Very confused! This capricorn man is driving me crazy!

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Lioness118
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I fell hard for this capricorn man. We started relationship 3 months ago. But he left me 3 weeks later with the argument " you deserve someone better than me ". Blocked me everywhere. In the time we were together it was heavenly. Loved cooking for him, taking care of him and doing everything to make him feel good and smile. Sex is heavenly, we are melting in pleasure. Week after he left me, he came back again to me. The next day he's leaving me again, blocking me. The next day he's back. Tomorrow he blocks me and leaves me again. The next day he's back. I don't know what to think about that anymore. It's happening 3 months. Yes , he's very very very smart, says he's very serious and monogamous but I can't see it? Words say one thing, action says another. He's very delusional and lives in his own fantasies. I found out the last year he was calling women from a call center just to listen to their voices and to jack off to them. This is f weird but I never judge him and criticize. He tried to hide that. I told him that I love him the way he is and I don't care what he did because I want him with my soul. But he always judges me. Yes I admit it , I started drinking and smoking heavily because of depression. And drinking became heavier because of him and his rude behaviour. He fights me and told me that if he feels that I drink or smoke even once more, he will leave me without warning and I won't exist anymore for him. I always try hard and do my best to help him. I am gentle to him, never insult him and I always want him to feel happy. And what do I get? I get him to tell me that he fell inlove the last year in a woman he was calling everyday for 2 weeks from the call center. He don't even know her, never seen her, but he's inlove. Saying he loves to live in his fantasies. Again, I didn't judge him. But he never misses a chance to judge and criticize me. After all the rudeness, here comes the romantic one. " oh i want you so much , i love you my girl , yes you are my girl ". I'm so pathetic, my heart just goes crazy for him. He wants to be taken care of, and be just like a baby. And I do it for him. He's not good mentally, he calls me every 5 minutes in the middle of the night because he's afraid of the death " tell me you're with me and next to me , tell me that I won't die tonight " I am always comforting him and trying to calm him.

His chart details :

Capricorn sun, mars , mercury

Cancer moon

Sagittarius venus

Virgo ascendant

I don't know what to do anymore. I want him so much. But will he ever be completely mine?

Ask me questions I will answer anything. Maybe I leave something out right now because I'm tired. Insomnia.

I can send our synastry in PM if someone wants to read it and help me.

I'm slowly going crazy
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capricornlovescorpiotillnextlife
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Lioness give 6 months to a Cap..thats a warmup time for him to say his true feelings.

He is behaving childish..cause he wants you to take control of everything..and caps love women taking control behind closed doors..till death.

His one mind is testing you by behaving his worst first..so he can judge ..how would you act after marraige.

He is right..you have loved him and he cant live without you...no matter how many woman he dreams or even sleeps with..he will come back to you..

Problem with capricorns is that..once they commit..then their eyes..brain and dick can think only about 1 woman..irrespective of how she is...so he is just trying his best to save him n you..if you really love..show it.

Capricorns can't even have air between them and their love.

My example: I loved a girl when 21..meet her for 3 months..dated her only twice..just had a shakehand once.. in my whole life and am 40 now..still I see her in every girl I see around.. When I close my eyes I can see her face and when I pray god jesus..I she her face in him..I will miss her maybe till next life. A man with SUN/ MOON/MERCURY in Capricorn.



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Oh man Leo’s and caps are so crazy for each other. I remember feelings crazy like that too and trying to get my head right was impossible. Don’t know what caps do to us but we feel so responsible for them, especially when they are hurting.

He wants you to be the one to put your foot down and say no more games. Don’t engage in what he’s saying about other girls, he’s feeling insecure and doesn’t mean those things. Do not make yourself crazy, take a step back. Hang out with your family or friends. Relax, i don’t think he’s going anywhere but you do need to put your foot down but do it when the emotions aren’t so high.
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justlikeheaven
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Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!

My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.

I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
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Posted by justlikeheaven
Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!

My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.

I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
- *crave love and affection -
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Lioness118
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Posted by capricornlovescorpiotillnextlife
Lioness give 6 months to a Cap..thats a warmup time for him to say his true feelings.

He is behaving childish..cause he wants you to take control of everything..and caps love women taking control behind closed doors..till death.

His one mind is testing you by behaving his worst first..so he can judge ..how would you act after marraige.

He is right..you have loved him and he cant live without you...no matter how many woman he dreams or even sleeps with..he will come back to you..

Problem with capricorns is that..once they commit..then their eyes..brain and dick can think only about 1 woman..irrespective of how she is...so he is just trying his best to save him n you..if you really love..show it.

Capricorns can't even have air between them and their love.

My example: I loved a girl when 21..meet her for 3 months..dated her only twice..just had a shakehand once.. in my whole life and am 40 now..still I see her in every girl I see around.. When I close my eyes I can see her face and when I pray god jesus..I she her face in him..I will miss her maybe till next life. A man with SUN/ MOON/MERCURY in Capricorn.




That's what I'm scared of. He says he's in love with this woman who he never say or had relationship with and it's not weeks anymore, it's 8 months. It's pure horror to me if he never forgets her because I'm doing everything I can for him and I'm begging him not to leave me again. I never did it , I never begged a man to stay with me but here I am, it happend to me. He asks me " why do you humiliate and torture yourself " why? Because I'm in love in a way i almost never was. It really hurts me to think that he will not forget her.
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Lioness118
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
It’s mercury retrograde lol

On the other hand, caps are really insecure. I think you should reassure him but give him some space first.
He's doing it even before the retrograde

I give him space, freedom as much as I can. Once I asked him who he's texting because for like 30 minutes he was like hypnosed texting. And when I asked this question ... Man.. I wish I never did... I almost thought he'll hit me
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Oh man Leo’s and caps are so crazy for each other. I remember feelings crazy like that too and trying to get my head right was impossible. Don’t know what caps do to us but we feel so responsible for them, especially when they are hurting.

He wants you to be the one to put your foot down and say no more games. Don’t engage in what he’s saying about other girls, he’s feeling insecure and doesn’t mean those things. Do not make yourself crazy, take a step back. Hang out with your family or friends. Relax, i don’t think he’s going anywhere but you do need to put your foot down but do it when the emotions aren’t so high.
I'm fucking crazy about him and I will go through hell if it will make him happy.

When emotions aren't so high? Don't know if ever they will fall down. When I want someone/something, even god can't stop me wanting it. Leo sun moon mercury, Virgo venus, scorpio mars and ascendent
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Posted by justlikeheaven
Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!

My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.

I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
Yeah, i sensed something like that, he's afraid of the love. But right now my mind is so messed and fucked up, I don't know what to think anymore.

What are the similarities between my man and yours?
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It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video
Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
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Posted by Baru
It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video
Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
To back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.

Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
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It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video
Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
To back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.

Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
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Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂

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Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!

My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.

I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
Yeah, i sensed something like that, he's afraid of the love. But right now my mind is so messed and fucked up, I don't know what to think anymore.

What are the similarities between my man and yours?
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This back and forth thing - usually I was like "stop, I don't wanna do this undefined relationship mo more" and then he would slowly make his way back, other times I was the one who came back; anyway, he doesn't let go, even though he knows his presence in my life is nothing but a torture to me.And every time he comes back he's sweet and caring like he really mean it this time, but the next day he's cold and distant,like he doesn't even know I exist. I guess he likes to have me in his life but on his own conditions.

About him criticizing you about the drinking problem; I suggest to take those comments seriously, it's his way of showing you that he cares about you and your health, also he does judges you, because he doesn't like weak people (even though he have his weaknesses).
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It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video
Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
To back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.

Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂

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Oh I'm sorry, I tried to send a message but somehow it's not working. Can you send me one just to try to reply? You're very nice thank you
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It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video
Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
To back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.

Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂


Oh I'm sorry, I tried to send a message but somehow it's not working. Can you send me one just to try to reply? You're very nice thank you
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I sent you a message, you should have it in your inbox now. 😉
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Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!

My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.

I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
Yeah, i sensed something like that, he's afraid of the love. But right now my mind is so messed and fucked up, I don't know what to think anymore.

What are the similarities between my man and yours?



This back and forth thing - usually I was like "stop, I don't wanna do this undefined relationship mo more" and then he would slowly make his way back, other times I was the one who came back; anyway, he doesn't let go, even though he knows his presence in my life is nothing but a torture to me.And every time he comes back he's sweet and caring like he really mean it this time, but the next day he's cold and distant,like he doesn't even know I exist. I guess he likes to have me in his life but on his own conditions.

About him criticizing you about the drinking problem; I suggest to take those comments seriously, it's his way of showing you that he cares about you and your health, also he does judges you, because he doesn't like weak people (even though he have his weaknesses).

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Yeah the same. One day he's sweet, caring and so on but the next day he's not only acting like I don't exist but also is very rude. And I really mean it. VERY rude.

Yeah, when he told me seriously to stop drinking I got scared because he sounded so serious and dictatorial, I promised that I will never drink anymore till we're together. And I will keep my promise.
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Posted by Gemitati
Dear love!

I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—

It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️
You're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!

Yes it's right it's true masochism but what can I do? Hope dies last. I hope he will become more realistic and get out of his dream world and fantasies. When he realises his fantasies will never be made into the real life he becomes angry and very rude. And I take it all. I'm waiting patiently almost everytime ready to cry. I'm not the bad person, his friend tries to make me look like.
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Dear love!

I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—

It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️
You're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!

Yes it's right it's true masochism but what can I do? Hope dies last. I hope he will become more realistic and get out of his dream world and fantasies. When he realises his fantasies will never be made into the real life he becomes angry and very rude. And I take it all. I'm waiting patiently almost everytime ready to cry. I'm not the bad person, his friend tries to make me look like.
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After all you said I am sure no one thinks of you as a bad person.

However to TOP all the previous horror I read - his friends also an assholes!

Darling! Let’s talk about something good in him. Is there anything?
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Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
Finally! I though i am the only one! Lol


There is so many post on this site that shock me.

I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf

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Try...both!

I can advocate love on any level but when torture comes to play - it’s an illness.

I do believe it’s an illness to the point that meds need to be administered.

She can’t deal with it on her own!

Somehow ‘dick power’ comes to mind...again! Lol
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Posted by Baru
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Posted by Baru
It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video
Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
To back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.

Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂


Oh I'm sorry, I tried to send a message but somehow it's not working. Can you send me one just to try to reply? You're very nice thank you



I sent you a message, you should have it in your inbox now. 😉


I guess it's not working for me because I'm on my phone. I uploaded tho

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Yeah it does not work on my phone either, only on pc. 😄

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Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
What do you mean? Whats unbelievable
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The fact that anyone will let themselves be so disrespected, emotionally abused and still want to continue KNOWING deep inside that’s it isn’t going to be a happy end!

Btw have I missed your list of his good qualities? Or you have trouble come up with one?
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Dear love!

I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—

It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️
You're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!

Yes it's right it's true masochism but what can I do? Hope dies last. I hope he will become more realistic and get out of his dream world and fantasies. When he realises his fantasies will never be made into the real life he becomes angry and very rude. And I take it all. I'm waiting patiently almost everytime ready to cry. I'm not the bad person, his friend tries to make me look like.
After all you said I am sure no one thinks of you as a bad person.

However to TOP all the previous horror I read - his friends also an assholes!

Darling! Let’s talk about something good in him. Is there anything?
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His friend did big drama to make us break up and he succeed but we got back together.

Well when he's in good mood he's perfect. That's all I can say
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Can you guys give me some advice how to make him absolutely mine? How to act? What to do?
You don’t believe it’s possible do you?

Except one think you’ve been told already...explain yourself and throw him out!

Maybe this is IT! You have no other options at this point! Sorry. My heart goes on to you but it’s a madness!
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Everything is possible. Im full of love and hope
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Dear love!

I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—

It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️
You're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!

Yes it's right it's true masochism but what can I do? Hope dies last. I hope he will become more realistic and get out of his dream world and fantasies. When he realises his fantasies will never be made into the real life he becomes angry and very rude. And I take it all. I'm waiting patiently almost everytime ready to cry. I'm not the bad person, his friend tries to make me look like.
After all you said I am sure no one thinks of you as a bad person.

However to TOP all the previous horror I read - his friends also an assholes!

Darling! Let’s talk about something good in him. Is there anything?
His friend did big drama to make us break up and he succeed but we got back together.

Well when he's in good mood he's perfect. That's all I can say
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Has he ever been perfect more than 1 day? Your post says he wasn’t.
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Posted by STILL
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by STILL
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
Finally! I though i am the only one! Lol


There is so many post on this site that shock me.

I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf


Try...both!

I can advocate love on any level but when torture comes to play - it’s an illness.

I do believe it’s an illness to the point that meds need to be administered.

She can’t deal with it on her own!

Somehow ‘dick power’ comes to mind...again! Lol
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Oh damn our sex is the most perfect thing in our relationship. We're addicted
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Posted by Lioness118
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by STILL
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by STILL
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
Finally! I though i am the only one! Lol


There is so many post on this site that shock me.

I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf


Try...both!

I can advocate love on any level but when torture comes to play - it’s an illness.

I do believe it’s an illness to the point that meds need to be administered.

She can’t deal with it on her own!

Somehow ‘dick power’ comes to mind...again! Lol
Oh damn our sex is the most perfect thing in our relationship. We're addicted
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Dick Power!!!

Then he wakes up, shits all over you and leaving you screaming insults until henis horny again and comesndor piece of ass!

Right?
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@Lioness118
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Lioness118
Posted by STILL
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
What do you mean? Whats unbelievable
The fact that anyone will let themselves be so disrespected, emotionally abused and still want to continue KNOWING deep inside that’s it isn’t going to be a happy end!

Btw have I missed your list of his good qualities? Or you have trouble come up with one?
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I love him but Im not his advocate.

Right now he called me angry because I didnt call him today and we talked on facetime. I love him so much I missed him my handsome man. Thats why I want to win him completely. Fucking handsome
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Lioness118
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Posted by UnicornSag
First of-are you serious—

This sounds "a bit" insane to me.

Now if you are lets see. First of, you need to get rid fo drinking and smoking and your own depression if you want to achieve anything with this or any other guy or your life in general. While I can completely understand how strong impact such situation can have on person and how it can make them feel bad about everything you need to realize that whole thing is completely wrong and leads nowhere. If you can't help yourself talk to someone, see a therapist, anything that will get you out of that whole you fell in with that situation.

Next thing is if you want to be with him and have him feel good and normal again you need to help him as well. Just promising him you're not going anywhere or he won't die if he sleeps won't do you any good, words are just words, nothing else. You need actions. When you start feeling better and see therapy works for you take him with you or talk to a therapist how you can help that guy as well. I'm not suggesting medications ofc but you need to seek something that gets you both out of such dark place. This is more about your own mental health than about your relationship actually and according to your post you both need help. I'm not saying you're sick ofc! But you got to a bad place where you seem to not be able to help yourself and considering you're asking at least some sort of help, here on forum it would be wise if you look for something like that in real life. While he does have negative impact on you I suggest you don't leave him and help him get out of his own dark place as well. Considering he dragged you way down as well implies you're not very strong yourself either so some sort of help should do you both good. Never be ashamed to ask for help and solutions to problems when you can't do it on your own anymore. I strongly advise you to start working on yourself and getting rid of bad habits as first step and then working on helping this guy too if you can
When hes with me, i dont drink. I help him we want to live together. When we spend nights and days together i cook for him, i clean for him, and i take care of him. If he has trouble with something i always help. Its not only words. Yeah i need help but right now im focused on winning him
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7 Years

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Lioness118
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by STILL
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by STILL
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
Finally! I though i am the only one! Lol


There is so many post on this site that shock me.

I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf


Try...both!

I can advocate love on any level but when torture comes to play - it’s an illness.

I do believe it’s an illness to the point that meds need to be administered.

She can’t deal with it on her own!

Somehow ‘dick power’ comes to mind...again! Lol
Oh damn our sex is the most perfect thing in our relationship. We're addicted
Dick Power!!!

Then he wakes up, shits all over you and leaving you screaming insults until henis horny again and comesndor piece of ass!

Right?
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Not really tbh
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Posted by intergalacticplanetary
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Lioness118
Posted by STILL
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
What do you mean? Whats unbelievable
The fact that anyone will let themselves be so disrespected, emotionally abused and still want to continue KNOWING deep inside that’s it isn’t going to be a happy end!

Btw have I missed your list of his good qualities? Or you have trouble come up with one?
gemitats tryna snap you out of it. There's wisdom is these words.
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Shhhh...so far we have a list

1. Dick

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