Breaking Up with a Libra?

I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing et
  • Clean cut and walk away. But before ask yourself are you objective and make sure your Scorpio Venus isn't playing mind games with you. Good luck!
  • UnicornSag
    🌞, ♀️, ☿ ♐🌙♈♂️♏🌄♓-🦄inside - ENTJ/ENTP
    female
    I see 2 options - make a clean break and say your concerns loud and clear or distance yourself from him and stop seeing him completely. Why I have this 2nd option is cause some people find it hard to break up if there's not something as a big reason to break up for. But you do sound conflicted as mentioned already-his love is suffocating but he flirts, lies and is shallow. Doesn't completely add up so if you didn't make decision already think about it more what your reasons are. But if you don't have feelings for him anymore like you said than those other reasons don't even matter, you should just make a clean cut
  • TaurusBull1977
    Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
    female from New York City Baby!
    Posted by ShyCappie24
    I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

    Something tells me this isn't what you want.
    The topic sentence of this thread is misleading.
    In the beginning, you asserted that he was suffocating you will all this love.
    However, the following sentences don't support this statement.

    These were the examples you listed instead..
    1. Overly concerned with appearances.
    2. Flirts with other women.
    3. Indecisive
    4. Secretive

    You're very insecure about your relationship, and you're behaving in a passive aggressive manner.
    You're hoping to make a clean break before he does.

    I'm not a Libra, so I will not offer any advice on how to break up with him.

    However, please DO consider addressing your insecurities about the relationship before you take any action.

  • Just tell him. Watch him walk away.
  • sweethearts
    female from Gold Coast, Australia
    Stop being indesivive and do it already and walk away. Why should you care how he takes it ... you’re walking away from this immature clingy man. Just don’t have regrets because once a libra is through with you, there ain’t no back peddling!
  • halalbae
    treetrunk your gender reveal party
    Posted by miriyahhh
    Posted by ShyCappie24
    I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.



    You really wanna dump the guy because he's suffocating you with love? is playful, and wants to look good? Wow
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    Is that a reason to overlook flirting with others, lying and his passive aggressiveness?

    And yes some people's DNA/personality is not compatible with clingy mushy gushy ish. And the indecisiveness... mature people who have a life going for themselves, dont want to CONSTANTLY sit there and give instructions to a full grown adult on how to start being useful
  • It doesn't look like we're going to help you vent or listen to your complaints.

    You should just get it all out without waiting for prompts from us.
  • miriyahhh
    from California
    Posted by lamisahun
    Just show him this silly post. He’ll disappear.


    So she can find that ugly-sweatpants wearing-to-a-black tie event-hateful-disloyal-always grouchy marker she deserves.
  • miriyahhh
    from California
    This generation sucks....
  • miriyahhh
    from California
    Posted by ShyCappie24
    I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.



    You really wanna dump the guy because he's suffocating you with love? is playful, and wants to look good? Wow
  • Queenofthepheasantfairies
    Rising Scorpio, Libra sun, Gemini moon, Virgo Merc & Venus, Cancer Mars & Jupit
    female from London
    Lol. I'm sure this was posted a few days back. Almost word for word.

    There is no easy way to break up with someone other than being honest with them.

    But that's just me.
  • ShyCappie24
    female
    I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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