WHY ARE LIBRA MEN SO CONFUSING?

Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than w
They like the chase , I think they like how it feel to chase some one , then when they feel like they got u they ready for something more interesting to chase. So when u stop and become distant ,they want to see can they get u a gain . I really never got pass the back and forth fase, I had a guy I dated done this to me about three times then I seen him a year later and he done it again. He was fun and exciting but afterwhile I became bored and tired of the games. I would love to here someone who was actually in a relationship with these people and how it work out.
36 years old male from Bloemfontein, South Africa
"Libra Sun & Gemini Moon Mythology, Astrology, Numerology, well anything ology
Posted by libnicole84
i think all men do this regardless of sun sign


Yes, I think you are right. Do you think sun, star, moon whatever sign makes that a big a difference?
Don't you think there are to many variables to take into account to only rely on the star signs? maybe we seek easy answers for our troubles. I guess our experience in his reality is way to rich to just categorize it so simply. Even if I do a full numerological & astrological analysis I will still get people with vast anomalies. Yes much of it is very true, but maybe for a person's sign to fully develop into what is is suppose to be that person should have minimum outside influence. I mean life itself, or that what we call reality has a major influence on our minds. Could it be possible that we are actually suppose to break the astrological or numerical bond we have in this world. I mean if we act everything like we are supposed to according to our sign, aren't we mere pre-programmed robots? Couldn't it be that the less we are like our supposed sign, the more we have a sense of self and that we are more in control of our own life's, and not that of some script? If I look at my own Libra life, I have shaken off many of the traits, cause of my work, love & life environment.

So yes the fact that men get distant has probably got nothing to with the sign, but cause hes a human.

33 years old female from pa, USA
Sun : Libra Moon: Capricorn Mercury: Libra Venus: Scorpio Mars: Sag
i think all men do this regardless of sun sign
Yeah, I was a little confused about how to interpret their relationship. When someone says they are friends, I think friends-not sexual. I personally dont treetrunk my friends. Are you having sex with him in hopes of it turning into a "relationship"
36 years old male from Bloemfontein, South Africa
"Libra Sun & Gemini Moon Mythology, Astrology, Numerology, well anything ology
DESTINY0809

Myself as a Libra, one of the traits that i hate about myself is that I will become distant without reason. I apologize for all Libras. But Libras want to talk it out!!! be straight and say what is bothering you. Just make sure your timing is right. Be sincere and don't attack him, he will retaliate. Myself as a Libra loves to talk intimately. unfortunately I have no idea what you mean "with benefits". Are you friends or do you have a sexual relationship? Libras are not the kind for half toned relationships, they want to be all in or nothing. Don't hold him on a string. I have been out of the dating thing for many years, I have a wonderful marriage that I am perfecting, we like to perfect everything. And a wishy washy relationship isn't perfect!
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Posted by XMan
Hi

I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that butter! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!

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Hello, how are you? WEll him and I are not in a relationship.. We are friends with benefits, I guess you can say..But above all we ar
Posted by XMan
Hi

I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that butter! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!

Hello, how are you? WEll him and I are not in a relationship.. We are friends with benefits, I guess you can say..But above all we are very good/close friends. WE can talk about everything and anything except for us or our
36 years old male from Bloemfontein, South Africa
"Libra Sun & Gemini Moon Mythology, Astrology, Numerology, well anything ology
Hi

I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that butter! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!

Posted by PiscesFebFish
One of my best male friends is a Libra and I??ve never experienced this. But of course we are friends in the true sense of the word. We never dated, never had any physical contact outside of hugging to great each other. He always has some female in his life (typical Libra) and when he starts to get distant it??s because he??s questioning the relationship. I don??t know how to interpret your situation because you say you are just friends. Overall, he??s completely dedicated and when that stops or becomes sporadic its usually because he??s on the verge of ending it. However, they are excellent verbal communicators so just talk to him. My friend has a Libra moon as well.
So far he has always came back! We are ver very close good friends, but also more than that..He has his days the his hot and his days he's cold..He gets distant and I don't hear from him for a few days, but than he always ends up reaching out...
One of my best male friends is a Libra and I??ve never experienced this. But of course we are friends in the true sense of the word. We never dated, never had any physical contact outside of hugging to great each other. He always has some female in his life (typical Libra) and when he starts to get distant it??s because he??s questioning the relationship. I don??t know how to interpret your situation because you say you are just friends. Overall, he??s completely dedicated and when that stops or becomes sporadic its usually because he??s on the verge of ending it. However, they are excellent verbal communicators so just talk to him. My friend has a Libra moon as well.
female
Posted by DESTINY0809
Posted by LibraRose
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.
He is Libra moon!!
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Oppps - it was late when I was here last!! Libra moon - no idea! Probably easier to deal with than a Scorp moon anyway.
Posted by LibraRose
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.
He is Libra moon!!
Posted by LibraRose
Thanks Destiny - I got your message

I can't tell if he just wants to be friends or if he wants more than that. Maybe he doesn't know either. Sorry I'm not more help.


Hi Sweety it's ok thanks for your feedback!!
female
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.
female
Thanks Destiny - I got your message

I can't tell if he just wants to be friends or if he wants more than that. Maybe he doesn't know either. Sorry I'm not more help.
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