Posted by IxionPosted by m3hPosted by Ixion
Become too busy being the person they would cheat with rather than obsessing over who they would cheat with....if that person is not you.
This is great advice for those who fear being cheated on.
It comes from the notion that when it comes to loyalty...aside from them making their own decisions you really are in a competition with yourself more than anything. They are with you because you represent what they like...as they grow and assuming the people involved are well matched then your growth should complement theirs and future you should still be what they like...but you have to grow lol...you have to put in work being the dynamic, fun, loving, security inspiring (or not), caring person that they got with in the first place...
It doesn't guarantee that they won't cheat but it does nearly guarantee that you will be too involved in manifesting the growth that you need to be better than you are today. When you are doing that you don't have time to focus on boogiemen you know you've done all that you could so if they treetrunk it up well...their loss and it makes it easier to move on.click to expand