Breaking Up with a Libra?

I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing et
Clean cut and walk away. But before ask yourself are you objective and make sure your Scorpio Venus isn't playing mind games with you. Good luck!
UnicornSag
30 years old female
Sun, Venus, Mercury ♐Moon♈Mars♏ASC♓-inside 🦄/outside🐲
I see 2 options - make a clean break and say your concerns loud and clear or distance yourself from him and stop seeing him completely. Why I have this 2nd option is cause some people find it hard to break up if there's not something as a big reason to break up for. But you do sound conflicted as mentioned already-his love is suffocating but he flirts, lies and is shallow. Doesn't completely add up so if you didn't make decision already think about it more what your reasons are. But if you don't have feelings for him anymore like you said than those other reasons don't even matter, you should just make a clean cut
TaurusBull1977
female from New York City Baby!
Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
Posted by ShyCappie24
I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Something tells me this isn't what you want.
The topic sentence of this thread is misleading.
In the beginning, you asserted that he was suffocating you will all this love.
However, the following sentences don't support this statement.

These were the examples you listed instead..
1. Overly concerned with appearances.
2. Flirts with other women.
3. Indecisive
4. Secretive

You're very insecure about your relationship, and you're behaving in a passive aggressive manner.
You're hoping to make a clean break before he does.

I'm not a Libra, so I will not offer any advice on how to break up with him.

However, please DO consider addressing your insecurities about the relationship before you take any action.

Be honest.
Just tell him you don’t see a future together and you don’t feel enough for him anymore.

Yes it’s gonna suck. It’s probably going to hurt his feelings. But it’s better to be honest bad leave no ambiguity so he understands it DONE.

While I don’t think your reasons are huge red flags, if you’re not feeling it then it doesn’t matter.
Just tell him. Watch him walk away.
sweethearts
female from Gold Coast, Australia
Stop being indesivive and do it already and walk away. Why should you care how he takes it ... you’re walking away from this immature clingy man. Just don’t have regrets because once a libra is through with you, there ain’t no back peddling!
Posted by miriyahhh
Posted by ShyCappie24
I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.



You really wanna dump the guy because he's suffocating you with love? is playful, and wants to look good? Wow
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Is that a reason to overlook flirting with others, lying and his passive aggressiveness?

And yes some people's DNA/personality is not compatible with clingy mushy gushy ish. And the indecisiveness... mature people who have a life going for themselves, dont want to CONSTANTLY sit there and give instructions to a full grown adult on how to start being useful
tiziani
We #DXPIL Responsibly
It doesn't look like we're going to help you vent or listen to your complaints.

You should just get it all out without waiting for prompts from us.
miriyahhh
from California
Posted by lamisahun
Just show him this silly post. He’ll disappear.


So she can find that ugly-sweatpants wearing-to-a-black tie event-hateful-disloyal-always grouchy marker she deserves.
Librasetting
35 years old male
♎Sun&Venus♈Asc ♐Mars ♉moon
Posted by miriyahhh
This generation sucks....


Lol
miriyahhh
from California
This generation sucks....
miriyahhh
from California
Posted by ShyCappie24
I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.



You really wanna dump the guy because he's suffocating you with love? is playful, and wants to look good? Wow
Queenofthepheasantfairies
female from London
Rising Scorpio, Libra sun, Gemini moon, Virgo Merc & Venus, Cancer Mars & Jupit
Lol. I'm sure this was posted a few days back. Almost word for word.

There is no easy way to break up with someone other than being honest with them.

But that's just me.
ShyCappie24
female
I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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