That's true and I've let go..I've been doing me, but he texts me everyday to at least check on me and see how I'm doing. we don't get to see each other often like I said before, but lately he's been more close to me. It used to be a 2-3 week gap for us to see each other, but lately he's been doing it more often. Once a week or so.

    Last thursday we were texting and all of a sudden he said that he wished I was there with him.
    I went on Friday night to his place for a little and we had a good time and talked and he's always very sweet and then asked me to sleepover so I did but I had to leave to do other things.

    I mean when i see him and talk to him I realize that there's a lot we still don't know about one another. and he's still here...so my guess is, if he wasn't interested at all, he would have stopped texting or something. At the point where we are just ghosting would be too weird... we get along very well to do that at this point. So we either talk about it or stay on this situation.



  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    Posted by Capricorn91
    Well Cap #3 was expected. You are always on his mind. But for Cap #4 I'd say either you are on his mind or his work. If not free then he would probably send late in the evening/night.


    I'm not really worried about the Valentines text but in general to find out if he's interested.

    what would be the best way to bring up a conversation about "what are your plans with me"?

    we have already discussed that we are not seeing other people, not bc is expected but bc is our own choice.

    When there is intimacy involved is easier to say whether or not we are being intimate with other people. So that's clear...

    He already said that he likes me for the person I am. (not for sex)
    And I also told him I like him.

    But we are still stuck. Now, I go see him because I feel the need to see him not bc I'm committed to see him. Which is good..
  • Capricorn91
    I crack myself up.
    male

    Don't be impatient if you want this to go for a long run. See five months is still very short if you are looking for a life partner. You yourself said that you still don't know much about each other. First get to know each other properly so that you both are able to commit. Quick emotions fizzle out quickly.

    It is a good thing that he likes you for who you are. But wait for the initial infatuation phase to wear off.
  • ok lol wait a minute. one stinking minute.. how the hell do people have collections of caps?
  • I know I'm late to the party but damn
  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    Posted by caIiber
    I know I'm late to the party but damn


    I'm a Cap Magnet! I realized about a year ago my exes, the guy I like and the ones who like me ended up being caps.

    So... There's gotta be something related to our personalities and zodiac signs..

    I've also "talked" to one Cancer, one Leo and a libra but I don't feel comfortable around them or never really saw it as a relationship.


  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    Posted by Capricorn91

    Don't be impatient if you want this to go for a long run. See five months is still very short if you are looking for a life partner. You yourself said that you still don't know much about each other. First get to know each other properly so that you both are able to commit. Quick emotions fizzle out quickly.

    It is a good thing that he likes you for who you are. But wait for the initial infatuation phase to wear off.


    That's true, "he keeps saying we have a long way together to have fun and enjoy each other's company" We haven't gone on official dates either, last 3 months he's been too busy with school and work. At some point I thought it was just going to fade and go our ways but he's still there.

    I take things as they happen, but sometimes I feel like he has me there just bc I'm available to him... and thank you!!!!

    I think you sort of understand the relationship/friendship with Aquas.
    ?
  • Capricorn91
    I crack myself up.
    male
    Posted by Aerazo
    Posted by Capricorn91

    Don't be impatient if you want this to go for a long run. See five months is still very short if you are looking for a life partner. You yourself said that you still don't know much about each other. First get to know each other properly so that you both are able to commit. Quick emotions fizzle out quickly.

    It is a good thing that he likes you for who you are. But wait for the initial infatuation phase to wear off.


    That's true, "he keeps saying we have a long way together to have fun and enjoy each other's company" We haven't gone on official dates either, last 3 months he's been too busy with school and work. At some point I thought it was just going to fade and go our ways but he's still there.

    I take things as they happen, but sometimes I feel like he has me there just bc I'm available to him... and thank you!!!!

    I think you sort of understand the relationship/friendship with Aquas.
    ?
    click to expand


    Well that is because I happen to had to know someone of the opposite sex of your zodiac very closely smile. And in our scenario I was the one who was unsure of her interest in me. But she stood by me through everything which I liked the most. But that is in the past. If you want to read further I had given a bit of info on this on another answer.

    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/things-you-should-know-before-dating-an-aquarius--7839625/?p=6
  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    Posted by Capricorn91
    Posted by Aerazo
    Posted by Capricorn91

    Don't be impatient if you want this to go for a long run. See five months is still very short if you are looking for a life partner. You yourself said that you still don't know much about each other. First get to know each other properly so that you both are able to commit. Quick emotions fizzle out quickly.

    It is a good thing that he likes you for who you are. But wait for the initial infatuation phase to wear off.


    That's true, "he keeps saying we have a long way together to have fun and enjoy each other's company" We haven't gone on official dates either, last 3 months he's been too busy with school and work. At some point I thought it was just going to fade and go our ways but he's still there.

    I take things as they happen, but sometimes I feel like he has me there just bc I'm available to him... and thank you!!!!

    I think you sort of understand the relationship/friendship with Aquas.
    ?


    Well that is because I happen to had to know someone of the opposite sex of your zodiac very closely smile. And in our scenario I was the one who was unsure of her interest in me. But she stood by me through everything which I liked the most. But that is in the past. If you want to read further I had given a bit of info on this on another answer.

    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/things-you-should-know-before-dating-an-aquarius--7839625/?p=6
    click to expand


    Yes, I remember you mentioned your aqua relationship before on another one of my posts.

    I feel the same way, always trying to show him that I do like him because he sometimes says things like if I'm with him just to have sex.
    I'm not like other girls who like the guy and leave him waiting because if she's worthy she won't be "easy".
    If I like you AND feel a connection with you I need to experience it in all levels to confirm that is not just something physical.

    I told him one day that I'm nobody's hookup if that's what he wanted.. and responded very upset saying that if that's what I thought of him then I don't know him..
    I know he has a good heart, I can tell... He has made mistakes because of anger issues and such, but he always worked hard. I've only known him for 5 months and I already saw good and bad about him and I'm still here trying to be patient.
  • tcta
    Taurus Sun/Rising - Cap Moon - Aries Venus/Mercury - Pisces Mars
    Posted by caIiber
    ok lol wait a minute. one stinking minute.. how the hell do people have collections of caps?


    - nothing like a big ole bag of caps!
  • Capricorn91
    I crack myself up.
    male
    Yes, we are not shallow people. We don't go for outer physical beauty. We need someone who can weather the storms with us and still be like a normal friend to us. It is the connection that we crave.

    Anger issues are difficult but usually we work hard on it. It is good that you are still there. Hopeful for you smile
  • Aerazo
    ♒Visionary🌎
    30 years old from USA
    Posted by Capricorn91
    Yes, we are not shallow people. We don't go for outer physical beauty. We need someone who can weather the storms with us and still be like a normal friend to us. It is the connection that we crave.

    Anger issues are difficult but usually we work hard on it. It is good that you are still there. Hopeful for you smile


    Exactly...Hopefulfor me.

    But what about me?

    You guys don't think of doing something for the other person for us to see if you'd be with us through thick and thin?
    It sounds like we have to "put up" with the way you are but do you really take the time to see how we are?

    "We need someone who can weather the storms with us and still be like a normal friend to us."

    But what if it's the other way? what would you do?

    I had a similar conversation with Cap 3 (My mentor) He keeps saying that he is treetrunked up, that he needs someone who will not judge him, that understands that he is who he is, someone who is with him regardless of his personality.

    I've known him for years, he says that to this day his wife doesn't understand how he is. The only people he feels comfortable being himself around, it's me and his kids. But he doesn't know me, he doesn't know what I've done, and how treetrunked up I am...
    I told him that and he said: I love you. that's all I need to feel to know that I don't care about anything else you have done.

    And this is why I get along with Caps. I feel like they are transparent with me, I can see through them and I can be there for support, I understand what they have gone through, they all have a distinctive personality that doesn't fit well with other people but with me is like we can be clear and honest with each other. Sometimes in a sarcastic way and sometimes in an honest conversation. I'd still be there trying to give you a break from the demons in your mind. I carry their sorrows as some people would say.




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