Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.
My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??
I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all
What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.
When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.
While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.
If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.
Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expandclick to expand