Just wanted to get some feedback, that is all...
Libras: Clingy or not?
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mine wasn't...im sure other people have different experiences.
People say Libra's are clingy if they are really into you.
People say Libra's are clingy if they are really into you.
Posted by Boots1313Still together? Makes sense though definitely.
mine wasn't...im sure other people have different experiences.
People say Libra's are clingy if they are really into you.
Posted by Brickhouse27No, not together, I broke up with him because I felt he didn't care/like me that much and he was super busy didn't have time for a relationship.Posted by Boots1313
mine wasn't...im sure other people have different experiences.
People say Libra's are clingy if they are really into you.
Still together? Makes sense though definitely. click to expandclick to expand
I hear now he's heartbroken and did really like me, so who knows...
Posted by Boots1313Aww man that's unfortunate, would you take him back now?Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by Boots1313
mine wasn't...im sure other people have different experiences.
People say Libra's are clingy if they are really into you.
Still together? Makes sense though definitely. click to expand
No, not together, I broke up with him because I felt he didn't care/like me that much and he was super busy didn't have time for a relationship.
I hear now he's heartbroken and did really like me, so who knows... click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Brickhouse27no, im seeing someone now.Posted by Boots1313Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by Boots1313
mine wasn't...im sure other people have different experiences.
People say Libra's are clingy if they are really into you.
Still together? Makes sense though definitely. click to expand
No, not together, I broke up with him because I felt he didn't care/like me that much and he was super busy didn't have time for a relationship.
I hear now he's heartbroken and did really like me, so who knows... click to expand
Aww man that's unfortunate, would you take him back now? click to expandclick to expand
but besides that we had different goals in life and different values, I want marriage and kids, he wants to focus on his education/career.
It wasn't a bad relationship, He was the most decent man I've ever dated it just didn't always feel "right" or "comfortable"
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by Boots1313Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by Boots1313
mine wasn't...im sure other people have different experiences.
People say Libra's are clingy if they are really into you.
Still together? Makes sense though definitely. click to expand
No, not together, I broke up with him because I felt he didn't care/like me that much and he was super busy didn't have time for a relationship.
I hear now he's heartbroken and did really like me, so who knows... click to expand
Aww man that's unfortunate, would you take him back now? click to expand
no, im seeing someone now.
but besides that we had different goals in life and different values, I want marriage and kids, he wants to focus on his education/career.
It wasn't a bad relationship, He was the most decent man I've ever dated it just didn't always feel "right" or "comfortable"
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That's totally understandable. Best regards
In the beginning. Once committed you'll wonder where the fuck we are.
Posted by heliumfiascoI was waiting on you lol. But why is that?
In the beginning. Once committed you'll wonder where the treetrunk we are.
I'm feeling clingy right now!
Posted by heliumfiascoBecause we've already kinda lost interest. ;-0
In the beginning. Once committed you'll wonder where the treetrunk we are.
clingy when we are together. not much fussed when we are not.
Posted by SolaGood or bad?
I'm feeling clingy right now!
Posted by DonnaLibraSo is it hard to tell someone to spice it up, how would they honestly know?Posted by heliumfiasco
In the beginning. Once committed you'll wonder where the treetrunk we are.
Because we've already kinda lost interest. ;-0 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by jeaneI can dig it.
clingy when we are together. not much fussed when we are not.
Posted by SuninLibraUnderstandable.
Id say clingy when bored or PMSing or not depends on the mood.
I'll go with bad clingy because I never know how to ask for what I want. I have a fear of being accused of being clingy so I'd rather appear as totally cool. But inside I'm just thinking I could happily be with this guy 24/7.
Posted by SolaThat's deep. So what would you want your significant other to do or say honestly to make things better?
I'll go with bad clingy because I never know how to ask for what I want. I have a fear of being accused of being clingy so I'd rather appear as totally cool. But inside I'm just thinking I could happily be with this guy 24/7.
To be brutally honest. I think libras like the mental masturbation of thinking about being in a relationship, much more than we actually like being in them. That might sound confusing, because we do like to be paired up..... don’t get that construed.... but we are much more present and interested with the cerebral aspect. Someone who keeps us on our toes in the art of flirtation will keep our focus longest.
Sometimes i swing to both extremes. When ive expressed my needs and they dont deliver (long time/lots of chances), i shutdown and focus on other stuff.
Posted by heliumfiasco🤔 interesting
To be brutally honest. I think libras like the mental masturbation of thinking about being in a relationship, much more than we actually like being in them. That might sound confusing, because we do like to be paired up..... don’t get that construed.... but we are much more present and interested with the cerebral aspect. Someone who keeps us on our toes in the art of flirtation will keep our focus longest.
Posted by topesWhy is that though?
Libras are so clingy they are the initiator of breakups 95% of the time. Lol.
Posted by fishcrabscale2Im glad to know this. What do you consider alot, more than 3? What does it take for you to come out of the shut down?
Sometimes i swing to both extremes. When ive expressed my needs and they dont deliver (long time/lots of chances), i shutdown and focus on other stuff.
Posted by Brickhouse27I do my big reflections on special occassions like how many holidays, bdays, vdays, annivs did he let fly past without doing xyz.. 😒 more than 3Posted by fishcrabscale2
Sometimes i swing to both extremes. When ive expressed my needs and they dont deliver (long time/lots of chances), i shutdown and focus on other stuff.
Im glad to know this. What do you consider alot, more than 3? What does it take for you to come out of the shut down? click to expandclick to expand
Communication and effort
Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2Im glad to know this. What do you consider alot, more than 3? What does it take for you to come out of the shut down? click to expand
Sometimes i swing to both extremes. When ive expressed my needs and they dont deliver (long time/lots of chances), i shutdown and focus on other stuff.
I do my big reflections on special occassions like how many holidays, bdays, vdays, annivs did he let fly past without doing xyz.. 😒 more than 3
Communication and effort click to expandclick to expand
Now see I can understand that completely. That says alot. Communication seems to be harder for the guys.
If you're clingy, we're definitely not. If you're not clingy, we'll pull to a certain extent then push when it's too clingy. We're not water sign level clingy though.
Posted by UrsaMediocreHey now I'm a water sign. I've seen some clingy air signs specifically geminis. When you push, that means you want your space for a while huh?
If you're clingy, we're definitely not. If you're not clingy, we'll pull to a certain extent then push when it's too clingy. We're not water sign level clingy though.
Posted by topesYes for sure.Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by UrsaMediocreHey now I'm a water sign. I've seen some clingy air signs specifically geminis. When you push, that means you want your space for a while huh? click to expand
If you're clingy, we're definitely not. If you're not clingy, we'll pull to a certain extent then push when it's too clingy. We're not water sign level clingy though.
Geminis to the point they will punch on. Mood 'swinging' lunatics. click to expandclick to expand
That's deep. So what would you want your significant other to do or say honestly to make things better? click to expand
He's could just verbally reassure me. Physically he's more than enough, but sometimes it's good just to hear it.
Posted by SolaThat's deep. So what would you want your significant other to do or say honestly to make things better? click to expand
He's could just verbally reassure me. Physically he's more than enough, but sometimes it's good just to hear it.
Understood
Posted by Brickhouse27No. Clingy comes from people's life experiences, the way they were raised, emotional abuse, etc not the astrology sign. Anyone can be clingy.
Libras: Clingy or not? Just wanted to get some feedback, that is all...
Libras ruled by Venus the planet of love and partnerships, they tend to feel happy and their highest self spiritually when they are helping others whether that be in love or family/friend relationships. All of that of course centers being around whomever they are wanting to help or partner up with for whatever cause.
Posted by Brickhouse27Well to be specific, we're not Cancerian level clingy lol. Oh yes, we enjoy our space as much as we enjoy companionship. Personally, I like going places with a big entourage & then there are days where I just want to be alone.Posted by UrsaMediocre
If you're clingy, we're definitely not. If you're not clingy, we'll pull to a certain extent then push when it's too clingy. We're not water sign level clingy though.
Hey now I'm a water sign. I've seen some clingy air signs specifically geminis. When you push, that means you want your space for a while huh? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Brickhouse27When they get really comfortable with you ( 2-3 years of close friendship)
Just wanted to get some feedback, that is all...
they are cling af.
and i'm a pisces so that should say a lot lol
we like our space though contrary to popular belief
we cling when we are really into you but even then there is space
e.g- even when spending time with one another...we
like reading different books in the same room or doing different activities in the same house
instead of actually having talking to each other and being in each other's face all the time
Posted by UrsaMediocrePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by UrsaMediocreHey now I'm a water sign. I've seen some clingy air signs specifically geminis. When you push, that means you want your space for a while huh? click to expand
If you're clingy, we're definitely not. If you're not clingy, we'll pull to a certain extent then push when it's too clingy. We're not water sign level clingy though.click to expand
Well to be specific, we're not Cancerian level clingy lol. Oh yes, we enjoy our space as much as we enjoy companionship. Personally, I like going places with a big entourage & then there are days where I just want to be alone. click to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingYes I'm a pisces as well. It's all out of love though.Posted by Brickhouse27
Just wanted to get some feedback, that is all...
When they get really comfortable with you ( 2-3 years of close friendship)
they are cling af.
and i'm a pisces so that should say a lot lol
we like our space though contrary to popular belief
we cling when we are really into you but even then there is space
e.g- even when spending time with one another...we
like reading different books in the same room or doing different activities in the same house
instead of actually having talking to each other and being in each other's face all the time click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LethalFantasia
My dad is a Libra and he was never clingy with my mom. But he is a go-getter and a gentleman. Maybe it's his Virgo Rising
See my mom is a libra and she was and still isnt clingy with my dad.
Posted by LethalFantasiaYes I totally agree. Of course each libra isnt the same, who is?Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by LethalFantasia
My dad is a Libra and he was never clingy with my mom. But he is a go-getter and a gentleman. Maybe it's his Virgo Rising
See my mom is a libra and she was and still isnt clingy with my dad. click to expand
Yeah, Libras (and Libra placements) are so underrated here. Libra is not a weak sign. They are super smart, good at investigating, social kings and queens, etc. I think if you're not one of the "mean" or "fierce" signs then you don't matter in the Astro world. But Libra's are super loved IRL from my experience. click to expandclick to expand
We are clingy when we care about you. When we are tired of the bs or loosing interest we vanish, then you wish we were clingy again. Most of the times I have switched off the clinginess was when the person did something conpletely off beat to what I thought they were (treat me or do something that is less than what I deserve). So I am less clingy, but I stay with the person in hopes things change. Thngs usually dont and thats when the moving on process starts for me.
I'm a Libra woman and I do not cling. I need an enormous amount of alone time. I'm talking about weeks at a time. I know Libra men who are clingy but all of the Libra women I know are just like me.
Posted by DonnaLibraweeks at a time!?? i start feeling ansy if the bull is more than 10 minutes drive away.
I'm a Libra woman and I do not cling. I need an enormous amount of alone time. I'm talking about weeks at a time. I know Libra men who are clingy but all of the Libra women I know are just like me.
i don't need to talk to him, i just like knowing he is never far.
Posted by OCJackWhy do you fall off the face of the earth?Posted by heliumfiasco
In the beginning. Once committed you'll wonder where the treetrunk we are.
Literally, and how we always manage to fall off the face of the planet like that, you'll never know. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicornMy mom is a libra and she is like that too. She love my dad but dont pay him no mind. But they have been together for over 44 years and not once has she given up or left and came back. She will do anything for anyone, especially family.
My mom is a Libra & not clingy at all! Well her husband is a Leo and seems to avoid him when he’s acting like he needs attention. Not very affectionate with kids either.. definite distance. But does try to be there.
So the new guy (Libra) has been pretty clingy in person but not a big texter. It’s new so who knows. But clingy as in holding hands on dates, arms around me, kissing. But somehow it doesn’t feel smothering like a cancer. He is definitely ok alone, has lots of hobbies, a business, etc. sometimes it seems if I make a tiny effort than he makes a lot more. My daughter is a Scorpio and very clingy- man can’t even walk in a straight line, she runs into you. Her Libra says to her omg you are so clingy lmao. But then is pretty affectionate too 😂
I’m interested to see the comments here cuz of the new guy I always assumed Libras were like my mom. Hmmm maybe not all.
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by RooSagicorn
My mom is a Libra & not clingy at all! Well her husband is a Leo and seems to avoid him when he’s acting like he needs attention. Not very affectionate with kids either.. definite distance. But does try to be there.
So the new guy (Libra) has been pretty clingy in person but not a big texter. It’s new so who knows. But clingy as in holding hands on dates, arms around me, kissing. But somehow it doesn’t feel smothering like a cancer. He is definitely ok alone, has lots of hobbies, a business, etc. sometimes it seems if I make a tiny effort than he makes a lot more. My daughter is a Scorpio and very clingy- man can’t even walk in a straight line, she runs into you. Her Libra says to her omg you are so clingy lmao. But then is pretty affectionate too 😂
I’m interested to see the comments here cuz of the new guy I always assumed Libras were like my mom. Hmmm maybe not all.
My mom is a libra and she is like that too. She love my dad but dont pay him no mind. But they have been together for over 44 years and not once has she given up or left and came back. She will do anything for anyone, especially family. click to expand
Well they’ve been married 42 years and he’s a pain in the ass lol. She just ignores him, but they enjoy traveling together and life works I guess. I remember when they first got married it was puke worthy. Lol as a kid anyway. She was very affectionate with him. But him being a freaking baby got old. She lets him have his way but manipulates to get hers. He still loves her like crazy, but she only puts up with so much. click to expandclick to expand
Lol sounds like my parents. My dad is a capricorn and he always thinks he is right smh. But she pays him no mind and he will shut up after a while
In the beginning no, during the relationship yes.
Posted by OCJackThanks for the honesty. Communication goes long way.Posted by Brickhouse27
Why do you fall off the face of the earth?
Because we are adventurers? We are busy off exploring, or blazing trails. Either way, we can't get butter done if our very existence revolves around other people. We don't revolve around anybody, we revolve around our own track. click to expandclick to expand
If someone tries to control me, it’s game over after a while.
But if he’s not and he does little things to show me he loves me, I can be clingy. My Sag guy says I’m not, but he means in a bad way. I will hug and love on him like there’s no tomorrow (he secretly loves that). 😂😂😂 But when we both need space, I am great at that too. He is as well. I just need someone in my life who isn’t trying to keep me in a cage. Then I’ll be all about them. Plus, they need to be smart, it turns me on. ❤️😂 (You’ll see my clingy side more then.) But I don’t think it’s too much to be honest.
To some people, I was too aloof and to others too much. 🤷🏻♀️
But if he’s not and he does little things to show me he loves me, I can be clingy. My Sag guy says I’m not, but he means in a bad way. I will hug and love on him like there’s no tomorrow (he secretly loves that). 😂😂😂 But when we both need space, I am great at that too. He is as well. I just need someone in my life who isn’t trying to keep me in a cage. Then I’ll be all about them. Plus, they need to be smart, it turns me on. ❤️😂 (You’ll see my clingy side more then.) But I don’t think it’s too much to be honest.
To some people, I was too aloof and to others too much. 🤷🏻♀️
Posted by TimonI dont know, that's what happened to my boyfriend :oPosted by Echo
In the beginning no, during the relationship yes.
I would say it's the opposite. I have a tendency to get very excited in the beginning and I want to spend a lot of time with the person I like to get to know everything about them but once in a relationship I appreciate alone time depending on mood. Sometimes I'm also not in the mood for talking. I just want to enjoy his company but in silence.
It's nice when you just feel that connection to a person that there's no words needed. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicornYeah I don’t deal with it well! (being controlled) For some reason, it makes me want to rebel 😬 and that’s when you will hardly see me. 🤷🏻♀️) I just don’t understand that concept very much. (I do not like pushovers either though, tell me what you want, just don’t try to control me to a point where I can’t even be myself.)Posted by euphony
If someone tries to control me, it’s game over after a while.
But if he’s not and he does little things to show me he loves me, I can be clingy. My Sag guy says I’m not, but he means in a bad way. I will hug and love on him like there’s no tomorrow (he secretly loves that). 😂😂😂 But when we both need space, I am great at that too. He is as well. I just need someone in my life who isn’t trying to keep me in a cage. Then I’ll be all about them. Plus, they need to be smart, it turns me on. ❤️😂 (You’ll see my clingy side more then.) But I don’t think it’s too much to be honest.
To some people, I was too aloof and to others too much. 🤷🏻♀️
Sounds familiar.. lol he said women think he’s too much & he does not like to be controlled lol interesting. click to expandclick to expand
But yeah I do like to touch (hold hands, kiss-passionately, hug, and flirt, etc.). If I don’t do it for a couple of hours though or a day or two, it’s not a big deal, I probably just have a lot on my mind, or I’m moody from work/life and need a little space. I normally ask for it though and if I’m given it, it’s not very long after that I’ll be holding his hand or hugging him tight again. 😂
Me and the Sag touch probably a little too much for some people.
Posted by RooSagicornThat’s how it felt with him too. We have a lot of fun together.Posted by euphonyPosted by RooSagicornPosted by euphony
If someone tries to control me, it’s game over after a while.
But if he’s not and he does little things to show me he loves me, I can be clingy. My Sag guy says I’m not, but he means in a bad way. I will hug and love on him like there’s no tomorrow (he secretly loves that). 😂😂😂 But when we both need space, I am great at that too. He is as well. I just need someone in my life who isn’t trying to keep me in a cage. Then I’ll be all about them. Plus, they need to be smart, it turns me on. ❤️😂 (You’ll see my clingy side more then.) But I don’t think it’s too much to be honest.
To some people, I was too aloof and to others too much. 🤷🏻♀️
Sounds familiar.. lol he said women think he’s too much & he does not like to be controlled lol interesting. click to expand
Yeah I don’t deal with it well! (being controlled) For some reason, it makes me want to rebel 😬 and that’s when you will hardly see me. 🤷🏻♀️) I just don’t understand that concept very much. (I do not like pushovers either though, tell me what you want, just don’t try to control me to a point where I can’t even be myself.)
But yeah I do like to touch (hold hands, kiss-passionately, hug, and flirt, etc.). If I don’t do it for a couple of hours though or a day or two, it’s not a big deal, I probably just have a lot on my mind, or I’m moody from work/life and need a little space. I normally ask for it though and if I’m given it, it’s not very long after that I’ll be holding his hand or hugging him tight again. 😂
Me and the Sag touch probably a little too much for some people. click to expand
Lol I don’t like to be controlled either. I like someone dominant, but you better not tell me what to do.. I need choices. So I get it.
He likes to touch too. Ah think it just feels natural. So strange right away. Thanks good to know on distance. Of course it’s so freaking early.. click to expandclick to expand
I hope it works out for you! 🤞🏼
Posted by OCJackLOL, This is exactly what we do. We fall off the planet or get lost in space - and love it!!Posted by heliumfiasco
In the beginning. Once committed you'll wonder where the treetrunk we are.
Literally, and how we always manage to fall off the face of the planet like that, you'll never know. click to expandclick to expand
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