IN LOVE W/LIBRA? LISTEN UP

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ALibra
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So it seems more an more people are falling victim to the lovely libra charm every day. This post is to help those, whom we leave with so many question marks behind our actions and words.
The difference with this sign and other signs is the male and the female are almost exactly alike and both require the same thing basically from a partner though there are some difference. Due to this I will separate them.

The Libra Woman:
Her attention:
If you want to capture a Libra womans attention, one sure way to do it is by being the most confident man in the room. She will go for the life of the party for fun, she will go for the dark handsome stranger in the corner that has everyone wondering who he is for a little mystery, she will even go for the eye candy that every woman in the place wants for a little challenge, just to brush up on her charming skills. She has to make sure she's still got it. Whatever the case he has to be neat, and ooze confidence. He can't be cocky, because she needs him to understand who's the real diamond in the ruff here. You will soon realize you've made a huge mistake if you let a libra woman think that you think you look better than her, and she should be chasing you. Even if this is what you want, you MUST not be obvious to her. She will rebel and throw you back into the water and continue fishing as this lady is always searching for her soul mate. The one that makes her heart sing.

Conversation:
Always start off with a compliment. Libra's both male and female are suckers for them, but they must be genuine he/she will know the difference. Preferably something small that a normal person wouldn't notice, such as the tattoo behind her ear (if you spot it) or the color on her nails, or even her perfume, her eye color. These are things that will make you stand out from the other 1000's of men who have already told her how beautiful her body looks in the dress or jeans she's wearing. Be sincere, this is the one woman who won't tolerate being treated like piece of meat at any cost. She almost sees herself as a goddess, beautiful and elegant, funny, and charming, with a bubbly personality. If you prove to be another lustful bimbo, who only wants to get it wet, she won't drown you with insults like a Scorpio woman, but she will stab your confidence
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ALibra
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by walking away leaving only the sweet smell of her perfume even if you are super fine. She won't care, in her eyes your fine with no since of dignity or respect for a real woman.The libra woman is interested in almost any topic, but like I said if you are meeting her for the first time, lots of compliments and keep it clean. Ask her about herself. Its her favorite topic afterall. No discussion of ex-boyfriends, keep the convo on the present. You don't want her going sour because she's reminiscing. You want her mind on you. Talk about your plans, and where you see yourself, if you don't she'll ask so you might as well spill it. She wants to fantasize where she fits. If she doesn't. well you might make a cool friend. No talks of moving out of town, because it will stick you right in the friend zone if she's just met you. No sense in getting worked up over someone who leaving soon. So save those talks for when you plan on taking her with you. Other than this, if you are funny she will talk to you all night long, laughing and throwing in a couple of jokes on her own. And even if you don't make it romatically you were certainly earn your spot in her phone book.
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ALibra
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Your Appearance and Your house:
This is mandatory!! Listen up. You must look your absolute best! She wont tolerate sloppy clothing, smelly body odors, jacked up teeth, or unkept hair. She'd never show up for an outing with you or even a chill session looking less than acceptable. If she does wear her sweats around you, her make-up will be flawless, and her hair will be whipped without a stand in place. She is the ultimate definition of feminine. She a walking definition of the word for pete sake! You must compliment her in some way. She will understand if you don't have the money to be flashy all the time, but you must keep it neat. And PLEASE, smell good. Even if its just your deodorant, she loves LOVES when a man smell good. Your house, if you ever get her there, it must be neat. If its junky, that includes dishes piled up, table tops messy, your bed not made up she wont stay long. How dare you expect her to. She tactful to not criticize you about it, after all its your house, but she surely wont keep you company in that rift raft.

The relationship:
Once you've made it and she's chosen you above the others, and believe me there were others. You must first realize that you are her king in every since of the word, and as long as you treat her with respect, continue compliments, shower with acknowledgement of her efforts at pleasing you, she will spoil you rotten. Never neglect your libra woman, she will only mirror your actions. When you stop she stops. She hates to be off balance from her partner. If she desires that designer bag in the department store window, chances are she's earned it and she knows it. DO NOT BE STINGY, because unlike other women, the Libra woman loves to receive but she loves giving even more to the right man. So if you spoil her, she will spoil you even more. Don't be afraid to be silly, and let loose and have fun. She appreciates a man that can bring her out of her shell sometimes. A libra mirrors their partner, so if you are adventurous she will want to take that ride with you, just show her the ropes and she's game. Now when it comes down to planning on where to eat, what movie to see, most of the time you might want to take the lead as your libra will take ages even decades to make a decision. If you insist that she makes a decision then it would be in your best interest not to rush her, for she will become frustrated with you and will only become stubborn, and that goes for making decisions period. Don't not boss yo
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Break up
They are usually the ones that call it quits. Often because they've given a failed relationship that was doomed 3 months in, the benefit of the doubt over a lot of red flags. This is because Libra's love to see the good in people, often burying the bad if they like you just that much, until the bad keeps rearing its ugly head and they simply have no choice but to rid themselves of the negative situation. Other reasons for break-ups, is if she has told you time and time again what she does not like, and you continue to do it, in her mind you simply don't care for her feelings, and if that's the case you gosta go! If you tend to not care about your appearance anymore, become clingly, demanding, suffocating ( I fogot to mention how badly they crave personal space in a relationship) they need room to breathe. You must keep your own friends. Yes, mutual friends are cool but not all of your friends. She is the social butterfly and needs room to spread her wings, if you??re her man own it. She has chosen you above all the other suitors, you are her number one, and if you remain the cute, funny, and handsome, strong, independent, confident suitor you were when she first met you, she's yours forever.
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ALibra
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Shallow huh??_Yea Libra's have been called that. The only reason we care so much about appearance is because it's the first thing anyone see's. That's like if you were selling a book and you KNOW the story is real good but the cover is blank, dirty, beat up and dusty most people would walk right by. The libra is the person that would have to hear that the book has a great story line, and then she will take out her little handkerchief clean off the cover, and start reading. Sorry but that's just the way they/we are. If we look good, we expect our partner to compliment that in some way whether its personality or the physical something has got to compliment that one of a kind libra style , this is only if you wish to date us romantically. We could be friends with a bum, if he was humble and could make us laugh. As I've stated he doesn't have to be model material but he does need to be neat and clean, now if that's shallow, well so be it. We'll take that with a smile. Lol. A very charming smile might I add 😉
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WaterCup
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Ofcourse u didnt say i was a libra nor did i say u said i was, me my lack of understanding/relating to some of the things u said are because im not a libra. I disagreed with destiny saying the same things could be said about an aqua woman. Some, but not all as she stated. I didnt say anything about a person not taking care of their teeth or whatever, but they dont need to be perfect. Crooked, 'jacked up', whatever, they must be clean, its a human thing.
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Posted by WaterCup
Uhm i dont know about that destiny, some of the things said here were a little shallow. Personally, i would date anybody no matter how they looked, all im after is a good working head (no schizos or dum-dums) and loyalty. Oh and humor, very important.

TO me mind as well as looks are very important..In my eyes you deff have to look good, have good hygiene etc..not taking caring of oneselve is a big turn off to me.
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See thats where the difference lies, des. U have some libra influence, i dont. A good looking face means nothing to me if the head is vacant. I would date shrek if he was intelligent or informative, i need to learn something of value from a man. I agree with cleanliness though, im kinda ocd so a grimy looking dude will never be my date, a friend yeah, but not a lover.
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@ watercup...this is what we are. Not shallow, mirrored. I take care of myself and I expect he person I'm with to have similar pride. That's the person I am looking for as well as someone that stimulates me mentally and physically. Nothing wrong with having some expectations I feel.

Now ALibra, are you doing the male one as well? This is very interesting and I am in love with a Libra 🙂
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DESTINY0809
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Posted by WaterCup
See thats where the difference lies, des. U have some libra influence, i dont. A good looking face means nothing to me if the head is vacant. I would date shrek if he was intelligent or informative, i need to learn something of value from a man. I agree with cleanliness though, im kinda ocd so a grimy looking dude will never be my date, a friend yeah, but not a lover.

Yeah I guess thats where the difference is..LOL Were all Air signs though 🙂
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MzDiana
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Al Libra, waiting for you to share more. I like the post and I see nothing wrong with being "shallow" if that is what one would take from it. Don't think that this snippet is a whole profile of a person, there is always more. Who are we to apologize for who we are...if u got it, flaunt it, I always say. I love that we are Cardinal and Not fixed. I have noticed, as a Libra..I do not get along well with Fixed signs. Anyway, I am not going to deal with all such as that...POST MORE, my Sista
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ALibra
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Aqua hmm, I'll remember that when I run into my Aqua bestie. I get along just fine with fixed signs I think. Like I've always gotten along with Aquas, leo's and Taurus. My current suitor is a taurus but im inlove with my total opposite (Aries whom doesn't want a relationship at the moment, im air sign I have very low patience level for someone that's not on balance with what I want for too long. Plus im socialble so its helloooo tender-loving Taurus! Lol) Then my bestfriend of 12 yrs is a leo. And my friend of 6 yrs is a free-spirtited Aqua. So??_I don't know. Guess it depends on the person like MsDiana said.


@MzDiana, what else would like to know? LMBO. Do you want to know more about Libra woman, or man. Or both? I cant think of anything else I need to throw out there about Libra women. We don't like negative yet we will tolerate it for a split second to try to turn it into a positive. We prefer beauty over disray. Loves Love, or the idea of it at least. I often find myself fantasizing about what my wedding will be like, forgetting that there is life after the damn ceremony that you have to deal with. like oh yeah??_. Im with you till death do us part huh? Lol!



And yes, girl. Jealousy from other women I do sense from time to time, but I just laugh at it (it's just the air in me ~tee hee~). However once they see that im not stuck on myself they tend to warm up to me, because even if they didn't I could honestly careless. I like males better any way! WHOOP WHOOP! LOL

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Posted by ALibra
Guess it depends on the person like MsDiana said.


@MzDiana, what else would like to know? LMBO. Im with you till death do us part huh? Lol!



And yes, girl. Jealousy from other women I do sense from time to time, but I just laugh at it (it's just the air in me ~tee hee~). However once they see that im not stuck on myself they tend to warm up to me, because even if they didn't I could honestly careless. I like males better any way! WHOOP WHOOP! LOL



I guess you are right on it depends on the person. Fixed male signs, I can do..but not female. Shoot, I can tolerate almost any male.
ALibra, I just like your summary of the Libra Life. It is interesting to see how others deal with things to see the "libra traits" at work in others. Only a libra really knows a libra (not totally, of course because we all have other mixes going on). I know, to my Aries daughter, she has a hard time realizing just how OPPOSITE we are and how different we think about many topics. I really do find most other people interesting. And yes, love positive people.

And yes. You do have to deal with the death do us part, LOL....I know all the rest of the unwritten parts that goes with this thinking as well, LOL ---- You got this!
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SillyFilly
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Posted by WaterCup
Im not a libra obviously, to me what matters is the contents of the book, i really dont care if the cover is ratty and mouldy. Neatness and good hygiene i think is what every 'normal' person prefers, unless maybe ur a street dweller or something. Good clothes or shiny straight teeth are just not important to me personally. Electric aqua smile right back at u *wink*



For myself... He has to be good looking, really has to have a rocking bod, but ALSO must have depth, intelligence, humor. Without the brain, the looks do nothing for me. With the brain, but not the frame then I will enjoy him as a friend, but no hanky panky!!!
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SillyFilly
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Agreed! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say...

I do tend to have a type I like, and its not the really muscled up type, just lean and fit.
I think the genetics just have to be there.
And as I mentioned, he has to be more than just pretty... intelligent, wickedly funny, have
some depth, BUT all those qualities present, I still could never be attracted to hairy, fat guys!
Sorry if that sounds offensive, some girls may like like that (ewww!) Just not me.

And I know that some guys will be attracted to some physical characteristics that I just don't have.
I'll never have that really super curvy look. I wasn't born to be that. I actually can get too thin if I don't
watch out. Everyone can be their best physical selves with a little effort.

To each his own, for sure! Just agreeing that I do need a guy to have the physical attractiveness
or I just won't be interested, but disagreeing that this is shallow as I do need him to be more than just
a pretty package...
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SillyFilly
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Hmmm... Not an easy thing to just ramble on
about all my positive traits, but an interesting
mental exercise.

Simply put... I'm intelligent and successful- career wise.

I love to laugh, usually have a big smile on my face!
I am always in search of knowledge and strive to
learn something new every day.

I'm kind and honest. Mischievous and playful.

And... I clean up good! Look just fine in blue jeans
and boots, or dressed to the nines for a formal event,
or in a bikini to go to the beach, or in my bath tub...

Is this the kind of information you were inquiring about?
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SillyFilly
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Agreed with the functionality of the form being
prioritized! But ah, the 2 together...

And yes, so subjective!!! That's why I mentioned
earlier that I personally am not as fond of the big muscled up
type, nor would I expect that I am every guy's type. I'm
a red head and although I love it, we are certainly not
for everyone!

Good thing that not everyone has the same tastes in life,
what fun would that be?
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