Do Libra men come back?

I'm a virgo. I was dating a libra men for about 6 months. We met online and we were in a long distance relationship. I got a lot of attention from him in these 6 months. I shared all my past with him already in texts, phone calls and Skyped. I was cheated
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  • I'm a virgo. I was dating a libra men for about 6 months. We met online and we were in a long distance relationship. I got a lot of attention from him in these 6 months. I shared all my past with him already in texts, phone calls and Skyped. I was cheated on by a gemini before and after that I stopped trusting men in general. Anyway When finally we decided to meet, our first date went amazing. On the second date he asked me if I would like to meet his family as he was leaving in few days? I asked him if he was sure about me to which he got offended and asked me if I m not taking him seriously.
    I said how would I know if I'm the only person in his life and I have a past so I can't know for sure.

    I met his family the next day. After that he kind of started disappearing. I knew he was confused so When I asked him, he told me he is not sure about me now so he would like to end it. He said I'm not seeing what's coming to me and I should start believing in people and get over my past. I said I'm sorry. He still decided to end it. I was very angry and I called him later and spoke to him very rudely followed by some rude text messages.

    After 2 days I called him again and tried to pursuade him to give it one more chance. He said he doesn't want it anymore and he went back to his city.

    Later after few months I still couldn't get over him and felt bad about the whole thing as he was a nice guy and I misjudged him and not trusted him enough. I wrote an email to him to apologise, he didn't respond to my email for more than a month. Now all go a sudden I get his email saying he is sorry for all the pain I had to go through and ended on a good luck and take care note.

    Do you guys think he might come back? Or it's the high time for me to move on?
  • Please help!!
  • LadyNeptune
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    Posted by Virgoroam
    I get his email saying...good luck and take care note.


    Nope hes done. This email is about closure. Move on.
  • LadyNeptune
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    Also don't advertise yourself as some wounded animal. Just pace yourself emotionally so that you can qualify these guys.
  • Thanks! I definitely need to pace myself emotionally!
  • Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Virgoroam
    I get his email saying...good luck and take care note.


    Nope hes done. This email is about closure. Move on.
    click to expand


    Yep, thats a "don't bother me anymore" ending.
  • 2Moon
    Balancing coffee
    A Libra with some temperament and attitude... Oh la la... lol.

    I think he was right... But!
    he should have been more understanding...
    ( you told him about your past / trust issues.. )

    Why he is so mad? Like whoaaa.. calm down...


    First thing to do when a Libra is mad at you is to give us space... We need space and alone time to process our emotions and thoughts mentally...

    I think you should move on slowly.

    If you can't, just leave us alone / pretend to move on and he will be back soon... lol.

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  • Posted by 2Moon
    A Libra with some temperament and attitude... Oh la la... lol.

    I think he was right... But!
    he should have been more understanding...
    ( you told him about your past / trust issues.. )

    Why he is so mad? Like whoaaa.. calm down...


    First thing to do when a Libra is mad at you is to give us space... We need space and alone time to process our emotions and thoughts mentally...

    I think you should move on slowly.

    If you can't, just leave us alone / pretend to move on and he will be back soon... lol.


    Why is he mad?
  • heliumfiasco
    Sun Lib12- Moon Gem 8- Merc Lib12-Venus/Mars Virgo11- Asc Lib-Pluto Scorp1st.
    female
    A sign does not determine if someone will return. Feelings determine that.
  • Arielle83
    Good c.u.n.t.
    Why date men if you're going to bring your baggage and tell them you don't trust men?

    The guy never stood a chance. You put too much butter he had to prove to you to get you to trust him.

    Work on yourself.
  • Arielle83
    Good c.u.n.t.
    Posted by Terramine
    Posted by Arielle83
    Why date men if you're going to bring your baggage and tell them you don't trust men?

    The guy never stood a chance. You put too much butter he had to prove to you to get you to trust him.

    Work on yourself.
    Shut the treetrunk up. Everyone has baggage and you're lying if you claim otherwise. I mean my god do you hear how weak you sound right now?

    "Never stood a chance"? cookiemonster, it's easy as treetrunk if you're genuinely invested in the other person. I devour other people's traumas for breakfast and ain't phased one iota. I can walk a person through self-healing like it's a stroll in the frilly dilly flower filled park.

    Any Man. As in a Real Man. Knows how to handle a mountain of baggage, in the same way he benches swole ass pounds for the lulz.
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    Oh someone's upset because I don't think you're unique.
  • Posted by Terramine


    So it's most likely he just used that as an excuse. As a way out of what was probably just a "fling" for him to begin with. You got played.


    Why would he ask her to meet the parents if she was a fling to begin with?
  • TaurusBull1977
    Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
    female from New York City Baby!
    Posted by Virgoroam

    That's what I don't understand why is he so mad? He was the one who ended this after wasting my 6 months! Rather I should be mad at him! It took him more than a month to reply to me, shows that he still made effort to respond and he didn't forget the matter at all!


    Are you remotely serious?
    He wasted 'your' six months?, I assumed that the 'getting to know' phase was mutual.

    He got to know you and didn't like what he saw.

    Does he not have that right?

    Get over this feeling of self entitlement/kiss my ass mentality.

    It almost NEVER works!

    For obvious reasons.

    You lost him, didn't you?
  • TaurusBull1977
    Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
    female from New York City Baby!
    Posted by Arielle83
    Why date men if you're going to bring your baggage and tell them you don't trust men?

    The guy never stood a chance. You put too much butter he had to prove to you to get you to trust him.

    Work on yourself.


    100% Agreement!
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