Just can't let it go

I'm pretty fed up STILL being hung up over someone I STILL don't know all that well. It's been about 2.5 years now. Instead of fighting it, I am deeply investigating the reasons why. I don't really go too deep into synastry aspects with anyone because I like the element of the unknown to add some spice and surprises. However, this "relationship" has pushed me to the brink. Yes. This is about that Virgo guy from long ago (for anyone who even knows about it). Here are my findings so far. Some are of actual known significance and others are questionable but curious. A lot has to do with midpoints as our individual natal charts don't look very revealing as to how we ended up this way. The midpoints are where it's at...

His (we'll call him "B") mp's: Sun/Moon in 21 Leo/Aqua 49, Venus/Mars in 26 Leo/Aqua 19, Moon/Venus in 24 Leo/Aqua 42.
My mp's: Sun/Moon in 3 Vir/Pis 37, Venus/Mars in 23 Vir/Pis 25.

My sun: Leo (26.47), Moon: Virgo (10.27), ASC: Aquarius (23.00), Venus: Leo (6.56), Mars: Scorpio (9.53)
B's sun: Virgo (22.21), Moon: Cancer: 21.16, ASC: Scorpio (18.53), Venus: Virgo (28.08), Mars: Cancer (24.30)

His sun/moon mp forms a loose conjunction with my sun but both of us have the other's sun sign as our sun/moon mp. Same goes for our Venus/Mars mp's yet the conjunctions, from both sides, are legit. It seems a lot of his personal, romantically inclined midpoints make hard aspects to my sun and my ASC/DESC axis. My sun/moon mp makes a loose conjunction with his NN but forms a tight conjunction on his MC/IC axis.

So far I haven't seen "bad" aspects when configuring the midpoints. There aren't many negative aspects in our planetary synastry but there just aren't enough contacts of any kind to be able to read anything of importance. This is still a work in progress. I feel a little better!