Wealthy capricorn man with no friends?

Went on a first date with this Capricorn man and he asked me a lot of questions including what I like to do with friends, where we go and where they live. When I asked what about himself. He goes I don't have many friends. I work from home and at my free
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol


All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.

will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol


I dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.

haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.



well it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lol
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lol


If he was rushing in too fast I see it as a red flag base on my own experience. I suspect he could be a commitment phobe, which I hope I am wrong for your sake.

Since you are also into psychology I highly recommend you to read this book - Man who can't love from Steven A. Carter


Considering I was in a relationship and he knew that I'd say he was rushing in fast. He literally said "I just want you to leave him" and "You deserve better" meanwhile we just started talking, how can he know that? I could be actually a bad person and my ex a very good one(it wasn't that ofc and he was right but how could he possibly know that?!). Anyway at start I took it as flirting only cause well it's online and not to be taken too seriously when you talk to people like that but he kept showing me he is serious and kinda got offended if I'm not taking him in that way so I changed my mind in that way.
Overall commitment phobe might be right actually. Considering he's single for a while, this all thing that happened with us I no longer think he's that serious. I think he wants to be but can't. Only thing I can tell so far is he doesn't want to lose me completely but can't commit to anything either so moving on from this, wherever life takes us so be it



You're right he didn't know you or him, sounded like he wants to "win" by making you leave someone else for his ego. Then when he has you he is now back paddling.

You don't have to answer anyone here, just write down 5 things you like about this cap, not looks or money, then 5 things you don't like about him. Then 5 things you want in a healthy relationship and 5 deal breaker, then you know the answer to whether he is worth further investing
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You're right this does make sense really.
Well he's definitely hiding something from me, that much I know so far. And I have a suspicion on what is it, if I'm right that's something I'm not going to deal with for sure. He's just a very confusing person and as much i have interest in him I can't deal with huge amount of fog around him, can't see butter...
Your idea sounds very good really, I'll try to make this list actually, curious to see what i come up with it lol
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol


All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.

will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol


I dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.

haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.



well it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lol
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lol


If he was rushing in too fast I see it as a red flag base on my own experience. I suspect he could be a commitment phobe, which I hope I am wrong for your sake.

Since you are also into psychology I highly recommend you to read this book - Man who can't love from Steven A. Carter


Considering I was in a relationship and he knew that I'd say he was rushing in fast. He literally said "I just want you to leave him" and "You deserve better" meanwhile we just started talking, how can he know that? I could be actually a bad person and my ex a very good one(it wasn't that ofc and he was right but how could he possibly know that?!). Anyway at start I took it as flirting only cause well it's online and not to be taken too seriously when you talk to people like that but he kept showing me he is serious and kinda got offended if I'm not taking him in that way so I changed my mind in that way.
Overall commitment phobe might be right actually. Considering he's single for a while, this all thing that happened with us I no longer think he's that serious. I think he wants to be but can't. Only thing I can tell so far is he doesn't want to lose me completely but can't commit to anything either so moving on from this, wherever life takes us so be it
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You're right he didn't know you or him, sounded like he wants to "win" by making you leave someone else for his ego. Then when he has you he is now back paddling.

You don't have to answer anyone here, just write down 5 things you like about this cap, not looks or money, then 5 things you don't like about him. Then 5 things you want in a healthy relationship and 5 deal breaker, then you know the answer to whether he is worth further investing
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol


All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.

will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol


I dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.

haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.



well it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lol
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lol


If he was rushing in too fast I see it as a red flag base on my own experience. I suspect he could be a commitment phobe, which I hope I am wrong for your sake.

Since you are also into psychology I highly recommend you to read this book - Man who can't love from Steven A. Carter
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Considering I was in a relationship and he knew that I'd say he was rushing in fast. He literally said "I just want you to leave him" and "You deserve better" meanwhile we just started talking, how can he know that? I could be actually a bad person and my ex a very good one(it wasn't that ofc and he was right but how could he possibly know that?!). Anyway at start I took it as flirting only cause well it's online and not to be taken too seriously when you talk to people like that but he kept showing me he is serious and kinda got offended if I'm not taking him in that way so I changed my mind in that way.
Overall commitment phobe might be right actually. Considering he's single for a while, this all thing that happened with us I no longer think he's that serious. I think he wants to be but can't. Only thing I can tell so far is he doesn't want to lose me completely but can't commit to anything either so moving on from this, wherever life takes us so be it
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol


All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.

will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol


I dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.

haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.



well it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lol
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lol
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If he was rushing in too fast I see it as a red flag base on my own experience. I suspect he could be a commitment phobe, which I hope I am wrong for your sake.

Since you are also into psychology I highly recommend you to read this book - Man who can't love from Steven A. Carter
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol


All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.

will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol


I dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.

haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.

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well it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lol
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lol
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol


All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.

will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol
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I dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.

haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.

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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol


All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.
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will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better

he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
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All the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol


I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better
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he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol

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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
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I hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is better
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@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.

@Malak @RooSagicorn

He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.

Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him


if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
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^ That's how I felt on first date, but thought I would give him another chance with open mind to get to know him better.I think he doesn't put any effort to develop relationship with himself either .

It's all about his work and road rage LOL


I also do like to give people a second chance to make first impression. Good call.
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^ That's how I felt on first date, but thought I would give him another chance with open mind to get to know him better.I think he doesn't put any effort to develop relationship with himself either .

It's all about his work and road rage LOL
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He picked me up and took me to dinner, I was so scared with the way he drives, the way he accelerate and overtook other was really aggressive. Even on empty street when he felt like turning to the street he would speed it up and did a really rough turn. He also space out a lot telling me hes just thinking about work.

He asked me the same questions again like when was my last bf. I asked him about him. He said last year but he has casual GF in between. I asked why things ended? he didin't want to answer he said too may reasons. this seems like a red flag.. if he can't talk about it means he is not over it.

During dinner he is really absent minded. he would reply work email or google work stuff. He seems to be numbing his emotional side with TV and work. Anyway He asked what will I be doing for xmas He said he is going away for a week. He doesn't want to see his parents, which appears that his relationship with his parents is pretty bad...

he said he hates crowds, used to got to bar but now he just prefer to stay at home. He even spent NYE alone at home last year...

He left me a few times, 1st time to "get something in the car" to smoke, then to wash his hands after shrimp, which is fair. Third time he went to buy heartburn tablet, 4th time he went to bathroom. I feel like he is totally absent Idk why he wants to see me.

When I went to wash my hands after my dinner I came out and he already paid and left, I looked up and he was waving at me from outside. Then he drove me home, he asked if I want to go to his to watch james bond movies. I shaked my head he said a bit late huh? I said mm yeah...

Then when we arrived he didn't try anything, he said he will talk to me soon. I said hope you feel better soon and good to see you. He said same enjoy your evening.

I honestly think this guy is emotionally unavailable. Other caps I know are not as absent as he is...


I haven’t read on from this post yet but this description plus an earlier one reinforce that this is a waste of your time.

You had to contact him to arrange a second date. He didn’t contact you at all.

You chose to ‘go with the flow’ with him and accept a tentative date rather than a fixed date and time being arranged and confirmed.

He didn’t bother to confirm this date. You had to chase him up and what’s worse is that he already knew he couldn’t make but couldn’t be bothered to contact you because he feels you’re not important enough.

Stop excusing this guy’s behaviour. If he’s too busy to date then he should NOT be dating but people do this so you need to see he’s not available physically and emotionally and go and date someone else.

If you continue to chase this guy then you’ll end up dissatisfied. Find someone else. Seriously, go date other guys and see how it should be.




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And this seems like the reason he has no friends. Hes too vacant. He doesnt put forth any effort to develop any sort of relationship.
I mean. Why bother? Sounds like dating a piece of wood.

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My aqua friend told me he's "testing" our other friend, they had an argument (she was annoyed he wasn't taking her seriously, because he's a joker). He said " now I'm only showing her my serious side, that's what she wanted.. I want to see how she act
Ask me about your dating style eg. Why am I single? Just ask me something...
I've got a great friendship with a Cap, scorpio moon, sag rising. I'm Taurus, Libra Moon, Scorp rising.... We've been hanging out for a year. He became my friend, my feelings grew, we spoke about our connection but that he was having a hard time get
Ok i really can't take it any longer. I'm so in love with a Scorpio. I've always liked him but he doesn't know it. He talks to me but I have no clue if he sees me as a friend or something else. He's hard to read, like most Scorps. I've never shown cle
https://youtu.be/3qwXYFIw67Y Good evening :) I'm looking to start the game Thursday 12/15 or Friday 12/16 so people can play over the weekend. Nights will start at 10:00PM EST and Days will start at 10:00AM EST Without cutting any of the role
Sag guy blocked me off of everything. This is the 2nd time he does this. It's not like I am very clingy. He was the one that was on my ass all the time. Just wanted to know if this is something that most of you tend to do and why?
- don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious, what are some of the cons mainly ?
...by your pisces ex gf, if anything, bein a taurus is like having a game genie for pisces we're reliable fuuuckable etc. basically pisces exes r like immature kids n u gotta put training wheels on em b4 they move on soo, how do you even begin put trainin
Do Virgo guy like to be chased after breakup or he will find it as it is pushy way
like nobody ever hates us coolly like they would some other signs? almost like they're trying to win an award for level of vitriol
Just saw on a front page The Scorpio is considered by astrologers to be the strongest sign of the zodiac and almost undefeatable, what signs end up getting the better of it in confrontations and war? ———————— No one! My love...