WHY ARE LIBRA MEN SO CONFUSING?

Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than w
Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when you start being distant they come back on strong? And it goes on like this back and forth back and forth..What is this all about??? Why do they do this?? I'm a Sun Sign Aquarius Moon sign Gemini!
36 years old male from Upstate, South Carolina
Perhaps it's just because I am me, but I don't think I am confusing at all. If you want to know something, ask. It would probably be helpful to know that I will speak openly and honestly about my thoughts or stance on a situation before it is in its 'final' stage though. This could give a wishy washy appearance. It really depends on what you are talking about though.

The, "Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when..." makes me think you are talking about a fairly new relationship with a libra. He comes on strong, always wanting to be around, spending excessive amounts of time and/or energy, very loving and attentive, etc, etc. I hear that is just how we are. I know I don't hold back. As for the sudden stop... what happened right before he went distant? I frequently see people mentioning this, but it is usually triggered by something. Something made him think twice about where things were going and he backed off some looking to see what you'd do. Apparently, we like to know where you stand too. If he has gone back to chasing, it's a good sign. It means he is still wanting to move forward. If you are as well, don't run too fast or far. If you start getting distant and he is trying to pull you back it is because you mean something to him. We are good at letting people go if we don't care. Some people (regardless of sign or gender) are just playing games, obviously you have to keep your eyes open for these types, but assuming that is not the case don't worry too much. Be your strong independant Aqua self, but let him know he is important to you.



female from sc,
im a female but have been told this as well by many iv dated and it is mostly do to having second thoughts sitting on the fence per say just did this with a Gemini male. had to sort just disappear on him had too many second thoughts.
Posted by brokenbutfixableLibragirl
im a female but have been told this as well by many iv dated and it is mostly do to having second thoughts sitting on the fence per say just did this with a Gemini male. had to sort just disappear on him had too many second thoughts.


Yeah but he gets distant for a few days or maybe a week, than finds a way to reach out to me again...We have been in eachothers lives for along time..
Posted by Sutekh
Because Libra is an air sign.
I'm an air sign as well and I am not like that..
Posted by oldskoolflavor
wishy washy behavior..
it's like a compromise btwn his need for freedom and a longing for commitment/being trapped


So in other words he's confused don't really know what he wants..
Posted by oldskoolflavor
more like ..
his mind wants to experience both worlds the same time

one minute he's in single mode .. the next one he's in rlsthip mode

God really hates libras
SMH..LOL..
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by oldskoolflavor
more like ..
his mind wants to experience both worlds the same time

one minute he's in single mode .. the next one he's in rlsthip mode

God really hates libras
SMH..LOL..
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It makes me feel like he just wants to keep me there hanging on a string..So if he sees I start to get distant, than he gets nervous to loose me, so he comes on hard again..
Were not in a relationship, just close friends and been dealing with eachother for quite some times. Known eachtoher for along time.
some time* eachother*
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)


Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
Posted by Sutekh
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by Sutekh
Because Libra is an air sign.
I'm an air sign as well and I am not like that..


what house is it in and how much earth water or leo do you have.
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Ummm I don't know all that.. I am an Aquarius Sun sign Gemeni moon sign..
36 years old male from Upstate, South Carolina
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)


Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
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What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.

Posted by oldskoolflavor
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)


Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?


truth is:
he won't like being pressured if your intention is obvious
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Hmmmm...true so without me even saying it all may be obvious...
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by oldskoolflavor
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)


Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?


truth is:
he won't like being pressured if your intention is obvious


Are you Libra sun sign? And what's your moon sign?

Hmmmm...true so without me even saying it all may be obvious...
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Posted by LibraSid
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)


Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?


What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.

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