Libras.. I need help deciphering if this girl actually has some sort of feelings or is playing games and wanting my attention simply for an ego boost? We've flirting heavily for 2 years since we met but she was in a relationship. Now she's single and she's seeked me out and we've been talking almost daily for about 3 weeks. We've been on one "date" and she suggested we get to know each other better and outside of the partying and drunk environment we always used to find ourselves in.
When she's not drunk she's much shyer and reserved but after a few drinks she flirts heavily and becomes touchy feeling. We had a date after 2 years 2 wks ago and we finally kissed for the first time and it was everything it should have been. Everything was going perfect and she out of no where a few days later she turned around and said she had been thinking and we should just be friends as we're from 2 different worlds and it would never work out and for her there were deal breakers such as me smoking (that's the only deal breaker she could come up whit). Anyway She admitted that she was pushing me away because she's trying to protect herself from getting hurt and she thinks I'd be someone who could hurt her. After she said to me that she didn't want to date me OR even hang out with me, she sent me a sexy photo the following morning and from then on I ignored her completely for 2 days. She reached out via text on the 2nd day going "You're so off me hey?" I didn't respond. She's been trying to get my attention by posting up certain photos to social media and sending me ones directly which I haven't opened. Anyway I saw her Saturday night (we have mutual friends and we were all out). We hadn't spoken for 3 days. I said hello to her like normal and everyone else. However, I basically avoided her and spoke to everyone else and danced but didn't give her attention at all or hardly looked at her. A friend told me she said to them "why am I being ignored" (ignored by me). Anyway not long into the night she started dancing really sexually in front of me so as to get my attention and it worked lol uugh! I called her over and she came to me and I grabbed her face and kissed her.
We chit chatted and we agreed to go outside and talk. Our conversation went around in circles. She wanted me to admit I liked her and had feelings. I wasn't budging and I wanted her to admit the same but she wouldn't and was very tight lipped. She said conversations about feelings etc are hard for her and she's not good at them. We kissed some more. She mentioned she had been on a date earlier that day. She said she didn't want us to sleep together I asked why her response "If I'm acting and feeling like this after a kiss I don't want to know how i'll be if we sleep together" So i asked if she'd develop feelings and she was like "no way". I'm really confused. Anyway I walked her to the car. She told me to drop my facade that nothing phases me and that I don't care and just be honest about how I feel.
Following day she sent me a photo of herself and captioned it "How's your head feeling today?. I replied 6 hours later and then heard nothing from her. I text her this morning and she's responded once but doesn't seem very talkative. Either she's just playing games or is really busy? Do I just let my guard down and give her what she wants which is me to give in?