Do Libra men come back?

I'm a virgo. I was dating a libra men for about 6 months. We met online and we were in a long distance relationship. I got a lot of attention from him in these 6 months. I shared all my past with him already in texts, phone calls and Skyped. I was cheated
VirgoroamOctober 20, 2017 8:45pm
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  • LibraLovesHim
    Moon Cap/Scorp ascen/Venus Lib
    Posted by Virgoroam
    I'm a virgo. I was dating a libra men for about 6 months. We met online and we were in a long distance relationship. I got a lot of attention from him in these 6 months. I shared all my past with him already in texts, phone calls and Skyped. I was cheated on by a gemini before and after that I stopped trusting men in general. Anyway When finally we decided to meet, our first date went amazing. On the second date he asked me if I would like to meet his family as he was leaving in few days? I asked him if he was sure about me to which he got offended and asked me if I m not taking him seriously.
    I said how would I know if I'm the only person in his life and I have a past so I can't know for sure.

    I met his family the next day. After that he kind of started disappearing. I knew he was confused so When I asked him, he told me he is not sure about me now so he would like to end it. He said I'm not seeing what's coming to me and I should start believing in people and get over my past. I said I'm sorry. He still decided to end it. I was very angry and I called him later and spoke to him very rudely followed by some rude text messages.

    After 2 days I called him again and tried to pursuade him to give it one more chance. He said he doesn't want it anymore and he went back to his city.

    Later after few months I still couldn't get over him and felt bad about the whole thing as he was a nice guy and I misjudged him and not trusted him enough. I wrote an email to him to apologise, he didn't respond to my email for more than a month. Now all go a sudden I get his email saying he is sorry for all the pain I had to go through and ended on a good luck and take care note.

    Do you guys think he might come back? Or it's the high time for me to move on?


    Hah! Yes. The Libra I was with left the country. Communication was zero. I even dated someone else. Then he came back into my life after a good few years saying "I told you I was going to marry you so here I am" we got engaged. I realised I wasn't in love with him AT ALL. He had changed tons, money had done a job on him, and any love or admiration couldn't be rekindled from my side. So I broke it off.
  • Posted by bittercupcake
    Posted by Terramine
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Nope hes done. This email is about closure. Move on.
    As a Libra, I don't know about this. I mean, his reaction doesn't even make sense. Except perhaps that he knows he is definitely the kind of person she is afraid of and so he's doing her the favor of being fair knowin she doesn't want to go through all that.

    Either that or he just really can't deal with an emotional woman and/or a woman with "emotional baggage". Which is hilarious because he's the man, what does he expect from a woman? Plus we all have some kinda baggage. It's part of the whole package.

    It doesn't really make sense otherwise. So this, IMO, is the real reason she should move on. He's either too problematic or he's too weak to be taken seriously.


    Maybe he just wasn’t as into her, or possibly allowed his family to get involved. I know a libra man whose dating my sister, family means a lot to him. He cares too much about their opinion on my sis. Luckily they like her otherwise he probably wouldn’t be with her.
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    That's an interesting thought; maybe the family didn't approve.
  • Posted by Terramine
    Posted by jeane
    Why would he ask her to meet the parents if she was a fling to begin with?
    Cover to make her think he was serious? Why would he be as serious as wanting her to meet his parents but then turn around in the blink of an eye to wanting nothing to do with her?

    Well, to be frank. It's probably not even a matter of seriousness at all. I mean, from the sounds of it. This wasn't the kind of obligatory "meeting the parents" that typically happens during a long enough relationship, which is super serious and whatnot. From the sounds of it, it was a lot more casual than that. Like "hey my parents happen to be here and I'm gonna be goin away, so why dton't you come along to see them just for fun?"

    In which case that alone would answer your question. It wasn't a big deal, he probably wasn't going to make a big deal out of her to his parents. He'd probably just pass it off as what it is, his "recent date".

    Hell, why even have her meet his parents this early on in the relationship at all? Fling or not? What stands out is that he wanted this to happen, conveniently before he would leave. Most likely to convince HER that he's more serious about this than he actually is. It gives him leeway to go away and do whatever the heck he gets up to, while being able to come back any time right back to her.

    Which is exactly what you'd do if you were a player. You don't masterfully set things up like that if you're just looking for someone to settle down with. You set things up like that if you want to control the person in such a way so you keep your distance, but they are hooked on the bait you feed them. So they'll let you keep coming and going as you please.
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    This does makes a lot of sense! things are getting clearer in my head now!

  • Mutabull
    female
    Maybe I just have a very forgiving libra, but he always comes back, or waits when I go through bull butter. Most patient but stubborn man I've ever met. I feel like if a libra truly loves you they won't ever go away. You would have to be beyond terrible to them for them to ice you out. My son is a libra too and super loving and forgiving, tender.

    P.S. My libra is constantly reminding me not to sabotage our relationship or let my past ruin our future.
  • ALL men come back if woman is worth it. Or stupid enough to take th back.
    Or they are low on funds.
    It has nothing to do with sign!
  • Posted by Terramine
    Posted by jeane
    Why would he ask her to meet the parents if she was a fling to begin with?
    Cover to make her think he was serious? Why would he be as serious as wanting her to meet his parents but then turn around in the blink of an eye to wanting nothing to do with her?

    Well, to be frank. It's probably not even a matter of seriousness at all. I mean, from the sounds of it. This wasn't the kind of obligatory "meeting the parents" that typically happens during a long enough relationship, which is super serious and whatnot. From the sounds of it, it was a lot more casual than that. Like "hey my parents happen to be here and I'm gonna be goin away, so why dton't you come along to see them just for fun?"

    In which case that alone would answer your question. It wasn't a big deal, he probably wasn't going to make a big deal out of her to his parents. He'd probably just pass it off as what it is, his "recent date".

    Hell, why even have her meet his parents this early on in the relationship at all? Fling or not? What stands out is that he wanted this to happen, conveniently before he would leave. Most likely to convince HER that he's more serious about this than he actually is. It gives him leeway to go away and do whatever the heck he gets up to, while being able to come back any time right back to her.

    Which is exactly what you'd do if you were a player. You don't masterfully set things up like that if you're just looking for someone to settle down with. You set things up like that if you want to control the person in such a way so you keep your distance, but they are hooked on the bait you feed them. So they'll let you keep coming and going as you please.
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    Hmm, yes, perhaps. That sounds very cynical though.
  • TaurusBull1977
    Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
    female from New York City Baby!
    Posted by Arielle83
    Why date men if you're going to bring your baggage and tell them you don't trust men?

    The guy never stood a chance. You put too much butter he had to prove to you to get you to trust him.

    Work on yourself.


    100% Agreement!
  • TaurusBull1977
    Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
    female from New York City Baby!
    Posted by Virgoroam

    That's what I don't understand why is he so mad? He was the one who ended this after wasting my 6 months! Rather I should be mad at him! It took him more than a month to reply to me, shows that he still made effort to respond and he didn't forget the matter at all!


    Are you remotely serious?
    He wasted 'your' six months?, I assumed that the 'getting to know' phase was mutual.

    He got to know you and didn't like what he saw.

    Does he not have that right?

    Get over this feeling of self entitlement/kiss my ass mentality.

    It almost NEVER works!

    For obvious reasons.

    You lost him, didn't you?
  • Posted by Terramine


    So it's most likely he just used that as an excuse. As a way out of what was probably just a "fling" for him to begin with. You got played.


    Why would he ask her to meet the parents if she was a fling to begin with?
  • Arielle83
    Good c.u.n.t.
    Posted by Terramine
    Posted by Arielle83
    Why date men if you're going to bring your baggage and tell them you don't trust men?

    The guy never stood a chance. You put too much butter he had to prove to you to get you to trust him.

    Work on yourself.
    Shut the treetrunk up. Everyone has baggage and you're lying if you claim otherwise. I mean my god do you hear how weak you sound right now?

    "Never stood a chance"? cookiemonster, it's easy as treetrunk if you're genuinely invested in the other person. I devour other people's traumas for breakfast and ain't phased one iota. I can walk a person through self-healing like it's a stroll in the frilly dilly flower filled park.

    Any Man. As in a Real Man. Knows how to handle a mountain of baggage, in the same way he benches swole ass pounds for the lulz.
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    Oh someone's upset because I don't think you're unique.
  • Arielle83
    Good c.u.n.t.
    Why date men if you're going to bring your baggage and tell them you don't trust men?

    The guy never stood a chance. You put too much butter he had to prove to you to get you to trust him.

    Work on yourself.
  • heliumfiasco
    Sun Lib12- Moon Gem 8- Merc Lib12-Venus/Mars Virgo11- Asc Lib-Pluto Scorp1st.
    female
    A sign does not determine if someone will return. Feelings determine that.
  • Posted by 2Moon
    A Libra with some temperament and attitude... Oh la la... lol.

    I think he was right... But!
    he should have been more understanding...
    ( you told him about your past / trust issues.. )

    Why he is so mad? Like whoaaa.. calm down...


    First thing to do when a Libra is mad at you is to give us space... We need space and alone time to process our emotions and thoughts mentally...

    I think you should move on slowly.

    If you can't, just leave us alone / pretend to move on and he will be back soon... lol.


    Why is he mad?
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  • 2Moon
    Balancing coffee
    A Libra with some temperament and attitude... Oh la la... lol.

    I think he was right... But!
    he should have been more understanding...
    ( you told him about your past / trust issues.. )

    Why he is so mad? Like whoaaa.. calm down...


    First thing to do when a Libra is mad at you is to give us space... We need space and alone time to process our emotions and thoughts mentally...

    I think you should move on slowly.

    If you can't, just leave us alone / pretend to move on and he will be back soon... lol.


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