Lioness118
@Lioness118
7 Years
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Posted by justlikeheaven- *crave love and affection -
Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!
My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.
I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
Posted by capricornlovescorpiotillnextlifeThat's what I'm scared of. He says he's in love with this woman who he never say or had relationship with and it's not weeks anymore, it's 8 months. It's pure horror to me if he never forgets her because I'm doing everything I can for him and I'm begging him not to leave me again. I never did it , I never begged a man to stay with me but here I am, it happend to me. He asks me " why do you humiliate and torture yourself " why? Because I'm in love in a way i almost never was. It really hurts me to think that he will not forget her.
Lioness give 6 months to a Cap..thats a warmup time for him to say his true feelings.
He is behaving childish..cause he wants you to take control of everything..and caps love women taking control behind closed doors..till death.
His one mind is testing you by behaving his worst first..so he can judge ..how would you act after marraige.
He is right..you have loved him and he cant live without you...no matter how many woman he dreams or even sleeps with..he will come back to you..
Problem with capricorns is that..once they commit..then their eyes..brain and dick can think only about 1 woman..irrespective of how she is...so he is just trying his best to save him n you..if you really love..show it.
Capricorns can't even have air between them and their love.
My example: I loved a girl when 21..meet her for 3 months..dated her only twice..just had a shakehand once.. in my whole life and am 40 now..still I see her in every girl I see around.. When I close my eyes I can see her face and when I pray god jesus..I she her face in him..I will miss her maybe till next life. A man with SUN/ MOON/MERCURY in Capricorn.
Posted by MoonshineLeoHe's doing it even before the retrograde
It’s mercury retrograde lol
On the other hand, caps are really insecure. I think you should reassure him but give him some space first.
Posted by MoonshineLeoI'm fucking crazy about him and I will go through hell if it will make him happy.
Oh man Leo’s and caps are so crazy for each other. I remember feelings crazy like that too and trying to get my head right was impossible. Don’t know what caps do to us but we feel so responsible for them, especially when they are hurting.
He wants you to be the one to put your foot down and say no more games. Don’t engage in what he’s saying about other girls, he’s feeling insecure and doesn’t mean those things. Do not make yourself crazy, take a step back. Hang out with your family or friends. Relax, i don’t think he’s going anywhere but you do need to put your foot down but do it when the emotions aren’t so high.
Posted by DeadInsideWhat do you mean ?
even the weekend ?!
Posted by justlikeheavenYeah, i sensed something like that, he's afraid of the love. But right now my mind is so messed and fucked up, I don't know what to think anymore.
Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!
My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.
I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
Posted by BaruTo back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.
It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
Posted by Lioness118Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂Posted by BaruTo back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.
It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so muchclick to expand

Posted by Lioness118Posted by justlikeheavenYeah, i sensed something like that, he's afraid of the love. But right now my mind is so messed and fucked up, I don't know what to think anymore.
Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!
My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.
I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
What are the similarities between my man and yours?click to expand
Posted by BaruOh I'm sorry, I tried to send a message but somehow it's not working. Can you send me one just to try to reply? You're very nice thank youPosted by Lioness118Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂Posted by BaruTo back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.
It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
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Posted by Lioness118Posted by BaruOh I'm sorry, I tried to send a message but somehow it's not working. Can you send me one just to try to reply? You're very nice thank youPosted by Lioness118Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂Posted by BaruTo back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.
It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
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Posted by justlikeheavenYeah the same. One day he's sweet, caring and so on but the next day he's not only acting like I don't exist but also is very rude. And I really mean it. VERY rude.Posted by Lioness118Posted by justlikeheavenYeah, i sensed something like that, he's afraid of the love. But right now my mind is so messed and fucked up, I don't know what to think anymore.
Well, I have dated (just that, 'cause he wouldn't commit) a cap man with exactly the same placements as yours...and,as a cap myself, let me tell you, they're completely fucked up!
My situation wasn't so wierd as yours (for only 3 months that it's kinda scary), mine lasted 1 and half years, but again, I'm a cap, cap with cap is not so explosive and passional.Even so, I do see similarities between my cap and yours.I don't know, I think is that cancer moon that makes them care love and affection but approach with them with cautious, like it is a fight inside them; between the heart and the mind, they want love but they are afraid of it.
I gave up, if you want to take the risk then be patient and understanding, but ...you can't save him and he can't save you - that's the fact you should always have in your mind.
What are the similarities between my man and yours?
This back and forth thing - usually I was like "stop, I don't wanna do this undefined relationship mo more" and then he would slowly make his way back, other times I was the one who came back; anyway, he doesn't let go, even though he knows his presence in my life is nothing but a torture to me.And every time he comes back he's sweet and caring like he really mean it this time, but the next day he's cold and distant,like he doesn't even know I exist. I guess he likes to have me in his life but on his own conditions.
About him criticizing you about the drinking problem; I suggest to take those comments seriously, it's his way of showing you that he cares about you and your health, also he does judges you, because he doesn't like weak people (even though he have his weaknesses).
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Posted by kitten_What do you mean? Tell me more
Capricorn man - prefer get cheated on by Mutable woman rather than be with Fixed sign woman. True story.

Posted by GemitatiYou're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!
Dear love!
I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—
It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️


Posted by kitten_You posted this a few times. Why do you say that?
Capricorn man - prefer get cheated on by Mutable woman rather than be with Fixed sign woman. True story.

Posted by Lioness118After all you said I am sure no one thinks of you as a bad person.Posted by GemitatiYou're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!
Dear love!
I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—
It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️
Yes it's right it's true masochism but what can I do? Hope dies last. I hope he will become more realistic and get out of his dream world and fantasies. When he realises his fantasies will never be made into the real life he becomes angry and very rude. And I take it all. I'm waiting patiently almost everytime ready to cry. I'm not the bad person, his friend tries to make me look like.click to expand

Posted by STILLFinally! I though i am the only one! Lol
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!

Posted by Lioness118You don’t believe it’s possible do you?
Can you guys give me some advice how to make him absolutely mine? How to act? What to do?

Posted by GemitatiThere are so many post on this site that shock me.Posted by STILLFinally! I though i am the only one! Lol
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
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Posted by STILLWhat do you mean? Whats unbelievable
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!

Posted by Lioness118All of it. See my last post.Posted by STILLWhat do you mean? Whats unbelievable
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!click to expand

Posted by STILLTry...both!Posted by GemitatiThere is so many post on this site that shock me.Posted by STILLFinally! I though i am the only one! Lol
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf
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Posted by Lioness118Yeah it does not work on my phone either, only on pc. 😄Posted by BaruI guess it's not working for me because I'm on my phone. I uploaded thoPosted by Lioness118Posted by BaruOh I'm sorry, I tried to send a message but somehow it's not working. Can you send me one just to try to reply? You're very nice thank youPosted by Lioness118Oh my apologies then, it sounded to me like you're the one putting in all work. 🙂 Yep do send it I'll look into it. 🙂Posted by BaruTo back off? Impossible lol. I give him space as much as I can. I don't even contact him or call him or do the plan for our dates and nights. He does it all and he likes it.
It might be the fact his sun opposes his moon. Watch this video Jewel is an amazing astrologer! 🙂 I had private session with her and she really knows her stuff. If you want, you can send me your synastry and even composite and I might try to give you more insight. 🙂 And honestly if I were you, I would back off! Me being Capricorn myself need some space, not an extreme amount, but I just need time and space for my own thoughts and emotions. It's nothing personal it's just the way I recharge myself from day to day. Also you're making it too easy for him! If you don't agree with something he does, just pull back, don't nag him, but don't reward bad behavior or you will create monster lol. 😄
Thank you! I will send you synastry and composite in PM and tell me your thoughts there. Thank you so much
I sent you a message, you should have it in your inbox now. 😉
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Posted by Lioness118The fact that anyone will let themselves be so disrespected, emotionally abused and still want to continue KNOWING deep inside that’s it isn’t going to be a happy end!Posted by STILLWhat do you mean? Whats unbelievable
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiHis friend did big drama to make us break up and he succeed but we got back together.Posted by Lioness118After all you said I am sure no one thinks of you as a bad person.Posted by GemitatiYou're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!
Dear love!
I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—
It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️
Yes it's right it's true masochism but what can I do? Hope dies last. I hope he will become more realistic and get out of his dream world and fantasies. When he realises his fantasies will never be made into the real life he becomes angry and very rude. And I take it all. I'm waiting patiently almost everytime ready to cry. I'm not the bad person, his friend tries to make me look like.
However to TOP all the previous horror I read - his friends also an assholes!
Darling! Let’s talk about something good in him. Is there anything?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiEverything is possible. Im full of love and hopePosted by Lioness118You don’t believe it’s possible do you?
Can you guys give me some advice how to make him absolutely mine? How to act? What to do?
Except one think you’ve been told already...explain yourself and throw him out!
Maybe this is IT! You have no other options at this point! Sorry. My heart goes on to you but it’s a madness!click to expand
Posted by STILLI dont think its unbelievable.Posted by Lioness118All of it. See my last post.Posted by STILLWhat do you mean? Whats unbelievable
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
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Posted by Lioness118Has he ever been perfect more than 1 day? Your post says he wasn’t.Posted by GemitatiHis friend did big drama to make us break up and he succeed but we got back together.Posted by Lioness118After all you said I am sure no one thinks of you as a bad person.Posted by GemitatiYou're so nice and sweet! Thank you so much, your words made me feel understood !!!
Dear love!
I understand loving bleeding heart completely. But loving THAT—
It’s insanity! It’s not love. It’s self-torture and masochism. I know you can’t stop but dealing with THAT piece of shit...I am so sorry you got caught!! ❤️
Yes it's right it's true masochism but what can I do? Hope dies last. I hope he will become more realistic and get out of his dream world and fantasies. When he realises his fantasies will never be made into the real life he becomes angry and very rude. And I take it all. I'm waiting patiently almost everytime ready to cry. I'm not the bad person, his friend tries to make me look like.
However to TOP all the previous horror I read - his friends also an assholes!
Darling! Let’s talk about something good in him. Is there anything?
Well when he's in good mood he's perfect. That's all I can sayclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiOh damn our sex is the most perfect thing in our relationship. We're addictedPosted by STILLTry...both!Posted by GemitatiThere is so many post on this site that shock me.Posted by STILLFinally! I though i am the only one! Lol
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf
I can advocate love on any level but when torture comes to play - it’s an illness.
I do believe it’s an illness to the point that meds need to be administered.
She can’t deal with it on her own!
Somehow ‘dick power’ comes to mind...again! Lolclick to expand

Posted by Lioness118Dick Power!!!Posted by GemitatiOh damn our sex is the most perfect thing in our relationship. We're addictedPosted by STILLTry...both!Posted by GemitatiThere is so many post on this site that shock me.Posted by STILLFinally! I though i am the only one! Lol
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf
I can advocate love on any level but when torture comes to play - it’s an illness.
I do believe it’s an illness to the point that meds need to be administered.
She can’t deal with it on her own!
Somehow ‘dick power’ comes to mind...again! Lolclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiI love him but Im not his advocate.Posted by Lioness118The fact that anyone will let themselves be so disrespected, emotionally abused and still want to continue KNOWING deep inside that’s it isn’t going to be a happy end!Posted by STILLWhat do you mean? Whats unbelievable
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
Btw have I missed your list of his good qualities? Or you have trouble come up with one?click to expand
Posted by UnicornSagWhen hes with me, i dont drink. I help him we want to live together. When we spend nights and days together i cook for him, i clean for him, and i take care of him. If he has trouble with something i always help. Its not only words. Yeah i need help but right now im focused on winning him
First of-are you serious—
This sounds "a bit" insane to me.
Now if you are lets see. First of, you need to get rid fo drinking and smoking and your own depression if you want to achieve anything with this or any other guy or your life in general. While I can completely understand how strong impact such situation can have on person and how it can make them feel bad about everything you need to realize that whole thing is completely wrong and leads nowhere. If you can't help yourself talk to someone, see a therapist, anything that will get you out of that whole you fell in with that situation.
Next thing is if you want to be with him and have him feel good and normal again you need to help him as well. Just promising him you're not going anywhere or he won't die if he sleeps won't do you any good, words are just words, nothing else. You need actions. When you start feeling better and see therapy works for you take him with you or talk to a therapist how you can help that guy as well. I'm not suggesting medications ofc but you need to seek something that gets you both out of such dark place. This is more about your own mental health than about your relationship actually and according to your post you both need help. I'm not saying you're sick ofc! But you got to a bad place where you seem to not be able to help yourself and considering you're asking at least some sort of help, here on forum it would be wise if you look for something like that in real life. While he does have negative impact on you I suggest you don't leave him and help him get out of his own dark place as well. Considering he dragged you way down as well implies you're not very strong yourself either so some sort of help should do you both good. Never be ashamed to ask for help and solutions to problems when you can't do it on your own anymore. I strongly advise you to start working on yourself and getting rid of bad habits as first step and then working on helping this guy too if you can
Posted by GemitatiNot really tbhPosted by Lioness118Dick Power!!!Posted by GemitatiOh damn our sex is the most perfect thing in our relationship. We're addictedPosted by STILLTry...both!Posted by GemitatiThere is so many post on this site that shock me.Posted by STILLFinally! I though i am the only one! Lol
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
I don't know what shocks me more. The things that these guys do or the fact that the girls allow it and still be wanting to stay wtf
I can advocate love on any level but when torture comes to play - it’s an illness.
I do believe it’s an illness to the point that meds need to be administered.
She can’t deal with it on her own!
Somehow ‘dick power’ comes to mind...again! Lol
Then he wakes up, shits all over you and leaving you screaming insults until henis horny again and comesndor piece of ass!
Right?click to expand
Posted by intergalacticplanetaryBecause Im in love
He sounds fucked in the head..simple.
If you ain't a wreck now, you will be by the end of it. Disengage..not sure why your asking advice on how to keep him?

Posted by intergalacticplanetaryShhhh...so far we have a listPosted by Gemitatigemitats tryna snap you out of it. There's wisdom is these words.Posted by Lioness118The fact that anyone will let themselves be so disrespected, emotionally abused and still want to continue KNOWING deep inside that’s it isn’t going to be a happy end!Posted by STILLWhat do you mean? Whats unbelievable
Is this for real? this is unbelievable!
Btw have I missed your list of his good qualities? Or you have trouble come up with one?click to expand

Posted by Lioness118People don't reveal their true selves until 8months+ into the relationship. Try not to fall in love until then. I know, easier said then done.
I fell hard for this capricorn man. We started relationship 3 months ago. But he left me 3 weeks later

Posted by AndalusiaHe's 26
OP, how old is the Cap you're dealing with? Is it possible he is Geminati's husband? He might be blocking your number when she is around and unblocking when she isn't.

Posted by intergalacticplanetaryLmao...don’t you have a heart? 🤣🤣🤣
He sounds fucked in the head..simple.
If you ain't a wreck now, you will be by the end of it. Disengage..not sure why your asking advice on how to keep him?

Posted by AndalusiaSo how do we find out?
OP, how old is the Cap you're dealing with? Is it possible he is Geminati's husband? He might be blocking your number when she is around and unblocking when she isn't.

Posted by GemitatiHer Cap is 26. Too young to be your hubby.Posted by AndalusiaSo how do we find out?
OP, how old is the Cap you're dealing with? Is it possible he is Geminati's husband? He might be blocking your number when she is around and unblocking when she isn't.click to expand
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His chart details :
Capricorn sun, mars , mercury
Cancer moon
Sagittarius venus
Virgo ascendant
I don't know what to do anymore. I want him so much. But will he ever be completely mine?
Ask me questions I will answer anything. Maybe I leave something out right now because I'm tired. Insomnia.
I can send our synastry in PM if someone wants to read it and help me.
I'm slowly going crazy