Dark Sided Gemini do they Physically Harm People or Just Play Games.

I have been seeing a gem casually for the past 10 months. Never intended to have him anymore than just fwb; never introduced him to anyone in my life. There just seemed to be something off about him and my intuition/gut feeling just wouldn't let him be an
I_Hate_TomatoesJuly 13, 2018 8:16pm
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  • Impulsv
    " http://youtu.be/25-JZp0CqsY"
    43 years old female
    Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by Ram416
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Why continue to be around anyone who insults your dad and race? Set a strong boundary.

    Idk if he will assault anyone or not. Cannot arrive at that conclusion from what you have shared. Even the most "sane" person can act out wildly when they feel triggered.




    I agree. If he's been insulting your family and race, it's showing he doesn't have any respect for you. Saying he was tired is a lame excuse for being disrespectful.

    Why be with someone who doesn't respect you?


    I'm surprised she continues to see him even after those insults. He is getting off on these control/manipulative dynamics and doesn't respect her at all.

    Smh

    In person, or over the phone he is totally different - a put together/ politically correct person that isn't a fan of any form of racial jokes. It is via texts that I feel like he is like subliminally trying to send jabs, but it is difficult for me to confront him that way cause he can excuse it or say I misread his text messages. Makes me think, okay, maybe I did misread it - I won't accuse him unless I'm certain. He won't even bring up the jokes or the issues in person it is like his dark side crawls out when he is filtered through the phone screen.

    It definitely feels like he is testing my boundaries because I no longer responds to his texts but he would randomly show up knocking at my apartment. I'm not the type to be dramatic and threaten to call the cops, I feel like that is unnecessary (or is it?). I am seeing other people but he said since I'm not looking to be exclusive with anyone at this moment why cut off one of my options. He justify it as that it is not good to burn bridges with people. All which I agree but I feel like he is smart enough to figure out that I don't take him seriously but he still wants to mess with me. Almost feel like he is putting on a show that he is the "nice guy" and I'm the crazy/bad guy that is super harsh for trying to cut someone off.
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    Just tell him it’s over
    N u are starting the see someone
  • Is he leaving you alone now? That's really scary.

    We Geminis aren't really known for being physically violent, but I certainly wouldn't leave my safety up to a sun sign generalization. Jeffrey Dahmer was a Gemini.
  • Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by neves
    All the people that i know "act differently online" - compared to their real life version. And there's people that i know on a personal level since childhood - who seem more or less like strangers while texting. They have different vibes as well (they feel different). The differences are not always that huge (in some cases you can see a resemblance) - but sometimes is like talking to different people altogether.

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    This is not a Gemini thing. It's people thing. Real life people and their cyber version. Take your nickname (I_Hate_Tomatoes) - and your avatar for example. 🤨 Does that reflect your real life version?! I can't say much about you - from what you wrote so far - cause you're just venting. In a different context you might behave differently.

    Hi, I really don't like tomatoes. Not even one bit...not even a slice in a hamburger. I make my friends eat them. As for the avatar, I like memes that are usually paired with dark humor - to my scorpio liking. That's the revengeful clarinet kid, I also like the vengeance dad meme but he is a bit too dark.
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    See... 😃

    Point proven. 🙂
  • Posted by neves
    All the people that i know "act differently online" - compared to their real life version. And there's people that i know on a personal level since childhood - who seem more or less like strangers while texting. They have different vibes as well (they feel different). The differences are not always that huge (in some cases you can see a resemblance) - but sometimes is like talking to different people altogether.

    User Submitted Image

    This is not a Gemini thing. It's people thing. Real life people and their cyber version. Take your nickname (I_Hate_Tomatoes) - and your avatar for example. 🤨 Does that reflect your real life version?! I can't say much about you - from what you wrote so far - cause you're just venting. In a different context you might behave differently.

    Hi, I really don't like tomatoes. Not even one bit...not even a slice in a hamburger. I make my friends eat them. As for the avatar, I like memes that are usually paired with dark humor - to my scorpio liking. That's the revengeful clarinet kid, I also like the vengeance dad meme but he is a bit too dark.
  • All the people that i know "act differently online" - compared to their real life version. And there's people that i know on a personal level since childhood - who seem more or less like strangers while texting. They have different vibes as well (they feel different). The differences are not always that huge (in some cases you can see a resemblance) - but sometimes is like talking to different people altogether.

    User Submitted Image

    This is not a Gemini thing. It's people thing. Real life people and their cyber version. Take your nickname (I_Hate_Tomatoes) - and your avatar for example. 🤨 Does that reflect your real life version?! I can't say much about you - from what you wrote so far - cause you're just venting. In a different context you might behave differently.
  • Posted by Ram416
    Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by perperuna
    Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by Gemitati
    So he it two-faced mtfkr who is playing with you because none of those who ‘pursuing’ him wants to play.
    And your NO is actually ‘MAYBE’...
    When it becomes NO - you won’t ask questions. You’ll end it.

    Do you also don’t want to be alone and have no one? But you said you seeing other people...what do you need him for? Quantities?

    I have ended it with even an agreement - no friendship, no relationship, nada - shook his hand made a deal. The guy shows up at the door and pretend that never happened.


    Then I would say if you come here again, I will have to call the police. Some people don't get stuff until you take it that far.

    I'm going to do that wish me luck! Hopefully it doesn't backfire and spiral into something worse - which is my main concern.
    The gems in my life are nothing like this guy, they are light and airy happy go lucky people, maybe play a few games but they come from a good place.


    Just be firm and stick to the agreement. If he still tries to push, get a restraining order.
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    Thank you. I never had to do this with anyone. I have dated another gemini and we parted on good terms. But then again most people are sane normal people that wouldn't go this far.
  • Posted by Gobby
    You know, it should be illegal (worldwide) for Geminis and Scorpios to pair up...

    I agree with this.
    As friends and family members they are great but pairing up should be illegal for everyone's safety
  • Ram416
    Reach out and touch faith.
    female from Everywhere
    Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by perperuna
    Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by Gemitati
    So he it two-faced mtfkr who is playing with you because none of those who ‘pursuing’ him wants to play.
    And your NO is actually ‘MAYBE’...
    When it becomes NO - you won’t ask questions. You’ll end it.

    Do you also don’t want to be alone and have no one? But you said you seeing other people...what do you need him for? Quantities?

    I have ended it with even an agreement - no friendship, no relationship, nada - shook his hand made a deal. The guy shows up at the door and pretend that never happened.


    Then I would say if you come here again, I will have to call the police. Some people don't get stuff until you take it that far.

    I'm going to do that wish me luck! Hopefully it doesn't backfire and spiral into something worse - which is my main concern.
    The gems in my life are nothing like this guy, they are light and airy happy go lucky people, maybe play a few games but they come from a good place.
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    Just be firm and stick to the agreement. If he still tries to push, get a restraining order.
  • Whorpio
    Sluttitarius dominant
    22 years old female from The Deep South, USA
    Posted by Gobby
    You know, it should be illegal (worldwide) for Geminis and Scorpios to pair up...
    DISLIKE 👎🏼👎🏼
  • Ram416
    Reach out and touch faith.
    female from Everywhere
    Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by Gemitati
    So he it two-faced mtfkr who is playing with you because none of those who ‘pursuing’ him wants to play.
    And your NO is actually ‘MAYBE’...
    When it becomes NO - you won’t ask questions. You’ll end it.

    Do you also don’t want to be alone and have no one? But you said you seeing other people...what do you need him for? Quantities?

    I have ended it with even an agreement - no friendship, no relationship, nada - shook his hand made a deal. The guy shows up at the door and pretend that never happened.
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    He is testing your boundaries...nay, PUSHING your boundaries. He won't take no for an answer. He is probably hoping to wear you down so that you will give in finally (and give up the other people you tell him you are seeing).

    It is with such people that you need to ice them out, quickly like pulling off a band aid. But that is only IF you feel you have had enough with the manipulation and you 100% want out of it. I think, if you tried to end it again, and this time stuck to your agreement with him (e.g. if he shows up at your door, don't entertain him, pretend he doesn't exist), you'll see him unravel and show his true face.
  • tiziani
    Vorrei guardati ancora ballare se lo stereo e' spento
    yeah i'd go for confrontation, pre-emptively.
  • Posted by perperuna
    Posted by I_Hate_Tomatoes
    Posted by Gemitati
    So he it two-faced mtfkr who is playing with you because none of those who ‘pursuing’ him wants to play.
    And your NO is actually ‘MAYBE’...
    When it becomes NO - you won’t ask questions. You’ll end it.

    Do you also don’t want to be alone and have no one? But you said you seeing other people...what do you need him for? Quantities?

    I have ended it with even an agreement - no friendship, no relationship, nada - shook his hand made a deal. The guy shows up at the door and pretend that never happened.


    Then I would say if you come here again, I will have to call the police. Some people don't get stuff until you take it that far.
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    I'm going to do that wish me luck! Hopefully it doesn't backfire and spiral into something worse - which is my main concern.
    The gems in my life are nothing like this guy, they are light and airy happy go lucky people, maybe play a few games but they come from a good place.
  • You know, it should be illegal (worldwide) for Geminis and Scorpios to pair up...
  • Posted by FFS

    If you like mind games then stick around. If not run Fast.

    You're telling this to a Scorpio?

    Like... HELLO?
  • Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    I'm surprised she continues to see him even after those insults. He is getting off on these control/manipulative dynamics and doesn't respect her at all.

    It's the drama she's attracted to, even though Scorpios constantly claim they hate drama...
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