Posted by BreezePosted by ChuckcemPosted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.
My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??
I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all
What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.
When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.
While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.
If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.
Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand
Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.
I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.
Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.
She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.
Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expandclick to expand