Ask a Leo

I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free.
ChuckcemFebruary 2, 2017 10:41am
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  • Breeze
    Libra Sun-Leo Moon-Libra Merc-Virgo Venus-Aries Mars
    male
    Posted by Chuckcem
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    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?


    Well a few things. Leos are very busy people and we're very similar to Taurus when it comes to our workaholism. Even if we are interested in someone, if you're not close with us yet then prepare to take a backseat to our work obligations. That's not to say that Leos are always like that, but a Lep won't prioritize you until you grow closer.

    You mentioned that you've talked to this Leo before and she was responsive. What happened then that you feel the need to "prove" yourself now? Just know that Leos like consistency and we have long memories. So if you acted one way before and act differently now, she won't readily forget that. As a result she's going to take her time observing you first (if she's still interested).

    That all being said, this woman's interest in you doesn't seem to be very high at the moment. It's possible that it's because she's busy, it's possible that she wants to see if your interest in her is consistent. However when a woman is definitely interested, she will give more definite responses. Even if she's truly busy for the next couple of weeks, her counter offer would have been more concrete/enthusiastic. Stating that she "may be free one day" before she leaves for her birthday isn't an indication of high interest at all.

    So my question is, what happened the first time you interacted with this Leo woman and why do you feel like this is your "second chance" with her?


    At first she was giving me very short one word replies. I said something to her about it and then she gave me more detailed text.

    Was talking to her and another female at the time and chose the other woman to be exclusive with. She was more intriguing and the vibe was better. Not saying the leos wasnt but other woman we just had that cant miss spark. I told her my move because i respected her and didnt want to just ghost her, she blew me off. I tried to get intouch with her months ago and she wasnt going for it.

    She said rarely ever gives second chances and it better be a good one to be let back into her special world. Thats when she said her number never changed and we started communicating again


    It's possible that she realized things weren't deep enough for her to have reacted the way she did. Again Leos are proud. Also second chances is a very rare thing, but not impossible in situations like these. It sounds like things were fairly casual before you went with the other woman.

    One thing to know though is if you trying to win a Leo woman back, she must feel like she's number one in your eyes from here on out. The real question is, why do you want her in th first place? From what you said it sounds like you were pretty sure about the other woman? I ask this because she'll ask this. Leos want a partner with a strong resolve and who doesn't need to backtrack. So more than likely, she's going to see how you operate.


    Something about a leo woman that grabs my attention. This leo woman to be exact. I see the style and grace, confidence, independent plus the beauty. Getting to know her ill learn the finer details about her. Shes couple yrs older then me so mature. i know she wants to settle down as im ready also

    The other women came and swept me off my feet but she wasnt golden like i thought. I learned from that. I dont have the female deck i had then. Im not into wasting anyones time or mine so im not entering multiple females how i did in past. If i dont see a purpose ill walk.


    A lot of what you described about this Leo woman sounds like surface stuff. If you're going to reel a Leo in, you have to go beyond the superficial and get to the Leo at the core. This is why I asked, why do you want this Leo? style , grace, confidence, beauty, she knows she attracts men that way. She knows what she has and not she's wondering why she should give it to you. Leos tend to be aware of our positive traits, at least the traits everyone can easily see. If a Leo has had experiences in the past dealing with players and hookups, we'll stop caring about the glitz and look entirely for substance. Are you giving her substance when you talk to her?

    As @MoonshineLeo stated, this may be a lost cause. If the Leo is catching an attitude while you're speaking with her, it's not a good sign.
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    Was trying to find all the other stuff out but she wouldn't let me in. I do have substance and people love talking to me because of my conversations. We can talk for 3hrs and you wouldn't even realize it.

    I never chase after woman but tried it for once. Yeah ill stick to my guns from now on. Energy you put out is what you get back.

    If she lost respect for me because i was honest about my choices months ago instead of ghosting her all that says to me is i bruised her ego and she too prideful. Leo trait. My leo moon makes me feel the same way at times. Get over it! Im not stroking anyones ego and im sure i did this time with me wanting to come back. Theres more fish in the sea.
  • MoonshineLeo
    24 years old female from Texas
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?


    Well a few things. Leos are very busy people and we're very similar to Taurus when it comes to our workaholism. Even if we are interested in someone, if you're not close with us yet then prepare to take a backseat to our work obligations. That's not to say that Leos are always like that, but a Lep won't prioritize you until you grow closer.

    You mentioned that you've talked to this Leo before and she was responsive. What happened then that you feel the need to "prove" yourself now? Just know that Leos like consistency and we have long memories. So if you acted one way before and act differently now, she won't readily forget that. As a result she's going to take her time observing you first (if she's still interested).

    That all being said, this woman's interest in you doesn't seem to be very high at the moment. It's possible that it's because she's busy, it's possible that she wants to see if your interest in her is consistent. However when a woman is definitely interested, she will give more definite responses. Even if she's truly busy for the next couple of weeks, her counter offer would have been more concrete/enthusiastic. Stating that she "may be free one day" before she leaves for her birthday isn't an indication of high interest at all.

    So my question is, what happened the first time you interacted with this Leo woman and why do you feel like this is your "second chance" with her?


    At first she was giving me very short one word replies. I said something to her about it and then she gave me more detailed text.

    Was talking to her and another female at the time and chose the other woman to be exclusive with. She was more intriguing and the vibe was better. Not saying the leos wasnt but other woman we just had that cant miss spark. I told her my move because i respected her and didnt want to just ghost her, she blew me off. I tried to get intouch with her months ago and she wasnt going for it.

    She said rarely ever gives second chances and it better be a good one to be let back into her special world. Thats when she said her number never changed and we started communicating again


    It's possible that she realized things weren't deep enough for her to have reacted the way she did. Again Leos are proud. Also second chances is a very rare thing, but not impossible in situations like these. It sounds like things were fairly casual before you went with the other woman.

    One thing to know though is if you trying to win a Leo woman back, she must feel like she's number one in your eyes from here on out. The real question is, why do you want her in th first place? From what you said it sounds like you were pretty sure about the other woman? I ask this because she'll ask this. Leos want a partner with a strong resolve and who doesn't need to backtrack. So more than likely, she's going to see how you operate.


    Something about a leo woman that grabs my attention. This leo woman to be exact. I see the style and grace, confidence, independent plus the beauty. Getting to know her ill learn the finer details about her. Shes couple yrs older then me so mature. i know she wants to settle down as im ready also

    The other women came and swept me off my feet but she wasnt golden like i thought. I learned from that. I dont have the female deck i had then. Im not into wasting anyones time or mine so im not entering multiple females how i did in past. If i dont see a purpose ill walk.


    A lot of what you described about this Leo woman sounds like surface stuff. If you're going to reel a Leo in, you have to go beyond the superficial and get to the Leo at the core. This is why I asked, why do you want this Leo? style , grace, confidence, beauty, she knows she attracts men that way. She knows what she has and not she's wondering why she should give it to you. Leos tend to be aware of our positive traits, at least the traits everyone can easily see. If a Leo has had experiences in the past dealing with players and hookups, we'll stop caring about the glitz and look entirely for substance. Are you giving her substance when you talk to her?

    As @MoonshineLeo stated, this may be a lost cause. If the Leo is catching an attitude while you're speaking with her, it's not a good sign.
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    Because she lost respect for him
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?


    Well a few things. Leos are very busy people and we're very similar to Taurus when it comes to our workaholism. Even if we are interested in someone, if you're not close with us yet then prepare to take a backseat to our work obligations. That's not to say that Leos are always like that, but a Lep won't prioritize you until you grow closer.

    You mentioned that you've talked to this Leo before and she was responsive. What happened then that you feel the need to "prove" yourself now? Just know that Leos like consistency and we have long memories. So if you acted one way before and act differently now, she won't readily forget that. As a result she's going to take her time observing you first (if she's still interested).

    That all being said, this woman's interest in you doesn't seem to be very high at the moment. It's possible that it's because she's busy, it's possible that she wants to see if your interest in her is consistent. However when a woman is definitely interested, she will give more definite responses. Even if she's truly busy for the next couple of weeks, her counter offer would have been more concrete/enthusiastic. Stating that she "may be free one day" before she leaves for her birthday isn't an indication of high interest at all.

    So my question is, what happened the first time you interacted with this Leo woman and why do you feel like this is your "second chance" with her?


    At first she was giving me very short one word replies. I said something to her about it and then she gave me more detailed text.

    Was talking to her and another female at the time and chose the other woman to be exclusive with. She was more intriguing and the vibe was better. Not saying the leos wasnt but other woman we just had that cant miss spark. I told her my move because i respected her and didnt want to just ghost her, she blew me off. I tried to get intouch with her months ago and she wasnt going for it.

    She said rarely ever gives second chances and it better be a good one to be let back into her special world. Thats when she said her number never changed and we started communicating again


    It's possible that she realized things weren't deep enough for her to have reacted the way she did. Again Leos are proud. Also second chances is a very rare thing, but not impossible in situations like these. It sounds like things were fairly casual before you went with the other woman.

    One thing to know though is if you trying to win a Leo woman back, she must feel like she's number one in your eyes from here on out. The real question is, why do you want her in th first place? From what you said it sounds like you were pretty sure about the other woman? I ask this because she'll ask this. Leos want a partner with a strong resolve and who doesn't need to backtrack. So more than likely, she's going to see how you operate.


    Something about a leo woman that grabs my attention. This leo woman to be exact. I see the style and grace, confidence, independent plus the beauty. Getting to know her ill learn the finer details about her. Shes couple yrs older then me so mature. i know she wants to settle down as im ready also

    The other women came and swept me off my feet but she wasnt golden like i thought. I learned from that. I dont have the female deck i had then. Im not into wasting anyones time or mine so im not entering multiple females how i did in past. If i dont see a purpose ill walk.
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    A lot of what you described about this Leo woman sounds like surface stuff. If you're going to reel a Leo in, you have to go beyond the superficial and get to the Leo at the core. This is why I asked, why do you want this Leo? style , grace, confidence, beauty, she knows she attracts men that way. She knows what she has and not she's wondering why she should give it to you. Leos tend to be aware of our positive traits, at least the traits everyone can easily see. If a Leo has had experiences in the past dealing with players and hookups, we'll stop caring about the glitz and look entirely for substance. Are you giving her substance when you talk to her?

    As @MoonshineLeo stated, this may be a lost cause. If the Leo is catching an attitude while you're speaking with her, it's not a good sign.
  • MoonshineLeo
    24 years old female from Texas
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then

    Oh yea you're done lol
    shes just talking to you to be nice, might still be hurt but she sounds detached and yea we dont come back from betrayal.


    She texted me not long ago after i hit her up. Made her laugh a couple times and cam tell she livened up. At first she was boring then was engaging. I'll see if she hits me up in the am again with a good morning text as usual

    Did she? Lol


    No but she replied to my good morning text. Was texting back and forth (her dry texting which I HATE!) then she coped a attitude for no reason. Told her mannnn look and xyz.

    Leo friend said she dont know what her deal is. I like sassy but attitudes gotta go. I'll text her on her bday until then im falling back
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    I don’t think she’s interested and honestly hopefully next time you take more time to make decisions since you did choose another girl at the end of the day...
  • Breeze
    Libra Sun-Leo Moon-Libra Merc-Virgo Venus-Aries Mars
    male
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then

    Oh yea you're done lol
    shes just talking to you to be nice, might still be hurt but she sounds detached and yea we dont come back from betrayal.


    She texted me not long ago after i hit her up. Made her laugh a couple times and cam tell she livened up. At first she was boring then was engaging. I'll see if she hits me up in the am again with a good morning text as usual

    Did she? Lol
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    No but she replied to my good morning text. Was texting back and forth (her dry texting which I HATE!) then she coped a attitude for no reason. Told her mannnn look and xyz.

    Leo friend said she dont know what her deal is. I like sassy but attitudes gotta go. I'll text her on her bday until then im falling back
  • MoonshineLeo
    24 years old female from Texas
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then

    Oh yea you're done lol
    shes just talking to you to be nice, might still be hurt but she sounds detached and yea we dont come back from betrayal.


    She texted me not long ago after i hit her up. Made her laugh a couple times and cam tell she livened up. At first she was boring then was engaging. I'll see if she hits me up in the am again with a good morning text as usual
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    Did she? Lol
  • Breeze
    Libra Sun-Leo Moon-Libra Merc-Virgo Venus-Aries Mars
    male
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then


    Yeah the problem is that you're going to have a difficult time proving your genuine interest now. The Leo doesn't completely trust your intentions. Leos typically know our value in relationships. So when somenoe treats us like an option (especially a lesser option), we'll discard them just as easily as they discarded us. As a fixed sign there is rarely a middle ground with us. We are either in or we're out.

    When you did have a shot with her, you went a different direction. Leos are proud creatures, so it's obvious you offended this Leo woman. If a Leo tells you, "lose my number" it usually means that we are done with you. In this Leo's mind she may be thinking that you're only going after because your initial desicion didn't work out. In a her mind, the choice should've been obvious to you the first time. In this case she doesn't want to validate your past behavior by giving you a second chance.

    The next problem is, you're probably being toyed with at the moment. Leos are all about reciprocation, so you may be dealing with "an eye for an eye" situation. The Leo, feeling strung along by you in the past, may now be stringing you along. The only advantage you have at the moment is that you were at least honest in the past. This may not take you far in this scenario, but Leos do appreciate honest communication far more than being deceived. I honestly think that's the only reason she's communicating with you (that and you coming back is a boost to her ego).

    My advice is to express consistent interest, but don't be needy. The Leo may just need to see that you aren't the type of flip flop (a trait we generally can't stand). If you're the type of Libra that is often indecisive, start working on that now. Leos can be very patient and accepting, but we will not tolerate a potential partner who is indecisive about us. Also actions speak louder than words (though words are also important). Basically don't think you're going to get close to her by just talking. Leo is a fire sign, which means we need to see your words backed up by actions.

    If in a couple of weeks you still can't get this Leo to see you, then it may be time to cut your losses.


    I know its a ego boost for her. I know how leos operate in some ways. Being strung along is something i was worried about. (Yea boost my ego then when im bored with you goodbye)

    I know once i finally get her to give me the attention she once did i can finesse my way in, Not in a bad way though. Im the same way, talking gets old i want to physically see you! Thats why i brought up taking her old. 1, it shows my interest and 2 takes it to next step that im not wasting her time. Thats actually how i got her number again. Told her my actions will speak louder then my words because anyone can sell a dream.

    Being indecisive about a woman i have eyes for not me. I have fans but if im eyeing you your the one i want and they dont matter. Im only indecisive about what food to eat.lol


    Well then if you really want her, you'll need to be patient. Don't expect her to come around quickly. Leos put everything up front in the beginning, but if our advances are rejected, the second time won't be nearly as easy (if there is a second time). It's possible her interest is completely gone, but if it isn't she's now debating whether or not you're genuine or just toying with her.
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    I know for a fact i need to be patient. I try to keep things light and fun to bring her in. Like you said consistency, if i like you i am. I have to start from ground up this time
  • Breeze
    Libra Sun-Leo Moon-Libra Merc-Virgo Venus-Aries Mars
    male
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then

    Oh yea you're done lol
    shes just talking to you to be nice, might still be hurt but she sounds detached and yea we dont come back from betrayal.
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    She texted me not long ago after i hit her up. Made her laugh a couple times and cam tell she livened up. At first she was boring then was engaging. I'll see if she hits me up in the am again with a good morning text as usual
  • Breeze
    Libra Sun-Leo Moon-Libra Merc-Virgo Venus-Aries Mars
    male
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?


    Well a few things. Leos are very busy people and we're very similar to Taurus when it comes to our workaholism. Even if we are interested in someone, if you're not close with us yet then prepare to take a backseat to our work obligations. That's not to say that Leos are always like that, but a Lep won't prioritize you until you grow closer.

    You mentioned that you've talked to this Leo before and she was responsive. What happened then that you feel the need to "prove" yourself now? Just know that Leos like consistency and we have long memories. So if you acted one way before and act differently now, she won't readily forget that. As a result she's going to take her time observing you first (if she's still interested).

    That all being said, this woman's interest in you doesn't seem to be very high at the moment. It's possible that it's because she's busy, it's possible that she wants to see if your interest in her is consistent. However when a woman is definitely interested, she will give more definite responses. Even if she's truly busy for the next couple of weeks, her counter offer would have been more concrete/enthusiastic. Stating that she "may be free one day" before she leaves for her birthday isn't an indication of high interest at all.

    So my question is, what happened the first time you interacted with this Leo woman and why do you feel like this is your "second chance" with her?


    At first she was giving me very short one word replies. I said something to her about it and then she gave me more detailed text.

    Was talking to her and another female at the time and chose the other woman to be exclusive with. She was more intriguing and the vibe was better. Not saying the leos wasnt but other woman we just had that cant miss spark. I told her my move because i respected her and didnt want to just ghost her, she blew me off. I tried to get intouch with her months ago and she wasnt going for it.

    She said rarely ever gives second chances and it better be a good one to be let back into her special world. Thats when she said her number never changed and we started communicating again


    It's possible that she realized things weren't deep enough for her to have reacted the way she did. Again Leos are proud. Also second chances is a very rare thing, but not impossible in situations like these. It sounds like things were fairly casual before you went with the other woman.

    One thing to know though is if you trying to win a Leo woman back, she must feel like she's number one in your eyes from here on out. The real question is, why do you want her in th first place? From what you said it sounds like you were pretty sure about the other woman? I ask this because she'll ask this. Leos want a partner with a strong resolve and who doesn't need to backtrack. So more than likely, she's going to see how you operate.
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    Something about a leo woman that grabs my attention. This leo woman to be exact. I see the style and grace, confidence, independent plus the beauty. Getting to know her ill learn the finer details about her. Shes couple yrs older then me so mature. i know she wants to settle down as im ready also

    The other women came and swept me off my feet but she wasnt golden like i thought. I learned from that. I dont have the female deck i had then. Im not into wasting anyones time or mine so im not entering multiple females how i did in past. If i dont see a purpose ill walk.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then


    Yeah the problem is that you're going to have a difficult time proving your genuine interest now. The Leo doesn't completely trust your intentions. Leos typically know our value in relationships. So when somenoe treats us like an option (especially a lesser option), we'll discard them just as easily as they discarded us. As a fixed sign there is rarely a middle ground with us. We are either in or we're out.

    When you did have a shot with her, you went a different direction. Leos are proud creatures, so it's obvious you offended this Leo woman. If a Leo tells you, "lose my number" it usually means that we are done with you. In this Leo's mind she may be thinking that you're only going after because your initial desicion didn't work out. In a her mind, the choice should've been obvious to you the first time. In this case she doesn't want to validate your past behavior by giving you a second chance.

    The next problem is, you're probably being toyed with at the moment. Leos are all about reciprocation, so you may be dealing with "an eye for an eye" situation. The Leo, feeling strung along by you in the past, may now be stringing you along. The only advantage you have at the moment is that you were at least honest in the past. This may not take you far in this scenario, but Leos do appreciate honest communication far more than being deceived. I honestly think that's the only reason she's communicating with you (that and you coming back is a boost to her ego).

    My advice is to express consistent interest, but don't be needy. The Leo may just need to see that you aren't the type of flip flop (a trait we generally can't stand). If you're the type of Libra that is often indecisive, start working on that now. Leos can be very patient and accepting, but we will not tolerate a potential partner who is indecisive about us. Also actions speak louder than words (though words are also important). Basically don't think you're going to get close to her by just talking. Leo is a fire sign, which means we need to see your words backed up by actions.

    If in a couple of weeks you still can't get this Leo to see you, then it may be time to cut your losses.


    I know its a ego boost for her. I know how leos operate in some ways. Being strung along is something i was worried about. (Yea boost my ego then when im bored with you goodbye)

    I know once i finally get her to give me the attention she once did i can finesse my way in, Not in a bad way though. Im the same way, talking gets old i want to physically see you! Thats why i brought up taking her old. 1, it shows my interest and 2 takes it to next step that im not wasting her time. Thats actually how i got her number again. Told her my actions will speak louder then my words because anyone can sell a dream.

    Being indecisive about a woman i have eyes for not me. I have fans but if im eyeing you your the one i want and they dont matter. Im only indecisive about what food to eat.lol
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    Well then if you really want her, you'll need to be patient. Don't expect her to come around quickly. Leos put everything up front in the beginning, but if our advances are rejected, the second time won't be nearly as easy (if there is a second time). It's possible her interest is completely gone, but if it isn't she's now debating whether or not you're genuine or just toying with her.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?


    Well a few things. Leos are very busy people and we're very similar to Taurus when it comes to our workaholism. Even if we are interested in someone, if you're not close with us yet then prepare to take a backseat to our work obligations. That's not to say that Leos are always like that, but a Lep won't prioritize you until you grow closer.

    You mentioned that you've talked to this Leo before and she was responsive. What happened then that you feel the need to "prove" yourself now? Just know that Leos like consistency and we have long memories. So if you acted one way before and act differently now, she won't readily forget that. As a result she's going to take her time observing you first (if she's still interested).

    That all being said, this woman's interest in you doesn't seem to be very high at the moment. It's possible that it's because she's busy, it's possible that she wants to see if your interest in her is consistent. However when a woman is definitely interested, she will give more definite responses. Even if she's truly busy for the next couple of weeks, her counter offer would have been more concrete/enthusiastic. Stating that she "may be free one day" before she leaves for her birthday isn't an indication of high interest at all.

    So my question is, what happened the first time you interacted with this Leo woman and why do you feel like this is your "second chance" with her?


    At first she was giving me very short one word replies. I said something to her about it and then she gave me more detailed text.

    Was talking to her and another female at the time and chose the other woman to be exclusive with. She was more intriguing and the vibe was better. Not saying the leos wasnt but other woman we just had that cant miss spark. I told her my move because i respected her and didnt want to just ghost her, she blew me off. I tried to get intouch with her months ago and she wasnt going for it.

    She said rarely ever gives second chances and it better be a good one to be let back into her special world. Thats when she said her number never changed and we started communicating again
    click to expand


    It's possible that she realized things weren't deep enough for her to have reacted the way she did. Again Leos are proud. Also second chances is a very rare thing, but not impossible in situations like these. It sounds like things were fairly casual before you went with the other woman.

    One thing to know though is if you trying to win a Leo woman back, she must feel like she's number one in your eyes from here on out. The real question is, why do you want her in th first place? From what you said it sounds like you were pretty sure about the other woman? I ask this because she'll ask this. Leos want a partner with a strong resolve and who doesn't need to backtrack. So more than likely, she's going to see how you operate.
  • MoonshineLeo
    24 years old female from Texas
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then
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    Oh yea you're done lol
    shes just talking to you to be nice, might still be hurt but she sounds detached and yea we dont come back from betrayal.
  • Breeze
    Libra Sun-Leo Moon-Libra Merc-Virgo Venus-Aries Mars
    male
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then


    Yeah the problem is that you're going to have a difficult time proving your genuine interest now. The Leo doesn't completely trust your intentions. Leos typically know our value in relationships. So when somenoe treats us like an option (especially a lesser option), we'll discard them just as easily as they discarded us. As a fixed sign there is rarely a middle ground with us. We are either in or we're out.

    When you did have a shot with her, you went a different direction. Leos are proud creatures, so it's obvious you offended this Leo woman. If a Leo tells you, "lose my number" it usually means that we are done with you. In this Leo's mind she may be thinking that you're only going after because your initial desicion didn't work out. In a her mind, the choice should've been obvious to you the first time. In this case she doesn't want to validate your past behavior by giving you a second chance.

    The next problem is, you're probably being toyed with at the moment. Leos are all about reciprocation, so you may be dealing with "an eye for an eye" situation. The Leo, feeling strung along by you in the past, may now be stringing you along. The only advantage you have at the moment is that you were at least honest in the past. This may not take you far in this scenario, but Leos do appreciate honest communication far more than being deceived. I honestly think that's the only reason she's communicating with you (that and you coming back is a boost to her ego).

    My advice is to express consistent interest, but don't be needy. The Leo may just need to see that you aren't the type of flip flop (a trait we generally can't stand). If you're the type of Libra that is often indecisive, start working on that now. Leos can be very patient and accepting, but we will not tolerate a potential partner who is indecisive about us. Also actions speak louder than words (though words are also important). Basically don't think you're going to get close to her by just talking. Leo is a fire sign, which means we need to see your words backed up by actions.

    If in a couple of weeks you still can't get this Leo to see you, then it may be time to cut your losses.
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    I know its a ego boost for her. I know how leos operate in some ways. Being strung along is something i was worried about. (Yea boost my ego then when im bored with you goodbye)

    I know once i finally get her to give me the attention she once did i can finesse my way in, Not in a bad way though. Im the same way, talking gets old i want to physically see you! Thats why i brought up taking her old. 1, it shows my interest and 2 takes it to next step that im not wasting her time. Thats actually how i got her number again. Told her my actions will speak louder then my words because anyone can sell a dream.

    Being indecisive about a woman i have eyes for not me. I have fans but if im eyeing you your the one i want and they dont matter. Im only indecisive about what food to eat.lol
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by Breeze
    Posted by MoonshineLeo
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?

    What happened before? Second chance why?
    It’s hard for Leo’s to come back around but it’s not impossible. You have to earn your trust and love back especially if you screwed us over when all we did was care and put in the effort. At some point it’s like the roles reverse.


    Basically was talking to her and another female at same time (being single) then i chose to exclusively date the other female. Instead if ghosting her i let her know my move necause i respected her and she caught an attitude and said lose my number. We only texted and talked a couple weeks nothing too serious.

    She did say i was in the screening process now that i got her number again. Im sure i hurt her ego back then
    click to expand


    Yeah the problem is that you're going to have a difficult time proving your genuine interest now. The Leo doesn't completely trust your intentions. Leos typically know our value in relationships. So when somenoe treats us like an option (especially a lesser option), we'll discard them just as easily as they discarded us. As a fixed sign there is rarely a middle ground with us. We are either in or we're out.

    When you did have a shot with her, you went a different direction. Leos are proud creatures, so it's obvious you offended this Leo woman. If a Leo tells you, "lose my number" it usually means that we are done with you. In this Leo's mind she may be thinking that you're only going after because your initial desicion didn't work out. In a her mind, the choice should've been obvious to you the first time. In this case she doesn't want to validate your past behavior by giving you a second chance.

    The next problem is, you're probably being toyed with at the moment. Leos are all about reciprocation, so you may be dealing with "an eye for an eye" situation. The Leo, feeling strung along by you in the past, may now be stringing you along. The only advantage you have at the moment is that you were at least honest in the past. This may not take you far in this scenario, but Leos do appreciate honest communication far more than being deceived. I honestly think that's the only reason she's communicating with you (that and you coming back is a boost to her ego).

    My advice is to express consistent interest, but don't be needy. The Leo may just need to see that you aren't the type of flip flop (a trait we generally can't stand). If you're the type of Libra that is often indecisive, start working on that now. Leos can be very patient and accepting, but we will not tolerate a potential partner who is indecisive about us. Also actions speak louder than words (though words are also important). Basically don't think you're going to get close to her by just talking. Leo is a fire sign, which means we need to see your words backed up by actions.

    If in a couple of weeks you still can't get this Leo to see you, then it may be time to cut your losses.
  • Breeze
    Libra Sun-Leo Moon-Libra Merc-Virgo Venus-Aries Mars
    male
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by Breeze
    Second time courting a August 1st leo and not sure if shes interested or not. She text me first every morning Good Morning then barely texts back after that. She works and in school so i get it she gets busy. I just thought when someone likes you especially a leo they always want to talk to you

    We talked before and she was very responsive then but this time around i get a second chance to prove myself and its moving slow. Maybe on cautious side this time

    I did say i wanted to take her out on a date but she has plans the next couple of weeks. She did say she'll figure something out and may be free one day before she leaves for her bday vacation.

    So my question is does she just want the attention, is she interested or wants me to chase after her?


    Well a few things. Leos are very busy people and we're very similar to Taurus when it comes to our workaholism. Even if we are interested in someone, if you're not close with us yet then prepare to take a backseat to our work obligations. That's not to say that Leos are always like that, but a Lep won't prioritize you until you grow closer.

    You mentioned that you've talked to this Leo before and she was responsive. What happened then that you feel the need to "prove" yourself now? Just know that Leos like consistency and we have long memories. So if you acted one way before and act differently now, she won't readily forget that. As a result she's going to take her time observing you first (if she's still interested).

    That all being said, this woman's interest in you doesn't seem to be very high at the moment. It's possible that it's because she's busy, it's possible that she wants to see if your interest in her is consistent. However when a woman is definitely interested, she will give more definite responses. Even if she's truly busy for the next couple of weeks, her counter offer would have been more concrete/enthusiastic. Stating that she "may be free one day" before she leaves for her birthday isn't an indication of high interest at all.

    So my question is, what happened the first time you interacted with this Leo woman and why do you feel like this is your "second chance" with her?
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    At first she was giving me very short one word replies. I said something to her about it and then she gave me more detailed text.

    Was talking to her and another female at the time and chose the other woman to be exclusive with. She was more intriguing and the vibe was better. Not saying the leos wasnt but other woman we just had that cant miss spark. I told her my move because i respected her and didnt want to just ghost her, she blew me off. I tried to get intouch with her months ago and she wasnt going for it.

    She said rarely ever gives second chances and it better be a good one to be let back into her special world. Thats when she said her number never changed and we started communicating again

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