@queenaries2 - I am not sure and I cant exactly remember her date of birth to confirm it. I know her birthday is tomorrow. If I find out how old she is, I will update it here.
@pathos - I don't mind my ex talking to me as the feelings are resolved, its the nature of how its done and the restrictions. I have other ex;s who I meet up with and hangout and there is nothing between us except friendship. In fact one is even dating my cousins, cousins and everything is cool. It just the way she does it, that I find a bit weird.
@nevamore -I have asked in the past in an indirect way and I get a very wishy washy answer. Sometimes she just doesn't respond, I leave it and then a few weeks later I hear from her via text. Saying that in the last 6 months we have only spoken on the phone once, most of the communication is via text.