well it's been almost a month and this girl still hasnt spoken to me. I take it as the friendship is over and basically everything is over. i havent called and neither has she, i took the boards advice and stayed away it got me nowhere but im also not looking foolish either so i guess it's a win loose situation.
I never pay attention to day to day horoscope but this was mine today.
Virgo: you have GOT to let things go today, you cant always control the situation and that fine. really!
damm even the universe is telling me to chill out lmao.
i havent made any moves and i not going to either it's be a min since i contacted her well since we went out i never called. I was suppose to call the following monday so she can come over but i never called because i've been working overtime. oh wellllllllllllll
Waste your time? You had no intentions of having sex with her in the first place!!!...it just "happend" So what do you mean wasted your time? With the friendship? C'mon!
OK...you are PISSED. ALL GOOD, your allowed. Because she has not reciprocated. But you put it UPON yourself. That third road has yet to be determined since "sex or relationship" did not happen...but there are many roads you have not looked into as you are sooooo wound up with blinders on~ Virgo trait?!
STOP IT....Calm down. You will make it MUCH WORSE than it has to be.
Virgo28, I understand how you are feeling, it was one way or the other in your head witht his girl (more sex or a relationship)...now your at a crossroads and your head is spinning (because you like her and she is not giving you the 2 options you are use to.
You are not a man, you cannot seperate love and sex. You became intimately involved one night with a close friend, (I don't consider that a ONS..normally done w/ those you really don't know, I consider that an oooopsie)..you were already attracted to her as you shared some details over the years. Sex made that bond tighter yet SHE does not feel that way right now.
PROBABLY NEVER WILL
She is wierded out...leave her be FOR NOW. You will end up PUSHING her further until there is no way to rebound on the friendship level. Do you want that? Your ego is hurt, it happens to all of us. LET HER BE FOR NOW, let her think.
MY EGO IS PISSED OFF NOT HURT I FEEL LIKE I WASTED MY TIME.
Go on with your bad azz self...you obviously have techniques that are valuable and others would appreciate (LMAO!). Perhaps you can teach a coarse to men about how to "satisfy your woman told by the other side" :-)
LS * You will end up PUSHING her further until there is no way to rebound on the friendship level. Do you want that? Your ego is hurt, it happens to all of us. LET HER BE FOR NOW, let her think
Yeah. It is like a knot. The more you try to fix it, the worse the knot gets. I've been there. Just stop trying to fix it. It will fix itself
YOUR RIGHT SHYT IS treetrunkING ME UP FOR REAL I HATE WHEN I DONT HAVE A DIRECT ANSWER IT treetrunkS WITH MY MIND.