shyleo92
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How to get my Gemini gf back after hurting her?!
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Posted by shyleo92Honest advice??
I would like some honest advice
You can apologize all you want. But, until you're making an effort (and she sees this) in bettering yourself, she's just not going to budge!
Plus, with her already seeing someone else (probably her way of saying "I don't have to put up with your shit!")... you have slim chances.
Move on. Get some anger management classes.
I am not a Gemini I just feel like commenting,for some reason I think she stl loves you but just wants you to suffer for what you did..why would you take your anger out on her?If you were going through stuffs couldn't you just take to her about it?what's the probability that if she comes back you won't do the same thing again?Focus on working on your anger issues,get better maybe in future she'll give you another chance.what's your sun sign ?
Thanks!do you always figure out peoples sun signs from their username?
I love to confirm because most people here love being mysterious,secondly I didn't read any of his previous threads..but thanks you have quite a talent.
Posted by LonerLoop.basically I was going through a really tough time with my dad and his marriage to another woman and us having a strained relationship. So I was very angry and upset and my gf was always happy happy and I didn't want to talk that day but she kept pestering me. And I just lost my temper and said something like stfu you stupid fat pig or fat slob. And she's a little chubby and conscious about her weight so I guess that really hurt her self esteem. she cried and like I said things went rapidly downhill from then on, two weeks later she ended it with me.Posted by shyleo92Okay, tell me. What did you actually said to her?
I'll keep this short and to the point.
I was in a relationship with a gemini girl everything was going great. About 3 weeks ago I was having a major breakdown over problems with my dad I got very sad and angry over the situation and took it out on her. A few times i said some really hurtful stuff shouted and badly hurt her feelings.
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Im not just saying this but I feel terrible and disgusted at my behavior . I didn't mean to say it like it came out
Without me even thinking of it. I know thats not an excuse but I want to change so she can give me another chance. We had an amazing connection.
Um... Wow that is some horrible shit. You destroyed her trust and faith in you and herself if shes self conscious. That cut to the bone i am sure. it'll take a lot to regain that trust. I wouldn't go back if you insulted me like that sorry.
Posted by UdylawI want to change. I mean fix my temper.
I am not a Gemini I just feel like commenting,for some reason I think she stl loves you but just wants you to suffer for what you did..why would you take your anger out on her?If you were going through stuffs couldn't you just take to her about it?what's the probability that if she comes back you won't do the same thing again?Focus on working on your anger issues,get better maybe in future she'll give you another chance.what's your sun sign ?
Normally I can keep it from exploding I exercise a lot.
But this was in the moment it wasn't malicious.
It happened and I instantly regretted it as soon as the words left my lips.
The thing is like a lot of the times Gemini breaks up when they get bored or a around a possseive partner.
We never ever had that problem. We had an amazing connection.
I think you should leave her alone and concentrate on fixing yourself. Maybe take some anger management course? You sound young but you also sound abusive. Of course she doesn't want to talk about her feelings and emotions with you. You aren't safe to be vulnerable with. She's shut down.
Last thread you said that you played a prank on her by flirting with another girl that hurt her.
This thread you say you shouted at her and called her a stupid fat pig.
You're ruining her self esteem rather intentional or not & it's working because she still talks to you which someone with good self esteem would not.
On top of that, you've only been broken up for 8 days now and you've been doing "no contact" which to me is a passive aggressive means of punishing her.
And I suspect if this new guy weren't in the picture you wouldn't even be bothering with her. It's you're ego & pride that is driving you right now.
I suggest you seek help.
Last thread you said that you played a prank on her by flirting with another girl that hurt her.
This thread you say you shouted at her and called her a stupid fat pig.
You're ruining her self esteem rather intentional or not & it's working because she still talks to you which someone with good self esteem would not.
On top of that, you've only been broken up for 8 days now and you've been doing "no contact" which to me is a passive aggressive means of punishing her.
And I suspect if this new guy weren't in the picture you wouldn't even be bothering with her. It's you're ego & pride that is driving you right now.
I suggest you seek help.
I know a lot of gems will be reading what i said and be like you don't deserve her etc
Look I know I f**cked up I don't need a moral lecture I feel terrible what I said.
I mean every one makes mistakes right?
I really want to change and improve myself whether we get back or not.
I know even if she decides she wants to try again it's a long way down the road.
And I'm willing to be patient and earn back her trust and heart
But I just need some advice pleaaaaaase 😢
Look I know I f**cked up I don't need a moral lecture I feel terrible what I said.
I mean every one makes mistakes right?
I really want to change and improve myself whether we get back or not.
I know even if she decides she wants to try again it's a long way down the road.
And I'm willing to be patient and earn back her trust and heart
But I just need some advice pleaaaaaase 😢
Posted by RiverLee
I think you should leave her alone and concentrate on fixing yourself. Maybe take some anger management course? You sound young but you also sound abusive. Of course she doesn't want to talk about her feelings and emotions with you. You aren't safe to be vulnerable with. She's shut down.
Last thread you said that you played a prank on her by flirting with another girl that hurt her.
This thread you say you shouted at her and called her a stupid fat pig.
You're ruining her self esteem rather intentional or not & it's working because she still talks to you which someone with good self esteem would not.
On top of that, you've only been broken up for 8 days now and you've been doing "no contact" which to me is a passive aggressive means of punishing her.
And I suspect if this new guy weren't in the picture you wouldn't even be bothering with her. It's you're ego & pride that is driving you right now.
I suggest you seek help.
You are wrong. Ego doesn't even come into this conversion.
I tried to fix things after the incident . Yes it didn't work but i tried.
Im not abusive i made a mistake .
Like I said we were getting on perfect until then.
And how is no contact passive aggressive?
Posted by TrueFantasyLeo sunPosted by UdylawIt's a good indicator and that user mentioned he was a Leo in previous threads.
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Scorpio moon
Leo mercury
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
Saggi rising
Posted by TrueFantasyAs long as it's actual advice and not an insultPosted by shyleo92I can give you some advice if you want. I'm pretty good at it.
I know a lot of gems will be reading what i said and be like you don't deserve her etc
Look I know I f**cked up I don't need a moral lecture I feel terrible what I said.
I mean every one makes mistakes right?
I really want to change and improve myself whether we get back or not.
I know even if she decides she wants to try again it's a long way down the road.
And I'm willing to be patient and earn back her trust and heart
But I just need some advice pleaaaaaase 😢
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I would be very grateful.
Posted by TrueFantasyNot you I just mean in general somebody called me an abuser which is wrong.
Just because you're hearing feedback and you're not satisfied with it doesn't make it an insult.
Sorry I didn't mean you.
Posted by TrueFantasyI mean anything other than just letting her go?Posted by shyleo92Well read my first advice - you probably did - unless you missed it.Posted by TrueFantasyNot you I just mean in general somebody called me an abuser which is wrong.
Just because you're hearing feedback and you're not satisfied with it doesn't make it an insult.
Sorry I didn't mean you.
not sure how much of help it was.click to expand
I really don't want to go that route.
Go be single for a bit and work on your pathetic fuck self. How dare you come here, expecting everyone to help you fix something that DOESN'T need fixing. You deserved to be dumped, tbh.
And yes, you moron, you ARE abusive. To say such bullshit things to someone when your stupid fuck emotions are a mess is total verbal and emotional abuse. Being angry and saying things you don't mean is one thing, but you attacked her physical appearance, which if you actually loved her, wouldn't be something you'd say, even in a fit of anger.
The fact you're shrugging it off and expecting people to still give you advice is just gross. You have a lot of growing up to do. Alone.
Advice- leave the poor girl alone and stay the fuck away from her until you fix your selfish fuck attitude.
And yes, you moron, you ARE abusive. To say such bullshit things to someone when your stupid fuck emotions are a mess is total verbal and emotional abuse. Being angry and saying things you don't mean is one thing, but you attacked her physical appearance, which if you actually loved her, wouldn't be something you'd say, even in a fit of anger.
The fact you're shrugging it off and expecting people to still give you advice is just gross. You have a lot of growing up to do. Alone.
Advice- leave the poor girl alone and stay the fuck away from her until you fix your selfish fuck attitude.
Posted by shyleo92Too damned bad. You made your bed. Lay in it.Posted by TrueFantasyI mean anything other than just letting her go?Posted by shyleo92Well read my first advice - you probably did - unless you missed it.Posted by TrueFantasyNot you I just mean in general somebody called me an abuser which is wrong.
Just because you're hearing feedback and you're not satisfied with it doesn't make it an insult.
Sorry I didn't mean you.
not sure how much of help it was.
I really don't want to go that route.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI need to grow up
Go be single for a bit and work on your pathetic fuck self. How dare you come here, expecting everyone to help you fix something that DOESN'T need fixing. You deserved to be dumped, tbh.
And yes, you moron, you ARE abusive. To say such bullshit things to someone when your stupid fuck emotions are a mess is total verbal and emotional abuse. Being angry and saying things you don't mean is one thing, but you attacked her physical appearance, which if you actually loved her, wouldn't be something you'd say, even in a fit of anger.
The fact you're shrugging it off and expecting people to still give you advice is just gross. You have a lot of growing up to do. Alone.
Advice- leave the poor girl alone and stay the fuck away from her until you fix your selfish fuck attitude.
But you're the one insulting me behind a keyboard without making a single constructive point ...ok
Posted by TrueFantasyNot necessarily angry just very stressed with a short fuse. I go to the gym to get it out normally but sometimes I lose it with people who are irritating me, usually when I want peace to think.Posted by shyleo92The most common advice you're getting here is to work on yourself because you stated you had a hard time. You don't want to lose it again and take it out on anyone else so work on that. There are a few calming methods you could try. Are you an angry guy naturally? Or was that a one off?Posted by TrueFantasyI mean anything other than just letting her go?Posted by shyleo92Well read my first advice - you probably did - unless you missed it.Posted by TrueFantasyNot you I just mean in general somebody called me an abuser which is wrong.
Just because you're hearing feedback and you're not satisfied with it doesn't make it an insult.
Sorry I didn't mean you.
not sure how much of help it was.
I really don't want to go that route.
There's another guy involved so are you trying to win her back from him?
You want to maintain a relationship? How long have you guys been together for?
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There's another guy but freinds have told me it's a rebound cos she rushed and got serious. I'm not assuming that but her behaviour is strange towards me like i said she texts me and wants me to stay in her life and some other things like saying maybe we can get back together sometime. Which I felt was weird behaviour if you're getting in a new relationship. Normally you cut contact with the ex right. And I can can guarantee they don't have the same connection we had. In my mind he's just a guy who played his cards right when we fell out
And was all comforting and a shoulder to cry on aka white knight. Oh and he is long distance.
If it's a rebound it will end without me. But yes I would try to win her back if I had to.
Actually where I'm confused is should I maintain a friendship with a Gemini and just kind of be there.
Or go no contact for a while?
We've been together 6 months. But we clicked really well when we first met. And got intimate fast.
Posted by shyleo92
I know a lot of gems will be reading what i said and be like you don't deserve her etc
Look I know I f**cked up I don't need a moral lecture I feel terrible what I said.
I mean every one makes mistakes right?
I really want to change and improve myself whether we get back or not.
I know even if she decides she wants to try again it's a long way down the road.
And I'm willing to be patient and earn back her trust and heart
But I just need some advice pleaaaaaase 😢
You called her a fat slob and u want advice? The best advice I've seen so far is to move on. You sound crazy tbh.
Posted by shyleo92what an asshole. I'd never speak to you again. Wtf—?Posted by LonerLoop.basically I was going through a really tough time with my dad and his marriage to another woman and us having a strained relationship. So I was very angry and upset and my gf was always happy happy and I didn't want to talk that day but she kept pestering me. And I just lost my temper and said something like stfu you stupid fat pig or fat slob. And she's a little chubby and conscious about her weight so I guess that really hurt her self esteem. she cried and like I said things went rapidly downhill from then on, two weeks later she ended it with me.Posted by shyleo92Okay, tell me. What did you actually said to her?
I'll keep this short and to the point.
I was in a relationship with a gemini girl everything was going great. About 3 weeks ago I was having a major breakdown over problems with my dad I got very sad and angry over the situation and took it out on her. A few times i said some really hurtful stuff shouted and badly hurt her feelings.
Im not just saying this but I feel terrible and disgusted at my behavior . I didn't mean to say it like it came out
Without me even thinking of it. I know thats not an excuse but I want to change so she can give me another chance. We had an amazing connection.
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And your suppose to be her bf?
I'm a fucking fat pig??...... well.....
FUCK YOU!!
Ok the same situation happened with my libra man last Saturday. He was under a lot of stress and said the most hurtful things to me. I am a Leo and more important than that I am a woman and my ego and heart is bruised. Now I don't know (and don't think even though I want to) whether or not he will apologize to me on Friday and give it another try (even though he was the one who hurt me) but here is my advice to save your situation.
Stop whining over your feelings and what was going on in your life at the moment you said all those awful things. Focus on her and how she must have felt at that very moment! Don't talk to her over the phone because as women we can hear what you say and that's nice BUT we like eye contact. I feel like you say more with your eyes. Don't text, call and try to fix up a romantic dinner without telling her it's a date/romantic dinner, pick her up and show up with her favorite flowers or a small but meaningful gift. If she does not want to see you, show up to her place. Prove her you love her. The Key word here is LOVE!
Tell her that you love her and that you'll never ever take out your anger and frustration on her, vow to love and adore her and protect and provide for her. Promise that you'll try and never hurt her ever again AND that next time something bothers you, you'll open your heart to her.
Then let her decide.
It might be a little dramatic but that's the least you can do as a man to get your woman back and from there you better work!
Stop whining over your feelings and what was going on in your life at the moment you said all those awful things. Focus on her and how she must have felt at that very moment! Don't talk to her over the phone because as women we can hear what you say and that's nice BUT we like eye contact. I feel like you say more with your eyes. Don't text, call and try to fix up a romantic dinner without telling her it's a date/romantic dinner, pick her up and show up with her favorite flowers or a small but meaningful gift. If she does not want to see you, show up to her place. Prove her you love her. The Key word here is LOVE!
Tell her that you love her and that you'll never ever take out your anger and frustration on her, vow to love and adore her and protect and provide for her. Promise that you'll try and never hurt her ever again AND that next time something bothers you, you'll open your heart to her.
Then let her decide.
It might be a little dramatic but that's the least you can do as a man to get your woman back and from there you better work!
You're verbally abusive when you're angry and that's not okay under any circumstances, no matter how stressed or depressed you are.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
Posted by everlynn
Sup bk 😄!
I see you've been hanging around the gem boards everytime you come back. Well so it seems.
Hola!
Lmao...it's because I keep seeing these threads on the front page.
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustIkr!! Like how the fuck can you come back from that?Posted by shyleo92what an asshole. I'd never speak to you again. Wtf—?Posted by LonerLoop.basically I was going through a really tough time with my dad and his marriage to another woman and us having a strained relationship. So I was very angry and upset and my gf was always happy happy and I didn't want to talk that day but she kept pestering me. And I just lost my temper and said something like stfu you stupid fat pig or fat slob. And she's a little chubby and conscious about her weight so I guess that really hurt her self esteem. she cried and like I said things went rapidly downhill from then on, two weeks later she ended it with me.Posted by shyleo92Okay, tell me. What did you actually said to her?
I'll keep this short and to the point.
I was in a relationship with a gemini girl everything was going great. About 3 weeks ago I was having a major breakdown over problems with my dad I got very sad and angry over the situation and took it out on her. A few times i said some really hurtful stuff shouted and badly hurt her feelings.
Im not just saying this but I feel terrible and disgusted at my behavior . I didn't mean to say it like it came out
Without me even thinking of it. I know thats not an excuse but I want to change so she can give me another chance. We had an amazing connection.
And your suppose to be her bf?
I'm a fucking fat pig??...... well.....
FUCK YOU!!
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hes really lucky all she's doing is stringing him along. I would have verbally finshed him.
you sir, im so sorry to tell you is not going to get her back, especially if the new guy is way better than you. if she is an experience Gemini in relationships, or just has a keen eye on human behavior, her interest in getting back with you is lost, if once she takes you back you are going to do the same thing. a Gemini will NOT leave a secure relationship for a toxic one. Geminis can love you all they want, but they think with their heads, not with their hearts.
Posted by everlynnlolPosted by rockyroadicecreamI know this is none of my business. Just thought I might add that cuz I already know that's what you'll say.
Go be single for a bit and work on your pathetic fuck self. How dare you come here, expecting everyone to help you fix something that DOESN'T need fixing. You deserved to be dumped, tbh.
And yes, you moron, you ARE abusive. To say such bullshit things to someone when your stupid fuck emotions are a mess is total verbal and emotional abuse. Being angry and saying things you don't mean is one thing, but you attacked her physical appearance, which if you actually loved her, wouldn't be something you'd say, even in a fit of anger.
The fact you're shrugging it off and expecting people to still give you advice is just gross. You have a lot of growing up to do. Alone.
Advice- leave the poor girl alone and stay the fuck away from her until you fix your selfish fuck attitude.
Why is it that you must go off like this? Look, we all know he must work on himself but to come off mean and rigid like that is totally insane. That only adds even more fuel to the fire. Sorry to say but you're not helping him. You're hurting him. And you must've woke up on the wrong side of the bed to be so mean and cranky to a total stranger.
Another Alicia I see.
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Posted by shyleo92Let me highlight for you, you stupid, stupid self absorbed child.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI need to grow up
Go be single for a bit and work on your pathetic fuck self. How dare you come here, expecting everyone to help you fix something that DOESN'T need fixing. You deserved to be dumped, tbh.
And yes, you moron, you ARE abusive. To say such bullshit things to someone when your stupid fuck emotions are a mess is total verbal and emotional abuse. Being angry and saying things you don't mean is one thing, but you attacked her physical appearance, which if you actually loved her, wouldn't be something you'd say, even in a fit of anger.
The fact you're shrugging it off and expecting people to still give you advice is just gross. You have a lot of growing up to do. Alone.
Advice- leave the poor girl alone and stay the fuck away from her until you fix your selfish fuck attitude.
But you're the one insulting me behind a keyboard without making a single constructive point ...ok
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The rest is me standing up for your poor ex and taking shots at her looks because you were wah wah upset. You deserve to be called any range of names, you disgrace. Maybe you'll start to understand how she felt with your callous bs, instead of justifying it because you were mad. Wtf ever. Fucking Leo egos are gross as fuck when they flare up.
Posted by AriSaturnThis.
You're verbally abusive when you're angry and that's not okay under any circumstances, no matter how stressed or depressed you are.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
Posted by SagiScorpReally? I would think more sadist.
As a Sagittarius, I've always been under the impression that Geminis were masochists.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThe funniest thing about you is that you are even angrier than me.Posted by shyleo92Let me highlight for you, you stupid, stupid self absorbed child.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI need to grow up
Go be single for a bit and work on your pathetic fuck self. How dare you come here, expecting everyone to help you fix something that DOESN'T need fixing. You deserved to be dumped, tbh.
And yes, you moron, you ARE abusive. To say such bullshit things to someone when your stupid fuck emotions are a mess is total verbal and emotional abuse. Being angry and saying things you don't mean is one thing, but you attacked her physical appearance, which if you actually loved her, wouldn't be something you'd say, even in a fit of anger.
The fact you're shrugging it off and expecting people to still give you advice is just gross. You have a lot of growing up to do. Alone.
Advice- leave the poor girl alone and stay the fuck away from her until you fix your selfish fuck attitude.
But you're the one insulting me behind a keyboard without making a single constructive point ...ok
The rest is me standing up for your poor ex and taking shots at her looks because you were wah wah upset. You deserve to be called any range of names, you disgrace. Maybe you'll start to understand how she felt with your callous bs, instead of justifying it because you were mad. Wtf ever. Fucking Leo egos are gross as fuck when they flare up.click to expand
Sorry you just made a fool of yourself again.
Posted by AriSaturnI don't know whats wrong with you people, why are you taking it so personally? I just asked for some advice.
You're verbally abusive when you're angry and that's not okay under any circumstances, no matter how stressed or depressed you are.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
And yeah it did happen a few times in a short time period
Like I said I was in a bad state ot mind.
I'm still human humans make mistakes ..
Posted by shyleo92There's nothing wrong with us lol. Yes, humans make mistakes. Insulting the physical appearance of someone who has made themselves vulnerable to you in an intimate relationship is not a mistake. It's pyschological abuse. This is coming from someone who has a sharp tongue during arguments. I would never think to insult my spouses physical appearance.Posted by AriSaturnI don't know whats wrong with you people, why are you taking it so personally? I just asked for some advice.
You're verbally abusive when you're angry and that's not okay under any circumstances, no matter how stressed or depressed you are.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
And yeah it did happen a few times in a short time period
Like I said I was in a bad state ot mind.
I'm still human humans make mistakes ..
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Here's what I see....
Have you joined anger management classes yet??
Or, are you too busy getting "advice"??
You attacked her with some of the nastiest words you could have... you dont speak that way to ANY woman, nor someone you supposedly love! you want advice on how to CONTROL the situation to how you want it! Ppl have given you advice, but you refuse to take it cuz you don't like what you hear...(control)
You want her back without doing the work? Anger management is very much needed for you , and yet, you're here getting advice... I doubt you will join any classes. I doubt you will even try to work on yourself... That pride will keep you from doing it cuz you don't see yourself as actually having any problems at all.
And, who cares what she's doing now, and how much you belittle her current situation. You DON'T KNOW what is between her and the new man. Quit justifying it, and leave that poor girl alone!!!
Your writing style , which words you choose to type out, suggest your manipulation tactics...
Have you joined anger management classes yet??
Or, are you too busy getting "advice"??
You attacked her with some of the nastiest words you could have... you dont speak that way to ANY woman, nor someone you supposedly love! you want advice on how to CONTROL the situation to how you want it! Ppl have given you advice, but you refuse to take it cuz you don't like what you hear...(control)
You want her back without doing the work? Anger management is very much needed for you , and yet, you're here getting advice... I doubt you will join any classes. I doubt you will even try to work on yourself... That pride will keep you from doing it cuz you don't see yourself as actually having any problems at all.
And, who cares what she's doing now, and how much you belittle her current situation. You DON'T KNOW what is between her and the new man. Quit justifying it, and leave that poor girl alone!!!
Your writing style , which words you choose to type out, suggest your manipulation tactics...
Posted by shyleo92You don't deserve her. I'm glad she walked away. I hope she blocks you entirely. You're abusive.Posted by AriSaturnI don't know whats wrong with you people, why are you taking it so personally? I just asked for some advice.
You're verbally abusive when you're angry and that's not okay under any circumstances, no matter how stressed or depressed you are.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
And yeah it did happen a few times in a short time period
Like I said I was in a bad state ot mind.
I'm still human humans make mistakes ..
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Posted by bkbella86No she hasn't blocked me she texts me . but I'm thinking of blocking her so she can heal. And I'm not abusive like I've said like 10 times already I made a mistake. But I'm sure you're perfect.Posted by shyleo92You don't deserve her. I'm glad she walked away. I hope she blocks you entirely. You're abusive.Posted by AriSaturnI don't know whats wrong with you people, why are you taking it so personally? I just asked for some advice.
You're verbally abusive when you're angry and that's not okay under any circumstances, no matter how stressed or depressed you are.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
And yeah it did happen a few times in a short time period
Like I said I was in a bad state ot mind.
I'm still human humans make mistakes ..
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Posted by shyleo92No I said I hope she blocks you. I'm not perfect.Posted by bkbella86No she hasn't blocked me she texts me . but I'm thinking of blocking her so she can heal. And I'm not abusive like I've said like 10 times already I made a mistake. But I'm sure you're perfect.Posted by shyleo92You don't deserve her. I'm glad she walked away. I hope she blocks you entirely. You're abusive.Posted by AriSaturnI don't know whats wrong with you people, why are you taking it so personally? I just asked for some advice.
You're verbally abusive when you're angry and that's not okay under any circumstances, no matter how stressed or depressed you are.
I don't think you were together 6 months and everything was going great. If this was an isolated incident and completely out of character for you, I could see a woman understanding that in a moment of pressure you lashed out. This has probably been an ongoing issue and this is just the final straw that pushed her away.
I think you're now upset because that "fat slob" walked away when you never thought she would and you lost control and that's really what's upsetting you. You're extremely lucky she has any contact with you at all.
And yeah it did happen a few times in a short time period
Like I said I was in a bad state ot mind.
I'm still human humans make mistakes ..
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Posted by misslissaIm going to see someone privately i have an appointment next week So I'm on the road to recovery.
Here's what I see....
Have you joined anger management classes yet??
Or, are you too busy getting "advice"??
You attacked her with some of the nastiest words you could have... you dont speak that way to ANY woman, nor someone you supposedly love! you want advice on how to CONTROL the situation to how you want it! Ppl have given you advice, but you refuse to take it cuz you don't like what you hear...(control)
You want her back without doing the work? Anger management is very much needed for you , and yet, you're here getting advice... I doubt you will join any classes. I doubt you will even try to work on yourself... That pride will keep you from doing it cuz you don't see yourself as actually having any problems at all.
And, who cares what she's doing now, and how much you belittle her current situation. You DON'T KNOW what is between her and the new man. Quit justifying it, and leave that poor girl alone!!!
Your writing style , which words you choose to type out, suggest your manipulation tactics...
I still don't know why you keep making up the fact that I'm a manipulating and controlling person. I just want to get back with my ex. I've typed it like it is no games.
Some people have given me a moral rant or insulted me so a lot of the replies here aren't actually advice.
No offence but I think you have anger problems too.
Posted by shyleo92Deflect much?Posted by misslissaIm going to see someone privately i have an appointment next week So I'm on the road to recovery.
Here's what I see....
Have you joined anger management classes yet??
Or, are you too busy getting "advice"??
You attacked her with some of the nastiest words you could have... you dont speak that way to ANY woman, nor someone you supposedly love! you want advice on how to CONTROL the situation to how you want it! Ppl have given you advice, but you refuse to take it cuz you don't like what you hear...(control)
You want her back without doing the work? Anger management is very much needed for you , and yet, you're here getting advice... I doubt you will join any classes. I doubt you will even try to work on yourself... That pride will keep you from doing it cuz you don't see yourself as actually having any problems at all.
And, who cares what she's doing now, and how much you belittle her current situation. You DON'T KNOW what is between her and the new man. Quit justifying it, and leave that poor girl alone!!!
Your writing style , which words you choose to type out, suggest your manipulation tactics...
I still don't know why you keep making up the fact that I'm a manipulating and controlling person. I just want to get back with my ex. I've typed it like it is no games.
Some people have given me a moral rant or insulted me so a lot of the replies here aren't actually advice.
No offence but I think you have anger problems too.
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Lmfao
I guess, advice is in the eye of the beholder.... 😆
Posted by galawastelandsOmg here we go again ..:.so I'm manipulative controlling and now have an ego.
I remember you Leo. You were the Leo trying to get advice on how to get this same Gemini back last night after you said you played a trick on her of flirting with another girl in front of this Gem. Now let me add up what you spoke of in this thread and honestly I think you don't need her back.
I don't think she will come back either. She probably tells you that simply because the break up is new, and the feelings that she has for you hasn't had enough time to really fade away and be replaced by this new guy she's dating.
I'm hoping this new guy is playing what you coin as the "white knight" so well that she never has to go back to you who likes to treat her as COURT JESTER. Who and the hell makes a prank of flirting with another woman in front of his gf? An immature dude that's who. The same one that would sit there and target a woman's insecurities. Honestly, I bet my life on it, when she has time enough to think back on this relationship and analyze it, she will come to terms that you aren't worth coming back to, especially if the new guy is making her life a breeze.
You don't need to worry about getting her back, you need to worry about growing up. I've dated a few leos and that ego is the backbone of why I've always left. When you guys fuck up, there's always an excuse. "I'm sorry, but....". Anytime there's a but after an apology it's never really an apology anymore. It's an excuse.
Work on yourself and leave the Gem girl alone, and let her move on with the new guy. I'm sure he has enough maturity to at least be respectful no matter his own attitude.
Didn't you read my screen name? Shy Leo's don't have egos.
And if you dated Leo's like you said you did you will be aware that we are very romantic and giving . And like I keep saying up into that incident everything was perfect other than accidentally calling her those names once or twice I treated her like a queen.
And if you had any kind of experience with relationships you would know that when people get very hurt in commited relationships and date someone new very fast and get serious right away without knowing eachother it's a rebound. And that's not my view all her freinds have told me that.
^^+infinity...
The gem is out having the time of her life with someone that treats her better, and the leo is at home, ALONE.... can't stand being alone and is suffering his punishment for his crimes!
Too bad he cannot realize that... 😆
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SOURCE:
My mother,
2 daughters
An aunt
2 uncles
3 cousins
And a handful of ex's
All LEO!!
The gem is out having the time of her life with someone that treats her better, and the leo is at home, ALONE.... can't stand being alone and is suffering his punishment for his crimes!
Too bad he cannot realize that... 😆
EDIT:
SOURCE:
My mother,
2 daughters
An aunt
2 uncles
3 cousins
And a handful of ex's
All LEO!!
Update!
Last night She dumped him because she realised she was just using him to get over her pain and when it was all said and done she had no spark with him 🙂
Btw they never even met it was long distance.
Back in the game aewwwyeaaah !!!!
Galawastelands you are a cancer moon no wonder so many Leo men have ended it with you we dont like clingy weak women. Which by the way proves you know nothing about astrology because you're basing everything off your sun sign which if you had basic knowledge on the subject you would know that the moon is the other side of your soul and deals with emotions. I suggest reading some books before you try to give an ignorant opinion.
Last night She dumped him because she realised she was just using him to get over her pain and when it was all said and done she had no spark with him 🙂
Btw they never even met it was long distance.
Back in the game aewwwyeaaah !!!!
Galawastelands you are a cancer moon no wonder so many Leo men have ended it with you we dont like clingy weak women. Which by the way proves you know nothing about astrology because you're basing everything off your sun sign which if you had basic knowledge on the subject you would know that the moon is the other side of your soul and deals with emotions. I suggest reading some books before you try to give an ignorant opinion.
Posted by galawastelandsUpdate!
You surely weren't shy when you were calling her a fat slob were you?, Or how about when you pulled that prank to be flirting with another girl? That screams shy to me. *rolls eyes* How about you stop trying to seem all shy and open your eyes to what everyone in here has already peeped game on, which is she doesn't want you back right now for good reason.
By the way, Romeo, Romantic and giving means nothing when it is also served with having your insecurities shoved down your throat. Please remind me how you accidentally let your mouth create the words to call her a horrible name like that. Please..... I'm waiting..... Is it the same way you accidentally flirted with another girl? Again, *sighs* You have made my point off there always being an excuse, instead of an genuine apology. You also can't seem to make up your mind on if things were ok or not for that period of time, because in a reply to AriSaturn you admitted that things weren't completely ok. I highly doubt that things were as perfect as you claim anyway since she was able to "rebound" so quickly as well. She had to had already known someone was into her, because I highly doubt that she picked some random ass dude out of the sea and randomly started dating him. Most Gems in here will vouch that isn't how we roll.
Oh please, tell me about committed relationships,since you seem to be a guru at them and haha, keep believing that out of the friends mouth when she herself won't even tell you that he's a rebound. Trust me, as Gem I'm not trying to get serious with any rebound, even you acknowledge they are getting serious. If it was a rebound, believe me she would've cut him off and ran back to you when you poured out your feelings. Like I said and everyone in here can see:
YOU are the one on a forum board trying to get back a gem girl who currently is out killing life with a new guy, so when you decide you are done in here trying to tell everyone what you want us to tell you to make your ego feel better, let me know if at the end of the night if your gem is laying in your bed or this other guys at night.
Last night She dumped him because she realised she was just using him to get over her pain and when it was all said and done she had no spark with him
Btw they never even met it was long distance.
Back in the game aewwwyeaaah !!!!
Galawastelands you are a cancer moon no wonder so many Leo men have ended it with you we dont like clingy weak women. Which by the way proves you know nothing about astrology because you're basing everything off your sun sign which if you had basic knowledge on the subject you would know that the moon is the other side of your soul and deals with emotions. I suggest reading some books before you try to give an ignorant opinion.
Posted by misslissaHaha I won
^^+infinity...
The gem is out having the time of her life with someone that treats her better, and the leo is at home, ALONE.... can't stand being alone and is suffering his punishment for his crimes!
Too bad he cannot realize that... 😆
EDIT:
SOURCE:
My mother,
2 daughters
An aunt
2 uncles
3 cousins
And a handful of ex's
All LEO!!
I'm sorry no men want to date you because you are so ugly .
Or a couple of Leo's got bored of you.
So you spend your whole life online bashing them .
Get a life loser
You must be so mad right now reading this that I was right
Well better luck next time buddy😉
Posted by LonerLoopMy ego was never hurt because I knew it was a rebound the whole time which got comfirmed last night
The advice from the Gems here are more than enough to tell you like what it is.
I hate to be mean but you were really mean towards her by calling her names like that and what do you expect from the people here? You still refuse to see the damage you have caused and instead, you turned the table back on us.
Geminis are very forgiving, just so you know but the way you try to defend yourself shows that this is more about you than her. Your ego must have been bruised, since she's already seeing someone else and it is not because you really wanted to get back to her. I would not say all Leos are like that, but you really belongs to the immature ones, definately. The things that you have said to her did upset me as well. I could literally feel her pain and I hope she is feeling alright now. 😢
I would suggest you to just let her be and move on with your life. I hope you will get the treatment that you have mentioned.
Upset you ? Give me a break and grow a backbone.
I guess I'll have the last laugh
Ladies and gentleman this is my final statement..
My Gemini ended it with the little rebound she had going because she told him she was just using him to get rid of her pain. I'm going to work on my anger problems I'm seeing a psychologist privately starting next week before I think about getting back with her to show I've changed.
I actually got some really good advice from a few individuals about improving myself and how to make her feel special .so thanks a lot for being honest. Unfortunately there were a lot of haters all desperate lonley women
Who pretty much bashed me the whole time and made no constructive points. But hey haters with no social life are always gonna hate.
I made a terrible mistake and believe me I feel so bad. But everyone makes mistakes and it's not like I cheated or anything I just said a messed up thing when. I snapped. Everyone deserves forgiveness for their mistakes.
I'm not a big social media guy I like to live in the real world with real people so this may be the last time I post on here maybe I will but it won't be for a while.
I'll never forget you guys ðŸ˜
My Gemini ended it with the little rebound she had going because she told him she was just using him to get rid of her pain. I'm going to work on my anger problems I'm seeing a psychologist privately starting next week before I think about getting back with her to show I've changed.
I actually got some really good advice from a few individuals about improving myself and how to make her feel special .so thanks a lot for being honest. Unfortunately there were a lot of haters all desperate lonley women
Who pretty much bashed me the whole time and made no constructive points. But hey haters with no social life are always gonna hate.
I made a terrible mistake and believe me I feel so bad. But everyone makes mistakes and it's not like I cheated or anything I just said a messed up thing when. I snapped. Everyone deserves forgiveness for their mistakes.
I'm not a big social media guy I like to live in the real world with real people so this may be the last time I post on here maybe I will but it won't be for a while.
I'll never forget you guys ðŸ˜
Posted by shyleo92See...that mean spirited side is the real you. It's in your nature.Posted by misslissaHaha I won
^^+infinity...
The gem is out having the time of her life with someone that treats her better, and the leo is at home, ALONE.... can't stand being alone and is suffering his punishment for his crimes!
Too bad he cannot realize that... 😆
EDIT:
SOURCE:
My mother,
2 daughters
An aunt
2 uncles
3 cousins
And a handful of ex's
All LEO!!
I'm sorry no men want to date you because you are so ugly .
Or a couple of Leo's got bored of you.
So you spend your whole life online bashing them .
Get a life loser
You must be so mad right now reading this that I was right
Well better luck next time buddy😉
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Posted by shyleo92L.M.M.F.A.O......Posted by misslissaHaha I won
^^+infinity...
The gem is out having the time of her life with someone that treats her better, and the leo is at home, ALONE.... can't stand being alone and is suffering his punishment for his crimes!
Too bad he cannot realize that... 😆
EDIT:
SOURCE:
My mother,
2 daughters
An aunt
2 uncles
3 cousins
And a handful of ex's
All LEO!!
I'm sorry no men want to date you because you are so ugly .
Or a couple of Leo's got bored of you.
So you spend your whole life online bashing them .
Get a life loser
You must be so mad right now reading this that I was right
Well better luck next time buddy😉
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You could not be farther than the truth!!! 😆
Do you feel better now that you attacked me?? LOL! It's proof that I know leo nature, is all. No one got bored with me.... HAHAHAHAAAAA!
FYI: I am happily married!! Jealous? 😆
#cannotstoplaughing!!!
Not anger issue...
Posted by shyleo92How long were you two together? It sounds like she is gone and I doubt she will come back. That's my honest advice..
I'll keep this short and to the point.
I was in a relationship with a gemini girl everything was going great. About 3 weeks ago I was having a major breakdown over problems with my dad I got very sad and angry over the situation and took it out on her. A few times i said some really hurtful stuff shouted and badly hurt her feelings.
After this the relationship declined rapidly and two weeks later we were done. ,,( We broke up on 1st august).
Couple of days after it ended she began a new relationship with a guy who is sorta like a white knight.
That relationship has progressed fast. Freinds are telling me it's a rebound but I really don't know.
When.i texted her she said I am still in her heart, maybe there is a chance in the future but she needs space.
But generally when try to talk about her feelings and emotions she tries to quickly change the subject.
She has offered friendship and saying she needs me in her life.
I've been kind of doing no contact on and off because the whole situation is making me very physically ill and depressed. She keeps texting me every day which draws me back. I made a mistake yesterday I wrote her an honest letter about how I am so sorry for wronging her and saying i love her and want us to try again. She told me she cried reading it but that was all she didn't react the way I wanted in wanting to get back to me. So once again I felt wounded.
I would like some honest advice on how I can get her back or manage to reconnect in a romantic way.
And you geminis please help me understand what's going through her mind.
She is sun Mars and Venus gemini btw and sagg moon.
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After this the relationship declined rapidly and two weeks later we were done. ,,( We broke up on 1st august).
Couple of days after it ended she began a new relationship with a guy who is sorta like a white knight.
That relationship has progressed fast. Freinds are telling me it's a rebound but I really don't know.
When.i texted her she said I am still in her heart, maybe there is a chance in the future but she needs space.
But generally when try to talk about her feelings and emotions she tries to quickly change the subject.
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I've been kind of doing no contact on and off because the whole situation is making me very physically ill and depressed. She keeps texting me every day which draws me back. I made a mistake yesterday I wrote her an honest letter about how I am so sorry for wronging her and saying i love her and want us to try again. She told me she cried reading it but that was all she didn't react the way I wanted in wanting to get back to me. So once again I felt wounded.
I would like some honest advice on how I can get her back or manage to reconnect in a romantic way.
And you geminis please help me understand what's going through her mind.
She is sun Mars and Venus gemini btw and sagg moon.