You're gonna need to pretend confidence at least long enough to learn from failure and succeed in the long run.
Not everyone was born a natural secure successful human. Some have to claw their way out of the pit before they ever see the light. If you were weak enough to fall into that dark pit and admit defeat, you better start fooling yourself and pull some random fabricated drive out of yourself. If you're lucky it will manifest iteself into real strength and success.
I meant to say, your pretending game must be flawless. Almost like a prefect game.
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And whose to say it isn't? You or me lol. Can you convince me it isn't 😁