Posted by aquarius09Posted by Gemi13Posted by aquarius09Posted by Gemi13
I'm a Gem with merc in Gem, Libra rising and moon and I have never jumped from relo to relo. In fact it takes me forever to get into one. Once one ends, I'm single for a good 2-4 years. I've only had 2 long term relos. 1 year and 5 years. I adore being single and free. A lot of my aqua and gem friends are the same. The only ones I've seen that love jump into relos are Libras and it really makes me scratch my head.
It’s Libras ruining the rep for us all. No doubt they are like that. Gem and Aqua are a bit more restrained about relationships. Our sole purpose in life isn’t to be in a relationship or find a love partner the way the libra energy is all about.
Are you saying you didn’t do any rebounds in between? I find libra moons tend to play with semantics on the word single. I know quite a bit of libra moon men and women who are single (not in an exclusive relationship) but they are having flings, the moment their relationship ends, equivalent to a short-term relationships where their partner feels baffled when the fling ends. I think flings should be counted because you don’t just drop your partner and go sleep and start hanging out with a fling consistently...which most times end up being their next exclusive relationship. It’s equivalent to serial monogamy. *not saying you’re like that though. Just clarifying.
Lol you definitelt know Libra Moons well. Yes you're right about the having flings. My friends often tell me I'm never properly "single" because I always have one or multiple people around which I am "non seriously" dating I guess. I always seem to have someone around that yes people think we are dating but we're just friends that have an attraction to each other. I hardly get into relationships with these "flings" though.
These flings occur often and can last long or dont and usually they either fizzle out and become stricly friends or they want commitment from me and I can't give that to them so it ends completely and eventually once feels are gone we become friends again. I dont think you can really count these flings in because theres no commitment. They're not serious relationships
Wow! I really like you for your honesty. You summed up Libra moon inclination perfectly. All my libra moon male and female friends and cousins and sister are like that!
The problem with this approach is two fold:
1. It’s quite off-putting that you all can’t take time to yourself to get your emotions in check. Makes you untrustworthy with one’s heart. It makes a person question when your feelings are real. Also, one wonders how you quickly got the next person lined up, but we both know what happened there.
2. While you are not serious in a fling and it’s not a clearly communicated exclusive relationship, people start out dating this way. They go with the flow and the other person perceives your consistency, which I feel is a lead-on from your end because you guys do treat your flings/fwbs like a short-term partner rather than a nightly booty call, as monogamous dating. Then, when they are expecting a solid commitment because you gave them the impression that you’re solely interested in them with your undivided attention, you bounce to the next fling and rinse repeat ensues. LOL. This is why libra moons have a bad reputation for their lead-onsclick to expand