Are Libras clingy?

What do you think?
SuninLibraMarch 17, 2018 7:09pm
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  • I actually don't think I am. I mean, I always want to be around and feel loved but I don't want to be annoying so I guess I'm too scared to be clingy lol.
  • They can be at times. Their clingyness is in the form of a nice tone and pleasent charisma though. It's not in your face like "Hey I called you 3 times and you didn't answer. I looked inside your window and see the lights are on. Why wont you amswer?" Its a bit more classy. When they want your attention they can nornally get it, and even of they don't its not really a big deal to them. Even the Libras with water moons tend to have a charming clingyness to them. Watery Libra might be a bit more on the clingy and possessive side, but at the end of the day they wont stalk you.
  • Posted by meraki

    not all venus gems are cheaters btw!!


    I didn't say they were. Tongue

    It's the constant need for variability and excitement that doesn't sit well with me.
  • Jules-ll
    Some days you just step in it...
    female from NY
    Yes.
  • heliumfiasco
    Sun Lib12- Moon Gem 8- Merc Lib12-Venus/Mars Virgo11- Asc Lib-Pluto Scorp1st.
    female
    Depends on the day. Goes in waves. You never know, and neither do I.
  • Posted by meraki
    Posted by Fleshpot
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    Posted by meraki
    My ex-gf was clingy at times but could switch to cold at the drop of a hat. She was a sept libra, with some virgo influence.


    How did that make you feel?

    I can be in the habit of see-sawing between the two extremes also. I think it's my earth-heavy chart being at odds with my watery Scorpio placements. I like closeness and affection, but I also need a lot of space to recharge.


    Tbh it pissed me off lol. Constantly wanting to talk/facetime always wanting to know where I was and what I was doing.
    I'd end up screaming at her because I'd get tired of repeating myself. Then when I came back around she would be cold and passive aggressive, never telling me what was wrong till she warmed up again. And the cycle continued..

    I wasn't innocent either tho because I'd lash out at her instead of understanding where she was coming from. We were both immature abt it


    You're an Aries sun? What are you other placements?

    I should clarify that my brand of clingyness isn't so much demanding to know their whereabouts and requiring constant communication, but rather just wanting them all to myself for an entire day, and then vanishing the next. Tongue


    Yea aries sun. taurus moon

    That kind of clingyness sounds healthier. after we got back together she apologized about being so clingy the first time around (which surprised me)

    I also have venus gem. so I could prolly teach u a thing or 2 about flightiness lol
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    Oh, I know lots about Venus in Gem, haha. My ex has it, and so do a ton of other people I know. I seem to attract this placement a lot.

    Good thing you have a Taurus moon to mitigate that flightiness. Big Grin

  • Posted by meraki
    Posted by Fleshpot
    Posted by meraki
    My ex-gf was clingy at times but could switch to cold at the drop of a hat. She was a sept libra, with some virgo influence.


    How did that make you feel?

    I can be in the habit of see-sawing between the two extremes also. I think it's my earth-heavy chart being at odds with my watery Scorpio placements. I like closeness and affection, but I also need a lot of space to recharge.


    Tbh it pissed me off lol. Constantly wanting to talk/facetime always wanting to know where I was and what I was doing.
    I'd end up screaming at her because I'd get tired of repeating myself. Then when I came back around she would be cold and passive aggressive, never telling me what was wrong till she warmed up again. And the cycle continued..

    I wasn't innocent either tho because I'd lash out at her instead of understanding where she was coming from. We were both immature abt it
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    You're an Aries sun? What are you other placements?

    I should clarify that my brand of clingyness isn't so much demanding to know their whereabouts and requiring constant communication, but rather just wanting them all to myself for an entire day, and then vanishing the next. Tongue
  • Posted by halalbae
    I like that their moodiness has passing phases of clingy behavior and its not suffocating

    One moment they are showering you with affection, five minutes later when their scales tip, they want to be left alone and single lol

    It would take a Gemini to understand and enjoy that polarizing quality of ours.

    I should just come to terms with the fact that I'll likely end up with a Venus in Gem. Crying


  • I can be clingy but it takes a special person I'm rather picky but if I do find the right person I can be. I also need some personal space though so it's some of both really.
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    I’m a Libra (sept 29th) and I used to be REALLY clingy. Now I’m more unattached. I only became that way after being in a few relationships where the other person was very clingy and it turned me off. I used that experience to change myself. I think if both parties are the same amount of clingy, there’s no problem.
  • Dip
    Posted by SuninLibra
    Posted by Dip
    Posted by SuninLibra
    Posted by Dip
    No. I wish. I'd still have my girl if ya'll were.


    By saying that it means you're so far from being clingy. What happened exact with ur ex? If you don't mind telling us


    Long story short, she said she needed to breath. When it came to her I had jealousy issues. At the time she had an ex who didn't want to stay out of the picture also. Me and him would go at it. Her reason was she needed space from both of us.

    Thought you were the Libra and kinda detached, anyways I'm sorry for that its obvious that you cared for her.
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    I still try and talk to her even though she moved out of my city, but I've eased up knowing what I know about Libras now.
  • but they can be a bit high maintenance
  • they pretend to be detached in the beginning
  • Librasetting777
    ♎stellium ♈asc. ♉moon ♐stellium.
    male
    Probably when I was younger lol not so much these days.
  • SuninLibra
    Taurus moon Gemini Rising
    female
    Posted by Dip
    Posted by SuninLibra
    Posted by Dip
    No. I wish. I'd still have my girl if ya'll were.


    By saying that it means you're so far from being clingy. What happened exact with ur ex? If you don't mind telling us


    Long story short, she said she needed to breath. When it came to her I had jealousy issues. At the time she had an ex who didn't want to stay out of the picture also. Me and him would go at it. Her reason was she needed space from both of us.
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    Thought you were the Libra and kinda detached, anyways I'm sorry for that its obvious that you cared for her.

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