Trying to understand a Leo

Hi everyone!! Can you guy please help me understand what when wrong. First of all I'm a libra woman. I met this Leo man on a dating site. This guy is a cardiologist .This guy is 31 years old. Im 29 years old. The first time I was going to met him I was la
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  • The funny part is when I was in New York he was always texting even if I was watching tv next to he. But for thanksgiving day on he Facebook he put this quote as he cover in the page "wanted by many, taken by no one, looking at some , waiting for one. " Very moody person or maybe very picky.
  • MysteriousDreamer
    Previously: ScorpioStarGazer
    female
    Posted by Sodapop
    Posted by MysteriousDreamer
    Posted by Sodapop
    I’m having trouble actually understanding the story just from the way you write, but it seems like he’s not interested at all. If someone wants to treetrunk you then sleep on the sofa? That’s hooker treatment.

    Move on woman!


    Well to be fair, I did the same with my ex Leo. After sex I'd go sleep on his couch. Not because I did not love and adore him, but because I cannot sleep with someone touching me. He'd have his arms and legs all wrapped around me and I couldn't move...I couldn't breathe. I need space when I sleep. My thing is there's a time for sex and a time for cuddling and then there is a time for sleep. This of course annoyed him to high heaven because he took it personally even though I told him over and over again it had nothing to do with him, but was just my own little quirk. Sigh...



    But you guys were already in an established committed relationship? I know what you mean, it’s actually normal for couples to sleep alone occasionally but if you’re just starting to date I think then it’s a different?
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    Well I kinda did that from the very beginning, but you're right....probably not the case here. Sorry...not trying to argue. I'm just an oddball. Lol

  • MysteriousDreamer
    Previously: ScorpioStarGazer
    female
    Posted by Sodapop
    I’m having trouble actually understanding the story just from the way you write, but it seems like he’s not interested at all. If someone wants to treetrunk you then sleep on the sofa? That’s hooker treatment.

    Move on woman!


    Well to be fair, I did the same with my ex Leo. After sex I'd go sleep on his couch. Not because I did not love and adore him, but because I cannot sleep with someone touching me. He'd have his arms and legs all wrapped around me and I couldn't move...I couldn't breathe. I need space when I sleep. My thing is there's a time for sex and a time for cuddling and then there is a time for sleep. This of course annoyed him to high heaven because he took it personally even though I told him over and over again it had nothing to do with him, but was just my own little quirk. Sigh...

  • Posted by 2Moon
    Posted by Sweetlibra88
    2 moon can you please leave me alone thank you . For your information I'm from Puerto Rico.,, bye


    Makes sense.

    One of those poor country where they are still 50 years behind everyone

    Where women are still under the control of men.
    Makes sense to marry a rich guy with a status, career and power.
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    2 moon, you sounds so stupid.... You must being bored and think I'm going to be your dawn clown. What give you the right to come and offend me with out knowing me. I don't have to respond to you because as my major is psychology I know there are a lot people that don't have they common sense . First of all I'm a elementary teacher and I'm doing another career . Second of all I'm not offending anyone because what they do for living . Third of all , I'm 29 years old if I was 20 I would care if I get with a guy who work in a McDonald's I don't have anything against but If a guy at this age have not think of better him future that say a lot about you specially when anyone can finish a career or technical career which there are a lot of technical school you can finish in 18 months that say a lot about you. Of course I would like to have a doctor as a partner why maybe him more mature , smart , also prestigious but something life doesn't like you want to want . I'm not materialize woman I'm ok being in a relationship with a cop, a teacher a long as that person have a financial stable life I'm okay .. Maybe you get offended because you are probably 40 years old and work in a Wendy's .. Because here no one got offended just you. Everyone got my point of view. Now I hope no one come here got mad at me in another way and start with the topic now if you don't know one life situations and bla bla and you sound materials or you a gold digger and bla bla because people lot to criticism everything or get the idea in their own way.. And everyone opinion is different
  • 2Moon
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    Posted by Sweetlibra88
    2 moon can you please leave me alone thank you . For your information I'm from Puerto Rico.,, bye


    Makes sense.

    One of those poor country where they are still 50 years behind everyone

    Where women are still under the control of men.
    Makes sense to marry a rich guy with a status, career and power.
  • 2Moon
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    Posted by Sweetlibra88
    You sounds so stupid 2 moon ...


    Not a very sweet Libra!
  • tiziani
    Venusian Gigolo
    Posted by Sweetlibra88
    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by Sweetlibra88
    Posted by tiziani
    It's probably a lot to do with your approach, if you talk with him the same way you write here.


    "i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."

    ^ok, maybe don't really get where she's coming from and it could be taken as superficial, but at the very least she knows what she wants without shame. It could lead to some real talk over something more.


    "I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other women want you for that they can have you. I chase no man, I'm not desperate..... et cetera et cetera"

    ^ big speech that just instinctively make you want to react like an marker or, if you're a more mature man, then ignore it.

    Disclaimer: I have never been a cardiologist nor a mature man. Total guess.
    Hello Tiziani, you made me laugh so much .. Jajajaja to be honesty with you I never make he feel special or make he bigger than me because he a cardiologist lol I never asked him about he work. I treat him like a normal person. I know probably want me to treat me like he all that because he would sometime he would say in the stage he was into me like comment like let plan to see each other but tonight I don't think so because I get home at 10:00pm and I have to prepare somethings for patients tomorrow. Or he would also saying comment like for example it be like how's are you doing? He would reply I'm doing good post call today. Or tomorrow you can visit me in the hospital I will be on call . But I always texted sweet text to him like mr. Perfect I hope you having a fabulous day. One time that I text him good afternoon doctor------ hope you having a great afternoon. Miss you .. That was the stage he was into me.. When I was in New York I told him you look good in your uniform.. The first day we went to a coffee place we went a for a walk he went we him uniform the green scrub and I looking all beautiful and everyone looking at me but I have no holding hand nothing I don't know if he got offended as Leo that I treat him nice but not like he all that like I should treat him like a king while he was walking with me to the coffee shop or because he asked me if I wanted to drink the coffee there or go home if I make the mistake or not drink the coffee in the shop and feel like a having the king next to me as Leo man are . That was the only day we went out in New York. Jajajajaja.


    "Good afternoon doctor" is sweet.

    And "I like you in your uniform" that's nice too. If he didn't react it's probably because he wasn't that interested as others have said. Anyway no hard feelings.


    Tiziani mmmmm you right the first stage we he was into me he was like come visit me in the hospital. The second round in he stage in this stage he acted more like a Leo like he love the sweet text and I think I make more longer and come back to me after 2 months and this stage I was more texting sms for 2 months because he like the sweet text I was more like a texting buddy the second time in till one day I tell him I was getting tired of the texting that I felt like I'm talking to a robot That I don't know if he was a human he laughs but back a little from me but it was because he love attention and I treat him really nice . Then when I went to New York this was round 3 I ask him how was work today ? You look tire he replied with a arrogant good but with a attitude like dooooo attitude he was like the work is not hard is the long hours. Jajajajaja may be he got mad I treat him like a normal person and don't ask him anything about he job why because he very arrogant
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    Yeah i hate texting. It kills relationships.

  • You sounds so stupid 2 moon ...
  • 2 moon can you please leave me alone thank you . For your information I'm from Puerto Rico.,, bye
  • 2Moon
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    @Sweetlibra88

    Where are you from?

    and are you Muslim?!
  • Posted by tiziani
    Posted by Sweetlibra88
    Posted by tiziani
    It's probably a lot to do with your approach, if you talk with him the same way you write here.


    "i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."

    ^ok, maybe don't really get where she's coming from and it could be taken as superficial, but at the very least she knows what she wants without shame. It could lead to some real talk over something more.


    "I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other women want you for that they can have you. I chase no man, I'm not desperate..... et cetera et cetera"

    ^ big speech that just instinctively make you want to react like an marker or, if you're a more mature man, then ignore it.

    Disclaimer: I have never been a cardiologist nor a mature man. Total guess.
    Hello Tiziani, you made me laugh so much .. Jajajaja to be honesty with you I never make he feel special or make he bigger than me because he a cardiologist lol I never asked him about he work. I treat him like a normal person. I know probably want me to treat me like he all that because he would sometime he would say in the stage he was into me like comment like let plan to see each other but tonight I don't think so because I get home at 10:00pm and I have to prepare somethings for patients tomorrow. Or he would also saying comment like for example it be like how's are you doing? He would reply I'm doing good post call today. Or tomorrow you can visit me in the hospital I will be on call . But I always texted sweet text to him like mr. Perfect I hope you having a fabulous day. One time that I text him good afternoon doctor------ hope you having a great afternoon. Miss you .. That was the stage he was into me.. When I was in New York I told him you look good in your uniform.. The first day we went to a coffee place we went a for a walk he went we him uniform the green scrub and I looking all beautiful and everyone looking at me but I have no holding hand nothing I don't know if he got offended as Leo that I treat him nice but not like he all that like I should treat him like a king while he was walking with me to the coffee shop or because he asked me if I wanted to drink the coffee there or go home if I make the mistake or not drink the coffee in the shop and feel like a having the king next to me as Leo man are . That was the only day we went out in New York. Jajajajaja.


    "Good afternoon doctor" is sweet.

    And "I like you in your uniform" that's nice too. If he didn't react it's probably because he wasn't that interested as others have said. Anyway no hard feelings.

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    Tiziani mmmmm you right the first stage we he was into me he was like come visit me in the hospital. The second round in he stage in this stage he acted more like a Leo like he love the sweet text and I think I make more longer and come back to me after 2 months and this stage I was more texting sms for 2 months because he like the sweet text I was more like a texting buddy the second time in till one day I tell him I was getting tired of the texting that I felt like I'm talking to a robot That I don't know if he was a human he laughs but back a little from me but it was because he love attention and I treat him really nice . Then when I went to New York this was round 3 I ask him how was work today ? You look tire he replied with a arrogant good but with a attitude like dooooo attitude he was like the work is not hard is the long hours. Jajajajaja may be he got mad I treat him like a normal person and don't ask him anything about he job why because he very arrogant
  • 2Moon
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    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by 2Moon
    Posted by tiziani
    It's probably a lot to do with your approach, if you talk with him the same way you write here.


    "i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."

    ^ok, maybe don't really get where she's coming from and it could be taken as superficial, but at the very least she knows what she wants without shame. It could lead to some real talk over something more.


    "I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other women want you for that they can have you. I chase no man, I'm not desperate..... et cetera et cetera"

    ^ big speech that just instinctively make you want to react like an marker or, if you're a more mature man, then ignore it.

    Disclaimer: I have never been a cardiologist nor a mature man. Total guess.


    Sounds like she is from a different country.. lol

    One of those countries where they are still 50 years behind socially... Their interactions and culture are very weird and different..


    It's like they don't know how to politically correct. and they are very primal and shallow emotionally



    Shallow emotionally as in hedonistic?
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    Yes and no... Could be both..

  • tiziani
    Venusian Gigolo
    Posted by 2Moon
    Posted by tiziani
    It's probably a lot to do with your approach, if you talk with him the same way you write here.


    "i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."

    ^ok, maybe don't really get where she's coming from and it could be taken as superficial, but at the very least she knows what she wants without shame. It could lead to some real talk over something more.


    "I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other women want you for that they can have you. I chase no man, I'm not desperate..... et cetera et cetera"

    ^ big speech that just instinctively make you want to react like an marker or, if you're a more mature man, then ignore it.

    Disclaimer: I have never been a cardiologist nor a mature man. Total guess.


    Sounds like she is from a different country.. lol

    One of those countries where they are still 50 years behind socially... Their interactions and culture are very weird and different..


    It's like they don't know how to politically correct. and they are very primal and shallow emotionally
    click to expand



    Shallow emotionally as in hedonistic?
  • 2Moon
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    "i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."


    I can't stop laughing! lol

    This is comedy guys
  • 2Moon
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    Posted by tiziani
    It's probably a lot to do with your approach, if you talk with him the same way you write here.


    "i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."

    ^ok, maybe don't really get where she's coming from and it could be taken as superficial, but at the very least she knows what she wants without shame. It could lead to some real talk over something more.


    "I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other women want you for that they can have you. I chase no man, I'm not desperate..... et cetera et cetera"

    ^ big speech that just instinctively make you want to react like an marker or, if you're a more mature man, then ignore it.

    Disclaimer: I have never been a cardiologist nor a mature man. Total guess.


    Sounds like she is from a different country.. lol

    One of those countries where they are still 50 years behind socially... Their interactions and culture are very weird and different..


    It's like they don't know how to politically correct. and they are very primal and shallow emotionally
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