WHY IS EVERYONE JEALOUS OF THE GEMINI?

58 years old female
Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
Being conceited isn't anywhere near as disturbing as believing people would be envious of this, and be jealous that they don't measure up to it.


Why would someone really think others would actually want to be this vain?


And that really, really bothers me. To have an over-inflated ego is an extremely ugly quality to possess .. why on earth would a person think that others would want this for themself?


Seriously ... I don't think the Gemini has a bridge connecting the two .. this is why when the good twin is out, it is appalled that a person would make such a suggestion, like the one I make now, and wouldn't able to make kind of acknowledgement of it's existence, and as it hears others, or reads as in dxp what I'm saying at this moment ... it will have no other recourse except to think ... hater, just jealous ... because there's no connection, at all, for any point of reference.
female
"Being conceited isn't anywhere near as disturbing as believing people would be envious of this, and be jealous that they don't measure up to it."

I don't think that's what any Gemini is saying.
Ego, however -feels- better than an ego that is too low. I don't think that's enough reason why so many could be jealous of Gemini, but it's still a possibility, another dollar that adds up.
Perhaps it's not the feel-good, but the fact people with ego tend to say whatever they want, and that seems to be something people tend to get very jealous of. Not being afraid. Being strong or doing what you want.
And BELIEVE me... just TRUST me, jealous people are petty people. If not, then once they get jealous they turn pretty-pretty petty... quick as the flip of a coin.
Perhaps it's what the ego represents. Like the high strung American attitude. If you're a proud business man, that's because you're a good business man or something like that.
Anyway, it tends to be everyone else who thinks the Gemini is egotistic. Perhaps they can be, maybe we mistake a confidence in one's abilities, (they exercise them all the time) and carefree attitude for being egotistic. Maybe we're just that off. But it's kinda difficult to doubt that there are indeed egotistic signs.
I wouldn't say the carefree Gemini is the egotistic type - and I believe I've already said this - the Gemini is more flexible in nature, less stubborn and egotistic.
The Gemini might say so themselves that they are chickeny - perhaps the flexible Gemini are too swayed by others' (collective) opinions. But they don't always seem/SOUND chickeny when they say it or describe themselves. Yes Gemini has a confident side - BUT REMEMBER, Gemini is also decently humble.
They might be careless, but they don't -set out- to hurt others (like calculating Capricorn or Scorpio, perhaps? Not sure.)
And if one has the good looks, why do you have to cower when you say it? That's just ridiculous - one who believes or who has so carelessly/easily sold into the belief that people should be excessively humble and believe they don't deserve anything. Perhaps just to please the spiteful people? Because they're so incredibly defensive and insecure they think anyone who isn't miserable as they are, are trying to go out of their way just to rub everything in their dissipated faces as an excuse to blow up on anyone who is actually happy? I save attitude for what the spiteful deserve - spite!
female
"And that really, really bothers me. To have an over-inflated ego is an extremely ugly quality to possess .. why on earth would a person think that others would want this for themself?"

Indeed. I have seen ego in all of its glory. Ego seriously thinks it is the center of the universe.
But it can also be amusing, if the person isn't a wife beater who so prides himself for being a - said - warrior.
It's just funny to see a person who prides themselves for the wrong reasons tripping over themselves.
What I really find annoying is persons with self esteem/respect and ego that is too low. They're whiny and unattractive.
It's like "Oh, quit complaining you're not THAT bad--only when you think you are!! ?? TELL ME WHAT LOWNESS COULD JUSTIFY SUCH WHININESS IN ALL OF ITS LOW SELF WORTH AND RESPECT??"

"Seriously ... I don't think the Gemini has a bridge connecting the two .."

Everything is for a reason - and everything has a reason. Nothing is so meaningless unless not to be meaning in the first place (that means non existence.)
For example, your critical analysis of Geminis could logically mean the Gemini simply accuses others of jealousy because they like being envied (which would be like cherishing the position which is non other than the center of attention, and that would be Leo) or they put the blame elsewhere because they hate to hear any negative opinion, which would make them ignorant (and that sounds more like Taurus - admit it Taurus, might be a negative opinion but that's because it's your negative side - and forgive me if through any chance I am actually wrong.) Or a random person, who is talking to someone about fans and thinks/says: duck. Committed to memory, (everything is, really even if it isn't recalled, like old clothes in a closet even if you forget you have it) perhaps this person has seen an Indian feather fan before, and thinking of feathers they then quickly skip to wing/bird:duck. So it is not that they have an inability to connect the dots as a last word (for no reason, apparently as that reasoning goes) but could be so quick at connecting the dots it becomes a struggle to stay on-subject.
I know, quack right?
female
"But it's kinda difficult to doubt that there are indeed egotistic signs."

When I said that I meant Gemini, not signs.

"The Gemini might say so themselves that they are chickeny..."

That was an edit - I was really saying that they might say they themselves are c*cky.

And as I've already said, the Gemini's opinion is certainly worthy enough to be seriously considered, even if it sounds ridiculous to you at first. They don't just tend to see all sides of a situation, they're quick at it. Perhaps you should do a little thinking to catch up. The twins are also Air signs as we all know too well and Air types are communicative intellectual types. If when you think of all the elemental signs, wondering which one has the least ability to be objective and impersonal, and the first you think of is the "air" element, you could do better.
geminis are attractive and have appearance, that's why
Planet Sign House Sun Gemini 12th Moon
LOL - no, the original poster will be 28 this year....hahahahahhaha....funny thought. I wish he'd COME BACK to see it now!
31 years old
Its funny...

no one claims to be jealous, and I'm not saying they are...

but its funny how this thread seems to appear over, and over, and over...

I mean sheesh if everyone hates us that much then leave the damn message board

shyt...

58 years old female
Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
lol @ ^^^^^


... because nobody does hate you, that's the point .. but, still, even in jest, a Gemini would say .. '.. if everybody hates us that much...'
female
"geminis are attractive and have appearance, that's why"

Seems to be so. And as someone's said before, they have the "it" factor - I'm not saying they have more on the general crowd than its sister and brother signs, air/non-air elements included, but society as it is today likes the whole wit thing, (even if it's offensive, ridiculously) and Gemini is that whole package - charm included, but charm is timeless.

"LOL - no, the original poster will be 28 this year....hahahahahhaha....funny thought. I wish he'd COME BACK to see it now!"

That's what I think - maybe he ran away!

"... because nobody does hate you, that's the point .. but, still, even in jest, a Gemini would say .. '.. if everybody hates us that much...' "

I think a jealous person rather stand by and waste their time denying their jealousy than letting it go - because that's not the nature of jealousy. Jealousy only loosens its hold when one overcomes it and is able to let jealousy itself go. At least I think that was the point. And indefinitely a considerable one.
female
(Also a good point.)
31 years old
"because nobody does hate you.."

I sure can't tell...
female from MD
I'm a laid back cool gem
All I can say that Gems fly below the drama radar and that my friends always tell me I can put them in a good mood when they talk to me..
I've noticed it's hard for me to keep female friends. I mean I do have a couple of close one's but in general, It seems a lot of woman are jealous and full of drama so I tend to drop their friendships rather quickly. I've always gotten a long with men better, seems I can understand them.

Recently, I've found myself being jealous of Libra, lol. I think that "certain" Libra male is one of the ONLY kind of men that can really turn me on. You know, that mental stimulation that we all crave
female
I am a Gemini woman and i dislike scorpios intensely! Every scorpio i have ever come across i have experienced extreme repulsion! Gosh they are absolutely difficult to get along with!
Posted by Lissanth
I am a Gemini woman and i dislike scorpios intensely! Every scorpio i have ever come across i have experienced extreme repulsion! Gosh they are absolutely difficult to get along with!


I would definitely agree with you on this about Scorpio's. Those biatches have been taking my man all my life!!! My brother is a Scorpio and even though I love him I cannot stand his Scorpio personality!

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